As a couple, our FLR is the foundation of our relationship. I think of husband feminisation as the single most important element of our overall FLR.
This means I’m often thinking about what we can do next and how far we can go with Alice’s feminisation.
HUSBAND FEMINIZATION
Feminising my husband Alice satisfied two things for me. One, it ensures my control as it has changed Alice’s attitude immensely for the better. Secondly, I am incredibly excited by seeing Alice so girly. It’s a powerful feeling. It is for her too.
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The problem is of course, that it’s easy to become used to elements of Alice’s feminisation. I realise that, at times, seeing my husband dressed as a girl has become the new normal. I don’t like normal so like to push on for something new and exciting.
I keep looking for the next big thing, the next exciting change. Breasts and so on take too long to develop. We’ll get there, but I also have to think of more rapid, short-term changes too.
So a whole load of random thoughts come into my mind at any time. Not any kind of a feminisation plan, just thoughts and ideas.
RANDOM THOUGHT No.1 – THE MALE CLITTY DILEMMA
This is something that continues to bother me: the subject of Alice’s clitty. I have need of it, so I don’t want to do anything that would hinder it operating to my satisfaction. Neither does Alice.
The male clitty is a great device for ensuring control; males think through their little clitties, even submissive feminised ones. At the same time, it’s something that remains somewhat masculine in appearance. A conundrum then.
Shaving a pretty feminine triangle above it helps. Calling it a clitty and a pussy, her pretty little princess and so on helps. And what fun it is to dress it up pretty with bows and so on.
I’ve recently got her to shave a much smaller area of pubic hair around it. I got the idea from a Pinterest photo I saw. The sissy had a tiny triangle of hair just around her clitty and it looked so much more feminine. I think less pubic hair is best. This has helped a little.
I’ve recently been communicating with another UK-based mistress. She’s managed to shrink her husband’s clitty through decreasing the size of his cock cage over time.
Alice doesn’t use a cock cage of course as I’ve never been convinced of the benefits to the Mistress – it’s all about the sissy’s excitement in my opinion. However, this may be a way out of my dilemma. I might be able to atrophy it somewhat to reduce its masculinity?
Not too much, but the idea of something a little cuter is a pleasing idea. At last, there may be a use for the cock cage that is for the mistress rather than the sissy’s pleasure.
I’d be interested if anyone else has any experience in this area? I still need it working, but just a bit smaller.
RANDOM THOUGHT No. 2 – EXPOSURE TO OTHERS
This has been another long-term annoyance. Alice has been exposed to other FLR couples like us and, on one occasion, another sissy. I’m frustrated as I want to show her off to my female friends.
I’ve started to hint at a couple of them, but their reactions haven’t been positive. Many women don’t yet get what they can get with a feminised man in an FLR. I’ll keep hinting, maybe even be clearer.
I did speak to one apparently dominant lady friend of mine only to find she was actually submissive at home. I would never have guessed. She said that submission helps her to relax after a busy day in her corporate world. It was another failure as I had her down as a strong candidate to enjoy being served by Alice.
RANDOM THOUGHT No.3 – OTHER SISSIES?
As I want Alice’s mindset to change to that of a girl, I think it’s important for her to become accustomed to being penetrated by me and to spend time with other girlie males: girlie males who are much more experienced living as females.
These are two areas that Alice is not completely comfortable with, but I’m working on it.
As a girl, Alice should become used to other feminised male’s clitties. Some level of ‘interaction’ with them would be very interesting and I think, very appropriate. I’m not thinking macho men, but very feminine male-girls.
The only time I did this it was a great success – for me anyway. Unlike dominant ladies, finding sissies is very easy. Finding the right sissy is much more difficult. Alice isn’t so sure either so she needs to be convinced.
I don’t want her with real men, but very feminine males. I want Alice to be comfortable naked and exposed around other sissies. I’m not sure how far I want to go with this yet, but I do like the idea of some kind of ‘entertainment’ for my enjoyment.
