The changing seasons bring different opportunities for FLR and feminization. Summer is particularly good fun as the higher temperatures allow for less clothing. Less clothing for my husband Alice that is. Less clothing means she is even more girly.
So what are the hot summer rules in our FLR home?
WHAT I EXPECT IN AN FLR
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To start with, there are three things I expect from my FLR marriage:
- I have to be in charge – obvious I suppose, but I like to say it.
- My husband Alice has be be a girl. I don’t mean a woman or a real female. No, I what I mean is a girly-girl feminised male.
- To be loved and worshipped and put first by my husband Alice
1 and 3 are pretty much a given, but I have to work on point 2 and keep on top of things. I like to push on with making Alice even more girly looking. To be honest, I enjoy thinking of new things to impose on Alice to keep her on her toes. And to keep things exciting.
Yes it’s exciting for me too to have a submissive girly husband.
It’s fundamental to me, for our FLR to work, for my husband Alice to be feminised. I cannot countenance her wearing anything other than pretty female clothing at home with some make-up and jewellery.
I don’t expect her to be a cowering submissive, but I do want her looking girly. It’s so important for me.
So back to the point. Summer gives me a few ideas to spice things up. Here they are.
SUMMER SKIRTS AND DRESSES
Summer means pretty colours, flowery patterns, skimpy dresses and very short skirts. Lovely. What’s not to like seeing your girly husband dressed as a pretty girl?
My first summer rule is the length of skirt. I prefer Alice in skirts no longer than 8 inches max. in this weather. This brings the hem of Alice’s skirts, or dresses, to an inch or so below her little clitty bulge in her knickers.
If she has no knickers on, then it just covers the end of her little clitty princess.
We recently bought a very pretty summer dress together for her in a clothes shop. The dress is in white with red roses flowing over it. It’s a very fine material with thin shoulder straps. And it’s very short but it flows beautifully around her legs when she walks. Exquisite. I know Alice enjoys that feeling.
We know her size now – 16 UK. We don’t bring the shop workers into our lifestyle as we think that’s unfair, some may not understand. However, we look together for her female clothing and I ask her to tell me which one she prefers.
We queued together to buy it but she has to hold it and pass it to the cashier and pay. I stand by her as she does so. With an enormous grin.
SUMMER EXPOSURE
I quite enjoy looking at the male body if it is pretty, slim, feminine and smooth. Even the male clitty can be attractive when it is shaved, feminised and prettified. Alice has nice long legs, is slim, has a feminised clitty and pussy so she ticks many boxes.
This means I like to ogle her and to play. She is my own plaything; I’m sure most women would love to have one too. I’m a lucky woman to have found someone I can mould and who has grown to like it.
At times in summer, I like Alice to be more-or-less naked around the home. Jewellery, a bikini top or sport’s bra and maybe a cute little ribbon around her clitty and that’s it. Exquisite don’t you think?
Of course, I would never abuse my position and do anything nasty or something Alice really doesn’t enjoy. The fun of an FLR is both enjoying it, even if I do have to push Alice along from time to time.
FLR AND FEMINIZATION RESTRICTIONS
Since Alice’s feminisation is somewhat of a secret lifestyle, we have to be careful. We don’t want to give any elderly neighbours a heart attack at the sight of my husband in a tiny white summer dress.
With the evenings so light in London in summer, we have to obscure the windows. This means the windows need to be covered with a light voile.
They let the light in but stop prying eyes.
This was Alice’s job recently, to finish this work. She’s been putting up curtain poles to take the new voile curtains. It’s a shame she still feels the need to keep the fact she’s a girly secret from most people, but it is what it is at the moment.
SUMMER FLR AND FEMINIZATION
I enjoy the opportunities to change things around and summer is a great time for this. I have always preferred Alice to look very girly and summer gives me this option.
Making your husband a girly-girl does have massive benefits. Not only are they much more attractive, but also much more submissive. It’s a bit difficult to be macho when dressed in an eight-inch-long pleated mini skirt?
Do let me know what you do differently in the summer time in your FLR and feminization lifestyle.
Alice looks so sexy and sissy-fem — good job. Tell us more.
