Lately I’ve been thinking about CFNM, Clothed Female Naked Man. I’ve always been a natural alpha woman and accused of being bossy countless times. Despite this characteristic of mine, I only discovered the pleasures of true FLR and femdom a few years ago. In some ways I’m still learning things about FLRs.
Using CFNM in a femdom relationship
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Until recently, I mainly employed forced feminization and petticoating on my husband Alice as an means of control and domination. And damn good fun.
Feminisation has the incredible benefit of being extremely exciting for me sexually. When combined with male behavioural modification and improvement, we have a great approach to improved relationships and lifestyle. Which is what all women want, isn’t it?
Later on, I then combined feminisation with the prettification and exposure of Alice’s little winky. It’s so important to feminse and control their winkies. It’s for this reason I’m looking for cock cages for Alice’s little princess.
However, I began to notice the additional humiliation and hence control I had when Alice was exposed. It first hit me when we had two other FLR couples over for an evening of food, fun and femdom. The other mistress removed Alice’s knickers when she was being a bit argumentative.
Alice can be a little casual at times and is prone to giving her opinion and views when not asked, even when feminized in a mini skirt. Once she had been exposed, one of the mistresses made Alice stand in front of her while she told Alice how pathetic her little clitty was.
At that moment I saw a new Alice, a more humble one. Her head was down, she wanted to put her hands over her little thing, which we didn’t allow. When I made her parade up and down in front of us, she was mortified. It cured her of any backchat. I wanted this Alice.
CFNM dangers
Looking for inspiration I did a quick sweep of the web and it seems that it is a bit of a male fantasy, just like ‘forced feminization’. Knowing Alice as I do, I know she enjoys humiliation from time to time.
As regular readers will know, she doesn’t want to be a girl all the time, just as a game, and this is the key. By making her a girl permanently it removes the fantasy element and makes her uncomfortable and controllable. The same needs to be done for CFNM I believe.
When Alice is CFNM, I can wear what I please, which is not Mistress fantasy clothing. For me life goes on as it always has. If I want to wear jeans then I do. If I want to wear sportswear then I will. Just normal everyday clothing. I don’t want to make this into a fantasy for her, it’s not a game. It’s just Alice’s submission to me.
CFNM in real life
By real life I mean in our home. As with everything, nothing is black and white, it doesn’t have to be CFNM or feminization, it can be both. I want Alice to remain as a sissy fairy for life so I’ve started to combine CFNM with feminization for Alice.
Alice will wear make up, wig, earrings, nail varnish, high heels, jewellery. Nothing else. Or a nice female blouse, breast forms, stockings, heels, wig. No panties or skirt. Well I’d already banned panties anyway.
I’m finding this approach to be highly effective. I’ve not experienced Alice quite so submissive before. A new vulnerability has emerged from inside her body. I expect that generally Alice will wear a skirt or dress around the home, especially as it can still get a little chilly in the evenings.
I’ve found a new weapon in my armoury and more importantly, one I love. I wish I’d found FLR and CFNM thirty years ago. I’m trying to make up for lost time.
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Lady Alexa,
You are a treasure beyond words. I once had an elderly, wealthy Mistress who insisted on maintaining a CFnm relationship with me and that always made me feel more submissive and obedient. This kept me in my place as Her personal slave and house servant. It made me realize what my purpose in life was. Now I miss it terribly and wish I could find someone who thinks like You do.
I hope you find someone
I am a man who was never meant” to wear the pants in the family”. And life is difficult when no woman understands. I am sure God is at least 50 per cent female and never meant for me to suffer for the lack of feminine stewardship, as I have. My situation is a major source of what puts so many men behind bars. If only the right woman had understood me! I will serve womankind naked and never put my selfish sexual needs first, and only then might I be worthy of some form of redemption. I wish society would be more tolerant of public cfnm. Kindly acts of labor towards dressed females by naked males will be rewarded eventually. And even if they’re not, they are their own reward!
