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THE ON-OFF CHASTITY CAGE SAGA

14 January 2026 by Lady Alexa 24 Comments

Anyone who’s a regular reader here will know I have a love-hate relationship with putting sissies in chastity cages.

I love controlling my sissy husband’s little clitty. I used to use a cage on her from time to time, usually when I’m not at home to keep an eye on things.

On the other side of the coin, I know how much sissies adore chastity cages. So much so, they often put themselves into chastity. Er? How does that work? That’s wearing a cage and then removing it whenever that want to masturbate.

MILKING SISSY

12 December 2025 by Lady Alexa 15 Comments

As regular readers of my blog know, I don’t allow my sissy husband to orgasm. I have many reasons for this, amongst them, the problem that once sissies orgasm, they lose a lot of submission for a day or so and that’s unacceptable.

Another reason is that I don’t like the mess or smell they make when they cum. But there are even more good reasons not to allow a sissy to orgasm. A dominant woman in an FLR should have the focus on her pleasure, not the sissy’s. So it’s best to remove any chance of the sissy getting pleasure so they can concentrate on their Mistress without any distration. And of course, it’s so much fun to tease them mercilessly. I don’t know why every Mistress doesn’t set this rule.

But I am conscious there may be health reasons connected with not allowing a sissy release. I don’t know and I’d prefer not to allow a release whatsoever, but to be sure, I milk my sissy husband once a month.

SISSY DISAPPOINTMENTS

2 November 2025 by Lady Alexa 6 Comments

Sissies can be such big disappointments at times. They seem to forget that their role is to serve a Mistress like me, and to be submissive and respectful. It’s not always their fault, sometimes things can’t be helped. Mostly it’s their fault.

I’d hoped to be writing about a very naughty sissy dinner party last Thursday but, in the end, the logistics of getting four sissies together and Girl and I at short notice didn’t work. Life and stuff intervened. I don’t blame anyone for that, there is more to life than being a Mistress or a sissy unfortunately. We’ve penciled in a future date for the next level of my sissy husband’s journey to something far sissier. Is sissier a word?

But sometimes, sissies are disappointments. They get so caught up in being a sissy, they often forget their place in the world of Female Domination and sissy submission.

SISSY GAMES

22 September 2025 by Lady Alexa 21 Comments

One of the great things about writing a female-led relationship blog is that we find others in our lifestyle. They contact me either in the comments or, more often, privately though my contact form or email, ladyalexa@mail.com. All of our contact with those in the FLR and forced feminisation/sissy world is thanks to this blog.

One of our longer-term FLR friends are also from London, and around our age. They emailed me years ago after reading our adventures here. I’ll call them Mistress Ruth and Sissy Linda. We meet and communicate with them regularly. Sometimes it’s entirely vanilla, such as a meal in a restaurant, although we always end up chatting (quietly) about FLR and feminisation. Other times, we’ll meet at either home for sissy games.

The last time we met, it was for sissy games at their house.

AN FLR DYNAMIC

9 June 2025 by Lady Alexa 19 Comments

An FLR dynamic is forever twisting and turning, morphing and transforming. That’s probably the same in any relationship, FLR or vanilla. One month I think our FLR should work one way, and another month, I change my mind and the whole dynamic changes. One thing that affects any FLR is outside influence and changing lifestyle, another is the experiences we have.

Our FLR has twisted and turned again, such as in my on-off-on-off relationship with chastity cages. One moment I think they’re useful, the next they irritate me, especially when I think a sissy enjoys them just a little too much and uses them as a technique for delayed sissy gratification.