The title is a call to action ladies, force feminize your husband now.
In recent months I’ve been receiving far more correspondance than in the past from women like me. That’s to say strong women who have force feminised their husbands and live in FLRs.
Many are direct emails to my inbox, others in the post comments. We have all adopted different methods to feminise our husbands. Some have found it easier than others. It’s interesting to note that none of us have considered forced feminization as a punishment but as a way to improve our partners. We have all showed love and care for them in their journeys.
This reality is quite different from the fantasy around the topic of male feminization. So how to force feminise your husband?
Everyone’s different but here are some ideas from my own feminisation of Alice, my husband.
The level of resistance to forced male feminisation seems to depend on the man’s desire to be feminised. Many seem to want to be pushed so it’s more of an encouraged feminisation.
My own husband was more reluctant and he needed stronger encouragement. I would say that was because he didn’t realise he wanted to be feminised so I had to overcome his inner social conditioning. I was his guide.
Yes punishment can be used to overcome resistance, real or otherwise, but I prefer to use punishment for regular control, dominance and misbehaviours rather than making Alice do something at a specific moment.
One of my regular contributors is Cathy and it appears that due to her husband Mike’s personal circumstances it has been fairly easy to coax him/her along. Cathy has been a supportive lady who has found that giving her husband a nudge and encouragement here and there is what’s necessary. He’s clearly in the want to be pushed category.
Katrina is another regular contributor and her case is interesting too as she explains that her husband was interested in an FLR but she took him much further than he was expecting. Without the concerns of family and so on that I have, Katrina’s taking him all the way to changing his gender to a girl permanently, albeit biologically remaining a man. Katrina’s case was further along the encouraged/forced line.
In my own case, my husband didn’t know about feminisation and FLRs when we first met. Neither did I in those terms, I just liked my own way and for my men to be submissive. Alice’s feminisation was a little further along the forced line. Luckily I knew what was best for her.
My approach in the early days did lead to some problems before, by chance, I found the effect of mild feminisation on him. It was through his forced feminisation that I have been able to take over the marriage. Alice has grown to enjoy her femininity and for me to lead proving my point that forcing male feminisation is a good thing for all concerned.
That said there is still some resistance at times as I push Alice further and further along the path to femininity. I have no wish to be an overbearing harridan but at times it’s necessary.
The truth is that in an ideal world I would want Alice to be permanently feminised like Selina, Katrina’s husband, but circumstances don’t yet allow that. I am working on scenarios to accomplish this but know I’ll face resistance.
TO GIVE FEMALE HORMONES OR NOT?
Some of the lovely ladies writing in do give female hormones to their husbands. This does have a massive benefit in promoting the growth of female breasts, reducing the size of their male genitals and making them more female and docile overall.
There are three reasons for me which balance things on the side of not giving Alice female hormones:
- They would affect her ability to perform. I expect Alice to perform in bed. At the end of the day we are married….
- Control. There’s a lot you can do to control and manage a biological male with a functioning male clitty even when they are living as a girl. Taking control of your husband’s clitty is part of the feminisation process and an important way to reduce their status and maintain the FLR dynamic. This could be through a cock cage for example. I don’t use this device a whole lot as I own Alice’s clitty anyway.
- Amusement and enjoyment. Humiliation is a great tool for control but also for my personal amusement. I like to expose it to other dominant women, dress it up pretty with bows, call it a clitty or a ‘little princess’, tell her it’s pretty or little or useless.
This doesn’t mean that I don’t want Alice to have real female breasts, wider hips, bigger bum and a smaller clitty. I really do want that for her. But on balance I have to choose not to give her hormones.
WHAT TO MAKE YOUR FEMINIZED HUSBAND WEAR
Well obviously female clothing: dresses and skirts, female underwear.I think it's important to exaggerate a feminised man's clothing style by making his skirts and dresses very short and very feminine in colour and style. Pleats, frills, chiffon and the like are important.Click To Tweet
It’s not sufficient to just put them in feminine clothing you can buy from a normal female store. This is for two reasons:
- Status differential. A dominant lady will wear normal female clothing. My feminised husband has to wear young girl’s clothing or something a little bimbo. Mini skirts, ffrills and pleats. Pinks, yellows and whites. Clothing is one of the greatest ways to show staus differential.
- Clothing that exposes lots of Alice’s body and genitals makes her more vulnerable which is where all feminised males need to be.
I never dress Alice in sissy clothing. I feel this is too much of an exaggeration and highlights her as a male in clothing that no woman would ever wear, i.e. it’s male fantasy wear. I want Alice to think and act and become a real girl. All her clothes are from the female sections of online and real shops, albeit very girly.
These days I do like Alice to be naked too. She will wear some feminine articles such as shoes or jewellery but this fits nicely in points 1 AND 2 above. She has to be exposed but I don’t.
FEMINSING OUR HUSBANDS
Fiction is fun and I write a lot myself about forced feminisation as a method of punishment. The truth is far more complex in real-life relationships. Alice’s forced feminization was a gift, it gave me control, she is a better person and she’s even more attractive as a girl. It adds a certain spice to our marriage.
Ladies such as me, Cathy and Katrina mentioned above and others such as Madam Chris and Lolo have feminised our husbands through a sense of love and care.
I’d love to hear from more women like me, who live in FLRs. Why did you feminise your husband? What resistance did you get?
Do tell. Comment here or write to me at firstname.lastname@example.org