RANDOM THOUGHT No.4 – HOW FAR TO GO
So here’s the big one. Feminising your partner is an intoxicating process for a dominant woman, but how far do I take things? I don’t want Alice to become a real woman, otherwise I would have gone for one. I want a biologically male husband who I’ve been able to mould into somebody so much better than any typical male: a feminised male.
I also wouldn’t do anything that my husband Alice didn’t really want.This is why she doesn’t have pierced ears for example. Of course, I push and nag for things I want though, otherwise I’d have got nowhere.
Thinking about my husband’s feminisation, as I do often, I realise I like the fact that there continues to be something male about her, but all wrapped up in femininity. Although slim, she isn’t exactly petite and feminine in physical appearance.
So my ‘shopping list’ of further things includes some more permanent aspects such as proper female-shaped breasts, a better physical female body shape overall, hips bum etc, fixing her hair problem.
There comes a stage, which we may be approaching, when further physical changes are difficult; clitty reduction, breast implants. Or prohibitively expensive: hair transplant?
RANDOM THOUGHTS
So I grapple with my uncoordinated ideas. The main point I’ve got out of documenting these ideas is the idea of continuous change, moving to something new and exciting every so often. Whether that be breast implants or seeing Alice with another sissy, it’s keeping things going, finding new and interestingly naughty things to do with her.
I’m sure my random thoughts have missed something easy to do. Any sensible ideas would be much appreciated in your comments, as usual, and give me some more random ideas.
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sissy julie says
Dear Lady Alexa
A fascinating read as per normal.
On the subject of clitty size, my Dominant loves to see it as small as possible, in fact She has told me it excites Her to see it so small.
To help this process She bought me new panties as usual, but reduced by one size.
The size reduction was a little tight at first, but i soon got used to it, and adjusted quite nicely.
It wasn’t long before She dropped me another size.
It depends on the panties, the amount of give in the material, but we found it it very effective.
Now i only wear thong style panties, which She also wears.
i am sure tight little panties contributed nicely to clitty size reduction, and now i am a small girl.
Yours pantifully
sissy julie
Lady Alexa says
And does your clitty still work?
sissyteri says
I have used panties, tape, nylons and chastity to shrink my clitty. Long term chastity has worked best for me and now i am virtually impotent. i don’t get hard. Today i sprayed on some perfume on my neck and started to get erect in chastity. that was quickly stopped by an electric pulse when my clitty hit the end of the chastity. i sometimes try to get hard while putting on bra and panties or lingerie or dresses. Chastity devices stop this bad behavior and keep me tiny.
Sissy julie says
Dear Lady Alexa
She is delighted with my size, and i now wear pretty thongs just like Her.
i am small and soft and She loves it.
As it can’t satisfy Her anymore, She bought me a strap on that my little clitty fits inside.
She is very pleased, and rewarded me with some nice feminine cut jeans for public outings.
Yours pantifully
julie x
Mark L says
I would love for you to have me and transform me.
Mark l
Lady Alexa says
Into what? A unicorn? A frog?
sissyteri says
lol
diane love says
I want to become a sissy so bad and serve a Mistress. Would love to be feminized completely.
Sissy diane
Lady Alexa says
I hope you become a sissy
sissyteri says
Lady Alexia,
I have a couple thoughts on your post. ….Finding a compatible sissy for alice could be a start to some fun. You might be surprised by the number of ways the two gurls could come up with to use and abuse and degrade each other. All to please You and show You their submission and sissyness. Gurls like me are somewhat competitive and more than willing to perform tasks for other gurls just to see if they can do it. I am a part of this now being challenged by another sissy to take the next step. Be it dressing slutty, taking a larger dildo, dressing in public, offering myself on fetlife, doing more and more CBT, wearing smaller and smaller chastity, electroshock on my bits, ….we egg each other on to take and do more nasty things with and to each other. All for the amusement of our Dommes who laugh, comment and sometimes direct our behavior.
