I like change and it’s that time when I think of all the fun new things to do next year. It’s sissy time for a change. I like to write down ideas for the forthcoming year at this time of year as it helps to crystalise things. Our Female Led Relationship has been through a lot of change in the past couple of years and I want more.
It’s not that I have any new ideas, it’s just that some things I’ve wanted to do are still hanging around to be done and I’d like to experience them next year. So what’s better than putting those loose threads into a post so I can tick them off as I go?
The FLR To Do List
One problem I have is that my mind is always racing with ideas. Some don’t go too far, some get done. For others, there are loose ends that have not been tied up.
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I’ve collated all my FLR ideas into one easy list so I can keep track. That’s because sometimes I get an idea and then forget or go a different route, even when I’ve written about it here.
Chastity cages
For a long time in our FLR, I didn’t put my husband in chastity. I liked access as I love to play with her and I like to see it erect as a sign of respect and desire for me.
However, as things developed, especially the no-orgasm rule, I’ve felt it necessary to lock her little thing away when I’m not there to keep an eye on her. I don’t want her playing with herself. I’ve been a bit lax though and whilst I lock her away if I’m going to be away for some time, I’ve not usually bothered when I’ve popped out for a short time.
I also had the plan to shrink her little clitty through a tiny cage but never locked her away long enough to make it happen.
So next year will be the year of locking it up more often and clitty shrinkage. I bought my husband Girl a pretty pink cage with a 1.5 inch cage section. She’s a longer than that but it squeezes quite comfortably into the cage and in time, I’d like her little girly clitty to be about and inch or so long.
I’m going to be using it less and less so it’s probably time. I’ve been lax.
I did also buy her a tiny black cage with a 1/4 inch cage section but it came with a catheter tube and I don’t really want to get into that and the hygiene issues it might cause over time. Besides, it’s a lot of fuss to poke a tube down her clitty.
I can use it on her for short periods but I’ll have to look for one that doesn’t require a catheter tube unless Girl can cut out the little hole at the front and make it bigger. I like the length a lot though and how it squeezes her little clitty up. Again, she didn’t find it uncomfortable, surprisingly. I’m guessing this would be the size I need to find for her to reduce the size of her clitty as it would force it to atrophy quicker. I guess.
I like the idea of her having a cute little stub of a clitty to flick at with my fingernail and to show others how ridiculous it is.
Sissy blowjobs
This year was a major success in that I got my sissy husband to take a sissy’s clitty in her mouth. Twice and with different sissies too, as I described here – The Final Sissy Frontier and here in Mistress And Her Sissy.
Of course, what I want to see is the obvious conclusion to this where a sissy cums in my sissy husband’s mouth. Ultimately, I’d like her to swallow too but first things first and I’ve learnt I have to take these things one little sissy step at a time.
I also have a plan where I invite the two sissies Girl has sucked to our home and Girl gives both a blowjob, one after the other. I think after the last time, this is a good next step even before the cumming in the mouth thing. But you never known, I might get her to do both.
More feminisation
Circumstances mean I probably can’t take Girl much further in her feminisation. We’re not going public so it’s a feminised at home or an under the male clothes thing. But this is nagging at me and I’d like Girl to have something that makes her feminisation just a little more female. I adore seeing her girly and sissy and I think of her as female.
I’m not sure what more to do though. One idea that’s swimming around my naughty mind is a more permanent removal of her pubic hair and having it shaped into a feminine triangle above her little clitty. This idea attracts me as it’s not public to the outside world but it is permanent.
Piercings
I’m still toying with this one. I’m not talking about a Prince Albert as that seems a bit much. Urgh. No, I’m thinking of getting Girl’s foreskin pierced, perhaps two or three piercings. I wrote about this once in one of my novels (Becoming Joanne 2) where Mistress Melissa has Joanne’s foreskin pierced at a beauty parlour. The idea has stayed with me and I’d like it for Girl.