And this is one of the points I always make, most men need to receive female leadership
Very well said. I couldn’t agree more. The naked male serving women should be normalized. Currently a naked male is seen as perverted and cause for arrest and incarceration. Whereas a naked female is seen as beautiful and a right. Even though female nudity is beautiful and should be seen as just that, we men should be allowed the privilege of serving naked.
I agree, Although I feminised my husband, I also expect her naked before me often
Submission, humiliation and subjugation to a strong woman is divine to a submissive male. Trust me I know.
And so it should be Jennie
OHH yes,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
It’s simple boys are just things for woman and girls to use, embarrass, objectify ,domestic duties the sooner it’s law the better OT society will be.x
Exactly as a cfnm promoter and as a male who is obedient and believes being objectified humiliated and paraded naked for females amusement should be a law in society.
Yes, I agree, Lady Alexa, within my experiences I’ve seen too many men think it a game, merely playtime. For some that very well be, just something to spice up the bedroom but others must understand who are as Dominant Women, it is most definitely a Lifestyle.
Yes it’s all or nothing for me. No games, well not for them.
Yes I agree it’s not a game and introducing a early learning programs in schools clubs and into the homes for girls to get experience and boys to learn there place and to now how a boy satisfies a lady ,we want more woman politicians making laws ensuring all countries are cfnm, and I hate the use of man or man, I only address them as boy’s also it’s important to get more funding for castration so it’s easier if a woman lands with a boy that is impotent or has a tiny wennie that can’t satisfy her she can at least make himeunuch and serve her ,thanks,xx
I agree men need to realise it’s a males job to please woman and if told to strip and be naked the do it male have to satisfy ladies before themselves cfnm needs to be taught early .
would love to find a lady such as yourself and serve her , you have so many great thoughts
When you do find someone remember it’s not a game but real life. Submission is permanent
I dream about this. Being perfumed, blonde wig, lots of tacky jewelry, heavy-slutty make-up. And otherwise naked. Being exposed like this I do really want to cover myself and run away. I cannot. I am a slut, a sissy slut. I hang my head, put my hands behind my back and present myself. It could be presented to your girlfriends or boyfriends to be totally humiliated and teased and made fun of and used and to be forced to her knees or forced to be bent over. Eventually…………
It’s how I like my man
Lady Alexa, please allow me to say once again how incredible you are. You remain an inspiration to so many males and women. If you will allow me I would like to provide my personal views on chastity. Yes chastity can be seen as a male fetish but that fetish usually is eliminated within a day or even a few hours. Chastity is the ultimate in control. a male can still feel ‘alpha’ and in control if he has control over his clitty. When under lock and key there is zero question as to his true owner. The silicon version of the cb6000s has been the most comfortable, but it does allow the male to self pleasure – it may be a good first step but probably not a long term solution. The plastic has far greater control but it can take some time getting used to because it can pinch the scrotum. Please note I would argue that chastity is truly for the benefit of the Mistress and not the male because the Mistress will have access to his clitty whenever she wants and it will be ready for her and locked away when she doesn’t want it. Enjoying CFNM without chastity when you are around and then locking up her clitty when you leave is so impactful. I sincerely hope Alice knows how lucky she really is. I still am conflicted with my need to serve but your posts have pushed me even further down the path of feminization for which I am hesitantly grateful. I will say I have become more respectful to women in my everyday activity, holding the door open, bowing my head when women are around me, not speaking over women which I used to do a lot. You are helping me become a better member of society, thank you.
wow…well stated.. she is the BEST!!!!!!!!
I’m pleased if I have helped you to become more servile when with women
Another gem Lady A…
Another blog that hits a spot….and makes me feel for Alice…as i think, like her, i fancy the idea of the fantasy…but perhaps not the full reality! i can see though, that there is no stopping you, and, it has to be said, that is very erotic. i hope that Alice feels the same…or do i?…..
corsetjane! 🙂
I think that maybe you do but like all men, concerned by the permanence of it. All or nothing is the only choice