Breasts for the Feminized Male

feminized maleI’ve learnt that it’s extremely beneficial for me to meet other mistresses who have a feminized male as a partner. The reason is that I can always learn something new, even after five years of feminising Alice.

For today then, I turn to how a mistress’s advice helped me to solve one of the problems of how to give a feminized male real breasts without using hormones or invasive surgery:

A mistress’s experiences of a feminized male

It’s a two-way transfer of our experiences when I meet up with other mistresses. It’s wonderful to be able to provide some advice and ideas to others and I always learn something new too.

The other weekend I met up with a lovely lady called Mistress Playtime. We first spoke at a Femdom event after she contacted me thanks to this blog. As long-term readers know, I’ve tried many ways to give Alice breasts using food and exercise. She has to wear falsies which look great but… they’re false. What I really want is for Alice to have real breasts. They wouldn’t need to be massive but they would need to be real.

I’m not sure invasive surgery is the way to go unless she is going to have a proper sex change which isn’t going to happen as I need the residual area of her former masculinity in full working order. Hormones would also affect her performance, which puts this out of the question too. So what to do?

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A mistress’s advice on the feminized male

This is where practical advice and experience from other mistresses comes in and the benefits of having a network of like-minded ladies. Mistress Playtime uses suction pumps on her feminised partner to grow her submissive girl’s breasts. Apparently after prolonged use they permanently increase breast size.

Since she had them with her I tried them on Alice. They really did expand her nipples and breast area although after a while they went down again. I had heard of these before but hadn’t paid them any real notice but when we got home I looked it up on the internet.

The articles said that these suction pumps create tissue expansion on breasts by applying tension on them. A consistent regular tension on the breasts along with increased blood flow will make the cells increase and reshape and increase the chest by producing new breast tissue.

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It only takes about 30 minutes each day. It seems too good to be true and the articles say that it works for anyone, including feminised males. Apparently, the more you use the pump, the more it will stretch and expand the breast tissues to make them expand and grow. It seems to be a similar process to what I was making Alice do with weights in the gym which had the adverse effect of building up her muscles in her arms and wider chest area which we don’t want. The suction method focuses on where I want the growth to be; breast and nipples.

I have to confess to some excitement at the potential of this.

A mistress’s ideas are best on the feminized male

Sometimes the most obvious and straight-forward solutions to problems are the best. I’m not sure why I hadn’t picked up on breast suction cups before, it’s the missing link for Alice below the neck. I’ve got her body looking quite feminine when she’s naked but the chest never really worked of course. The prettified clitty with the neat pubic triangle works well funnily enough but the chest area just let things down.

I feel that this will be a big stride forward if I get Alice with obvious breasts. I don’t realistically expect massive tits, but some pert little boobs would be fantastic.The advantage of little pert boobs would be that if we have to hide her femininity, as we sadly do at times, then they would look like ‘moobs’ under a shirt.

So what advice did I give the other way? I showed her Alice’s decorated clitty with a cute pink silk garter wrapped around it with a little pink bow on the top. She loved this and told her girl she will be doing the same.

A mistress’s plans for a feminized male

Now that the breast problem looks like being fixed I can turn to things above her neck. Alice’s longer hair is coming along, although very slowly as she started from a very short style. Her hair is down to above her earlobes and we’re keeping it dyed a nice feminine colour. Once her earlobes are covered I think we can start with little ring clip-on earrings to see how she gets on with them outside the home. Incremental steps of feminisation for me seem to work so much better.

Sometimes things seem to go on without change for weeks and I think I’ve taken Alice’s feminisation as far as possible within the restrictions we face. Then I have a leap forward. I’m now imagining Alice’s future look with earrings and breasts like in the photo below. Wonderful although I think this model is somewhat younger and while I have the power to change my husband into a girl, changing Alice from middle age to twenty-six is beyond even me.

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About Lady Alexa

I’m an author and blogger of female domination, forced feminisation and erotica. I live in London with my feminised husband Alice in a Female Led Relationship.

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50 Responses to Breasts for the Feminized Male

  1. Ian Elliott says:

    My desires exactly.

  2. Ian Elliott says:

    Mine are coming along.

  3. Leighanne says:

    My wife uses both nipple suction and breast suction on me occasionally and I can say my nipples and breasts appear to have grown slightly. My nipples especially get nice and puffy after a good suction. The breast suction really does feel good however it leaves a large hickey where the breast tissue has been sucked into the cup when too much suction has been applied. I am sure daily suction would help stretch the skin and make larger breasts.

    • Lady Alexa says:

      Hello Leighanne. It’s good to hear that it works. I’ll bear in mind the hickey problem. The point is breast growth not pain so I’ll be careful with Alice’s skin.