Lady Alexa says
Yes good ideas
Baby Kelsey says
Lady Alexa and Sissy Teri,
I completely agree!! I love games in general, and there are a lot of competitive little sissies out there, some who can be quite vindictive.
And I’ve found introducing competition can help to begin pushing by sissy boundaries, but in order to really be effective, there needs to be consequences for the loser of the competition that force an even bigger push. For example, if the general competition between the sissies is a contest of who can take the biggest dildo, and the consequences for the loser is something like they will have to get dressed in their best feminine athletic wear, insert their largest plug/dildo, and go for a 10 mile public bike ride, it definitely introduces some motivation for sissies to push themselves and not be the loser. I’ve been in situations where this led to extensive one-ups-man-ship that pushed be much further than I would have normally gone, and in hindsight, it made me question why I ever agreed to the wager in the first place. I think it was a false cockiness that got me to agree, thinking with enough determination there would be no way I could lose, but then reality soon kicks in and I find myself in over my head.
I also just generally love games of chance, and forcing little tasks of feminization when sissy isn’t expecting it. These don’t have to be big tasks either. They just have to catch sissy off guard and put her immediately in a position she hadn’t been anticipating or prepared for. These are also incredibly effective at enforcing mistress’s dominance. You could even prepare a few dozen little random things in advance, maybe put them each on a little slip of paper, and then at any moment pull one out and sissy better oblige. It puts them in a constant state of uneasiness, while mistress can have fun taunting them to no end.
I would be glad to help devise more of these games if you’d like, and might even be open to being a competitor to Alice. Or if there are other sissies out there that would be interested in this kind of competitive game play, feel free to shoot me a message!
Baby Kelsey
abkelsey723@yahoo.com
Lady Alexa says
Well this is a very nice idea Kelsey, I love it. I agree that pushing against boundaries is how to get Alice to the next stage. I’ve been doing this on a little by little strategy but through a game is a nice way to go that bit further. I think the only way to succeed with Alice is to mix her in with very feminine sissies. That way she doesn’t feel quite so concerned about certain ‘activities’.
sissyteri says
i would love to get all sissified and play with alice. i think You could bring out the best sissy behavior in the both of us. i been looking for a sissy play partner for a long time. Have found a few here and there but playing with alice under Your direction sounds fantastic.
Lady Alexa says
Alice needs a very feminine looking sissy. She’s not really feminine. Feminised yes, girlie looking, nit so much. If you’re that and in the U.K. then maybe
Baby Kelsey says
Hehehe ‘activities’ sounds menacing 🙂
I’m so glad you like the idea though Lady Alexa! If it would please you to provide more ideas on games, or to test out some of these little competitions with Alice, I would be honored to help in her training! And humbly and innocently speaking, I am a quite pretty little girl if Alice needs to get her training wheels…
Lady Alexa says
Send me a photo or two of you looking very girlie to my email ladiesontop@mail.com
sissyteri says
Looks like you have two gurls to play with alice. You have been so good at directing her sissyhood and slowly taking her further down the rabbit hole when she comes out as alice. i’d seriously like to play with You and her. Things i’d love to do with her: bathe and shave each other, do each others eyebrows, base, mascara, etc. Helping each other into chastity, dildos and lingerie. Basically having two, or more, gurls at Your command.
sissyteri
Lady Alexa says
Good ideas. I hadn’t thought of the bathing, shaving each other and make up
sissyteri says
Lady Alexa and Baby Kelsey i’d love to play some of these games with you and alice. Like in person and someone with a cam to record it all.
sissyteri
Lady Alexa says
No cams.
