In this post I want to look at forced feminisation from another angle which is removing masculinity from your husband or partner
As regular readers know, I believe that feminising your husband or partner is vital in a functioning FLR.
Can Masculinity exist in an FLR?
No, no and no.
How can you lead and be the one making decisions when your husband (or partner) still thinks like a man? If he still has that masculine aggression, if he is lead by his willy, if he thinks he’s always right? Men therefore have to be feminised, but is that enough?
You can force feminise him and put him in dresses, wigs, give him a feminine name and so on but is he a now a girl or a man in a dress? I would suggest from my experience that those nasty male traits can still surface from time to time. What we need to do is to remove and strip away any masculinity and replace with femininity. Only when he believes he’s really feminine will you have what you need; a submissive girl.
The challenge of masculinity removal
My big challenge was not only getting Alice to wear female clothing or even to accept being called Alice or girl but to get her to accept that it’s no longer a sex game but a real change in her whole way of living from masculine to feminine.This has to be a psychological change.
To be honest I’m not there yet with Alice but even being some way down the road to removing her masculinity is a vast improvement on what I had before. maybe she’ll never be quite there but I’m aiming for 90%?
Time to Remove Masculinity
Much of forced feminisation and petticoating focuses on the outward appearances of your partner. This really isn’t enough to get to true FLR. It’s a great start though and a real pleasure to see. The need is to get into a male’s head that his masculinity is dead. Re-enforcement of the message and constant reminders that he’s a girl. It’s an overhead for a mistress but one that’s worth the trouble. Incremental gains can be difficult to spot until every so often you notice that he’s doing something naturally that you’ve been working on for ages. It’s so satisfying. Female habits, rituals and routines all help this process. As a mistress you need to be focussed on the process and ruthless in spotting transgressions and stamping them out immediately.
I like the fact that now I have now put CFNM in our relationship on some occasions and this doesn’t affect Alice’s femininity. Maybe I should have said CFNG; Clothed Female Naked Girl?
Removing masculinity is the only approach to feminisation of men
I have realised from my relationship that in any FLR and in a forced feminisation process you should never forget to strip away the male side at the same time as you are building up a man’s femininity.
It’s easy for your feminised male to remember to curtsey if he’s in a dress but does he remember if he’s naked? That’s the test. Forcing your feminised husband to be naked does introduce a potential problem in the clitty being on show. This is part of the psychology and constant reinforcement of the renaming to a clitty and pussy and its feminisation. A shaved pussy balls and clitty and a nest triangle of pubic hair works well although I think a little pink bow is also nice as is my new-found enthusiasm for a clitty cage.
Feminisation means removing masculinity
Putting your male into female clothing is only half the battle. What you really need to do is change his thinking to achieve the desired result in all relationships. A submissive girl should be the destiny of any man and the goal of every woman.