Here’s a great idea: setting your feminized husband a written feminization assignment about what they love about being feminized.
The idea works on so many levels. It gets your husband or boyfriend to really think about what’s great for them about being feminised and to admit they accept and enjoy it. I can’t claim the intellectual rights to this, that honour goes to Cathy, a regular guest contributor on my blog.
Cathy set her feminized husband, Mike / Mary a set of questions and then sent me his replies.
Cathy’s husband, Mary (formally Mike), has been feminised for some time. His breasts have been developing for around 6 years. Cathy is now overseeing his hair growth, his weight reduction programme and putting him through a range of regular female beauty treatments such as facials, hair salon, nails, make up and bra fitting appointments.
I have to confess, I’m more than a little jealous of what she’s done to her husband in their very loving FLR. One idea she has used, which I have also employed, is to ask our husbands what they enjoy about being feminised. It forces them to explain themselves that it is much better for them to be girls.
However, what Cathy did was to give the questions to her feminized husband as a written exercise. What a great idea this is as it documents their new-found feminine feelings. She gave Mary (Mikey) a list of ten questions so that he could put into written words how he felt about being a feminized male in a loving FLR.
In her assignment,she asks Mary/Mikey how he feels about certain aspects of his feminization. Here are the questions and Mary’s replies to his wife’s feminization writing assignment.
Q1. FEMALE CLOTHES IN YOUR DRESSER AND CLOSET
Mary: I’m completely used to it now. It is the new normality for me. It’s fun to have lots of panties and bras, camisoles, nighties, PJs, slips, sports-bras, stockings, pantyhose, thigh-highs, tights, leggings, garter belts. They feel so much nicer than male clothing such as heavy boxer shorts and denim. Female clothes are so much more atractive.
Our closet has all my slacks, skinny jeans, sweaters, dresses, blazer, tops and blouses and skirts. My shoes and boots and sandals are underneath. It makes me feel utterly female. It’s changed my mindset from male to feeling female.
Q2. WAKING UP EACH DAY FEMINIZED
Mary:When I wake up, in a nightie or baby-doll, I feel nice knowing I will be feminine at home with you all day. My nails have polish and my fingers have rings on all the time. It’s been a wonderful experience to grow out my hair which helps me to feel feminine every morning.
I do like knowing there’s a tampon inside me each morning, even though I can’t feel them so much up inside me any more. I’m very used to always sitting on the toilet, pulling that little string, and then switching in a maxi-pad to my panties when I first get up.
I quickly shave my face super smooth right away and use some Olay lotion, so I can begin my day with my face feeling feminine. Waking up feminised means being a girl.
Q3. WEARING NAIL POLISH
Mary: My fingers look feminine and pretty 24/7. When I shower, as I dress, when I’m out all day – all the time. Using nail varnish has made my nails stronger and they grow faster.
The breast herbs have also added to my nail shine and fast growth. They are longer, tidier and prettier. This means my hand and finger movements are naturally more gentle and more feminine. All FLR wives like that in their husbands, I’m sure.
Q4. BODY SHAPE CHANGES
Mary: I love my body’s new shape a lot. I’m so much thinner and look more delicate in my frame. I’ve lost all my former male paunch. Instead I have real breasts, and bigger nipples. My collarbone and shoulders look feminine as I’ve lost muscle mass and fat.
I have bony hips and a flat tummy, who wouldn’t like like? I have a flat v-shape in the front of my panties as my tiny clitty is flattened and tucked under. My hairless and soft skin feels sexy and delicate; all my masculine roughness has been smoothed away. Such a difference from before, but this is, of course, now what I really now prefer – by far.
Q5. LONGER HAIR
Mary: I love having longer hair and putting it up with a clip or pulled up in a scrunchy. The weight feels so lovely. When it’s down it curls around my smooth face and neck, it’s quite sensual.
It’s been such fun to have my own hair to style and I’m glad I’m not wearing wigs. They didn’t feel natural or real, a bit like I was a pretend girl. Now it’s real it makes me feel like a proper girl. Clip-in hair extensions are fun to do also.
I used to wash my hair once a week, but now it’s longer, I wash and condition each day. I then blow dry it and use a flat iron. The effect of a flat iron is to give my hair a very feminine appearance. I use a little hairspray when done.