Baby Kelsey says
Aww bathing and shaving each other sounds humiliating!! It’s just sinking in to me how much deeper the embarrassment becomes to be doing these things in the presence of another sissy, let alone to be doing them to each other. It’s almost like the other sissy’s humiliation is also a reflection upon yourself, so you’re both witnessing deeper and deeper levels of feminized humiliation as well as now having another person as an audience to your own humiliation. I guess what scares me most though is how much i am incredibly intrigued by this.
Lady Alexa, I’ve never taken a picture of myself all dressed up that includes my face, but I think my face is actually one of my most feminine and pretty attributes (*pretty long eyelashes*). Would it be okay if I took a couple days and find a time to get fully dressed up, and then take a sissy picture including my face to send to you? I want to make sure I express my full girlishness for you!
Lady Alexa says
That’s fine there’s no rush. I want fully dressed, skirt or dress, heels. No clitty shots. I don’t know why, but males seem to think women want to see photos of their bits and we really don’t.
Baby Kelsey says
Thank you Lady Alexa!! I’ll make sure to get fully dressed as instructed and send a picture by the end of this week. And just making sure, that won’t be shared or posted, will it?
And on the clittie shots, ya I have no idea why any other sissies would want to share those. My clittie is by far my ugliest, least feminine part, and if anything I’m actively trying to hide it as much as possible. The only time I’ll ever take a picture of my *special areas* is if mistress commands it as proof of anal training or chastity, and then I’ll try extra hard to make those bits look feminine. And now after seeing Robert’s post below on female prosthetic panties, I’m very curious about trying something like that.
I’ll send something soon, but if you have any other instructions for things that would please you to see in the pictures, just let me know! 🙂
Leah says
Dear Lady Alexa,
Just a word of caution on cock cages, I have read that over or sustained use of these devices can cause the erectile tissues of the penis to become atrophied thus rendering it not only decreased in size but not fit for it’s original purpose (which is fine if that’s the intention) however from what I understand this would be an unintended consequence for Alice.
Robert says
Hello Lady A
This is what I wear just about every day. It has reduced my cloth size but yet it still functions, although I do not get as hard as I used to. Part of that could be age., as I’m 60.
First I wear a gaff, which keeps me from getting fully erect. I am very small (about 3.5 cm) so I push my cloth up into my body and this holds me in. I use this one from Amazon https://www.amazon.com/YUENA-CARE-Genital-Panties-Crossdresser/dp/B06Y5ZGH59/ref=gp_aw_ybh_a_3?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=AJTB88SN0BWT184TCJ08. I generally wear a maxi pad inside of this.
Then I put on my “pussy” https://www.glamourboutique.com/buy/body-shaping/selene-female-prosthetic-gaff. Then a pair of panties. While I know that you like Alice in dresses I typically wear skinny jeans to my office along with my filled 40 C bra. I top it off with a ladies top and ladies socks. The only male thing I wear is shoes as I have difficulty fitting into female shoes.
Wearing this makes me feel quite feminine.
Hope you can solve Alice’s flirty problem.
Cheers,
Robert (no feminine name yet)
Robert says
Looks like spell check changed clitty to cloth. My apologies for not catching that.
Janet says
Dear Lady Alexa
As other submissives have said, I to have been in a chastity tube (not a cage) for long periods of time over the last 9 years.
My male clitty has now shrunk to about 35 mm in length.
I can still get hard, well hardish, but my mistress can still use it for her pleasure.
However, the only way that I can achieve orgasm, is by having two fingers inserted into the foreskin and my clitty massaged much like a true female.
Respectfully yours
Janet.
sissyteri says
Sounds wonderful to me.
Milica says
Alexia,
For the breasts situation have you considered a silicone breast plate ? The are quite expensive (but cheaper than a boob job) but when worn with the right outfit and jewellery they look very realistic.
