I’ve updated my old list of 10 house rules for sissies and feminized males. I invited a lovely feminine sissy to my home in May for a day or so to assist Alice in serving me.
I wanted to be clear what my rules were, so I sent these to her. In the process I updated what I had.
SISSIES AND FORCED-FEMINIZED MALES NEED RULES
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It was a very useful exercise to update my 10 House Rules as things do move on and it will help to keep Alice on her toes.
So you may ask why would I need another sissy around when I have Alice? Well firstly Alice isn’t really a sissy, she’s a feminised male. So I fancied having someone more feminine to serve me. Secondly, I love the idea of a couple of feminised males serving me. And getting them to play a little.
Before I get deluged with requests to come to London to serve me, I’ll say that I have only invited this sissy as I know her and I know others who know her. Therefore I’m comfortable with her and that she is really submissive and well behaved. It wont be a regular thing or offer to others.
So here are my rules, Lady Alexa’s 10 commandments.
MY 10 HOUSE RULES FOR FEMINIZED HUSBANDS AND SISSIES
1. Sissies and male girlies must obey my instructions without question once I give them. I’m friendly and I sometimes like to discuss things, but in the end I make the decisions or give the order. I don’t like backchat or ‘suggestions’ unless I ask for them. You must ask for my permission for things.
2. I’m to be addressed as Mistress. Your Ladyship or Madam is also very appropriate. I don’t like to use first names for sissies or male girlies at home, it implies a lack of hierarchy. I don’t actually call Alice by her female (or former male) name but I call her girl to her face. I therefore use a name that indicates a sissy’s position or role such as maid or servant. Or girl.
3. I expect to be curtsied to after I’ve given a command, when I’m served or if entering a room.
4. Sissies and feminised males are not permitted to wear trousers or male clothing of any kind in my house. Even feminine trousers are not permitted.
5. Sissies and feminised males must wear short mini skirts or dresses in my home. Any skirts I consider too long will be removed and the male will have to wear nothing below the waist.
Knickers/panties should be very pretty and in feminine colours; pink or white for example. They must be small, g-string, crotch-less or not at all. Panties that are too large will be removed.
A bra will be worn at all times.
A nightie will be used for bed; pyjamas or boxers are forbidden. Nighties will be short and fine in pretty colours such as pink, white or red.
6. Sissies and feminised males are not permitted privacy in my home (apart from one act of nature as I really don’t want to see that). I may enter any room at any other time without restriction and without warning. Doors must be left open and unlocked except by me. Sissies will shower and pee (sitting down) with the door open.
7. Sissies in my home will assist Alice in doing all the housework, cooking and cleaning. They may be told to clean or massage my feet too, comb my hair or such things.
8. After serving me dinner in the evening, I generally allow them to sit with me at the table. I enjoy a friendly chat over dinner. They must not forget I’m still to be addressed as Mistress or Ladyship and conversation is through me.
No side conversations between sissies is allowed at the table except to discuss arrangements about what they are doing for me. I may allow them to discuss feminine matters.
For lunch and tea breaks they may have to sit on the floor at my feet.
9. I do punish for poor behaviour but I don’t enjoy giving too much pain. Stinging rather than hurting. It would be spanks with a crop or wooden spoon on the bum cheeks or clitty.
10. I expect a sissy’s clitty and pussy balls to be shaved clean. A nice feminine pubic triangle or Brazilian is excellent, but it must be neat. The rest should clear of any hair. I expect clitties to be very clean and washed well.
Cock cages are acceptable, of course. I will need a key.
If not in a cage, and when on show, clitties must be decorated to look pretty. A pink bow is a minimum. A cock ring and jewellery is necessary for an evening dinner party for occasions when their clitty is on show or visible beneath a short skirt.
I often clip dangly clip-on earrings on either side of Alice’s pussy balls for example or tie a necklace around her clitty and balls if I decide to have her clitty on show.
I like sissies to have a butt plug in for the evenings but I know that’s difficult as Alice’s often slips out.
RULES ARE RULES FOR SISSIES
Household rules like mine are important for a female leader as they set the tone and hierarchy. There is no equality and the rules in any society will set those structures and levels.
The rules also allow submissives to understand what they have to do without me needing to keep telling them. I much prefer not to have to give any orders and for things to run smoothly around me.
Every female leader will have their own requirements and these rules are just what I expect as a minimum. I suspect thought that there are similarities in all dominant women’s households.
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Perfect rules Mistress
Curtsey Sally
I like to think so
I love to be your sissy malemaid 24/7 and she can be kinky to me and she rent me out and she tie me up to and she gag me
I’m not quite sure what you mean?
How does one get to become one of your sissies?
You need to be very pretty and feminine. Sending me money and gifts might also help
Thank you for this description of paradise.
It’s how it should be Ian
I second Ian’s comment – “Thank you for this description of paradise”.
The only thing missing for lots of men who wish to express and live their feminine side is a way to reach this paradise. This is a paradise where the Pearly Gate is a very narrow turnstile and there far too few deities (mistresses). So only a few of the faithful, eager and willing sissies ever get to enjoy the bliss of this paradise.
