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SISSY DISAPPOINTMENTS

2 November 2025 by Lady Alexa 6 Comments

Sissies can be such big disappointments at times. They seem to forget that their role is to serve a Mistress like me, and to be submissive and respectful. It’s not always their fault, sometimes things can’t be helped. Mostly it’s their fault.

I’d hoped to be writing about a very naughty sissy dinner party last Thursday but, in the end, the logistics of getting four sissies together and Girl and I at short notice didn’t work. Life and stuff intervened. I don’t blame anyone for that, there is more to life than being a Mistress or a sissy unfortunately. We’ve penciled in a future date for the next level of my sissy husband’s journey to something far sissier. Is sissier a word?

But sometimes, sissies are disappointments. They get so caught up in being a sissy, they often forget their place in the world of Female Domination and sissy submission.

SISSY GAMES

22 September 2025 by Lady Alexa 21 Comments

One of the great things about writing a female-led relationship blog is that we find others in our lifestyle. They contact me either in the comments or, more often, privately though my contact form or email, ladyalexa@mail.com. All of our contact with those in the FLR and forced feminisation/sissy world is thanks to this blog.

One of our longer-term FLR friends are also from London, and around our age. They emailed me years ago after reading our adventures here. I’ll call them Mistress Ruth and Sissy Linda. We meet and communicate with them regularly. Sometimes it’s entirely vanilla, such as a meal in a restaurant, although we always end up chatting (quietly) about FLR and feminisation. Other times, we’ll meet at either home for sissy games.

The last time we met, it was for sissy games at their house.

THE FLR AGREEMENT

14 February 2025 by Lady Alexa 37 Comments

What is an Female Led Relationship (FLR) but an agreed power imbalance in a woman and a man’s relationship. That power imbalance is based on an FLR agreement about how the couple want to live.

The male partner wants to live in a submissive relationship with a dominant woman who wants to take the lead. It works for both.

THE CHASTITY CAGE SAGA

27 January 2025 by Lady Alexa 53 Comments

In the past, I wasn’t keen on locking my sissy husband into a chastity cage. I had two main reasons for this. Firstly, I liked access to her little bits as I love to play with them and to tease her. Secondly, I have a view, that I haven’t changed, that sissies often prefer chastity cages more than their mistresses. That put me off.

However, my views have developed over time with changes to our FLR and I now like to lock my sissy away. Here’s what changed.

THE SISSY VIEW

12 December 2024 by Lady Alexa 12 Comments

My blog tells the story of my Female Led Relationship (FLR) from a Mistress viewpoint. Occasionally, I like to post my sissy husband’s perspective of our FLR. There have been a lot of changes in our FLR recently and there are some big changes still to come. An FLR like ours breaks with the established social conventions and I’m looking to break a few more.

For this post then, I’ve added a section where my sissy gives her thoughts on how we live our alternative lifestyle.