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MY FLR MARRIAGE

2 April 2026 by Lady Alexa 22 Comments

I have an FLR marriage and lifestyle, and it’s becoming more alternative by the month. It’s a relationship where I can do whatever I want; within reason of course. My husband trusts me entirely and puts himself in my hands. This means we live unlike most couples, but how many would love to live.

I understand that not everyone gets it, and I occasionally get comments here on my blog telling me what a horrible woman I am. I delete them as they are merely the rantings of a person with an inflexible mind. Don’t they see that we live in a wife-led relationship because that’s what we both want?

Let’s look at some of our alternative FLR lifestyle as a recap of where we are.

THE ON-OFF CHASTITY CAGE SAGA

14 January 2026 by Lady Alexa 23 Comments

Anyone who’s a regular reader here will know I have a love-hate relationship with putting sissies in chastity cages.

I love controlling my sissy husband’s little clitty. I used to use a cage on her from time to time, usually when I’m not at home to keep an eye on things.

On the other side of the coin, I know how much sissies adore chastity cages. So much so, they often put themselves into chastity. Er? How does that work? That’s wearing a cage and then removing it whenever that want to masturbate.

MILKING SISSY

12 December 2025 by Lady Alexa 11 Comments

As regular readers of my blog know, I don’t allow my sissy husband to orgasm. I have many reasons for this, amongst them, the problem that once sissies orgasm, they lose a lot of submission for a day or so and that’s unacceptable.

Another reason is that I don’t like the mess or smell they make when they cum. But there are even more good reasons not to allow a sissy to orgasm. A dominant woman in an FLR should have the focus on her pleasure, not the sissy’s. So it’s best to remove any chance of the sissy getting pleasure so they can concentrate on their Mistress without any distration. And of course, it’s so much fun to tease them mercilessly. I don’t know why every Mistress doesn’t set this rule.

But I am conscious there may be health reasons connected with not allowing a sissy release. I don’t know and I’d prefer not to allow a release whatsoever, but to be sure, I milk my sissy husband once a month.

A DEMANDING MISTRESS

7 December 2025 by Lady Alexa 17 Comments

Moi, a demanding Mistress? Well, OK, maybe just a little.

Now that our FLR is established, I’m in a position to do anything I want in our relationship. I will say at this point, before I get any comments from those who haven’t read all my posts, that our FLR is completely consensual. My sissy husband not only accepts the inequality, but was the one who pointed out that the only limits were mine.

I’m still coming to grips with all this power, but I’m getting there.

SISSY DISAPPOINTMENTS

2 November 2025 by Lady Alexa 6 Comments

Sissies can be such big disappointments at times. They seem to forget that their role is to serve a Mistress like me, and to be submissive and respectful. It’s not always their fault, sometimes things can’t be helped. Mostly it’s their fault.

I’d hoped to be writing about a very naughty sissy dinner party last Thursday but, in the end, the logistics of getting four sissies together and Girl and I at short notice didn’t work. Life and stuff intervened. I don’t blame anyone for that, there is more to life than being a Mistress or a sissy unfortunately. We’ve penciled in a future date for the next level of my sissy husband’s journey to something far sissier. Is sissier a word?

But sometimes, sissies are disappointments. They get so caught up in being a sissy, they often forget their place in the world of Female Domination and sissy submission.

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