I like Girl’s little girly bits decorated so foreskin piercings, and possibly scrotum and pubic piercings too, would be pretty. I could hang things from the rings which would be cute. In Becoming Joanne 2, Mistress Melissa hangs a cat’s bell from sissy Joanne’s foreskin ring and I don’t know why I never developed this idea with Girl.
Once again, this is not something that would be public so would work. I’m imagining little bells, jewellery and things hanging from her girly bits. That would be wonderful and so amusing.
Cuckolding
My view of cuckolding is different to most people if the comments on this blog are anything to go by. So I will explain what I mean by cuckolding and why I think the time is right.
To begin with, I believe you can separate sex and love. Sex, in my mind, can be an act purely for physical pleasure. Like masturbation. How many people masturbate without their partner there? Pretty much everyone probably.
Well, taking that one stage further, if you can use your own body for pleasure without your partner’s input, you can use someone else’s body for physical pleasure too and without loving them. So I can use another person’s erection for my pleasure. It doesn’t mean I love the person with the erection it just means physical pleasure.
And in our FLR, we have agreed that I can do anything I want. Like free speech, there are limits to what this means and in our case, we agree that means no toilet play or pain/ blood play. Otherwise, my pleasure is paramount and there are no limits for me aside from my own internally constructed barriers that I need to break through.
And taking this one stage further, Girl’s little clitty is not the biggest and we both accept I would enjoy something much larger — enjoy physically that is. So detaching sex from love and that I can do anything I want in our FLR and what I want is more pleasure, then cuckolding Girl is within our limits.
Just remember, cuckolding is having sex with someone other than your partner, it does not only mean having sex with an alpha male so do not leave me a comment talking about alpha males and so-called bulls.
It’s fair to say I’m in charge in the bedroom and I own my husband’s body and use it as I please. I would want the same with whoever I use to cuckold my sissy husband with. This means, my future sexual partners will be either sissies or submissive males and I will need to know how big their clitties are first. I will want them to lie still while I do what I want with their erections.
I will expect them to use their mouths and tongues too of course.
My current thinking is to invite an attractive sissy with a massive clitty to our home and get her to lie on the bed and I use her for sex with Girl there to watch. I will want pleasure from their tongues too.
Since I don’t like male cum, that’s where Girl comes in to finish the sissy off with her mouth. Hence me working on her to be able to swallow and keep things nice and clean for me.
I will also go out more often and find beta men for the night if anyone takes my fancy although they’d have to use a condom or not cum as I don’t want their mess.
Plans, plans and wishes
Writing a plan is useful. For example, I can see that getting Girl to the stage where she can swallow sissy cum is a step on the road to her finishing off my sexual partners for me. I’m sure Girl could use her hand and collect it in a tissue but I’d prefer things to be clean and swallowing is a cleaner solution all round.
I’d be interested in your comments on my plan or whether I might have forgotten something.
To get my sissy to point of swallowing she started with handjobs, which turned into her getting the cum with her fingers and swallowing it, after some time I convinced her, along with some girlfriends that sucking and swallowing was much easier,way less messy, and extremely efficient and time saving. Since she no longer has penetrative sex and is locked in a chastity cage the urges for sexual pleasure I think had a role as well.
that sounds a good approach, Amber. And I agree, sissies should swallow and keep things clean
My mistress Queen and I are learning more and more as we participate in our FLR.
Sometimes she has me in a pretty little canary yellow baby doll and matching full nylon high waist panties, with lace socks, fingerless gloves, lace collar and fluffy Minnie mouse slippers.
I have two black cock toys that I’m allowed to suck when I’ve earned the privilege, and she even bought me a pink one style girl vibrator to masturbate my little clit in my panties. She also buys me pink ABDL diapers and baby rumba panties, and has a little thin wood pink paddle with a heart cut out to make tiny hearts on my bum when I’m punished.
I’m hoping that soon she’ll take me with the black cock. I need more discipline like that.
Thank you ma’am,
Glad ti read she keeps you sissified. You need to move to sucking on real cock
Dear Lady Alexa,
I know you are working hard to get your sissy where you want her and are doing a great job. Submissive, orgasm free, feminised, pierced, etc – very sweet.