Milica
whyguys says
Lady Alexa…
Have always been excited to see Your Female First theory and practice as it has evolved in dealings with alice. And agree with You that eventually the male girl sex must eventually give up all of her previous tendency to make its ‘fantasy’ desires as a deterrent to what are the Female Master Sex’ ultimate goals. However, the difficulty for many of us inferior males in interacting with other male girls would be difficult merely from understanding WE ARE INFERIOR and in so wish only to submit to Female leadership as is proper.
Yes, i understand Female authority and even amusement might bring this situation about… but beneath it all we are somewhat human as well and entering into forced interaction with others of our meager sex would be not only distasteful, but anathema.
A truly difficult scenario for many or most of us ever to find ourselves in no matter how great our proper submission to Woman develops.
sissy billie says
Ma’am,
If I may contribute to the discussion. My Madam has required me to be a chastity wearer for about 14 years now as part of our FLR. we started with occasional wearing of the cage and we have progressed with different styles and types. We started with the CB2000 and moved to the CB6000.
we’ve had a few hiccups along the way but we have found a suitable state.
from a size point of view I am 5″ long and have a reasonable girth, this made wearing the chastity difficult to start with and resulted in short term wear.
over time and trailing we found that I could wear a CB6000s (small) but we changed the back ring for a smooth metal ring as that was more comfortable over extended periods of time.
My Madam has a boyfriend and as part of the conditions of the relationship I am required to be caged and En-fem during his visits, however over the 6 years of their relationship the chastity has become a longer term wear item, as has the increase in feminisation. Currently the caged periods are about 4 months at a go, I am uncaged every 2 weeks for shaving – we are now using a smaller open cage type rather than the CB6000s. so washing is easier, but shaving is done under supervision.
when I am released is there is a reduction is size – I am smaller when flaccid and initially when released. however so long as Madam does not want me to perform immediately with my clitty it will come back to normal size. My erection does still come back to 5″ and I do when permitted make love to my Madam/ wife.
our view is that we don’t rush after release and it will still function and it will still allow Madam to use it as she requires.
I am caged as part of Madam’s requirement to ensure that I am the beta in the relationship and that she is the Alpha, also this combined with the feminisation works well to have me emasculated.
I would suggest that chastity does work and if it is progressive and allowed to be comfortable to wear can work really well in the de-masculinisation, you control the male part of your Alice, and it is you that has the access to use it. As my Madam has said it is no longer mine, it is hers to do with as she pleases.
I hope that this has been usefully.
kind regards
sissy billie
Michyle says
Lady Alexa:
I am a big believer in symbology, and to me a chastity cage is a symbol of control over your submissive/sissy. My suggestion is put Alice in chastity, but give her the second key as a symbol of your trust in her. This way Alice, knows that You are in control of her erections, but that you trust her enough to obey you that you gave her the second key.
As for “Other Sissies” I believe that is a great idea, everyone needs a social/support group to share idea’s, hope’s, and secret’s with. Especially sissies who have a limited social circle because of appearance. Plus you might find several Dominants to share time, Idea’s and Training Techniques with while your sissies play.
sissyteri says
Love Your comments. Especially Mistresses/Dommes sharing their sissies and their ideas on how to sissify, use and humiliate them even more while watching/coaching the gurls.
