I haven’t covered the area of obediance and discipline too much before. That’s because I believe a wife led marriage with attraction, affection, love and a feminised husband is normal and disvipline particualy sounds harsh. But it’s necessary in a female led relationship to maintain standards.

In a wife-led relationship with a feminised sissy husband, discipline is a key part of the deal and we are no different to any other couple in this regardMy sissy husband has the housewife tasks to perform and above all, he has to show respect and devotion to the Lady of the house at all times. That’s me.

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I therefore have two types of discipline: management discipline and punishment discipline.

Management discipline is the everyday discipline that I use to manage our wife-led relationship and ensure obedience.

Punishment discipline is obvious and occasionally necessary.

Management Discipline

I will spank my girlie husband when I feel like it. This is not associated with any misdemeanor that her girlie will have done. I believe that management discipline is vital for any female-led relationship to ensure that standards never slip and to demonstrate who is in charge.

The discipline can be a number of things:

1. I use a belt to spank my girlie.My husband has to bend over, drop her knickers to her ankles and raise her skirt to show her bare bottom. I will spank it with a belt. I feel the belt is a very suitable article to demean her girlie husband with.

2. I use a riding crop using the same approach as above but I usually do this when feeling ‘mistressy’.

3. Iwill use a hair brush or bare hand as for 1 and 2.

4.I will tell my girlie to drop her kickers and raise the front of her skirt/dress to expose her pussy and clitty stick. I slap sissy’s clitty stick with my hand, slapping it from side to side

On other occasions Iwill tell my gsissy to hold out her clitty stick by holding the end. I then slap her clitty with a ruler or with a riding crop.

5. Clothing discipline. I ensure humiliation every so often by ensuring that sissy wears something extremely humiliating.

For example, my husband will have to wear a very short and frilly pink tutu skirt that doesn’t actually cover her pussy. Sissy will not be permitted to wear knickers, just the skirt and a pink blouse. Oh, and 4 inch heels to accentuate the showing.

6. Clitty and pussy decoration. Aside from slapping it, I occasionally decorate sissy’s clitty stick and pussy when she’s feeling artySissy will not be permitted to wear knickers or a skirt for the evening, just high heels, stockings and a top.

I may tie a pink bow around girlie’s clitty and pussy, or paint it nice colours with pink or yellow body paint. I may also tie beads and rings around it or maybe clip things to it such as hanging earrings. I will possibly tie little bows into the small triangle of pubes above girlie’s shaved clitty stick.

Sissy has to then wear these decorations on her pussy and clitty for the whole evening. Funny.

7. Sissy must always curtsey after serving me something or doing something for her. Failure to do so will lead to the next stage below.

Punishment Discipline:

This is used for any misdemeanor that girlie may do and annoys me. It could actually be for anything so is difficult to list anything specific. Maybe sissy was too slow to serve a drink, maybe she forgot to curtsey which is something that happens far too often.

Maybe sissy was getting too fond of wearing a beautiful dress and forgot to compliment me on my beauty. All the punishments involving spanking above are used, often with a bit more force. The belt has become my favourite of late.

When sissy is becoming too immersed in her own femininity and forgets about me, I make her to remove all her clothes and remain naked for the rest of the day/evening. After a good spanking with the belt that is.

Obediance and discipline

I have to keep on top of things to stop my sissy forgetting the situation in which we live. I feel that all ladies in this type of relationship need to do the same.

Selfishness or complacency will always creep into a sissy husband’s thinking and this needs to be spotted and stamped on immediately and eradicated through punishment.