As regards kissing and cock sucking just a thought – I suggest you check with your new sissy lovers that girl is not cheating by which I mean: is the kissing whole hearted? Is she opening her mouth and not holding back? Same with cock-sucking – running her lips up and down the shaft is just the basic stage – she needs to vary the pressure of her lips, lick the whole are from perineum, balls, shaft and head. Give special attention to the glans, suck and lick th e head all over and go back to licking the shaft with her lips before taking the whole cock in her mouth and deep throating. The sissy lovers can help train her to be an expert sissy kisser and cock-sucker.
Patience is needed to develop these skills as cocks vary in length and width! Some wider cocks can obviously be challenge! Dominant t-girls can help here as they can spur the sub on to work harder when their jaw, mouth, tongue are getting sore and tired. I know I had this training.
Julie tv
I like the idea of finding a dominant T-girl to help out
Dear Lady Alexa,
Your relationship plans for this year appear to be brilliantly conceived, and I must compliment you on that. They should ensure that you and Alice’s sexual happiness will last for many years to come yet. I also love the way in which you involve Girl in this process in order to achieve the goals you want from the relationship. It’s very considerate. You always ask her for her input even when you know intuitively all along what the right course of action should be. I guess this is what makes you a natural leader, am I right ? Quite remarkable and hughly inspiring if I may say so.
I definitely endorse the comments made by Suzii here. There will clearly be some daunting challenges for Girl to overcome in order to fully facilitate the realisation of your needs and desires. While I don’t doubt that your pleasure and happiness are of paramount importance and must be maintained at all times, I can’t but feel a little concerned for sweet, darling little Alice as she progresses to the next stage. Speaking as one who has some experience of cuckolding, I did find it somewhat challenging emotionally in the early stages.
Firstly, there is the initial shock of hearing one’s girlfriend being pleasured by another man, which although lovely to hear her laughter and squeals of coquettish delight, it did leave me feeling like a complete failure for not succeeding to fulfil her desires myself. .Secondly, there is a period of depression which follows that. Thirdly, there’s the jealousy after that and then finally what hits one later on is the burning feelings of love for one’s partner that washes of one like a tsunami. So, as you can see, quite a rollercoaster ! Can Girl handle all of that ? Only time will tell of course. Should she feel the need for any counselling or support, I would be most happy to provide it for her. She can contact me any time on the email address I provided. Absolute discretion would be assured of course.
As an alpha female yourself, I would assume that you are fully equipped emotionally to deal with any issues arising from your future plans which you might encounter yourself. Am I right ? Apologies if I’m being too presumptuous. Besides, if not, you do have your friend and confidant Mistress Kim for inspiration, guidance and support.
Well, my apologies again for importuning on you like that. I’m just feeling a little concerned that’s all. I’m sure you have made the right decision and everything will be as successful and fulfilling for you both as has been planned.
May I take the opportunity to wish you both the very best of love, happiness and fulfilment for the future.
Your humble servant,
Frankie.
(curtsy)
I wouldn’t allow a tsunami, I always take things slowly
Dear Lady Alexa,
Of course. Silly me. I was forgetting your loving, careful, guiding influence would be there to smooth over any awkward turbulence.
If you’ll permit me, I must compliment you on your impeccable choice of girlfriends for Alice. They both seem highly suitable for her – well done !.
She is so fortunate to have such an astute and patient tutor as your good self to mentor her through the next few challenging steps in her sexual development.
What do you have planned for Alice’s birthday, if I may ask ?
May I suggest perhaps an afternoon of threesome sissy sex, followed by a delicious meal cooked and served and cleared away by Alice, followed by a cuckolding session involving a lover of your choice at which Alice sits attentively close by, watching, learning and taking copious notes (possibly being allowed to use shorthand ?) to later present her findings to you for appraisal the following day in the form of a PowerPoint presentation ?
It’s just a suggestion of course, and I’m sure your ideas would be far and away superior to mine !
Your ever humble servant,
Frankie.
