I like a good sissy, one who is well-behaved and respectful.
A couple of months ago I spotted a couple in a supermarket and they looked quite normal at first. Then she clicked her finders at him and then wagged her index finger to to tell him to come over to her. When he got to her, she told him off quietly but firmly.
She said softly but firmly that she expected him to come to her much quicker and she’d punish him when they got home. He looked down at the ground in front of her.
From this time I realised that in every day life I can now speak to my sissy husband like this. In fact, that I should speak to her like this.
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I decided it was time to refer to Sissy as a female outside the home too. To call her a good girl and so on.
I tried it and most people don’t notice as they are busy getting on with their own lives. I will also tell my sissy she’s a bad sissy when she hasn’t followed my instructions properly.
I can also get her to do things such as carrying my things obviously, including my handbag, and getting things for me in shops or coffee shops.

For example, in a clothes shop I get her to pick up items of clothing for me with “be a good girl and pass me that” or in a coffee shop, “be a good sissy and get me an Americano.” And so on.
I think the time is right to give her a proper female name. I did used to call her Cindy at times but in the end, I didn’t think it was suitable so I have resisted up to now. I have enjoyed just calling her ‘girl’ and Sissy.
Now I have started to refer to her in the female form outside the home, I realise it would be satisfying to give her a female name. I need to think exactly what and I have some ideas. I’ll announce it here when I’ve decided.
This is an exciting thought for me; I can’t wait to call her by a female name outside the home, in shops and in the street.

My girlfriend and I read your blog all the time and she has been getting some wild ideas. What started as just a bedroom thing is fast becoming a 24/7 thing and I am a little bit excited by it! Keep up the great work. We would love to see some photos of your feminine husband (with his face out of shot of course) so we can see how feminine she really is!
Thank you very much for your comments John. It started the same way for us, some kinky fun in the bedroom which expanded. It’s exciting for us women too to have our menfolk feminised and compliant. To be honest though, once we’d started playing in the bedroom I really wanted more so I kept pushing the boundaries deliberately so I suspect your girlfriend is now doing the same. Go with it. I’ll re-post a couple of photos from much earlier posts for you and your girlfriend (and anyone else who’d like to see) and I’ll take a couple of new ones. Lady A.
What a great idea Lady A. She should now have a pretty feminine name that she should use all the time. As she’s no longer a male but a girl she should stop using her horrible mans name completely. I look forward to hearing what it will be 🙂
Yes I just need to decide on a couple of options. I stopped using Cindy as it was too obvious and I want a nice normal feminine name for her to show the normality of her life now as a girl.
She is rapidly becoming so compliant as we all do once in feminine clothing
Curtsey
Sally
Yes, I can still see some resistance in her eyes and some hesitation but she ends up complying. Just what I enjoy.