Yes maybe there aren’t too many mistresses although I have to say in my case the enjoyment of Alice’s feminisation is that she wasn’t a willing and eager sissy. And at times still isn’t. That means her feminisation and acquiescence in the process is for me rather than her. If Alice wanted to be feminised and I acquiesced then who’s really the dominant? So my point is that there are probably lots of dominant women out there but if they are truest dominant then a relationship is on their terms and that may or may not include feminisation but would mean an flr
This is true in our situation Lady Alexa. Selina came to me with the idea of a FLR, I know she wanted some mild feminization on her terms, but has gotten much more than she expected or desired. Although her protests have ceased through punishment and humiliation, I can still see in her eyes and body language that complete acquiescence hasn’t taken place. That makes the process that much more enjoyable to me. Selina was on vacation from work last week and with holiday yesterday has been in a feminized state for 9 consecutive days! She is becoming more obedient and submissive but I still have progress to make. Living our lives by my rules and on my terms is a wonderful change in our marriage!
Sound similar to us Katrina
I look at you as my FLR mentor so I try to emulate what you’re doing. One of my goals is to have my husband living full time in a feminized state as quickly as possible. The company he works for is very progressive and accepting of transgender people which excites me. He may be coming out at work soon which will pave the way for living fulltime as my feminized subservient husband! Thank you again Lady Alexa for your wonderful blog!
I so pleased I’ve provided some guidance. However, you should take credit for implanting your flr and feminising your husband. You did that so be proud of your achievement
Wow! Excellent point
Lady Alexa. May I respectfully ask how you would treat a husband/boyfriend/ sissy who due to work may not be around every night of the week. I did take exception to your post recently where you intimated that guys like me are only allowed to dress up on a Saturday night. The kind of sex that my Mistress and I indulge in may horrify or offend you but each to their own. I have always been a follower of your teachings, but please understand we can’t all emulate You and Alice. When you’re stuck in a truck hundreds of miles from home in sub zero temperatures, the last thing on my mind is slipping into my girdle and worrying if my mistress( in her central heated luxury) needs her ass wiping. Nuff said. Love to you both.xx
My comment about some men playing on a Saturday evening was not intended for those like you but for men who play at being submissive but are really not. The woman then has to play at being a domme to satisfy the real dominant man who is getting off at times by pretending to be a submissive sissy. If however that suits both then there’s no problem of course
If a butt plug is falling out, it simply means it is too small. A larger diameter is needed. I can wear a three inch diameter for long periods of time.
Of course, it takes time and increasingly sized ones to make it work, but then, we do have time.
I think it’s too much gel as I don’t think it’s too small
wow..nice
This is a difficult situation. Men seem to instigate these flr’s, not understanding their ultimate “fate”? I remember your recent comments regarding the fetshow at W.Brom I think? Too many subs leading the Doms. Hmm. Very common I think. I sometimes wonder if you and Alice have a proper TPE Contract but I would never have the impertinance to ask directly. In the meantime, thanks for replying, I’m always pleased to hear from you.
Yes exactly. The femdom events in West Brom were fine. I saw the ‘subs’ leading at a couple of London Fetish events. That was my point
No we don’t use a contract as I think it’s pretty worthless. I prefer my 10 rules
As ever Lady A…you hit a button that makes us sit up and imagine…and feel jealous!….
Having a sissy supplement your feminised hub at home is a very erotic thought..and i read the list of rules with increasing excitement (and a tightness in my little cage)….and following your suggestions, i will be decorating the cage with a little ribbon this week…
Wishing you luck with your new arrangements.
Your fan from the provinces…
jane …curtsy..
Hello Jane from the provinces. Yes I want to push things on a little further
yes!!!!!!
Thank You for sharing Your rules, Lady Alexa. Reading the rules in another’s household provides guidance for a sissy’s conduct even if she is not in Your household…
I love how You refer to Yourself (and other Women) as a Female leader…because that is truly what You are!
Yours humbly and respectfully,
sissy jamieanne
Glad you appreciated them jamieanne
love all the shares…………
My husband “Mary” is the only girly-sissie at my house, but Lady Alexa’s rules are very close to what I have put in place: 1) Mary always obeys and does what I say, 2) Mary always calls me “Ma’am” or “Me dear”, 3) Mary does the sweetest little curtsies all throughout the day whether entering or departing a room, 4-5) Mary wears skirts and dresses probably 80% of the time, but also looks so demure-feminine-passive in casual female attire, BEST part is she now prefers to wear cute panties, bras all the time, and always a lacy/crepe/sheer nightie to bed, 6) We do have a 100% open-door policy throughout the house for me (and Mary) so I can come and go as I please, including all activities in the bathroom, 7) Mary is a great “homemaker” (I prefer that to housekeeper), 8) We love to chat at mealtimes, but I pick the topics, 9) it’s really amazing that my punishments are actually taking feminine time/things away from Mary, which she does not want to happen, so it’s very few and far between, and finally 10) Mary is always super silky smooth all over, and no need for any devices as she is tiny, soft, and flat in her panties under her maxi-pad everyday and with zero reactions/responses when dressed so it’s not an issue with us. In the end it’s like having the very best, perfect female roommate and our home is free from any disagreements, tensions, and/or confrontations ……. just me in charge leading this docile, cute, relaxed, kind, gentle feminine friend.
