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MY CHANGING FEMALE LED RELATIONSHIP

4 December 2023 by Lady Alexa 29 Comments

I’m making a few changes in my Female-Led Relationship. Since I’m the female and therefore the lead, that’s normal I guess.

I’ve been making changes for some time, especially increasing the domination aspect of our FLR. I always discuss all the changes I want to make with my sissy husband Alice and proceed from there. If she has a big problem with anything specific, I’ll take things carefully and slowly. In some cases, I’ll drop the ideas if she objects strongly. In most cases, we try it out and it works out just fine. Eventually.

WHY I LOVE FORCED FEMINIZATION

17 November 2023 by Lady Alexa 8 Comments

I’ve had several requests from sissy readers who want to understand what it is that I, and other alpha women, adore about the ‘forced feminisation’, submission and the humiliation of men. In particular, why we love to do this to our partners. Especially as we say we love them.

The question of why I love forced feminization probably needs a doctoral thesis. I’m not going to write a thesis, but I will explain my personal feelings about why I love forced feminization from the dominant lady’s perspective.

THE BENEVOLENT MISTRESS

30 October 2023 by Lady Alexa 14 Comments

There is a fantasy that says that dominant women are tyrants and abusive. In real life, I am a loving, caring and benevolent mistress. As are other mistresses I know who live a female-led relationship.

The idea of the aggressive mistress dressed in black leather, vertiginous heels and brandishing a whip is part of the false narrative around femdom and forced feminisation: the harridan who makes their submissive tremble and inflicts terrible physical punishment on their weak bodies.

This is not true outside of professional mistresses. Although I do sometimes wear the high heels.

A RELUCTANT SISSY

2 October 2023 by Lady Alexa 25 Comments

I’ve often written about the fact that my sissy husband Alice is sometimes a reluctant sissy. This has never completely gone away and can sometimes be a challenge for me. This issue includes her feminisation and my FLR rules.

A mistress has to be aware of slips her sissy may make. They like being sissies but can be lazy and it’s an effort for them to get changed and follow feminine regimes continually. They need a strong woman in charge to keep them in order.

A DOMME’S FLR STORY

14 September 2023 by Lady Alexa 27 Comments

This is a guest post from a real-life domme called Synthia. Synthia lives a similar FLR lifestyle to my own in the way she does things. In both our FLRs, our married lives are led by the lady of the house although some of our methods are different.

Her story, unlike mine, started with her husband expressing an interest to her in the FLR lifestyle. She quickly saw the benefits and it blossomed.

Here’s Synthia’s story.