      • Leighanne says:

        There are many nipple suction devices that can also be used to not only enlarge the nipples but if additional weight is attached it will stretch out the breast tissue nicely. I have had 10 pound exercise weights attached to my nipple suction devices and it really feels good and gets that skin stretched out nicely.

  4. Jennie Jaye says:

    Lady Alexa,

    I commend you on a well thought out plan.

    To add to the development of the breast and butt area (if you need to go that way) please consider certain feminizing herbals such as: Fenugreek, Pueraria Mirifica, Wild Yam Cream and Maca Root. These herbals contain phytoestrogens, or plant estrogens which will help the process along …trust me!

    I was flat as a board just about 1 year ago and have 2″ on the top and have added 1.5 inches to my butt….and I have been on and off mostly the off and I still have the use
    of my male part. (Even though I wish I didn’t 🙂 )

    Yours
    Jennie Jaye

    • Lady Alexa says:

      I had read about those products before but was still worried about the potential amounts of oestrogen that may affect Alice’s performance. You see I also enjoy her with an erection in front of other mistresses as it’s so humiliating for her and frustrating as she’ll get no chance of relief. I’ve read up again on the products you suggest and I’m going to give them a try. I guess I could ease up if I see an effect on Alice’s abilities. I saw that fenugreek and fennel work well together and then using cream such as wild yam to apply directly to the breasts. If I can get two inches on Alice’s chest that would be wonderful as she’s gained about an inch through chest exercises.

  5. Sally Bend says:

    Ohh, please do let us know how the pump experiment works, and what kind of results you see. I am intrigued . . . and potentially excited!

  6. sissy jamieanne says:

    Your Alice is a very lucky girl to have you to tend to her feminisation, Lady Alexa…thank you for sharing your life and Alice’s progress…

    Not sure if you’re aware of it, but there is a forum called, “Men Wear Bras”…the subject of the forum is obvious by its name, and its a great community…there is a section of the forum specifically devoted to breast growth…

    Here’s the address…

    http://hellotaxi.websitetoolbox.com/?action=allForumTopics&sort=latest

    Humbly,

    jamieanne

  7. Sallyblonde says:

    Alice is a very lucky girl Mistress and you will have tits to play with.

    • Lady Alexa says:

      She has very little ones from the gym exercise where I have told her to focus on chest exercise. I think the pump and products will really help though. I’m looking forward to playing more with her tits

  8. Sally says:

    Alice is a very lucky girl Mistress and you will have tits to play with

  9. Sally says:

    Alice is a lucky girl Mistress and you have tits to play with and she will need to wear a bra all the time.
    Curtsey
    Sally

  10. Asha says:

    I hope you will share the progress Alice makes with breast pumps. How much her tits grow with only mechanical suction remains to be seen. I have imagined Susie often with large boobs although I know that it may not happen. Boobs yes, but not as large as I would like. Susie wishes for small tits. Her hope is that small breasts may be less obvious and she can avoid a bra when we visit her family. She likes to avoid a bra, and I often indulge her on family events. She fears that the ladies especially may observe the bra outline thru her dress, or feel the straps or hook when they hug her.
    I may mostly permit Susie her way on small tits (32??). However if we do go for inserts I intend for her nipples to be pert and hopefully prominent. I imagine with glee Susie in a nice white shirt, walking gracefully like a lady, with her tits swaying up and down, and nipples proudly poking out. I also look forward to tugging at her tests and enjoy cupping her tits in public.

    • Lady Alexa says:

      Yes I don’t expect her to have massive tits through this regime but small teenage type ones. Yes maybe 32 A cup or something. I’ll do some photos next time if where we are now through chest exercise in the gym. I’ve made her focus on this through bench press, chest flyers, push ups and pull ups. The results are ok and a start. I’m hoping the suction adds a little more pertness to them and her nippes which remain flat

  11. Vickie says:

    I purchased the Noogleberry (available right there in the UK) breast enhancement system just over two years ago. (I purchased medium cups with the vacuum locks so I can remove the tubing and freely move about). Daily life gets in the way and consistent use has not been possible. However, starting from a flat size 36”, I measure 42.5” (band size has increased also, not related to using the system) for a current gain of 2.5” and have small, natural looking breasts. I am currently a 42B and my goal is a 46B.
    Patience is a must when using the system. Too much suction and wearing too long in a single use can result in injury to the skin in the form of blisters and burst capillaries. My suggestion is if you feel your skin stinging during use, gently reduce the vacuum in the cups or end the session. I found that massage with Palmers coconut oil body lotion and lubricating the inside of the cups with the same, prior to use helps very much. Warming the cups under hot running water prior to use also helps.
    There is a tipping point where growth becomes more evident and noticeable. I feel I’ve reached that point. Remember that naturally growing breasts can take anywhere from two to fours years to mature, so be patient.

