When you’re feminizing your husband, a documented route-map can be useful. A kind of forced-feminization bucket list. I never thought of this before, but it could be very useful. It helps to consider the goals and the implications for both of you.
Here’s by potential check list for feminizing my husband even further.
I have graded the tasks from EASY to ARE YOU SURE ABOUT THIS? This is useful to consider the implications of feminising your man and for your target male to consider the implications.
I put my husband very quickly into female clothing once I’d decided that feminisation was a great idea. But we’re all different and the end result and what works for a couple is the most important point.
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THE FLR & FEMINIZATION BUCKET LIST
LEVEL 1 – EASIEST
> Grow out my husband’s hair and then for him wear it in feminine styles.
> Call my husband by feminine pronouns, her and she.
> Make him/her wear nail polish on fingers and toes.
> Ensure she wears make-up daily and jewellery.
> Ensure she shaves his legs and body and keeps them silky smooth every day.
> Ensure she wears bra and panties, slips, camisoles, stockings every day.
> Make her work and live at home all day entirely dressed as a woman.
> Give her cute feminine pet names.
LEVEL 2 – THIS COULD BE FUN
> Natural feminine-looking breasts. Exercise, breast pumps and supplements
> Get her to go out dressed as a woman.
> Colour, cut, & style appointment at a female hair salon.
> Get her to do the housework naked or dressed in a maids uniform. (I like this idea).
> Put her in sexy bras, panties, corsets, garters and stockings, and other silky lingerie when we’re intimate.
LEVEL 3 – IF YOU REALLY WANT TO
> Put a tampon inside her bottom/sissy vagina.
> Make her use a maxi-pad in tight panties all day monthly.
> Stretch her little bum out by increasing the size of a butt plug.
LEVEL 4 – NOW YOU’RE REALLY GETTING DARING
> Do a bra fitting/sizing at a department store.
> Go to a bridal boutique and try on wedding gowns with Cathy acting like my maid-of-honour, or sister, or best-friend.
> Go together to an employment agency looking for office-secretary job openings.
> Invite other sissies home for my sissy husband Alice to play with.
> Go to a day-spa have a female masseuse do a 90-minute Swedish massage. Be silky smooth shaved, nails polished, and obvious bra strap indentations in skin on shoulders and deep bra band and strap indents across back. Show cute pink lace panties edges on his hips when she does his legs.
> Schedule a formal psych-counseling appointment presenting Alice as a transitioning TG woman?
> Book a session with a feminine make up artist to make Alice up as a girl
> Take Alice to a beauty parlour for leg and crotch waxing
LEVEL 5 – OH MY, ARE YOU SURE ABOUT THIS?
> Get Alice permanent breast implants at clinic.
> Put Alice in an undersized cock cage to shrink her clitty.
> Book Alice into a place for permanent body hair removal except for a little feminine triangle of hair.
> Take her for injections in her bum to increase the size.
FEMINIZED HUSBAND BUCKET LIST
I’m sure I have some others for my own Alice feminisation bucket list and some we wouldn’t need. For example I’d like pierced ears for my feminisation bucket list for Alice, probably under NOW WE’RE GETTING DARING. Whatever suits each FLR couple.
It would be interesting to hear from others as to what you’d add to the list and the degree of difficulty into which you think they would fit. It might help me. And Alice I suppose.
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hips development plastic surgery is a must
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My Mistress/Wife is considering now a castration and permanent frenulum to keep clit nice and small. I have to agree it is the ultimate surrender for a sissy slave.
Sounds rather drastic. Are you sure?
Lucky girl you are 😔
I occasionally have an opportunity to explore my gender options when my wife is away visiting her sons and their families for a long weekend, and a couple of years ago in my planning for her trip away I ordered a breast and nipple pumping set. I had been taking Saw Palmetto for prostate for a number of years, and had bought some breast growth supplements, including Pueraria Mirifica, which I explained to my wife as additional prostate supplements. I played with the breast and nipple pump set extensively while she was gone, and then on an occasional basis afterwards when I had the chance. After only a few days of pumping my nipples fluid started collecting in the tubes. Just small amounts, but it did gradually increase. I don’t think it ever reached the “milk” state, but my research suggested strongly that I was starting to produce colostrum. As a result I believe that if I had been able to continue with my efforts more regularly (hard to do with a non-supportive wife, unfortunately) I might have actually progressed to lactation. It was thrilling to think about, at least.