Robbie
Dear Lady Alexa, I have also been feminized by Mistress. She has recently spent time training me on posture. I am now required to sit at all times with my knees together and legs crossed at the ankles while slightly tilting them off to the side. My back must be straight. She has also trained me how to stand for photos with one foot behind the other and slightly turned. This has now become a requirement whether dressed in fem or male clothing. I have heard comments when dressed in male but Mistress insists that most men have poor posture and she doesn’t want to stare at there “junk”, when sitting across from them.
Do you have any posture rules or thoughts on this? I just found your blog and I really enjoy it.
Thank you for taking time to read this.
Thank you for your comments on your feminisation. I do continuously nag Alice about her posture and how she has to sit down demurely and not throw herself into a chair
Dear Lady Alexa
Thank you for the lovely blogpost.
For me summer, it is not just about pretty summer dresses and sexy short skirts but also about cute, strappy summer sandals and a lovely pedicure. Do you make Alice wear a pretty, delicate and feminine sandals and open toed strappy heels? So he could show off his painted toes?
*curtsy*
Alexa, 30 Aug 19
I like your topic and have been enjoying the summer dress for both myself and my hubby (Sarah). Hard to believe we are almost back to boot season again. Since most of the variations in our lifestyle happen when we travel during warmer months, I will share our recent experience from our summer visit to my Mother’s house. As I occasionally do, I decided when we leave town, that Sarah should wear a top, bra, short skirt and sandals with a heel while we travel however he could change in the car before we arrived into shorts, sandals with a small heel and take off the bra. I prefer not to shock my mother! While there and dressed in normal male shorts and shirt, he made the mistake of bending over in front of my mother to tie a shoe and his lace thong panties showed in the back. Later, she asked me why he was wearing my panties. I ended up explaining that they were his. I was not sure how she would take it, but surprisingly, she had a good laugh and decided that we needed to go shopping. She always enjoys buying me clothes when we visit but this time she invited my hubby. She started to harass him over his panties and suggested he might prefer a skirt or dress (little did she know). I had thought it best not to admit to all the other women’s clothes he had. We had a couple different days of walking dress shops, department stores, etc and insisted he join us. My mother kept poking at him about what he wanted to try on and picking things off the racks to hold up to see how he looked, laughing and enjoying herself. She even embarrassed me in front of other shoppers and store clerks. She ended up buying him a cute pair of polka dot, girl pajamas with little bows on the front, a nice skirt (knee length), women’s pants and a pair of shorts. She bought me clothes also but thought she was being really funny with my husband. Between us, he really enjoyed most of it (except the embarrassing moments) but tried to act like this was all new to him when we were with my mother. She expected him to be in the girl pajamas for breakfast and in the evenings and to wear the skirt around the house. Although when there he always helps, she kept insisting he should do the dishes and help clean (while wearing the skirt and sandals), which he did. When we left her house to drive home I told him to wear the skirt and walk out to the car just like it was normal. I think that surprised my mother. After we got home I called to let her know we were home safe and thanked her for the clothes she bought us. I told her I decided the skirt was a good idea and I would expect him to do more of the same in the future. She kind of agreed but I wonder what she really thought? Maybe I feel better having had this experience with my mother and can be more open about our lifestyle but we will see how things progress!!
Do let us know how this lovely story progresses
How does Alice deal with bra sweat ? It’s seriously uncomfortable.
The same as any girl
I love summer, I love beaches and bathing. Two months ago, I put my husband in a bikini. His penis is small 2 inch flaccid and 3.8 erect. I packed it nicely in bikini.
It looked nice. balls like pussy, but his willy suddenly went into an erection and pulled his bikini away from his body. It looked disgusting.
– Go into the water, I told him. I was very embarrassed
-What is it?, a fifty-year-old woman asked me.
– Big clitoris.
– So small breasts and big clit?
We ran off the beach.
Now two months later we are back on the beach. He no longer has a spontaneous erection (MTF HRT) so we can both enjoy ourselves.