Yes I guess each female leader has similar rules Cathy
ohhh god!!
Thank you Mistress Alexa for the rules..They are perfect and define the control which you possess Mistress.. Curtseys Sophie
Hi Lady Alexa, being new to the FLR life, I am learning so much from reading your blog and the responses to your posts. What started as a contract between Selina and myself has been changed to Katrina’s Rules. We start and end each day with Selina reading my rules out loud. Selina must abide by my rules or face consequences. I do believe she is surprised at how much I’ve embraced feminizing her. The key is it’s feminization by my terms, not hers and it’s so exciting to me thinking that I’ve gone from grudgingly being willing to try this to wanting to feminize her completely. I now understand that the more I feminize her the more she will comply with whatever I desire.
For 20+ years of marriage things were on my husband’s terms, I followed his lead, I did the vast majority of the housework, he controlled the finances, sex was primarily for his satisfaction and on his terms, he did what he wanted in his free time, etc. This has changed and everything is now on my terms, to satisfy my wants and needs. I need to learn and improve my leadership skills and will do so. This new way of looking at and living life is so exciting!
Tomorrow I am having my two closest friends over to meet Selina and fill them in on our new lifestyle. Her feminization will be escalated and I have a couple humiliating things planned. I do this out of love and to reinforce our new life and her compliance.
Thank you again Lady Alexa for your blog and for opening my mind to how wonderful my life can be! Katrina
I’m pleased I could help a little. I started this blog because I couldn’t find much online that dealt with real-life loving FLR. Do let me know how it goes with your friends
Hi Lady Alexa, the evening my friends Donna and Jackie came over was a huge success. I’ll share a few of the highlights. Selina was busy doing laundry when the doorbell rang. She was wearing bra, panties, garter belt, stockings, heels, full makeup, (makeup lessons are in her immediate future!), and two pretty bows in her hair. I have her wear lingerie because she was always wanting me to wear lingerie around the house. The look of fear in her eyes was priceless when I told her to answer the door.
Donna and Jackie were very surprised at first but once I explained our new life wanted to hear more. Selina served drinks and snacks as they asked me many questions. Donna is divorced and very well off from the settlement. She offered me $3000 to purchase clothes, shoes, wigs, makeup, etc in exchange for 2 days per week of Selina’s cleaning services. Having known her my entire life I completely trust Donna. I made Selina get on her knees and ask Donna for the privilege of serving her. Jackie is newly married and was much more quiet than Donna but took great interest in everything.
When I told the girls that Selina gives great foot massages they both wanted one. I had Selina suck and kiss their toes as part of it. I had Selina remove her panties and we discussed what I should call her winky, which was erect the entire time. I decided on calling it ” My cute princess”. We also decided to call her “Precious” or “Blossom” While Jackie was getting her foot rub Donna found a website that sells maid dresses and all kinds of sissy clothes and bought two maid uniforms for Selina to wear while serving at her house. Donna made her beg to wear the uniforms while serving her.
Donna and I scheduled our shopping excursion with Selina and Jackie told me she wants to learn more about about FLR. I told her to start by reading your blog and we are getting together to discuss this in a few days.
What a fun night we had! As Selina and I got ready for bed I could tell she was overwhelmed by the events of the evening. We discussed our new relationship and she expressed fear and concern about how fast things were moving and where they might be headed. She practically begged me to not make her go shopping or serve Donna. I told her that I am doing everything out of love and to teach her obedience. I told her that feminizing her excites me and that I don’t know how far it will eventually go, but it’s completely my decision. Living full time as a woman just might be her future. The night ended with Selina satisfying me to 3 orgasms. After I made her beg me to let her stroke her cute princess. I gave her a pair of my pink satin panties and had her read my rules as she brought herself off. It was the first orgasm I allowed her since starting our FLR while I have had multiple orgasms every day.
This new power I have in our marriage is like an unquenchable thirst. I am excited about where this is going and so loving my new feminized subservient husband!
Excellent, wonderful story of your evening. I particularly like that you call your husband’s little thing a princess. I haven’t heard that before but I may just copy that.
All day yesterday I felt like maybe I was pushing things too fast/soon on my husband. I took time to read a number of your old entries and realized that in order for this to become our new lifestyle, I must keep moving forward and not give up any gained ground. Her male ego could easily come back and attempt to reverse some of the wonderful progress I have made. Selina was so obedient and seemed resigned to her fate, but inside her mind could be planning to rebel. I do think she is enjoying a lot of this even though things have escalated at a rapid pace. We are entering out third week of our new life and I am planning some things that will push things even further. My friend Donna and I are working out the details of the shopping excursion this weekend which are sure to make my husband very uncomfortable.