I like males to have tits
I wish I had a woman like you you could give me tits as big as you desire and put some tattoos above my clit and pussy
On your clitty more likely
I was first aware of feeling feminine as a child, and that sensation simply got stronger. I’m extremely lucky to have virtually no arm and leg hair, so have never had to shave in those areas. My girlfriend’s way of letting me know she understood was to but me a very sexy bra and panties for Christmas, then a hot minidress for my birthday. We have had our hair and nails done together as well. From my standpoint it just feels so normal and emotionally healthy.
don t think i m young enough, etc. for this kind of stuff….but have no moral problems with it.just a matter of my lack of income ,earning potential if not the generation i am of.seems like this might be a short-term thing.like anything,it might get old after awhile.maybe it s all fictitious propaganda on an insecure site.some idiot is going to hack the computer i m using because of this,i m afraid.the world as i know it doesn t seem to be ready for this on a large scale and may never be in my lifetime.entertaining,nonetheless.this kind of thing ends up frustrating me more than anything else it does…just had to register something…irresisstable.it s delicious,it s delightful.
You’re never too old for feminisation
sounds like somebody had some fun.
I’m single and looking in self feminization since I don’t have any female help. I want to look as female as a genetic female but at age 61 it’s gonna be tough. All I have seen is female demonizing their spouse so they don’t feel guilty about getting sex outside the marriage
I am wondering how much attention Cathy pays to Mary’s breasts daily-in terms of foreplay,comments etc
Also for Mary and Alice-are they practicing getting a femme voice? Is that important to you wives?
What about plug training or wearing 1 in public?
Thank you Lady Alexa
I am surprised that it’s listed under “now you’re really getting daring “, I am going to have to get a bra fitting next month! I have been wearing a bra full time for bout 2 years now but have never had the courage to go in and try them on. I am so nervous! The bra is more of a reminder of my status as a house wife than my chastity cage is definitely. Ladies, put your man in a bra, you will own him!
Every man should wear a bra
ohhh
I wore a bra for awhile. Now I wear a bralette as I am flat chested.
Thank You for the reply Ma’am. I shall certainly be reading through all the posts. This looks a most interesting place.
I will look into that ASAP, so sorry for that.
Not your fault Cathy
Hello Alexa, Quick check in with you that maybe my last few emails did not make it to your INBOX (maybe spam/junk box?), so I thought I would try here in the Reply section of the Blog Posts. I do hope you find my recent emails, if not, email me and I will re-send them. Thanks my dear, -Cathy
I did get them Cathy but my replies were rejected by some spam filter you appear to have on your email?
Wow! :-O
I don’t think I will make this thing ever but I envy him a bit 🙂 This is tantalizingly interesting to me. You are kind of explorers – not of the jungle or deserts but of gender and biology (and even of psychology and culture, I think). So is Lady Alexa with her Alice – with Alice’s nice legs and planned hour-glass figure.
So his milk would probably be suitable for a baby. And he could produce more. Then it would be interesting to find a baby whose mother needs this and does not mind the origin. Perhaps a simple and easy-going woman or a curious, intellectual and daring one. But perhaps it would be too hard to find such one. Anyway, this sounds an exciting experience to me even with his milk production this far.
Could Mike/Mary really lactate? That would be interesting – he could offer his/her milk then for laboratory analysis to see whether its quality would be suitable to feed a baby. Perhaps lots of couples, many men would choose growing male tits if they knew this means a reaal possiblity to feed babies. This way many men could enrich their gender with this possiblity and many young couples of the future could share this feminine basic feature. (I prefer to use “gender enrichement” to “emasculation” or “transitioning” because I think that feminization does not simply deprives men of masculinity or turn them into real biological women just give some plus valuable feminine possibilities to them.)
Hello Thomas, Mike’s combination of very low T (with chronic ED) and elevated levels of estrogen were discussed with his physical at last November’s annual physical. Dr. K. said it’s a combination effect of his age (59) and normal male body changes, with a strong added effect of years of Fenugreek capsules plus the daily progesterone skin massage. Along with daily use of a maternity breast pump provided enough stimulation of the alveoli, mammary glands, and ducts to produce some modest lactation. Mike did drop off at the clinic’s diagnostics lab about 2oz of the cloudy liquid he expressed in a typical pumping session and it was confirmed as “breast milk with very typical levels of protein, fat, enzymes, sodium, potassium, and immunoglobulins”. It was awkward and bit embarrassing for him to have the complete conversation with his Dr. about “WHY” he’s doing the pumping, but suffice it to say, the Dr. is quite progressive in his politics and bedside manner, and simply said Mike could probably continue to produce if he stays on Fenu and progesterone and keeps pumping on a daily basis, as the nipple/aureola get into a routine of regular stimulation.