Very nice
That can be very embarrassing indeed. Hormones certainly cure that issue but if they aren’t an option then a bit of retraining will work as well. The idea is simple reward good behaviour and punish bad. My ex- decided that was the way for me to go. After being restrained she used a vibrator on my weenie and stopped as soon as it started to erect. Once it was flaccid again she resumed. If it didn’t go down she whacked it with a very stiff bristle brush. After about a week things started to improve and within a month inappropriate erections were history.
She was much happier next time at the beach and, because I wore a nicer bikini so was I.
I personally prefer it that Alice gets erections for two reasons but everyone has different relationships and all are valid if consenting. I have obvious use for Alice’s erections but the second use is control. In fact when she’s naked I expect a permanent erection on show most of the time but no release. It’s fun
Lady Alexa,
Robert needs to succumb to the flowery, pretty scents of the Lady’s perfume which is spritzed on him. As scents have a relaxing effect on me, it was all that was needed for me to relax all of my muscles and gradually develop into a delicate, properly polished, and elegant subordinate husband.
After awhile all that represents the vulgarity of masculinity just melts away. Flowery and flowy dresses are the best way to celebrate summer. The feeling of the delicate fabric gently brushing against my freshly shaven legs under pantyhose is just perfect. Such a pretty feeling.
My Lady is very conservative. So She makes me have a coordinated linen jacket draped over my shoulders. She says it makes me look like the proper delicate girly girl she wishes for me to be.
Your obedient servant.
Stephan(ie).
Very good Stephanie, exactly how a male should be
Lady Alexa,
Thank you very much. After complete and total immersion in this culture, I wouldn’t consider any other way of living. It’s simply delightful to be able to look and feel so elegant and delicate at all times. As She always has superior judgement, I have no more worries or stress-inducing thoughts as I do not make any more decisions with regards to anything.
My only care in the world is to be completely obedient to Her and to be obsessed with having my attire look right, my skin to be soft and sweet smelling from head to toe, and my hair, makeup, and nails to be perfectly flawless. Anything less would be in conflict with the natural order.
Your obedient servant
Stephanie
It’s a Woman’s World😀you don’t get to pick and choose at all ok? You do as instructed or you aren’t a true sub Husband my dear ok‼️
Yes, Ma’am.
*curtsy*
That’s better! It’s the only true way !
Yes, Ma’am. Thank you, Ma’am.
*curtsy*
Robert you have the wrong web site. You don’t have a choice.
Totally Agree
I wouldn’t wear a skirt full-time, but I would be so down to wearing a kilt in the kitchen.
That’s a skirt, right?
Well you see, if you were in an FLR with a dominant lady, what you get to wear is not your decision. Do you think my husband gets to choose his clothing style? It sounds as if what you want is to top from the bottom. That’s not an FLR but a male dominant play
This has been a fun and interesting summer. Rompers, mini dresses, short shorts, see through tops, tanks, wearing a pink bikini at the beach, sandals showing her painted toes, and more revealing, skimpy clothes are a regular thing for Selina! We recently had a girls night out at an outdoor concert with a few women from Selina’s work. While the rest of us wore shorts, capri’s, or longer dresses, Selina wore a very short cold shoulder white dress with pink flowers on it, a pink flower in her hair, and strappy sandals. She was sooo cute! The ladies that joined us know about our FLR and think it’s great! Until our FLR started, my husband always wanted me wearing skimpy, revealing clothes so now she gets to wear them! While she blends well in public, even more so now that she has breast implants, she still has an Adams Apple and is a feminized male, not a transgender mtf. As far as shopping goes, we have found most sales associates are understanding and ok with selling clothes, shoes, cosmetics, accessories, lingerie to a feminized male. Selina is self conscious at times but that just adds to the fun! Even though we’re out and about more, Selina still takes care of the household chores and is always dressed in either lingerie or skimpy/revealing clothes while doing so.
Good point about feminised male not mtf transgender. This is exactly what my Alice is – a feminised male
July 2018. When our husbands left us at a pool. We had to walk, the eight of us in bikinis. Not far but it took us 10 minutes in flip flops. We all had bikini tan lines.