Cathy Peterson says
Thank you Alexa, your ‘random’ thoughts are a nice stream of consciousness, and I can certainly relate to pondering similar matters for me and Mike/Michelle (formerly Mary) as we will soon start our 6th year of 100% empty nest privacy-freedom FLR here in LA. I’m very pleased that Michelle is tiny, flaccid, and unresponsive due to very low-T, chronic ED, and elevated levels of estradiol (a natural body condition made even more pronounced through adding daily fenugreek and progesterone cream). Like you, I’m not interested in that tiny knob, except when it’s pressed under a maxi-pad and panties all day, and then further softened and wetted with K-Y jelly when we’re intimate. This way it’s OUT of the way while functioning and feeling more like a female clit and labia when al that soft-warm-wet skin folds over that tiny “clit”. This condition is wonderful on a daily basis because there’s no activity of any kind down there and Michelle enjoys spending entire days with a pad and panties while being all flat and very feminine looking between the legs – whether in skinny jeans or under a skirt or dress. Regarding time with other sissies, I’ve decided ‘No” on this, and opted instead for more time interacting with other real women – sometimes with me sometimes on his/her own. So work-out walks, shopping, dining out, book club, library volunteering, craft-shoppe volunteering, dinner club, theatre club, and wine-tasting club are ALL things we can either attend together as gal-friends Cathy and Michelle, or I go by myself sometimes – and he/she can also attend without me. It’s SO fun and very needed for my dear sweet husband to experience lots of time being with other women – talking and interacting, visiting, laughing, doing things with them/like them -to really settle into acting and speaking in a feminine way for extended time (anywhere from an all day outing to several hours). Times like that translate into an even more quiet-demure-relaxed version of my husband around our home when it’s just the two of us and he’s in very feminine mode. Keeping him/her as close to where I’m at as a woman makes for truly wonderful and rewarding FLR with little, and mostly no, resistance of any kind.
nicola says
I think the idea of more time with other real women is key as she will start to genuinely enjoy a different type of activity and little by little start to think like a woman. I especially agree with book club (there are some with a specific women’s focus) and the library and craft shop volunteering. I would also suggest some kind of needlework group. It would be ideal if a change of job could be orchestrated, something more “pink collar”. Just my thoughts…
sissyteri says
Would love to find a pink collar job or other activities. Would really help with my feminisation.
Lady Alexa says
Yes I like the idea of her spending more time with real women. A female book club might be a nice idea although craft shop and needlework seem like a waste of time as she has a full-time job and then her role as my housewife.
Lady Alexa says
Hello Cathy. Whilst I’d like Alice a little smaller down there, more clitty like and cute, I do still want it to function. I guess I want my cake and eat it so to speak.
Cathy Peterson says
Michelle still functions enough to experience a lovely climax, but with all our practice, it’s now in a very feminine way – lying back, relaxed, legs spread, and she’s able to have a second (and sometimes a third) sensation, with extra time and care – something that never happened in male mode. Then afterward, over top of all that soft wet flat “v”, she wears a very cute pink or purple lacy panty from LoveRider with attached dong so I can enjoy being a woman.
Lady Alexa says
Yes good for Michelle but I wasn’t thinking about her (or Alice) I was referring to a real woman’s needs. I need Alice to function down below as I have certain expectations. What does Michelle actually do for you?
Julie sissy says
Dear Nicola
spending more and more time in real Female company is nicely emasculating. i recently met my Female friend in Costa.
She didn’t say anything, but when i got there, She was with 4 of Her friends plus Mother. i had no option, but to pull up a chair and listen and participate in their ‘girly’ chat.
i enjoyed it to be honest.
love the ‘pink collar’ work concept, would be interested in some examples.
Yours pantifully
julie x
Lady Alexa says
Yes Costa during the day has a nice female ambience. For my non-UK followers, Costa is a chain of UK coffee shops. Like Starbucks but much nicer.
Cathy Peterson says
Here in LA in 2019, TG women are so much more commonplace than even just 4-5 years ago, and light years away from 10 years ago and earlier. They are sales ladies at retail clothing and other stores, cashiers, hostesses and waitresses at restaurants, take tickets and work food-concessions at movie theaters, are librarians, and are out walking, shopping with male and gal friends just about everywhere. It’s no longer a novelty or odd or something that stops us in our tracks. Encountering TG/CD women in public is very normal and nothing unique to worry over any longer. This makes it VERY easy to take my own sweet hubby out a LOT as Michelle, and the more time out in public, the more relaxed and natural Michelle has become, and that translates to a wonderfully more feminine person in the privacy and freedom of our empty nest home.