I am learning so much from your blog Lady Alexa, thank you!!
Great work Katrina. You’re exactly right. Move your man forward into more feminisation, maintain that progress and then onto the next stage. Incremental improvements and maintain the gains.
That is so Delightful. What you are doing with your husband is what many women need to be doing with their males. A feminized male is the Best husband or boyfriend. Female Empowerment matched with Male Feminization is the future. I would invite you to look at me WordPress Blog and see what many women are doing with their males. The name of the Blog is “The New Age Lifestyle”. Many of the stories and insights have been based on Lady Alexa’s Great work. We all need to work at Feminizing men and Empowering Women!
Hello Patti, your comments match my beliefs exactly. I know your blog and keep up the great work Alexa
Sounds like your doing a great job Katrina. I entered my then fiancée into a FLR/ Femdom relationship in July 2015 , married her last July 2018. The power will only get more unquenchable. Love the shopping trip idea. I’ve had my Stephie on many such excursions, lingerie, shoes, dresses, nail salon always fully dressed ! The more I emasculated, humiliated, feminized ” her” the more she craved, became submissive, obedient. I keep her now clitty locked for long periods of time , it’s a must imo, 3 months in I started her on butt plugs, regular enemas , and began breaking her in almost every night with a strap on… talk about true arousal, power… when she’s been in chastity long enough she can cum from strap on fucking alone, begs for it now! Of course she has to service me to multiple orgasms first?
Thank you Mistress K! The 3 weeks of living in our new FLR have been an eye opening and wonderful experience! My husband is quickly learning that this is not a game, how to serve me, and that his feminization is on my terms.
I am learning how to be a better leader and experienced mistresses like you and Lady Alexa help and teach me. I am not sure about chastity because its so fun to see Selina’s arousal when serving me and during the feminization process. I am open to the idea.
I am trying to instill in her the idea that serving me, pleasing me, being obedient at all times, being feminized on my terms is it’s own reward. Last night during our bedtime routine I told her that this is going to be permanent and not a 90 day trial. I could tell she wanted to protest but her response was, yes Maam as you wish. We had our first shopping trip over the weekend and it was so much fun! I am building a new wardrobe for her and there were some humiliating moments as well! She has the week off from work and there is much to do in the house and more training in store.
This is the life!
Your doung fine Katrina, each Femdom/ FLR realationship is different. I strongly recommend chastity at some point but as you sissy submissive Mistress that’s your decision. I also definitely recommend starting to break your Gurl by using a strap on on her. It’s emasculating, plus eventually when broken in and you associate it with her being able to cum , she ll beg for it! I have started a blog here in WordPress, experiences of a Femdom wife and her sissy tho Stephie is the wife.Its private by approval only but I will approve you. Keep doing what your doing, it’s very rewarding? PS I unlock Stephie a lot during a long sexual service session, doesn’t mean I let her cum but it’s fun watching her little clitty get hard in her panties, she loves all things feminine now since In the beginning I associated femine dress, hygiene with sex. ? As I’ve said if she’s allowed to cum it’s by my strap on or letting her rub her clitty through her panties?
Dear Mistress K
You sound amazing and very dominant indeed. I agree the more you emasculate, humiliate and feminize a sissy, the more “she” submissive and obedient “she” will become. How do you dress your sissy, Mistress? Did your Stephanie resist chastity and the strapon first?
*curtsy*
Mistress K, what is the name of your blog, or maybe an lurl?
Thank you,
sillyGurl
ohh my GOD! gasp x 100 = nirvana!!
ohh god! i am going to feint!
Are you going to feint or faint? Maybe both?
Hi Ms. Katrina I’m Mistress K’s wife. She has taught me so much, trained me very well ,feminized me very well, made me keep to a feminine regiment, I haven’t even stood to pee since we started almost 3 yrs ago, can’t now anyway, I’m in chastity almost all the time until she unlocks me and that’s only in her presence, she and Lady Alexa know a lot. I hope you learn a lot that can help you with Selina, it’s not a game . Loved the shopping trip idea, have been in many fully dressed, with Mistress K for every type of female clothing , bra fittings were probably the most emasculating, humiliating. My D forms are stuck to my chest constantly with adhesive. Sometimes I think it would almost be better to have real ones. Whatever Mistress decides. I love being married to such a powerful , dominant woman who showed me the way I should live.
Oh Selina…
How exciting is Your story of how vast a change made in your relationship. Seems You have fully learned the joy of correcting male pretense. Such total exchange of power between your male girl and Yourself is exhilarating and shows how simple it is for Females to be the true natural masters in sexual relations. LOVE the way You redefines ‘Selina.s and Your agreement’ into KATRINA’s RULES!!!
Women such as You and Lady Alexa are prototypes of what most or all Females my someday be. One bets, at times Your increasingly timid male girl wife quakes in ladylike awe beneath You – poor dear may get more than she bargained for. Especially exposing her before Female friends to widen the ideal of Female supremacy – brilliant move for advancing the philosophy…
Even i must give timorous fearful respect before Your increasing sense of Empowered Womanhood… please keep reporting further *curtsy*
super hot…………….