Lady Alexa. My Owner too loves me dressed prettily and She bought me a lovely maxi dress this summer. She is learnign photography and so enjoys using me as Her muse whilst She practices and perfects Her craft. She also has me dress-up as a secretary when i am workign from home in short skirt and blouse with heels and i am expected to still answer the door/take deliveries dressed as i am – which sometimes surprises our neighbour and the delivery people but i do not believe causes offence. Lastly, She also has me go outside on occasion to the park or the bus stop in stockings/skirt and heels, which is nerve-wracking but fun.
Like you we too live in London and i find it a very tolerant place where people genuinely don’t bat an eyelid about what one wears. i hope Alice gets to explore the outdoors at some point and some of London’s beautiful park. It’s a whole new senstaion walking through them in a skirt or dress in summertime. i love the summer dress you bought Alice, very pretty.
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I might try it with Alice then.
Girly attire doesn’t always have to mean short. Long, lightweight, flowy skirts made of gauze material can be very feminine, summery and girly. especially when matched with a similar type top. Now envision it as a swim cover-up where you can see the swimsuit enough through the material to know it is there. A very girly vision as I might also add lace ribbons in her hair, sexy sandals with well manicured and polished toenails, medium large hoop earrings, etc. etc. etc.
It doesn’t but I prefer Alice in short skirts
Lady Alexa. Once again I am so jealous of Alice. I loved the article that you wrote about summertime. I couldn’t agree more. Summer is great for short skirts and flirty dresses of which I love both. I am not in a FLR relationship just a sissy who wishes she could be feminized like Alice. I am serving a dome on line not a professional but she is my Goddess. She prefers me to be naked when home as much as possible. I do get to wear cute girly clothes when I have to do a request of hers so that is good. I am older and my hopes of being in an FLR dwindle every year. I hope that you and Alice have a very enjoyable summer.
Donnagirl
Thank you Donnagirl, here’s hoping you find your ideal mistress
Dear Lady Alexa
An insightful read as always. Summer dresses are like catnip for me and Alice looks truly beautiful in hers. Well done on the choice….. especially without trying on in store!!
Yes summer brings out the sissy in me for certain . What a pity it doesn’t do the same for ladies looking to take control of their sissies.
Inspired as ever,
Holly xx
But it does for me
Currently on my own but pursuing HRT. I meet a lot of women and am always counting on a femdom’s instinct for sniffing out a potential slave. I have recommended Alice take pueraria mirifica, obtainable from Misolima Limited, but as I am not a salesman, I will leave it at that. I wish Lady Alexa the best of luck in her endeavors and pledge my undying loyalty to FLR and encouraged feminization of the male.
You really do treat Alice look Beautiful without all the sexual gimmicks shown on the Net.I truly Commend you x Love Julie x oh and Tiny x
Thank very much. A true FLR is a loving relationship. Feminisation of our husbands is a loving act. And very effective for their behavioural change too of course. A win-win 😄
My Tiny takes pueriara. Mirifica every day as done for 4 months now I have him(Her) waxed and in a totally female world now She as budding Breasts and they are starting grow weekly and her masculinity is all but Gone so thank you for all your advice x Julie x and Tiny
Ooh sounds lovely. Do send me a photo of her little breasts – ladyalexa@mail.com
Will do x
Got them thank you. Very nice titties
Mistress/wife has asked me to endorse the use of pueriara mirfica. After a number of years taking it my breasts are now a b or c size, depending on brand, from a once very flat chest. I’m slim so we know it’s not fat. 🙂 Clitty only ever works when mistress/wife takes things into her own hand. !!
belinda
Ooh I wouldn’t want Alice’s clitty to not work properly
Oh it’s not so bad. Mistress is always in control and mistress gets what mistress wants. Clitty always works for her. The up side is nice breasts. Less hair. And less ‘manly’ stuff.
Less body hair I assume you mean?
Thank you Belinda the Pueraria mirifica does work he’s had 5 months now of tablets and cream and the changes are remarkable nice little breasts budding and skin is beautifully softer x Julie
Mistress has had me on PM for a number of years now. We can verify that it does work. Breast are a plus. But there are other benefits. Erections are now at the whim of mistress. Body hair is less, although I’m fair so I don’t have a lot anyway.
Is there away I can send a PM? (Private message)?
juliesheecums@yahoo.co.uk