When you’re feminizing your husband, a documented routemap can be useful. A kind of forced-feminization bucket list. I never thought of this but it could be very useful. It helps to consider the goals and the implications for both of you.
My FLR email friend Cathy has her own check list which she discusses and acts on with her feminized husband Mary. Here’s her list:
Cathy has graded her list from EASY to ARE YOU SURE ABOUT THIS? which is useful to consider the implications of feminising your man and for your target male to consider the implications. I’m going to adapt her list for my own use although I’m someway down on many aspects.
For Cathy and her feminised husband Mary things started with simple things like hair and make-up. For me and Alice we went straight into female clothing and then hair and make-up later. But we’re all different and the end result and what works for a couple is the most important point.
This has been Cathy’s progression for helping her husband into Becoming Mary (sounds like a book title).
FLR and Male feminisation bucket list
> Grow out my husband’s own hair and then for him wear it in feminine styles.
> Wear nail polish on fingers and toes.
> Complete make-up and jewellery.
> Shave his legs and keep them silky smooth every day.
> Wear bra and panties, slips, camisoles, stockings every day.
> Work and live at home all day entirely dressed as a woman
THIS COULD BE FUN
> Natural feminine-looking breasts.
>Go out in public as a woman and pass.
> Show his own cleavage and jiggle in a push-up bra.
> Colour, cut, & style appointment at a hair salon.
> Vintage 1960s foundations lingerie.
> Do the housework in a maids service uniform.
> Wear sexy bras, panties, corsets, garters and stockings, and other silky lingerie when we’re intimate.
IF YOU REALLY WANT TO
> Put a tampon inside him.
> Use a maxi-pad in tight panties all day.
NOW YOU’RE REALLY GETTING DARING
> Do a bra fitting/sizing at a department store.
> Go to a bridal boutique and try on wedding gowns with Cathy acting like my maid-of-honour, or sister, or best-friend.
> Go together to an employment agency looking for office-secretary job openings.
> Go to an elegant New Year’s party as two women? Dance with men if they asked us to.
> Go to a day-spa have a female masseuse do a 90-minute Swedish massage. Be silky smooth shaved, nails polished, and obvious bra strap indentations in skin on shoulders and deep bra band and strap indents across back. Show cute pink lace panties edges on his hips when she does his legs.
> Schedule a formal psych-counseling appointment presenting Mary as a transitioning TG woman?
> Volunteer together at the church’s Christmas craft-fair as two girls at one of the food tables, or front desk admission, or assist with another girl’s craft booth.
OH MY, ARE YOU SURE ABOUT THIS?
> Get breasts to where he can lactate.
> Wear maternity bras and use a manual maternity breast pump.
> Wear/use an electric double breast pump?
> Appointment with a lactation consulting-nurse?
> Wear pink lacy dildo panties and pleasure Cathy
> Cathy to wear them to pleasure me?
I’m sure I have some others for my own Alice feminisation bucket list and some we wouldn’t need. For example I’d like pierced ears for my feminisation bucket list for Alice, probably under NOW WE’RE GETTING DARING. Whatever suits each FLR couple.
It would be interesting to hear from others as to what you’d add to the list and the degree of difficulty into which you think they would fit. Might help me.