LADY ALEXA

THE ON-OFF CHASTITY CAGE SAGA

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Anyone who’s a regular reader here will know I have a love-hate relationship with putting sissies in chastity cages.

I love controlling my sissy husband’s little clitty. I used to use a cage on her from time to time, usually when I’m not at home to keep an eye on things.

On the other side of the coin, I know how much sissies adore chastity cages. So much so, they often put themselves into chastity. Er? How does that work? That’s wearing a cage and then removing it whenever that want to masturbate.

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MILKING SISSY

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As regular readers of my blog know, I don’t allow my sissy husband to orgasm. I have many reasons for this, amongst them, the problem that once sissies orgasm, they lose a lot of submission for a day or so and that’s unacceptable.

Another reason is that I don’t like the mess or smell they make when they cum. But there are even more good reasons not to allow a sissy to orgasm. A dominant woman in an FLR should have the focus on her pleasure, not the sissy’s. So it’s best to remove any chance of the sissy getting pleasure so they can concentrate on their Mistress without any distration. And of course, it’s so much fun to tease them mercilessly. I don’t know why every Mistress doesn’t set this rule.

But I am conscious there may be health reasons connected with not allowing a sissy release. I don’t know and I’d prefer not to allow a release whatsoever, but to be sure, I milk my sissy husband once a month.

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AN FLR DYNAMIC

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An FLR dynamic is forever twisting and turning, morphing and transforming. That’s probably the same in any relationship, FLR or vanilla. One month I think our FLR should work one way, and another month, I change my mind and the whole dynamic changes. One thing that affects any FLR is outside influence and changing lifestyle, another is the experiences we have.

Our FLR has twisted and turned again, such as in my on-off-on-off relationship with chastity cages. One moment I think they’re useful, the next they irritate me, especially when I think a sissy enjoys them just a little too much and uses them as a technique for delayed sissy gratification.

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IT’S THAT TIME AGAIN

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I like change and it’s that time when I think of all the fun new things to do next year. It’s sissy time for a change. I like to write down ideas for the forthcoming year at this time of year as it helps to crystalise things. Our Female Led Relationship has been through a lot of change in the past couple of years and I want more.

It’s not that I have any new ideas, it’s just that some things I’ve wanted to do are still hanging around to be done and I’d like to experience them next year. So what’s better than putting those loose threads into a post so I can tick them off as I go?

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THE SISSY VIEW

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My blog tells the story of my Female Led Relationship (FLR) from a Mistress viewpoint. Occasionally, I like to post my sissy husband’s perspective of our FLR. There have been a lot of changes in our FLR recently and there are some big changes still to come. An FLR like ours breaks with the established social conventions and I’m looking to break a few more.

For this post then, I’ve added a section where my sissy gives her thoughts on how we live our alternative lifestyle.

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