There are many obstacles and frustrations we face once we decide to feminise our husbands and partners. The demands of day to day life, social constructions and, in my case, the reluctance of our husbands mean that women like me have chosen a challenging path to follow.
However, I believe strongly that the forced / encouraged feminisation of males is a path worth taking and an investment worth making. That doesn’t always make it easy.
TIME FOR FORCED FEMINIZATION CHANGES
Finding time to push through and practise male forced feminization changes can be a challenge. If you’re busy with other projects or the day job you don’t always have time to keep an eye on your husband or to press on with deepening their feminization.
The problem with Alice, and I’m sure with other feminised males, is that she is a little lazy and lets her feminisation slip if I’m not on top of things. Little things like keeping a neat pubic triangle, putting on a bra. It made me angry at first but then I realised it’s an opportunity
I have taken a little time out to consider where we are in Alice’s progressions, our FLR and what my options are for improving my Alice further. I still want to make her more feminine and to increase the depth of our Female-Led Relationship. I went to the spare room and thought I’d write down what I need to do to avoid having to check every moment that Alice hasn’t slipped back and to make my life a little easier.
FRUSTRATIONS IN FORCED FEMINIZATION CHANGES
To start off, we’ve come a long way over the past few years. Even if we go no further in our FLR then I’m in a place I never thought we’d get to and never imagined. It’s a great place to be; I lead the marriage and my husband is feminised. Pretty good.
But, I feel that there is more. To be completely honest, I don’t think I’d ever be happy until Alice lives permanently as a girl.A feminised man is so much more attractive and attentive. I really can’t understand why all women don’t want this for their husbands.Click To Tweet
But I have to realise that this may not be practical and we may just have to continue as we are. It’s frustrating. Family and friends are a problem and it’s an overhead to ensure Alice maintains her femininity as she is inclined to slip back if not kept in line.
So here’s my list of further changes and what I can realistically do in the short term, what the chances are of success and then what I can’t probably manage.
MY LIST OF FURTHER IDEAS FOR FORCED FEMINIZATION CHANGES FOR ALICE
1. A female hair style?
I don’t believe a female hairstyle would be a problem if Alice had a full head of hair. I would love for Alice to grow her hair and get it styled at a female hairdresser. Many men have feminine hairstyles these days and I don’t see a problem in theory.
The obstacle to this is not our family, friends or society’s view of men with long hair. I got Alice to grow her hair and it didn’t work. She’s too thin on top and it ended up looking like a clown’s hairstyle. The side bits looked great, curled up and dyed. Her top looked like a man’s – male pattern baldness. Damn those male hormones.
Therefore I told her to get it cut short again. She wears a wig at times and others just has short hair. I am going to look into some kind of hair weave or transplant. If this doesn’t work I’m going to have to admit defeat and put her in a wig or accept short hair.
Success certainty: 1 out of 10 🙁
2. The Male Clitty and Pussy Balls Dilemma
I do love to see Alice completely feminised but with a prettified clitty. I have uses for it, I am a demanding wife after all…
There is of course a problem. The male clitty give men feelings of masculinity. Any women reading this can put on a strap-on and feel what I’m talking about.
So with the self-imposed restriction that I want Alice to retain a functioning clitty, it’s vital to make her realise that her male clitty is not masculine. I therefore feminise it by ensuring it has a cute pubic triangle and it is otherwise shaved. A pink bow and pretty knickers are a must.
I think it’s time to go a stage further and have her pubic hair permanently removed so that her triangle is permanent. I think laser is the way to go.
I’ve also had ideas of reducing Alice’s clitty size. Size matters for men, it’s part of their masculinity. So, I like the idea of her having a smaller clitty which would make it look cuter and more like a feminine clitty. Since hormones are out as it needs to function I’m not sure how to do this. I can think of temporary solutions such as making it cold with ice cubes? Maybe this is the solution. In fact that sounds like fun.
Success possibility: 9/10 (for making it look cute) 🙂
3. Female Breasts
I would absolutely love for Alice to have breast implants. I’m sure no one would really notice, they’d probably think that she was out of condition with man boobs.
Realistically though, implants are probably not practical and I’m not sure that anyone in England would do the operation legally just because I liked the idea.
Alice hasn’t been using the breast pump as we’ve busy and haven’t been overseeing things. I think what I need to do is make sure it’s with us at all times and make sure that Alice uses it every single day. This is part of the overhead that I’ll just need to do. Without my pressuring her and standing over her, Alice doesn’t bother.
Success certainty: 5/10 as I’m not sure how effective the pump will be 😐
4. Pretty Nails
OK it’s probably not practical to make Alice wear red nail polish every day. However, a trip to the nail salon to improve and shape her finger and toenails and put on a clear lacquer seems to me to be a reasonable improvement. Actually there’s no reason why her toenails can’t be coloured.
The very act of going to a nail bar is a great start. I know it will be difficult for Alice at first but, like the other changes I’ve made, once done a few times then she’ll get used to it. The idea being that once used to having her nails done I can move her onto a clear varnish and then have something with a little colour.
As for her toenails I think anything goes. I think something like in the photo below for her feet is perfect and eventually for her fingernails.
Success certainty: 10/10 (for the shaping and toenails) 🙂
5. Butt Plug
I’m not entirely sure why I like Alice to use a butt plug but I do. I think it’s the fact I can put something inside her, it’s something so intimate and controlling. Alice isn’t so keen but is willing to accept that it’s something I want her to get used to.
I like the mere act of inserting it inside her and then knowing it’s inside. This is something I want to increase. Eventually I’d like to use a penis-shaped device on her. Maybe I can find a small one online? Anyway, one step at a time.
Success certainty: 10/10 🙂
6. More Exposure to others
It’s important that others see Alice as a girl. This helps to make her used to wearing female clothing and being a girl in front of others. It normalises her feminisation and takes it further away from being a private game.
I’m going to do this in two ways. Firstly, we’ll be going to more femdom events. I’m not always a fan of these places but we need to get used to them. Having Alice spend the evening/night dressed in a little skirt with lots of others more regularly will be great. As will being around other dominant women.
Secondly, I’m going to invite others to our home. I want Alice to become more accustomed to being dressed feminine or naked in front of other dominant ladies and sissies. As I said in an earlier post, I will only be inviting sissies I already know well. I’m also going t bite the bullet and mention our lifestyle to a couple of my female friends and see what happens.
Success certaintly: 9/10 – the events will happen but not sure about my friends yet 🙂
MAKING MORE PERMANENT FORCED FEMINIZATION CHANGES
I know that there are other things I could do such as pierced ears but I think these forced feminization changes would move things on it the short term, not be too obvious externally and mean I don’t have to expend so much of my busy life managing Alice’s feminisation.Lady Alexa's first rule of FLR: feminize your man to control and improve him. Click To Tweet
As always, Alice is nervous of some of my plans as we have of course discussed it. Nothing happens unless I push so a push it is. Yes I’ll get angry but in the end Alice will realise that she likes it and we’ll move on. I have so many other things to do, not least finishing Feminized and Pretty 3, the final book in the series.
The easier I make Alice’s feminisation the better for me and eventually Alice.