Moi, a demanding Mistress? Well, OK, maybe just a little.
Now that our FLR is established, I’m in a position to do anything I want in our relationship. I will say at this point, before I get any comments from those who haven’t read all my posts, that our FLR is completely consensual. My sissy husband not only accepts the inequality, but was the one who pointed out that the only limits were mine.
I’m still coming to grips with all this power, but I’m getting there.
My sissy husband, Girl, knows I wouldn’t do nothing to hurt her so leaving me to do anything is safe. We have similar tastes in how our FLR should operate. It’s true I think of ever more extreme humiliations for Girl, but I know deep down she likes that I push and take her to places she’d never go without my assistance. And I just like the power to do the naughtiest and most humiliating things I can think of.
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That said, I need to be a very demanding Mistress at times to get what I want.
Here are my latest demands.
The Sissy Dinner Party
This is back on and organised for early February. It seems a long way off, but what with Christmas and getting six people together on a specific evening, I guess I’ll just have to wait.
This is something that I’ll need to firmly demand Girl goes to, and demand she does what I tell her. I’m having a CFNM period, as those who follow my X feed will know. If not, take a look here – ladyalexauk on X.
I wrote about an actual sissy dinner party here and then the plans that were cancelled here.
The current plans are for me and Girl, three T-Girls and another Mistress to have a dinner party at one of the sissy’s homes. Girl will be the waitress. And as I’m into CFNM, Girl will be naked. I’ve asked the rest to dress up. Best party frocks and all that. Except Girl (hee hee.)
I’d previously called them sissies since they defer to me as the dominant lady, but they are not sissies and are not particularly submissive. But they are T-Girls. My husband will be the only submissive sissy there.
My rules are that anyone can do anything they wish to my sissy husband. She is there for everyone to play. She isn’t keen, but as we agreed, this is what I want so this is what will happen. There’s something intoxicating about lending my husband’s body out.
My plan is that after dinner, I will demand Girl give all three T-Girls a blow job while we watch. I’ve decided she will make all three cum. This is a big step for her, but I think it’s time. I’ve been too lenient for too long. Why delay the inevitable any longer.
Keep an eye out for my Sissy/T-Girl/Mistress Party post in February 2026.
CFNM Time
I know that many of my blog readers love sissy clothes, feminisation and chastity cages.
However, it’s my blog and at present, I’m in CFNM mode. I told my husband to put up voile at our windows to hide things from the road and the neighbours. For the past few weeks, I’ve not let her wear any clothing at home. My current rule is, “No clothes at home unless we have vanilla visitors. Once they’ve gone, undress.”
Here’s a cute AI cartoon of life of me and Girl in our kitchen. The cartoon version of Girl’s erection is far too big, but let me know in the comments if you like these cartoon interpretations of me and my submissive husband.
I think there’s something special about having a man naked while I’m fully clothed. It’s a clear demonstration of my power, authority and ownership of my relationship. My husband is my naked servant who I own.
Here’s another AI cartoon of life in my house. Girl’s clitty size is closer to the real thing in this one. It’s why I want/need a cuckold lover.
But also, I prefer she concentrates on washing and ironing my clothes and spending money on my clothing. So best she has no clothes. It seems more fitting as our FLR deepens and the disparity in our power expands. Less for her, more for me. It’s only fair.
I will write more about my current conversion to CFNM, but for now, keeping my husband naked displays how she’s there for my pleasure. Since I don’t allow her to orgasm, it’s also a great way to keep her on edge sexually without me needing to do anything other than be there, clothed. Keeping a sissy on edge, keeps your sissy submissive and humiliated.
And a final AI image of life in my home. The giveaway it’s not really us? Yep, the erection is too big and the female model is a little too slim. Otherwise, it’s pretty close. And don’t forget, let me know if you like the AI images of me and Girl on this post.
The Demanding Mistress
My mind is swimming with ideas for 2026. I’m on the look out for a sissy or T-Girl ‘girlfriend’ for my husband. I will want her to date her and make love to her. With me there to control and oversee ‘events’, of course.
Things haven’t progressed yet on the cuckold front, but 2026 will certainly see me find boyfriends to cuckold Girl with. I’m excited about this. I don’t like macho alpha males, so I haven’t quite got my head around the profile I want yet.
I like submissive, feminised men, so I expect he/she will be someone like that.
I can feel it. I’m about to become a whole lot more of a demanding Mistress.
MistressGoddess Alexa :
You are amazing. Your thoughts feed my fantasies. I’m not submissive, however you make me feel very submissive.
You are a true goddess and I’ve fallen in love with you xoxo
All men are submissive eventually
It is true that all men eventually become submissive. We agree to do whatever we are told if we want sex which we only get if & when she feels like it. I accept my FLR life & agreed long ago to obey her. I do not want to be homeless & broke from a divorce. Yes she has had black lovers & I have been taught to obey them. I am as happy as one can be in this submissive life. All men eventually submit to this or be thrown out without a dime.
I would respectfully suggest than in the interests of psychological anticipation you have girl study how to give a good blow job, how to manager her gag reflex, etc. You could then have her give you a presentation to show you she is ready to do the job properly. You could even video this presentation for later humiliation.
She’s already given blow jobs just not to completion. I have her practise on a dildo too.
Another idea might be for you to have a real man the same session that girl blows the other sissies, everybody experiences sexual release except girl, and of course you tease her about this before and afterwards.
I don’t believe it’s possible to not take a mans load when giving oral.
