A Visit to the Hairdresser

forced feminizationMy current focus for my feminised husband Alice is her hair and breast growth. I’ve been pleasently surprised at the effect of making her grow her hair longer. It’s always been a source of frustration that she had a short male style which meant that a wig was necessary. Better than nothing but not perfect of course.

It’s the same situation with breasts. Falsies are nice but not the real thing. So with the exercise and suction work on her chests going well I’ve turned my attention to Alice’s hair.

A pretty girly husband needs pretty hair

I’ve complained many times that Alice has the common male problem of thinning hair. Not a problem I guess if the male doesn’t recognise that he should be feminine but in Alice’s case it’s a big problem for me. In fact it meant I had allowed her to keep a short male style for the past few years. This is not ideal.

I thought about this alot and realised that thinning (not bald) hair is not the end of the world. Much of the feminininity around hair is the care and attention we give our hair as women as well as the longer feminine style. With that in mind I’ve made Alice grow her hair. A previous post showed some photos. There is still some way to go but we’re on the tright track.

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What having longer hair means is that she now has to style it. I get her to curl the ends outwards, blow dry, use styling serums, hairsprays. I’ve bought her a round styling brush for it. Many females of a certain age dye their hair and Alice is no different. She has greying hair as she’s middle aged. However, I now make her dye it a nice silver shade.

A visit to the hairdresser

An obvious problem with Alice growing her hair is that as it grows out it becomes untidy and needs a bit of a tidy up. So on Saturday I took her to the hairdresser. Not one that I use but one that she used to use for a male cut. The hairdresser is a unisex one and the stylists are female. Since Alice goes out as a male still, this was our best option. Plus the lady there knows Alice as a regular.

I think it’s a nice idea to accompany her to the hairdresser as a way of maintaining oversight of everything. She had her instructions to give to the hairdresser: do not cut the length short but tidy it up and style it better.

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Alice did as she was told with no complaint or problem.  She is becoming more compliant lately. The haridresser commented on how long it had become. In the past she had been fairly stoney faced  but her face now was smiling. She was happy to work with longer hair and to give it some style. She also noted the new colour nshade and that it had been dyed  and told Alice it was very attractive. I wanted to come in with a comment like, yes it’s very pretty but I held my tongue to let things play out. They both discussed hair colouring and the lady said how nice it was that Alice looked after himself and his hair. I wanted to correct her but held my tongue again.

The stylist also mentioned that Alice’s hair had become curly and noted the curls at the back. She saidf that a serum might be nice and put it through Alice’s hair, styling with her fingers. She didn’t flatten the curls but sort of fluffed them out, all the time with a huge grin on her face. Another stylist joined in the conversation suggesting the best serums and hair dyes. I sat back watching the girls chatting about hair products. Alice mentioned that all the products they were suggesting were for women. One of the ladies said that was good wasn’t it?

As the stylist finished she said that Alice should grow it more, that it would look very nice much longer.

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This all led me to thinking that although not many women would necesarily actively force feminise their huisbands and partners as I have done, many women do seem to like the idea. The ladies in the hair salon were not too overt but they were clearly enjoying themselves with a feminine male with a more feminised hairstyle, curls and dye.


The benefits of feminised hair

So four things have come out of making Alice grow her hair.

Firstly a more feminine style helps to soften and feminise her face at all times, not just when she is wearing a wig.

Secondly it removes one more male feature: the short male hairstyle. This has to be a very positive thing. Eventually ALice wil only have one male fetaure left. That wil remain of course.

Thirdly I have added another element of feminine beauty care regimes to Alice’s schedule, namely hair dye and other hair products. I want to add hair straighteners and dryers to the female products she owns and uses.

Finally it was a great step to take her to a hair salon where she was exposed for the first time to some proper styling and hair care. Not just a short cut and some wax. Plus the bonus of two females who seemed to enjoy the situation. This is a first step towards more in-depth feminine hair styling once Alice’s hair grows more. The first step is always the most difficult and this was a tiny one, but significant all the same.

I still need a solution for the thinning top but while I think about that what’s next? – the nail salon?


About Lady Alexa

I'm an author and blogger of female domination, forced feminisation and erotica. I live in London with my feminised husband Alice in a Female Led Relationship.
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18 Responses to A Visit to the Hairdresser

  1. Ian Elliott says:

    Saw Palmetto will not regrow hair that is gone but will suppress the DHT hormone responsible for attacking hair follicles. Some may grow back if not already too damaged.
    It is also good for reducing swelling of the prostate. Good luck!