Gendre Amore says
Twenty years ago I would fly to LA to play (shopping on Melrose, clubbing at the Queen Mary, make-overs at Jim Bridges place etc.). LA was light years ahead of flyover land, yet the only places you saw trans women working in polite society was at the trans oriented businesses. It is refreshing to hear that they are out working and in places everyone goes.
May that acceptance migrate from the coasts to the hinterland. I can’t wait.
Prudence says
That is a lovely picture of Alice, she is really pretty, you should both be very proud.
If it helps here are some thoughts of your random points, firstly the issue of chastity. In our less developed FLR, I have been wearing a chastity device for a few years now. We both believe it has a real benefit. Yes it does tidy up unsightly bulges and leaves a more compact profile. It may slightly reduce size, certainly it compresses things when flaccid but when asked to function things seem to return to the original size!
For sure it prevents masturbation and erections and serves as a 24/7 constant reminder of my status. I always wear female underwear and it works very well with brief style Panties to keep everything in place. I also always have to go the toilet sitting down where ever I am, which we both think is important.
I can thoroughly recommend the Holy Trainer which is fantastic and available in many sizes and colours. It does takes time to get this absolutely right but when you do it is a genuine unobtrusive 24/7 device even in the Gym.
Regarding penetration we also believe this is very important best done with full eye contact, so it is clear who is the dominant. We have a ritual where I am instructed to sit on a dildo naked but for a bra and stocking while my wife sits in front of me. We then chat about our FLR for a while.
Finally, I think mixing Alice with other sissies would work in normalising her status. We have discussed this but because, like you, our FLR is a very private thing it is currently on the wish list.
Many thanks for the website, it is both brilliant and inspirational.
Prudence.
Lady Alexa says
Dear Prudence thank you for your thoughts and ideas. The gym might be a problem as the device would be visible when Alice changes! However, I’m not convinced on the benefits of chastity devices
Ron says
Unlike you, my wife doesn’t like being penetrated by a real cock, and I haven’t been inside Her for over 5 years now. I wear a cage 24×7, and my last unlock was about two years ago. (How we got to that point is a whole other story, as you know, there can be pain and cleanliness issues that are hard to get past). I have been emailing back and forth with a surgeon in Mexico. The plan, as soon as we can afford it, is for him to remove my scrotum (I am already on testosterone replacement therapy) andto also remove the corpos cavernosa from my penis, and shorten the penis overall (that’s the erectile tissue that makes up the bulk of the penis’ size). That would make it completely impossible for me to become erect no matter how horny I get, and would also shrink my penis dramatically. As it is already a small penis, I think I would be left with something approximately the size of a large clitoris, or 1/2 – 2/3 of my little finger. Needless to say, I would be physically incapable of intercourse or erection, permanently, and masturbation could only be accomplished in the ways a girl would masturbate.
Lady Alexa says
Sound a bit extreme
dd says
This is really commitment on your part and to your wife / Mistress. I admire this and only wish I was in your position. I am still looking for a Mistress/ wife to force feminize me. I agree you are doing the best thing in your situation, with your wife not wanting penetration. Will you still be wearing the cock cage 24/7 or will you start wearing a female style full belt that goes around the waist and between the legs. Wearing one should be no problem without a scrotum. Have you got breast implants yet? Good luck on your operation and feminization journey. Lucky You!
Sugar says
Dear Lady Alexa,
I’m not sure if you will see this comment but I love your website!
I’m wondering if you have made any progress in introducing your girl to other feminine male-girls? It does seem a good idea as a feminised sub male must surely be comfortable sucking cock. I know I am as I’m a feminine male-girl who started out with transvestism and then visiting shemale escorts. I would love a StrictLady to serve who would feminise me from head to foot including silicon breasts, pierced belly button, nose and ears – I am already fully waxed and made up.
This lifestyle is the future.
Sugar XX
Lady Alexa says
The pandemic has put a stop to any ideas on introducing my girl to other girlies. Maybe in the future