I have tried to stop many times but they alwayshold my head & fuck my mouth until they unload. Most like to cum on my face & in my mouth too. I like it when they tell me I’m a good little sissy cock sucker. My ass has bee used z7 abused I made to cry in pain. I always go back for more.
hi Lady Alexa, thank you. I am a closet cd, mostly, with some experience with Dommes in the past. I love those little pics. I know theyi are AI generated and more like cartoons, but still so provocative. My sissy nature has evolved in different ways. Of course I love sexy feminine garments. But I have also been fascinated by CFnm for some time. Submissiveness, embarrassment, humiliation. So overwhelming and alluring all at the same time. I am shy and shameful, but also exhibitionistic. I never really have understood all this in me. I hope your dinner party is a success, as well as your future cuckolding endeavors. Wish I could be a femme male to help you out! Happy Holidays, jacki
I am sure it will be a great succerss
Lady Alexa, I have been an owned sex slave twice, once by a black man & once by a Lesbian. I am alone now & would give everything I have to be owned again. My name is Don Droesch & I live in Plano near Dallas, TX.
Do you think you could find someone to own me now. Im retired & have some money & want to be a slave.
Donaldintx@outlook.com. 6026282150
Thank you I love reading your stories. Don
Not sure how I’d find you an owner
Dearest Lady Alexa, I’ve said this before, but I can’t stress how lucky your girl Alice is to have you and live the wonderful life you’ve given her. I dream of a life like she has. Alas, my wife is just not like you in those ways. I love her dearly and we have a wonderful life as husband and wife. I wish she could be more like you about the whole FLR topic. She knows that she can have anything she wants, and that I will never say no to her. But she does not have that dominance in her that is needed for the wonderful kind of life you have, and have given Alice. I know that, if put in Alice’s place, I would be difficult to convert. But I believe only initially as I know that deep down I would really enjoy it and I do know how it would benefit me and be the best life. I also know that punishments for not fully obeying would be interesting. I have often wondered if Alice has perhaps pushed back a little on occasion just to receive your punishment. It would not surprise me. When I read about her being exposed to your other Mistress friends and to the other sissies, I do get very excited and incredibly envious. I have always had a love for CFNM and believe it should be a normal part of every day life. All I can say is that if I was Alice and serving you and your friends and sissies completely naked it would be very obvious how excited I would be. My little clitty would be at full attention from start to finish. And the humiliation that I would be put through would be amazing and wonderful. As the humiliation you put Alice through must be purely glorious for her. And for you. I do have to say that the thought of never having an orgasm again is a difficult one. But I do understand what an orgasm does to a man’s behavior. And knowing how wise you are, and the superiority of women in general, I would of course agree. I do feel that immense humiliation might be a good substitute for an orgasm. As I said, I know it would be difficult for me, and of course for the woman feminizing me. But not for lack of desire on my part. I think that a lifetime of the opposite being more or less the norm, no matter how wrong that is, would be hard to crack. I wonder if this was an issue with Alice? In the beginning. Crushing those societal views. Even though I’m sure Alice didn’t agree with them I’m sure they had an affect. I know that any difficulty for me would be worth it in the end. I do hope that it wouldn’t be too much for the Mistress redirecting my life. But I guess I will never know for sure.
Thank you Lady Alexa, for all that you share and teach. And please thank Alice for her part, and for being an inspiration for so many. As well as having the envy of so many of us. She is truly a lucky girl
Hi Ms. Lady Alexa, thank You for this sissy dinner party update and looking forward to details come February. Knowing that You don’t often lock up your sissy girls clitty that often, I am wondering. Do you know if the other three sissies at the party coming up will have their clitties locked/caged? I am envisioning a scenario where your naked sissy girl is allowed to use the other sissies owners keys to unlock their clitties first. Of course all the while on her knees. Pulling their panties down first, unlocking them, handing the keys back to their owner and careful not to drool the cum she attains from each sissy on their stockings. Your future sissy dinner party is bringing back so many memories of a similar situation I was in when owned. Thank You again Ms.
I’m going to change the post since the other 3 are not actually sissies but T-Girls. I only referred to them that way as they defer to me as a dominant lady but they are not generally submissive. In fact two have submissive partners. So, all the better for my husband’s education.
Yes Ma’am, an excellent way to further your sissy husbands education indeed. I do know when tasked to suck other sissies cocks, it made it easier that they were dressed as sissies and not men. Do you think your sissy girl would prefer the T girls all dolled up?
The T Girls willbe dolled up as I wrote in the post – best frocks
I am happy for your sissy that she will be giving sucking cock of people in stockings and heels instead of boxers and jeans. I know that made a big difference for me when I was tasked to give blowjobs on demand to another sexy clad dressed sissy. It was much more difficult to give blowjobs to my owners lovers/bulls.
Lady Alexa. I just love everything about you and this post. I am a submissive sissy and I have always loved CFNM content. Having to be naked at home in front of mistress and friends is awesome. The power exchange and humiliation is awesome. I know I will be looking forward to the Feb. date of your party. Hearing all about it is going to be wonderful. Even my little clitty is all excited. All of your AI cartoons are great. My favorite is the one where you say the clitty size is more like girl. That one hit home because I have a rather small clitty also so I can relate better to it. Many cartoons depict sissies with rather large clits when i think they are better shown with small or tiny sissy bits. Good luck with girl at the party . I hope everything works out as planned. Justy wish I was one of the sissies involved. Donnagirl
My plans are never that fixed so I will go with any flow that appears to be more interesting
I see nothing wrong with Girl doing blowjobs. I was having to do handjobs on Mistresse’s 3 friend’s boyfriends then at Suuperbowl football party I did blowjobs for first time on all of them. It was embarrassing and humiliating but in the end was easier than cleaning it up with my fingers. I wish herluck and hope she gets over the nervousness.
I’m sure she’ll be a good sissy for me