I’ve updated my old list of 10 house rules for sissies and feminized males. I invited a lovely feminine sissy to my home in May for a day or so to assist Alice in serving me.
I wanted to be clear what my rules were so sent these to her. In the process I updated what I had.
SISSIES AND FORCED-FEMINIZED MALES NEED RULES
It was a very useful exercise to update my 10 house rules as things do move on and it will help to keep Alice on her toes.
So you may ask why would I need another sissy around when I have Alice? Well firstly Alice isn’t really a sissy, she’s a feminised male. So I fancied having someone more feminine to serve me. Secondly I just love the idea of a couple of feminised males serving me.
Before I get deluged with requests to come to London to serve me, I’ll say that I have only invited this sissy as I know her and I know others who know her. Therefore I’m comfortable with her and that she is really submissive and well behaved. It wont be a regular thing or offer to others.
So here are my rules, Lady Alexa’s 10 commandments.
MY 10 HOUSE RULES FOR SISSIES AND FEMINISED MALES
1. Sissies and male girlies must obey my instructions without question once I give them. I’m friendly and I sometimes like to discuss things but in the end I make the decisions or give the order. I don’t like backchat or ‘suggestions’ unless I ask for them. You must ask for my permission for things.
2. I’m to be addressed as Mistress. Your Ladyship or Madam is also very appropriate. I don’t like to use first names for sissies or male girlies at home, it implies a lack of hierarchy. I don’t actually call Alice by her female (or former male) name but I call her girl to her face. I therefore use a name that indicates a sissy’s position or role such as maid or servant. Or girl.
3. I expect to be curtsied to after I’ve given a command, when I’m served or if entering a room.
4. Sissies and feminised males are not permitted to wear trousers or male clothing of any kind in my house. Even feminine trousers are not permitted.
5. Sissies and feminised males must wear short mini skirts or dresses in my home. Any skirts I consider too long will be removed and the male will have to wear nothing below the waist.
Knickers/panties should be very pretty and in feminine colours; pink or white for example. They must be small, g-string, crotchless or not at all. Panties that are too large will be removed.
A bra will be worn at all times.
A nightie will be used for bed; pyjamas or boxers are forbidden. Nighties will be short and fine in pretty colours such as pink, white or red.
6. Sissies and feminised males are not permitted privacy in my home (apart from one act of nature as I really don’t want to see that). I may enter any room at any other time without restriction and without warning. Doors must be left open and unlocked except by me. Sissies will shower and pee (sitting down) with the door open.
7. Sissies in my home will assist Alice in doing all the housework, cooking and cleaning. They may be told to clean or massage my feet too, comb my hair or such things.
8. After serving me dinner in the evening, I generally allow them to sit with me at the table. I enjoy a friendly chat over dinner. They must not forget I’m still to be addressed as Mistress or Ladyship and conversation is through me.
No side conversations between sissies is allowed at the table except to discuss arrangements about what they are doing for me. I may allow them to discuss feminine matters.
For lunch and tea breaks they may have to sit on the floor at my feet.
9. I do punish for poor behaviour but I don’t enjoy giving too much pain. Stinging rather than hurting. It would be spanks with a crop or wooden spoon on the bum cheeks or clitty.
10. I expect a sissy’s clitty and pussy balls to be shaved clean. A nice feminine pubic triangle is excellent but it must be neat. The rest should clear of any hair. I expect clitties to be very clean and washed well.
Cock cages are acceptable although not necessary. If not in a cage and when on show, clitties must always be decorated to look pretty. A pink bow is a minimum. A cock ring and jewellery is necessary for an evening dinner party for occasions when their clitty is on show or visible beneath a short skirt.
I often clip dangly clip-on earrings on either side of Alice’s pussy balls for example or tie a necklace around her clitty and balls if I decide to have her clitty on show.
I like sissies to have a butt plug in for the evenings but I know that’s difficult as Alice’s often slips out.
RULES ARE RULES
Household rules like mine are important for a female leader as they set the tone and hierarchy. There is no equality and the rules in any society will set those structures and levels.
The rules also allow submissives to understand what they have to do without me needing to keep telling them. I much prefer not to have to give any orders and for things to run smoothly around me.
Every female leader will have their own requirements and these rules are just what I expect as a minimum. I suspect thought that there are similarities in all dominant women’s households