  2. collysis says:

    Hi Lady A. What a fantastic step forward for you both. You say that Alice was in male mode but were the girls treating her as feminine? Were there no overtly femme tell tale signs that Alice aas coming out of her shell for them? Were her new breasts beginning to show? Make up done right? Btw what are Alices eyebrows like ? Arched? I’m getting mine done again tomorrow – thinking of asking to go a bit further on the style – suggestions welcome as not sure how far i should go.

    What did the hair look like when finished? Did the stylist leave Alice with a ladies hair style or was Alices hair still too short? I’ve always wanted to get a style that could easliy be femmed up but not had the courage to ask yet, so male cut it is!

    Surely as you remove yet more male signs from Alice the point will come that it will be harder for her NOT to be a girl? Are You already at that point?

    Thank You for the great update. You and Alice are an inspiration x x

    • Lady Alexa says:

      No make collysis as she was in male guise. Her breasts don’t really show unless naked as they’re still very small. The hair cut was mostly male but she fluffed it out a little and the other lady came over to see what was going on. They treated Alice as a female-inclined male I guess

      • collysis says:

        Still a great leap forward. And just the inspiration for my beauty bar trip tomorrow. I’d be grateful for any direction or suggestions as to how to take things further there but i think I’ll just try and be myself and try and be as good as Alice. Xx

        • Lady Alexa says:

          Long nails. Pink or red is my suggestio

          • collysis says:

            Your suggestion came thru after i visited – and even then, they said they were back to back make ups all day and the earliest they might do my brows was next Tues maybe! I suppose Fri pm before xmas party season, the real girls take precedent! I will see if i have the nerve to mention the nails if they agree to do my brows on Tues. Thank You Lady A xx

  3. Jennie Jaye says:

    Lady A,

    Curtsey to you. Nail salon is obviously the most natural step. A Spa is even better. Having Alice get used to the ‘pampering’ could increase her acceptance that this is something she will desire. Just as obvious as she has accepted wearing a nightie to bed in stead of male yucky PJ’s…in which she has stated are so much more comfortable.

    A mani /pedi is in order…and when the nail salon specialist ask what polish…a nice pink on the nails would be to order or perhaps even something a bit more dramatic…Have Fun!

    Pierced ears can’t be far behind.

  4. whyguys says:

    Oh…. Lady Alexa… so exciting to hear of Your handiwork into making Alice daily more and more into the Your perfect male girl wife and obedient handmaiden. How can You and the few in Your circle not be thrilled and chuffed at the exchange of power acheived for the Female sex.

    It makes a mere male burst into nervous girlish titters just thrilling to the exploits You and the Women of Your circle are initiating. Admittedly, we males do feel a tinge of embarrassment at our ‘unmanning’ on occasion so please forgive our sporadic reticence (or worse even rebellion), as at times You may even note in Alice. The complete and total sex role reversal changes that are coming are at times difficult for us to understand… but we’ll learn eventually.

  5. Darla says:

    I get a pedicure about once a month and with my first nail tech girl, it took a bit to get her to put clear polish on my toenails. She left the salon and the girl that took over made me feel more at ease with the clear polish, even saying that one likes pretty nails. Since the first time there with the new girl, she just automatically puts clear on without me asking.

  6. Britney says:

    How delightful, I wonder if Alice’s clit got hard under the hairdressing gown?

  7. Sharon S. says:

    Lady Alexa,
    My wife is a hairdresser and she was trained in eyebrow shaping and lash tinting, and I’m sure most are. So have Alice ask for both…. not like internet fiction …..just a tidy up of her brows and eyelashes tinted brown instead of black. (She would need to get a test patch done first) The results will not be life changing but the process should be fun. The lash tinting lasts for about 30 days, so Alice would need monthly appointments.
    I assume she has female undies under her male clothes at the hair dressers. Swapping her tights for stocking and suspenders further down the line would add a new demention, as the clips that attach to the stocking may make a visible outline when she sits down. Likewise a non-padded bra under a sweater is low risk but adds a new demention. At the nail salon Alice could wear pop socks and have her toenails French manicured, with her finger nails painted in a high gloss clear polish… Just have fun.

  8. Jacqueline says:

    My Lady takes me once a month for my mani, pedi and eyebrow waxing.
    Always clear on my toes!
    The eyebrows get “cleaned up” not overtly female, as I have an outwardly male person a and a day job.

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