Lady Alexa… You are magnificent in the progress we see made reading your exploits over the past few years. Sense that You’ve both developed, evolved and spread Female Led theory into true social paradigms where finally it is the Female who is emerging more and more as designer of such instead of we males who may have entered merely as fulfilling fantasies.
Suspect many of us (male girl) and ultimately society in general shall awake some decade and wonder how have Female and male exchanged previous roles and power so fully and NATURALLY! And PERMANENTLY!
Your rules here, whether they formed as a plan or only tools in making “Alice” are cornerstones that all emerging Female Masters are learning to use as building blocks to establishing eternally Women as the primary sex. Eventually it may be all or most males shall wake up bewildered at how they have become the more subservient and , yes, even the nore ‘feminine’ sex. Believe me, eventually those who thought it a game they created shall see their previous ‘wives’ and ‘girlfriends’ becoming actual clear-thinking superiors demanding obedience and service BECAUSE THEY ARE FEMALE! It shall be a shock when this occurs as a social norm… when it does… male girls may in fright and confusion shed a tear or two at what they have lost in power and false self-image…
But Females shall be feel full flush the empowerment and amusement that is the due of Their Sex.
ps. Truly laughter-inspiring is cleverly not allowing serving male girls discuss in the slightest anything other than subjects concerning serving or feminine activity. This along with having multiple male girls performing together roles proper to their sex reaffirms the new roles demanded of them collectively, so that they learn to internalize the secondary status of males as girls in general.
*sigh* Lady Alexa …. sometimes when i comment on Your exploits i wish there were a “CURTSY”-key on the keyboard!
Gasp!!!! i feel myself losing power as I read…
I’ve been following your blog, wisdom on feminizing males, FLR etc since my Sissy Stephie found it almost 3 yrs ago! I required her to learn everything about FLR/ Femdom and feminization. I think she posted recently we finally married last July. I have her trained, feminized quite well now but always more to do, fun lol! Love your rules list above, Stephie is in a bra almost all the time now , plus her forms.More women should try this lifestyle especially if they suspect they have a submissive male on their hands, Stephie took to the life, feminizing quickly?
Nice to hear from you K. Yes there’s always lots to do. I like to keep Alice on edge a little at my latest ideas?
How nice to see your sissy accept his feminization with such enthusiasm Mistress K, I read Stephie’s post along with photos of him and he is very proud of his FLR not to mention he obviously enjoys giving you a pedicure. You have trained him very well but as you say there is always more for us to learn and do.
Congratulations on your marriage to a very devoted housewife.
Jenn
Thanx very much!
Dear Mistress K
Thank you for your posts. It is great to hear that you have trained and feminized your sissy husband! I agree that more women should try this lifestyle. Most submissive males could be feminized and trained.
*curtsy*
Thank you Phillip. And yes most submissive males can be feminized, trained if the woman is into the lifestyle, gives it a try. These type males are easy to recognize, I knew Stephie was one the minute we met, started dating. Brought her along slow at first just kept asserting more and more control until I brought up the lifestyle I wanted, after we became engaged, some resistance at first but in no time after having her study Femdom/FLR using sex sometimes I had her in panties, set of rules, and starting feminization. She had never crossdressed before but from her first hair removal, then watching her slide her first pair of panties on her little clitty was immediately hard! I giggled and said see you were made for this?Lol!
Dear Mistress K
Thank you for your reply. Interesting that you could see in the first minute that Stephie sissy husband material. You sound like a very dominant woman who knows exactly how to train, emasculate and feminize a submissive male. She definitively were made to be a sissy husband when her clitty got hard when putting on panties for the first time. I think that would happen to me too.
When did you put her in chastity, Mistress K? How does she serve you?
*curtsy*
We entered the FLR\ Femdom relationship first week of July 2015, we were already engaged since 2012, started seeing each other in November, 2011. I put Stephie in chastity around 3 months into the lifestyle, I’d actuallly plugged her first and ” broke” her to my strap on.. probably should have done chastity first. Philip , Stephie serves me however I order her to ! Chores, sexually whatever she’s told or her little clitty will stay locked longer.
Hello Mistress K. It’s quite amazing how more and more truly inspirational Ladies are following Lady Alexas journey. You say we submissive males who can be feminised are easy to spot. I would love to know what signals we must give off lol
Hopefully I might be able to locate Yours and Stephs blog and read more of your journey. As Lady A will confirm, I have already been enthralled by Her progress with Alice – so much so that i have finally started to be more open with my own gorgeous Wife. Though I am at a loss sometimes as to how to open the door for Her to assume Her rightful position of Power. The more I read of Yours and Lady A’s empowering journeys makes me wonder how other Ladies find Their way to embracing Their superiority as well. Sorry Mistress K for the long post. And sorry Lady A (and Cathy and Katrina) for perhaps not asking either of You for more leadership – i do not want to impose…You are all truly magnificent Ladies and i am Yours to inspire always X X x
There is never any problem in receiving long posts Colly. The whole idea of my blog is to fascilitate the promulgation of flr, femdom and male feminisation. The more words on these topics the bettet
Gasp! females rule!!!!!!!!!!
ohh god! i am going to feint!