  12. Pat atkins says:

    What kinda pump are we talking about here. Got a freebie penis pump some time ago.Any good?

  13. Nicola says:

    You might be interested in this: http://www.mybrava.com/ . This is an electric breast pump which is designed to be worn for around 12 hours a day (preferably while sleeping). For Alice to know that her breasts are being pumped half of everyday should encourage even more submissiveness. It’s quite expensive, but maybe you could have her spend some of her allowance on this rather than on something more manly. What is great about your idea is that once she has tits there’s really no way to get rid of them without surgery, so it’s a wonderful non-reversible feminization.
    While I’m writing, you have a concern about her friends seeing her as a girl; might I suggest she make some new friends, ideally in some feminine activity, perhaps a sewing group. Let her go as a man until she’s comfortable with her new friends, then when some bonds have been made start adding those incremental steps and see her cringe. Perhaps a pretty cardie, a flowery perfume or a handbag to start. And for her current friends there are techniques you could employ to make her more self-conscious without outing her; maybe have her take up knitting and not keep it a secret.

  14. dafni says:

    Lady Alexa, i just saw this article and thought you may get a laugh. Although men should not be allowed in the workplace, the women will need some well trained gurls to fetch coffee and look pretty. The author actually makes really good points about not have men in the workplace.
    http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2017/10/27/let_s_ban_men_from_workplaces.html

  15. collysis says:

    Sooo full of admiration and respect for You snd Your girl alice. What an inspiration to me x Thank You x

  16. How fascinating to have come across this blog by chance (I will certainly be following – thank You Lady Alexa for providing it), and particularly this post. I can relate very much from my personal point of view, being a sissy with noticeable breast growth.

    In short, I’m in a relationship with my wonderful Female partner. She knew from the outset I crossdressed – that was part of the appeal for Her – and after 18 months together I’m now fully smooth all over and regularly dressed head to toe as a girl when (W)we’re together. She understands I have a feminine mindset and encourages me to express this – for Her it’s a welcome trait, and will often treat me to a new dress, lipstick or suchlike. With Her encouragement I have even started venturing out and socialising as a girl – something I hope will only increase in frequency.

    As with Your explanation regarding Your Alice, my partner does not want me to take hormones or have surgery – for exactly the same reasons, but again She too adores the thought of me with natural boobs rather than breast forms. Despite being quite slim, I already had some fatty tissue about my chest due possibly to relaxed muscle tone. In my past attempts to fit in with the idea of malehood I used to exercise my chest you see.

    Without betraying (O)our intimacy too much, She pays particular attention to my boobs, massaging, tweaking and sucking my nipples and chest area. This has resulted in me becoming very sensitive their, and I now find my chest is very much a primary erogenous zone – so much so I miss it if She doesn’t pay attention there…

    I now have definite growth, somewhere between an ‘A’ and a ‘B’ cup, and in the case of some bras can almost fill them naturally. I do get embarrassed about my boobs at times and am very conscious of and strive to conceal them when in boi-mode, but when naked they are quite pronounced and my Partner loves them, which ultimately is what matters. She will often sneak behind me and cup them with Her hands, which always gives me a delicious mixture of light humiliation and arousal.

    If I may be daring enough to offer some advice to Dominant Women looking to induce non-chemical and non-surgical – breast growth in Their feminised male, I can’t recommend this method enough. It’s also helpful for the sissy who fights against herself and doesn’t really want boobs, as a sissy will submit to almost anything during intimacy, so despite herself will be unable to resist wanting You to play with and fondle her there in moments of passion.

    • Lady Alexa says:

      Well thank you saffy roberta, it’s always nice to hear about other women like me who prefer their men feminised. I also like to cup Alice’s breasts and I look forward to them being larger, she does possibly have almost an A cup through gym work alone. They do now show through her tee shirst but her nipples are small. I want them much bigger too. All of my friends in the femdom scene area met males who already enjoyed crossdressing unlike in our case. Nice to read about your own story, thanks for letting us all know. lady Alexa

      • saffy says:

        You’re more than welcome Lady Alexa, and thank You for entertaining my post and responding. In my eagerness I seem to have posted it twice (for some reason I can only view my original comment by following Your reply which I was notified of via email) – so apologies for that!