I can do a half-up with a scrunchy or a full ponytail worn up high with a fancy scrunchy or a ribbon. And you sometimes do a French braid for me which looks wonderful. When I do morning power walk/work-out and have that with a headband or pull it through the back of my cap or visor it looks and feels incredible.
Q6. SHOPPING FOR LINGERIE
Mary: I love being able to walk into female clothing shops and department stores and be just like any other woman. I can spend lots of time looking through all the racks and piles of panties and bras. I do buy a lot of panties and I love pretty bras that are lacy with bows, especially push-up styles.
At the nicer stores, it’s good to have a sales girl come over and offer to help. That’s because I always say “yes please” and feel so good talking with another woman about the styles and fabrics I like.
I also enjoy talking with them about what we both like to wear, what we’re wearing right then under our clothes: bikini, boy-shorts, cheekster, high-waisted, thong, lace, nylon satin or cotton – this would of course never happen if I shopped as Mike. But as Mary they just are so friendly and helpful and fun to talk with. It’s like we’re two women speaking together normally.
I’m not altogether sure if they sometimes realise that underneath everything I’m a male. I guess that’s part of the fun and the ‘danger’ of it.
Q7. DAILY MAKE-UP
Make-up has become a regular part of my daily routine. I now just do it and I like doing it, and I’m getting better. I’m even now thinking in my mind that my normal face I see in the mirror is the one that’s wearing make-up.
It’s extremely nice to be silky smooth all over my face, then pull my bangs (fringe) back and dot on some liquid foundation and blend it with my fingers. Then I do a very light brush up with bronzer-toner.
I have fun with blending two or three shades of eye shadow, then doing eye liner above and lower, then brushing up lots of mascara. I have lots of practice now doing all the tricks you showed me.
I also like wearing lipstick and use your trick to put just a little line of lipstick on my cheekbone and blend that in with my finger, so it’s an exact match to my lips. I also enjoy a few sprays of perfume and feel so amazing when I see myself in the mirror. Make-up is now fundamental to my feminine facial appearance.
Q8. MAXI-PADS AND TAMPONS
This started out as just trying to explore what it felt like. Now I wear a pad everyday, sometimes a thin panty-liner. I have a tampon in each night before I go to bed. All during the day I forget a lot that I have a pad or a liner in my panties.
I can’t really feel tampons inside me any more, so I guess they really are comfortable for women, right? I’m used to pulling that little string-knot each morning and flushing it, then using a pad for the day. I have pads and tampons and liners in my purse.
You have had me ask in the ladies room at movies or restaurants if another girl has a pad or a tampon I can borrow. And then that one time I was asked by another woman if I had a tampon or pad for her and I did have some in my purse and gave her one. It’s a sign of my femininity, taking part in such a female ritual.
Q 9. CLOTHES SHOPPING/FITTING ROOMS
I love being able to go through the clothing stores and relax while I look at different clothes. No one bothers me or looks at me strangely while I spend all my time in the female sections.
I like to just walk right up to the ladies’ fitting rooms and smile and chat with the girl there, get a number for my number of items, then stroll in, find my stall, try on dresses and other clothes.
Sometimes when I’m with you I come out into the main walkway to look in the bigger mirrors and other women see me. You have also told me to ask other women to either help zip me up or unzip me in back if a woman is right there in the main hallway.
Q10. WEARING JEWELLERY
I really like wearing matching jewellery every day, either gold or silver or the casual ensemble. Earrings, necklace then bracelets/bangles and thin watch and all my rings. It’s like a wonderful extra layer of feminine feeling, very girly. Added to my make-up, that makes me feel even more like you, and more relaxed.
ENCOURAGED FEMINISATION IMPROVES A MAN’S LIFE
It’s clear from Cathy’s husband’s responses, that his entire life has been transformed by her encouragement of his feminisation and loving FLR. Female leadership, matched with a husband’s feminisation, provides a new symbiotic relationship. The husband is able to relax in his new femininity, to throw off the chains of society’s forced masculinity and to follow a caring woman’s rules.
His female clothing helps to give him a whole new range of sensual and beautiful sensations. Released from false masculinity, introduces unknown pleasures from following female leadership. For us females, it means our men are more loving, caring and pliant. And more attractive.
Let me know what assignments you set your feminized husband or what you were set or made to do by your wife to show just how feminine you had become.
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