Are you going to feint or faint? Maybe both?
Faint!!!!!!!!!!
Lady Alexa… Your site grows more amazing with each passing day. Most exciting is the increasing proliferation of Female Masters who are entering and adding to the link! Especially enlightening and heartening are the commentaries from Women, who originally introduced to Female Superior lifestyle from Their male mates ‘fantasies’ have found in Themselves TRUE understanding of Female power.
How precious and exhilarating it must have been to awaken to understand that now Female Master-male girl relationships were what are the natural hierarchy and that They should rule and control direction with Their goals holding full priority. And oh how many if not all male girl mates likely find them selves bewildered by sudden realization of their never again being in control of virtually anything… or even being ‘men’ again.
It is so delightful sensing the mirth, amusement and pride of Females who write You knowing now THEY have full and permanent control over properly submissive and feminized male girls who shall never again exert false ‘masculine’ ego.
Yes you’ve picked up on an important part of my enjoyment of feminisation. That is it’s highly amusing for me to see Alice in ever more feminine outfits
Lady Alexa… know with great joy, mirth and fulfillment that You and Your Female Masters-in-arms are forever changing the landscape of the hierarchy of the sexes. Your Female Sex shall in but a few generations hold full sway over a race of feminized male girl subordinates that shall never again dare or be able to re-establish false ‘masculine’ privilege over Woman again.
sensational!!
The thing is, I don’t want to be feminized. Although, I LOVE reading about it, especially your blog.
I am very turned on (gulp!) when I hear about your exploits and devilish deepening of “Alice’s” journey into femininity. Turned on does not fully describe my feelings!
You paint this world of erotic enchantment that blows my mind. And your followers write sizzling comments as well further turning up the heat.
Your thinking about it all is fascinating and titillating of course. It is a true mindf*ck.
So, if I never slipped on a panty, I would still get off reading about your steamy exploits.
With the start of June and our second month living a FLR, my focus is on increasing my husband’s feminization and removing masculinity from her. My husband is a big sports fan and this past weekend would have been spent watching basketball, hockey, baseball, golf, and other sports. Instead, her weekend consisted of household duties, a trip to the salon to have her hair done and a mani/pedi, shopping for more clothes and shoes with her first bra fitting, and my friends Donna and Jackie coming over Saturday night for an evening of servitude and humiliation. Sunday was spent doing more household duties, makeup lessons, walking practice, and voice feminization lessons. No sports at all, LOL!! Our house has never been cleaner and more orderly!
Selina is going to work more feminine than ever and we have a meeting on Wednesday with the head of HR to discuss her transitioning to working as a woman. The company is committed to diversity and believes people being themselves leads to a happier and more productive employee. The woman from HR is excited to assist Selina in becoming her ” true self”
So not only am I increasing her feminization but just as importantly removing masculinity from her. I am considering hormones but have not reached a final decision on that yet. June is going to be an exciting month in our marriage!
love it…
This all sounds quite exquisite Katrina. I agree that removal of masculinity goes with feminisation. I don’t personally want to put my Alice on hormones but I love your idea of making your husband go to work as a woman
Hello Lady Alexa. Still trying to move my feminisation along at this end and who knows maybe my beautiful wife will decide she would like to go further some day. I was wondering how You were coming along with Alice and her development? It’s been a while since You started on her pumping etc and with all the truly inspirational stories from the other magnificent Ladies in the comments here, i haven’t forgotten (and never will) that it was your work with Alice that first gave me hope and take the first step and be open with my own Superior. i hope that You might give an update on the lovely Alice soon X X X
I’ve been tied up on other projects so not had time to update my blog much. I should be freer in a week or so
I look forward to Your latest news. Hope You’re not working too hard meantime and Alice is treating You well when You get home every day xx
So Katrina as a veteran, guiding my fully made up ” wife” Stephie through many a shopping trip, salon visits ” bra fittings” my favorite way to emasculate her. Lol! How did Selina react
. Did you enjoy the experience/ power.. also we’ve gotten different reactions from sales ladies, most seem quite accommodating, get a kick out of it asked me , questions.. and Stephie when I allow her to answer. What size, type of forms do you have Selina in?
Dear Ms Katerina
Thank you for your posts. It is great to hear how you took control of your relationship and are feminizing your sissy husband! How did the meeting with the head of HR go? What does your sissy wear to the office? Please us more about your shopping trip with your sissy husband. What colours did you choose for his mani/pedi? What shoes and clothes did you buy?
*curtsy*
Philipp
Hello Katrina!
What a Delight it has been to follow your Story, and what a Great Service you are doing for Womankind. It is truly nice to see Women taking Control of their men, and Feminizing them, and having them become Pretty and Obedient!
