chastity Archives - LADY ALEXA

MY FLR MARRIAGE

2 April 2026 by Lady Alexa 30 Comments

I have an FLR marriage and lifestyle, and it’s becoming more alternative by the month. It’s a relationship where I can do whatever I want; within reason of course. My husband trusts me entirely and puts himself in my hands. This means we live a lifestyle unlike most couples, but how many would love to live.

I understand that not everyone gets it, and I occasionally get comments here on my blog telling me what a horrible woman I am. I delete them as they are merely the rantings of a person with an inflexible mind. Don’t they see that we live in a wife-led relationship because that’s what we both want?

Let’s look at some of our alternative FLR lifestyle as a recap of where we are.

THE ON-OFF CHASTITY CAGE SAGA

14 January 2026 by Lady Alexa 24 Comments

Anyone who’s a regular reader here will know I have a love-hate relationship with putting sissies in chastity cages.

I love controlling my sissy husband’s little clitty. I used to use a cage on her from time to time, usually when I’m not at home to keep an eye on things.

On the other side of the coin, I know how much sissies adore chastity cages. So much so, they often put themselves into chastity. Er? How does that work? That’s wearing a cage and then removing it whenever that want to masturbate.

THE CHASTITY CAGE SAGA

27 January 2025 by Lady Alexa 53 Comments

In the past, I wasn’t keen on locking my sissy husband into a chastity cage. I had two main reasons for this. Firstly, I liked access to her little bits as I love to play with them and to tease her. Secondly, I have a view, that I haven’t changed, that sissies often prefer chastity cages more than their mistresses. That put me off.

However, my views have developed over time with changes to our FLR and I now like to lock my sissy away. Here’s what changed.

A SISSY HUSBAND AND A STRICT WIFE

27 June 2021 by Lady Alexa 99 Comments

The COVID lockdown gave me time to try out new ideas in our FLR and make some changes to my sissy husband. I like to ratchet our FLR up a notch every so often. Changes keep all relationships fresh and exciting, especially in a wife-led marriage.

As a wife-led marriage, it’s all about what I want and what I wanted was something new and fun. That’s exactly what I did.