        My partner definitely prefers feminised men – She enjoys having the male side of the equation too, but likes my body smooth and feminine, so yes that includes Her liking and enjoyment of my breast development, although (W)we are not fantasists and also have to balance this with a vanilla lifestyle, more’s the pity! I think given the choice (W)we would both want for me to more fully embrace my womanhood, and I am fascinated by and dream about one day having fully formed large breasts – even though the thought scares me too… Being a sissy is full of such bitter-sweet feelings like this.

        I’m pleased You want Alice with bigger breaths as they’re of course more overtly feminine that way and do more to assuage her maleness. My find it easy to conceal my developing boobs in baggier clothes, but tighter fitting garments make it much harder, and there are times when I’m very self-conscious about them. You may notice this trait in Alice if her boobs continue to grow, and it’s not one I have an easy answer to – so please let me know if You find one that doesn’t involve binding or similar!!

        I have not yet caught up on all Your posts, being new as I am, but I gather then Alice was different from Your Femdom friends in that she was not herself a crossdresser to begin with? How intriguing! My guess would be then that You found some spark in her that initially delighted somehow – perhaps even in ‘just’ pleasing You, and things snowballed from there. I can see I will be delightedly catching up!

        For my part I hope my own feminisation continues. I’m very, very submissive and while not in a bona fide FLR I would gladly hand the reins to my partner and quite happily assume the traditionally female role fully and completely.

        • Lady Alexa says:

          Your partner sounds like me. I want my Alice to have male urges but otherwise feminine. We also have to balance an outward vanilla appearance with what I really want I guess you’ll see that from my previous posts

  17. saffy says:

    How fascinating to have come across this blog by chance (I will certainly be following – thank You Lady Alexa for providing it), and particularly this post. I can relate very much from my personal point of view, being a sissy with noticeable breast growth.

    In short, I’m in a relationship with my wonderful Female partner. She knew from the outset I crossdressed – that was part of the appeal for Her – and after 18 months together I’m now fully smooth all over and regularly dressed head to toe as a girl when (W)we’re together. She understands I have a feminine mindset and encourages me to express this – for Her it’s a welcome trait, and will often treat me to a new dress, lipstick or suchlike. With Her encouragement I have even started venturing out and socialising as a girl – something I hope will only increase in frequency.

    As with Your explanation regarding Your Alice, my partner does not want me to take hormones or have surgery – for exactly the same reasons, but again She too adores the thought of me with natural boobs rather than breast forms. Despite being quite slim, I already had some fatty tissue about my chest due possibly to relaxed muscle tone. In my past attempts to fit in with the idea of malehood I used to exercise my chest you see.

    Without betraying (O)our intimacy too much, She pays particular attention to my boobs, massaging, tweaking and sucking my nipples and chest area. This has resulted in me becoming very sensitive their, and I now find my chest is very much a primary erogenous zone – so much so I miss it if She doesn’t pay attention there…

    I now have definite growth, somewhere between an ‘A’ and a ‘B’ cup, and in the case of some bras can almost fill them naturally. I do get embarrassed about my boobs at times and am very conscious of and strive to conceal them when in boi-mode, but when naked they are quite pronounced and my Partner loves them, which ultimately is what matters. She will often sneak behind me and cup them with Her hands, which always gives me a delicious mixture of light humiliation and arousal.

    If I may be daring enough to offer some advice to Dominant Women looking to induce non-chemical and non-surgical – breast growth in Their feminised male, I can’t recommend this method enough. It’s also helpful for the sissy who fights against herself and doesn’t really want boobs, as a sissy will submit to almost anything during intimacy, so despite herself will be unable to resist wanting You to play with and fondle her there in moments of passion.

  18. Darla says:

    I too have had some experiences with breast growth. Some time back, I started using some hormone gel, secured from a pharmaceutical company in England. Some English friends of mine put me on to it.

    I would use the recommended amount of gel on my chest area around my nipples every day. I don’t recall off hand how long it took, but one day my nipples were super sensitive. A pinch would almost send me through the roof, so to speak. And there was some breast development. Not a lot, but some. That scared me a bit and I quit doing the gel.

    Then, some time later I got brave again and started with the gel. This time I have even more breast development, and in a shorter time. It caught the attention of my wife, who wasn’t in on my experimentation. I just made the comment that it was just one of those things about getting older.

    She said that maybe it was the result of my bra wearing, of which I responded that my breasts were sort of droopy and that if the bra was the reason for my development, then they should be more straight out rather than pointing downward.

    I can tell others have noticed my breast growth as well, catching them staring at my chest area.

    But I do like having enlarged breasts, even though it can be embarassing at times. Having breasts certainly makes me feel more submissive at times and also makes me more comfortable in a feminine role.