This recent article in the New York Times shows that male lactation is possible:
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/02/15/health/transgender-woman-breast-feed.html
The comments on the article suggest that many are not ready for males to breastfeed.
Thank you Rene,
Interesting! Thank you!
I don’t have a bucket list. For now I am trying to coax, cajole and convince my hubbette (my pet name for my feminized ex hubby), to have a boob job thru surgery. I don’t believe in using force or compulsion. Although she is almost always obedient and compliant to my desires, she is still hesitant about surgery. I am making progress because now we discuss her tit size rather than whether she should go for enlargement. I am inclined to acquiesce her plea for a moderate 32 inch bust. However I do intend to instruct the surgeon, who I know very well, to give her extra long nipples. I want her nipples to proudly poke out even while she wears her bra. Sometimes I intend to maker go bra less and watch her squirm in embarrassment as her breasts jiggle while she walks.
Hubbette had quickly got accustomed to panties but often bulked at donning a bra in public. Post surgery I expect her to beg me allow her to wear her bra all the time.
In my opinion feminization is more fun when hubbette turns crimson with shame and embarrassment. I do enjoy her blush and the weak smile when I out her in public. It may be something verbal like calling out her name or pinching her bottom,to which she reacts with a feminine squeal (she is trained to only use her high pitch female voice now); make her courtsy to me in public, or even whisper to do a small cat walk swaying her hips .
Love
Cynthia
Hello Cynthia do let us know what happens with the surgery. I do love to see males with tits
I was led down this path by my ex-partner but am now going it alone, scary but she got me so hooked I must do more.
Regarding Hubbette’s boobs after surgery if you’re not happy with the size get him on hormones. That will increase boob size and make the nipples much more sensitive. Then he will certainly want to wear a bra.
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Wow. I wish my ex did that to me. Any advice on approaching her on this would very welcome.
Hi David
I don’t know how to assist other than telling my story. I was 8yo and my female cousins persuaded me to go to school in the girl’s uniform. Within a very few minutes I felt wonderful and this lasted through assembly and first lesson. Then in maths with Mrs Hill she blew a gasket. Cue parents called in, school psychiatrist, and the rest. Mum was so angry at the school’s attitude she forced the local education authority to amend their policy so any pupil could wear any item of uniform.
Come the summer holidays I was dressed female most of the time even to a swimsuit. They even got me sunbathing in a bikini.
Several years later my ex was told this tale by my cousins and decided to see how I’d react. I offered no resistance to panties and things went from there.
If you think your wife may react well then you could try wearing panties a few times and then confessing. Don’t make it obvious that you want this just play it cool and let her lead. Good Luck
ohh God! so hot sounding! gulp!!!!!
Cynthia – You are definitely making good progress discussing size. Dennise (my feminized ex-husband Dennis) is just beginning to accept the fact that we too are discussing size, not if! Unlike you, my desire for Dennise is an ample bust-line. I also don’t believe in using force or compulsion. Dennise needs to believe ‘her’ feminization is ‘her’ choice. I’m just helping ‘her’ make the proper decisions.
Wow. I wish my ex did that to me. Any advice on approaching her on this would very welcome.
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very cool idea
I thought so. I have a few other ideas for Alice.
It’s fun to see this posted, Alexa. For your readers/followers, this list has almost always started with my husband asking the question: “I wonder what it would be like to ….?” and his curiosity started with our original in-home spa day when make-up, hot oil hair treatment, facial masque, nail polish, shaved legs, a little make-up, flat-ironed hair, wearing my clothes were at that time ALL so daring for our 1st times. I laugh to think of them now as all fairly not daring and pretty basic starts. Over the years he has asked about almost everything I do or have done as a woman over my 50+ years, from tampons and pads, to 1960s/1970s vintage lingerie, to breasts and breast pumps and nursing bras, and all kinds of ‘daring’ excursions our in public (with me along of course to make sure he’s not solo under the spotlight and has got a gal-friend along – me). I 100% agree with Alexa, that each couple will find their own “basic” starts, different things to try, and their own “very daring” over time. I never push or press for more, but let it come from him in due time, then assure him “hey it’s just us right?” and we try it out together.
I love the idea of my Alice with a 1960s big female hairstyle. Although I prefer her in normal female wear I do enjoy her in something VERY feminine. Pink hair ribbon, pink nail varnish that type of thing. I’m not sure why but I enjoy the little touch of extreme femininity on a male.
Oh my are you sure about this…..
This is the section where I would like to truly experience with the help of my Mistress, the arrival of the ultimate part of being female…..oh how I envy your husbands having to conform to your bucket lists….
I think to be fair many elements of the bucket list are our husband’s – they just need the push