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MY FLR MARRIAGE

2 April 2026 by Lady Alexa 30 Comments

I have an FLR marriage and lifestyle, and it’s becoming more alternative by the month. It’s a relationship where I can do whatever I want; within reason of course. My husband trusts me entirely and puts himself in my hands. This means we live a lifestyle unlike most couples, but how many would love to live.

I understand that not everyone gets it, and I occasionally get comments here on my blog telling me what a horrible woman I am. I delete them as they are merely the rantings of a person with an inflexible mind. Don’t they see that we live in a wife-led relationship because that’s what we both want?

Let’s look at some of our alternative FLR lifestyle as a recap of where we are.

THE ON-OFF CHASTITY CAGE SAGA

14 January 2026 by Lady Alexa 24 Comments

Anyone who’s a regular reader here will know I have a love-hate relationship with putting sissies in chastity cages.

I love controlling my sissy husband’s little clitty. I used to use a cage on her from time to time, usually when I’m not at home to keep an eye on things.

On the other side of the coin, I know how much sissies adore chastity cages. So much so, they often put themselves into chastity. Er? How does that work? That’s wearing a cage and then removing it whenever that want to masturbate.

SISSY DISAPPOINTMENTS

2 November 2025 by Lady Alexa 6 Comments

Sissies can be such big disappointments at times. They seem to forget that their role is to serve a Mistress like me, and to be submissive and respectful. It’s not always their fault, sometimes things can’t be helped. Mostly it’s their fault.

I’d hoped to be writing about a very naughty sissy dinner party last Thursday but, in the end, the logistics of getting four sissies together and Girl and I at short notice didn’t work. Life and stuff intervened. I don’t blame anyone for that, there is more to life than being a Mistress or a sissy unfortunately. We’ve penciled in a future date for the next level of my sissy husband’s journey to something far sissier. Is sissier a word?

But sometimes, sissies are disappointments. They get so caught up in being a sissy, they often forget their place in the world of Female Domination and sissy submission.

SISSY GAMES

22 September 2025 by Lady Alexa 21 Comments

One of the great things about writing a female-led relationship blog is that we find others in our lifestyle. They contact me either in the comments or, more often, privately though my contact form or email, ladyalexa@mail.com. All of our contact with those in the FLR and forced feminisation/sissy world is thanks to this blog.

One of our longer-term FLR friends are also from London, and around our age. They emailed me years ago after reading our adventures here. I’ll call them Mistress Ruth and Sissy Linda. We meet and communicate with them regularly. Sometimes it’s entirely vanilla, such as a meal in a restaurant, although we always end up chatting (quietly) about FLR and feminisation. Other times, we’ll meet at either home for sissy games.

The last time we met, it was for sissy games at their house.

THE FLR AGREEMENT

14 February 2025 by Lady Alexa 37 Comments

What is an Female Led Relationship (FLR) but an agreed power imbalance in a woman and a man’s relationship. That power imbalance is based on an FLR agreement about how the couple want to live.

The male partner wants to live in a submissive relationship with a dominant woman who wants to take the lead. It works for both.