I do love to push the boundaries of our FLR and my husband Alice’s feminisation. I believe it’s best to not let Alice settle or become too comfortable in her role as my submissive housewife.
It is a balance though. We are married and although Alice’s feminisation and our FLR is the foundation of our relationship, we also have a normal life to live.
On the one hand I adore exploring my own female domination and power through insisting on exciting new developments in our relationship. On the other hand, we live in a real-life loving relationship and I don’t want to do anything that really upsets my husband. It’s a question of pushing lightly and seeing how far I can go.
That said, I’ve pushed a couple of boundaries lately and managed to take Alice along with me, albeit reluctantly. I find that I need to push things as Alice’s first reaction is always horror and then eventually she gets used to it. Mostly.
A WEEKEND WITH SISSIES
THE NEW FRONTIER
The first boundary change was something I’ve been planning for a while: to invite a sissy we know to spend a weekend in serving me. As I’ve written before and to avoid a storm of emails, I have a great FLR with a pretty feminised husband so I’m not looking for more sissies as a rule.
However, we both know this sissy so it seemed an ideal opportunity to try out a long-term fantasy of mine to have two submissive pretty males serving me. I’ll call her Maid for this article. I prefer not to use first names for feminised males anyway as it implies equality. I call Alice ‘Girl’ most of the time, not Alice, although I have recently taken to calling her Princess when I want to be more endearing or she’s done something nice for me.
This ‘event’ took place the other week and if I had more skill at photography I would have more pictures as only a couple came out well enough to use. Technology is not my strong point it’s Alice’s.
Maid arrived in male clothes as she has the same problem as Alice in being accepted as a girl outside the home. That said she has long hair past her shoulders styled like a girl’s and doesn’t suffer from Alice’s problem of thinning on top.
I told Maid to change immediately into appropriate clothing. Here are the girls together.
Alice is very heterosexual so the idea of exposing her clitty or being in the vicinity of other males’ clitties is difficult for her. I, on the other hand, enjoy the power of having control over every part of a male’s body, especially those parts they previously thought of as examples of their masculinity but are now examples of their emasculation. Hence the photo.
Having the girls wear see-through underwear and lifting their skirts was a light introduction to what I had in mind. Alice hadn’t complained at this stage proving my approach of incremental boundary pushing as the most effective way to get what I want. I push further than before, then I hold the ground then move on to the next level. Sounds like a military strategy!
As a dominant woman I have the right to play with other sissies’ bodies in any way I see fit. I’m not talking about cuckolding just humiliation and control. I wanted Alice to accept this in practice and to understand that Maid was in my control also.
A rare photo of me as I like to maintain my anonymity. Maid’s clitty was rather large for a girly, much bigger than Alice’s little princess.
AND THE NEXT FRONTIER
So after the photos I got them to serve me tea and sit at my feet. I like feminised men at my feet.
The photo shoot was only a warm up as what I really wanted was to push the boundaries a bit more than Alice and Maid lifting their dresses. I hadn’t warned Alice of my plans, of course, as she would have tried to push back. Best to move things on bit by bit by surprise.
What I wanted was to be served dinner by two naked sissies and for Alice to become used to this. If there’s one thing I like better than a man in a skirt it’s an exposed feminised male. Nothing shows female superiority more than that.
Incremental stages was the key. First I told the girls to put on tiny mini skirts. After a while in these I told them to remove their knickers. Well they were see-through anyway so what was the difference? Sound logic. So although Maid was more experienced than Alice, Alice hadn’t complained so far. I had her in a room with another feminised male in a tiny skirt that only just covered her clitty.
Next up was to lift their skirts. I did this for a while too, getting Alice used to being exposed. Then the clincher:
“Girl, Maid. Remove your skirts.”
Alice hesitated although Maid did as she was told. I lifted Alice’s skirt and spanked her clitty.
“Remove your skirt girl.”
Alice slid it down. I’d succeeded. I knew that If I’d told her to be naked from the start I’d have had a small rebellion. I might have got my way but it would have been more difficult. This way I more or less had Alice’s acceptance or at least acquiescence.
Of course, you can’t have a male clitty exposed without it being feminised so I told the girls to tie pretty ribbons on each other’s clitties. Surprisingly although somewhat reluctantly Alice did this to Maid. Maid was less reticent which made me smile.
They spent the rest of the evening naked except for the ribbons around their clitties – and Maid’s stockings of course.
Here are the girls in their pretty ribbons. I didn’t get the focus right. Alice cleaned the photo up as best she could for me but insisted on putting a little cover on their clitties. I allowed that as long as it was pinkish.
The next morning I was served breakfast in bed by the girls. Such a fun weekend, I’m going to have to do it again sometime. My next development is to have another woman home and for Alice to serve us both. I’ve had other couples like us to visit and visited them but never the more intense situation of another dominant woman. I know that Alice is more circumspect with other women and less likely to rebel.
Since the other woman would have no relationship attachment I think I could get Alice pushed a little further. I know I can at times give in to her as I don’t want to upset her, I like things to be consensual. Which leads me onto the second boundary – penetration.
PENETRATING A FEMINISED MALE
I consider what Alice still calls her bum is her vagina. As a girl she needs that vagina to be penetrated by a dominant woman – me. The problem is that Alice doesn’t really like anything around her ‘vagina’. I’m not sure exactly what her problem is but I’ve accepted it… until now.
I really need to penetrate her, it’s time. I’ve had success in getting her to suck my strap-on willy but she tightens up if I put it against her vagina. So I am applying my incremental approach. I’ve started gelling her up and inserting a small butt plug. She’s more used to this although it tends to slip out. Next up – a slightly larger one. I’ve also started to insert my finger and twist it around. I use latex gloves which adds a nice clinical approach to things.
The idea is to stretch her vagina bit by bit until it’s ready for my not-too-large strap-on. She’s still very tight. The muscles around her vagina tense up as soon as I put anything close. After a while she loosens but I’ve still some way to go.
BOUNDARIES ARE THERE TO BE SMASHED
These are a couple of new developments for our relationship. The difficulty is always that life can get in the way and the impetus is lost. Our relationship is not a constant round of femdom, it’s a consensual FLR based on my husband’s feminisation and submission. We have to do the shopping and work too. And, sadly, conform to society’s expectations outside the home.
Each change in the level of our FLR requires a degree of management and control by me. For example I still have to remind Alice at times to change into a skirt when we get in to the home, let alone managing new deeper changes. It can be tough, like having a recalcitrant child to control. But the end results are worth it for us both and add enormous spice to our relationship.
It’s for this reason I can keep Alice under control as there’s so much in it for her too. Not least the enjoyment of not having to fulfill those annoying stereotypical male gender roles. She can be her true self, a submissive gentle feminine person who loves to serve and understands the superiority of real females.