You had mentioned that your husband liked sports. I have a “Devious” suggestion, if you are up to it. It could be very amusing for you and other Women that think that Females should take Control and humiliate and dominate men and boys. I don’t know if you live in the U.S or not, but there are many Women’s Sports Teams that compete all over the place. Seeing how men and boys were the “Sole” participants in sports as early as 50 years ago, a very humiliating thing could be to dress Selina up in a very feminine outfit, with all the makeup jewelry, dainty shoes, purse, earrings and such…a short skirt, with delicate nylons, the take him to a Women’s Sporting event. Right now Women’s Professional Football is in season, but there is also softball and baseball, as well as Women’s basketball. Female Boxing and MMA Fights. The point being, most of the Women that follow these sports are “Tough Tomboy” types, always wearing pants and being actually “Macho”. What better way for Women to show their Superiority than to have Pretty, dainty males in their presence. while Women are Competing and being Dominant!
It is just a thought. Gender Role Reversal is happening more and more, and it is really nice to see what Wonderful Women as yourself and Lady Alexa are doing to subdue men and boys, and Take Control of Society to make it Better!
Patti
I’m still undecided on hormones Lady Alexa. I am considering implants as well. I just love the thought of completely feminizing Selina. I have her on a strict diet, am doing waist training with a corset, and feminizing her voice will be a big step in the process. I am working towards her living full time as a woman and plan to achieve it this month.
Her “cute princess” being in a state of arousal when while cleaning, serving, etc is a way to insure her obedience and humiliate her. When my friends were over we had a contest to see who could decorate her princess the best. Selina also served us wearing a “Gillian” maid uniform that Donna purchased from The Birch Place online. She was such a cute sissy in it and she wore it most of the day Sunday.
On another note, my friend Jackie is warming to the idea of feminizing her husband and has actually gotten him to wear panties a few times. Donna and I am encouraging her to continue moving forward. She is seeing the benefits I’ve received from making Selina my sissy housewife.
Life is wonderful!!
Each relationship like yours, mine, Lady A ‘s is different is what I’ve found. Hormones/ implants are a big step, like Lady A unless I’ve missed a post , I will not be putting Stephie on hormones, HRT. I find it more empowering, exciting the way I’ve trained ” her” made her my sissy wife etc… the Aphrodite D forms with Divine Lexi 60 nipples are quite realistic and will even stay on without a bra , medical spray adhesive. But Hormones, implants are the decision of the Mistress in the relationship… follow your instincts … whatever you do tho keep Selina feminized, emasculated and make her know this is not a game as you said before in a post, this is real , rules etc… I started Stephie off saying we should try this for fun, made it a bit of a game at first but kept leading her further and further into the lifestyle ?
Dear Ms Katerina
It is amazing how quickly you move towards full time feminization! Which of your friend decorated her “cute princess” the best? That Gillian Sissy French Maid uniform is extremely pink, frilly and girly! A male wearing it can only be an obedient sissy maid for his Mistress.
Great that your friend Jackie is starting to feminize her husband too. Please keep us updated on her progress. Her husband will make an obedient sissy housewife, just like your Selina!
*curtsy*
PLEASE!!! Jackie, Take the Lead given here! Another Feminized male, prancing around in Pretty dresses, Serving a Strong Woman is yet another step for a Better Society! It will be Wonderful if Jackie Feminizes her husband, and then Selina could have someone to Play Dress Up with!………That should amuse you three Ladies!!! LOL
wow. great stuff….
There is no doubt that every relationship is different when it comes to just how far our feminization goes, like most though it does start off as a game and the more willing we are to try new things the further we are drawn into it and obviously the more a woman finds an emasculated male more to her liking than a macho jerk who thinks he’s God’s gift to women. It’s no wonder this lifestyle works so well and moves from playful fun to accepting our feminization and as our feminine wardrobe grows we instinctively know this is for real, rules and all.
When it come to hormones or implants I’m guessing most couples have playfully had this discussion especially when we are accustomed to wearing our bras and breast forms on a daily basis. The down side is they are cumbersome to say the least and don’t work well with half cup bras and low cut tops when we want to achieve a natural looking cleavage and that has a negative effect on the feminine feelings we experience. However it seems most Mistress’ including my own are happy with our breast forms and discussions about hormones or implants are just another way to tease and bring us deeper into our feminine side. No complaints here.
I think you’re right. I do enjoy teasing Alice about more permanent feminisation such as real boobs and reducing her clitty size but although the idea is fun I wouldn’t go that far
Lady A, i wonder if Alice ever had her ears pierced after all and how does she interact with other women on a day to day basis i.e. those who may not be aware of her progress?
Curtsey
Colly x x
No she’s not had her ears pierced. We have two personalities and when in male mode she interacts as a male although she is comfortable in women’s presence
Thank You Lady A x
Thanks for the replies Mistress K and Jenn. You both make good points about keeping the husband male, but sissified. Hormones would definitely change that and I am leaning towards implants for Selina. I also enjoy her arousal while being feminized. Our meeting at her work went very well and it looks like a 2-3 month process to have her working completely as a woman. The company is very accepting and wants to insure she transitions smoothly and is accepted by her co workers. We are working on voice feminization, makeup lessons, and female mannerisms. One of the most rewarding aspects of my being the leader of our marriage is for 20+ years my husband bought me alot of lingerie and frequently hounded me about wearing only lingerie around the house. Now he is being made to wear only lingerie at home and also when I have my friends over. I love seeing my husband dressed in the way he always wanted to have me dress.
wow,,, hot!!!!!!