    I should also mention that my S.O. is tolerating my bra wearing, but probably is not very accepting. She would never allow me to wear a dress or skirt, but does like me in panties. If she were like you, I would be enjoying a much greater feminized lifestyle.

    Thank you for such a nice blog.

    Darla

    • Lady Alexa says:

      Sound interesting Darla. Alice has no feeling in her nipples. Can you remember what gel you used? I’m pleased you enjoy my blog

      • Darla says:

        Lady Alexa,

        Regarding your question on the gel that I used, it is called Oestrogel/80g.

        It is for external usage only and has not affected my ability to perform as a biological male.

        It was purchased via In House Pharmacy. You do have to jump through a few hoops to buy it as they can’t accept credit cards. Or at least they did not when I was ordering. I ended up using Western Union.

        • Lady Alexa says:

          Ok thank you I’ll have a look for this for Alice

          • Darla says:

            Since you are in England, you shouldn’t have any issues regarding purchase. It is when in the United States that issues occur trying to purchase overseas. I just added that remark about being more difficult for any United States readers.

      • Darla says:

        Lets try this reply again. I did it once, but failed to show up. However, if I repeated myself, I apologize.

        The gel that I have used is called Oestrogel and comes in a 80g tube. I got it from In House Pharmacy in Europe. They can’t accept credit cards from the U.S. because of some blockage by a U.S. company. But they can’t stop you from ordering it. I used Western Union for my money transfer.

        I hope this helps.

        Darla

  19. I think breast development is definitely the way to go with the ‘budding’ sissy. When we start out, we only do things that can be quickly reversed (stepping hurriedly out of a pair of panties!), but eventually we get brave and make more durable changes, such as leg shaving.

    Breast tissue is much harder for the sissy to get rid of, but by the time the subject is broached she’ll be dressing fully as a girl anyway and much more compliant in realising her ongoing potential. I find when I sleep now my boobs sit uncomfortably if I lie on my side, so often a bra is essential to me in achieving a good night’s sleep. I’m both embarrassed but encouraged by this.

    I’m working towards buying mine openly in department stores and not hiding the fact they’re for me – it’ll be humiliating but that’s a necessary factor in becoming a good pansy.

  20. whyguys says:

    Lady Alexa… each time after a hiatus from Your blog, i return to find You moving light years further ahead from before in the training and transformation of Alice…. BRAVO!

    This interest in Your male girl’s development one suspect shall vault her future proper sex role training by light years. Once Female Masters breach such an important stage of Their males’ development BREAST DEVELOPMENT the future reversing and redefining of the hierarchy of the sexes shall be inevitable and PERMANENT.

    What inkling or plans do You have in mind in the next steps of Your and other Females’ conquest and feminization of the swiftly proven weaker male sex?

  21. corsetjane says:

    Awesome thoughts as well ever Lady A. Thank you..
    I have tended to concentrate on my nipples alone as they are very sensitive with a product called “supplenips”.
    ..all to good effect…
    Corsetjane 🙂

  22. Toni says:

    My wife has used hormones and breast enlargement crème on my breast for over two years now. i went from being flat chested to being a 36C – D cup breast size. She also used nipple stretchers on my small nipples. They now protrude over 1 inch in length but the do droop a little. During my yearly check up my family doctor said i have may have gynecomastia and questioned me if I was bothered by it at all. I stated that I didn’t realize anything wrong and just felt it was from getting older and less in shape. He stated that most men would be bothered by it. I repeated I wasn’t and a few times my wife stated I needed a bra and laughed. But truly my breast are very noticeable especially in the summer when wearing a T-shirt and my nipples are always noticeable. I have had stares and comments made by strangers, friends and relatives. If they only knew this was done on purpose by my wife who wants me as feminized as possible. I am also hairless and shaved in my pubic area. All that is left is a small triangle above my small male clit. The hormones have shrunk my penis from a normal male size to a very small size about 2 1/2 inches. Erect its about 3 1/2 inches now. During sex with my wife I wear a strap on to please her. Having breast and being a male is humiliating at times especially when we are on vacation at the beach or a hotel pool. The stares I get are very humiliating. Believe it or not most comments are made by females. BTW when dressed I usually wear a bra and in the summer the straps are very noticeable under my T-shirts. My wife loves the embarrassment and humiliation that I am put through. She started feminizing and taking control of me when she realized how much I stared at large breasted females and that bothered her a lot. My wife is a 34B and I am now larger then she is. And she always says to me “How do you feel being stared at all the time like you use to stare at those large breasted woman”? I just lower my head and say I understand how those women must have felt being stared at all the time.

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