Sounds great Katrina…good luck! And tho I’ve always been pretty dominant many times in my 20’s in relationships men were always pushing the lingerie thing at me, thongs, garterbelts etc… Love you having the power now like many of us by saying ok your my sissy now, keep shaved, waxed, stay in skimpy lingerie all the time! I loved that with Stephie her resistance to feminization at first but now she loves lingerie! I still get to make her squirm tho when I take her lingerie, skirts, dresses, heels shopping . I make it a point to make sure the sales ladies/ girls know who the things are for, have Stephie ask them questions etc.. having them there when she’s trying he on dresses, skirts, blouses..she looks pretty good, feminine wise all dressed but everyone can tell what she is… AND I LOVE IT. So empowering. Public emasculation❤️ So may I ask what size implants? I hope you make them fairly large so Selina can see how it is carrying that weight around all the time?Stephie is in her D forms pretty much all the time. So it’s implants for Selina but are you doing the hormones also? Reads like you are..keep her serving you , obeying it’s a great life for we women ??
Dear Mistress K
You sound very dominant making your sissy squirm having to try on dresses, skirts, lingerie and high heels when shopping for these items and ensuring the sales ladies know for whom the items are. Do you choose his clothes and shoes, Mistress K? It must be very humiliating and emasculating having to try on a bra, panties, a dress or high heels in public.
It is indeed a great life for women having an obedient sissy at your back and call.
*curtsy*
It is indeed a great life
Lady Alexa I don’t mind the teasing about having real boobs knowing just how permanent my feminization would become and neither of us are ready for that just as you are with Alice. For sure the idea is fun and the scenarios of having more fashion choices both at home and publicly are delightfull. I like how both Mistress K and Katrina mention that for sissies it’s pay back time for the lingerie we bought for our wives expecting them to arouse us, guilty as charged! Now that the shoe is on the other foot we have learned our mistakes, wearing flimsy lingerie and having real boobs seems a deserving “punishment” and the thought of wearing a half cup or sheer bra is much more appealing than wearing a full coverage or long line bra to hide the edges of my breast forms. I’m sure you ladies agree that fake boobs even as lifelike as good ones are just don’t cut it.
No fake boobs don’t really work
I just want to compliment you,Lady Alexa, for not only your fine blog but for your kind dedication to replying to those who respond with their comments. Thank you for your precious time and patience to communicate and inform so many us here. Love you.
Nice of you to say so Rhonae. I try to dispel the fantasy that mistresses are all aggressive and abusive dragons. We’re not we’re normal everyday women but with a predilection for being in charge. Oh and having our men submissive and feminised.
Unfortunately most men assume that dominant women wear corsets, stockings, stiletto heels and are solely interested in inflicting pain. Women don’t have to be a stereotype dominatrix to be in charge of a relationship but forceful in other ways to achieve the upper hand. Feminization is obviously a popular way or none of us would be here to exchange thoughts and ideas in our own relationships which for some is kept behind closed doors. It is for this reason Lady Alexa that I am thankful you are providing valuable insights into this wonderfully fascinating and rewarding lifestyle. Knowing what women other than my wife enjoy about feminized males gives me a great understanding of my own journey. A heartfelt thank you for sharing such intimacy.
well said!!
So nice to get back to your blog Lady A (..curtsy) after too long away…and as aver you have not disappointed. This set of rules is something that most of us who crave to serve a powerful woman would follow without hesitation. i just love your attention to detail and matter of fact approach on this subject. Alice, as i have often said before, is a lucky girl. i hope that one day we could all meet at one of your outings..i would be honoured to be acquainted.
jane x
You just need to get to an event in London Jane….
That would be nice…cj
I’ll let you know when we’re at an event and I expect to see you there looking pretty
I love the rules that have to be followed in your home. Just wish I could live there to follow them.
Greetings Mistress Alexa,
i was wondering what do you think about Dom wives or girl friends who emasculate their hubby’s or boy friends train them, and turn them into sissy slave cock sucking sluts ?
thanks for any guidance or advice Mistress !
sub
I think they are very good
I would love to be trained to be your sissy I want this more then anything but I’m broke I would work off any opportunities that would help me reach any goals that brought me closer to being what I really want I’m a good listener and I follow directions well and humble and would be the happiest girl I could be if this could happen for me
Dear Lady Alexa,.
This question is regarding verbal humiliation. Why do female Dominants seldom, if ever refer to their sub males as pussies? Now I realize that feminists are seeking to reclaim the word, but even before that became an issue,. Domme’s could seldom ever be heard using the word pussy. Why? Thank you for your time.
I use the word pussy to describe my husband’s genitals. Used a a derogatory word it means a coward. Our sissies are submissive and feminine not cowards