P.S. I hope you don’t mind me referring to Girl as ‘Alice’. I find the name Alice so much cuter. I almost wish I was called that myself !
Alice if fine, I still use it at times.
Dear Lady Alexa,
Since we haven’t heard from you in a while, and please don’t think me rude for prying, but I just wondered how your Female Led Marriage has been developing lately ?
How is Alice’s sexual development progressing ?
Have you engaged in any cuckolding activity lately ?
If so, with whom, and how satisfied were you with the overall outcome ?
Cuckolding your sissy will elevate you to the status of what is colloquially known as an ‘angelwife’. As the title suggests, you will assume the status of the divine in the eyes of your husband, Alice. It will be most apparent to anyone encountering the two of you for the firsts time, who is the superior being in the relationship. It is my sincerest hope that in my next FLR, that I will be cuckolded on a regular basis. In fact, I would feel positively insulted and moody as a consequence were that not to be the case. So important do I regard it for the health and wellbeing of any Female Led Relationship.
Yours, humbly and affectionately,
Frankie.
We’ve been busy on other stuff.I¡ll be updating things very soon. Stay tuned
Dear Lady Alexa,
It seems as your plans for this year are well thought out and Girl has lots of challenges to face. It seems as if your desire to cuckold Girl is likely to reach fruition this year. This will be a daunting and humiliating experience for Girl but ultimately once she has come to terms with it she will find it intoxicating.
Your desire to further shrink her clitty should help Girl realise that cuckolding her is the right step forward in your relationship. You note in this blog that she already recognises that her clitty is small and that it can’t provide you with the pleasure you require. It sounds as she is already beginning to recognise that cuckolding will become apart of her life. Further clitty shrinkage should help reinforce this and help Girl accept her role is to be a cuckold.
To Girl I would say yes this is a big step, but it is one that delivers an exquisite humiliation and submission that recognises you are Lady Alexa’s sissy and all you exist for is to ensure your Mistress satisfies her desires, needs and wants. Yes this is emotionally challenging but it will strengthen your love for each other as you reach new levels of humiliation and yet you are giving your Mistress new levels of pleasure.
I wish you both and exciting year embrace these challenges and be fulfilled.
Love Suzii xx
It’s going to be a fun year
Hello Suzi,
I quite agree. 2025 will probably be a very challenging year for Girl emotionally speaking, but as you say, cuckolding does deliver one of the most exquisite and intoxicating humiliations of all. She must also acquire the knack of swallowing a sissy’s sucked off cum in order to fulfil Lady Alexa’s objectives more efficiently and hygienically. In addition to that she will also be required to experience anal penetration as part of her overall transformation. Lots for her to focus her mind on for sure, but think how proud she’ll feel when she manages to achieve both those objectives this year. And think how proud Lady Alexa will be of her achievements !
Don’t you just love though, Lady Alexa’s clear minded, rational approach to Alice’s sissification ? Her thoughts on Cuckolding alone have a beautiful, crystalline logic to them which is irrefutable. I do hope this year becomes a very rewarding one for her. To finally live out some of her deeply felt desires will prove profoundly empowering I’m sure. Fingers crossed, she will deign to share her achievements with us on her website.
Yours,
Frankie.
Lady Alexa
I hope this comment isn’t duplicated. I was going to make an observation about your choice for Girl not getting orgasms. If this works for you both it’s great. It works for us. My Wife/Mistress share a mild FLR. I am not feminized. I suggested our relationship change to initially ease the job stresses of the day and pursue some closer intimacy and a bit of kink. As is often the case, two people don’t always agree on everything but we tried and it worked for us after several years. We enjoy a passionate, happy and active sexual intimacy which my wife controls. After a few years of pushing the boundaries we talked over what more we’d like to try. My wife agreed some new intimate things. I agreed not to cum. Au revoir! I wear a chastity device to discourage self gratification. This actually boosted our closeness and energy higher. While I value our privacy and won’t discuss more, I wanted to weigh in.
I agree, orgasm denial has boosted Girl’s energy and our closeness. I do give her ruined orgasm milkings for health reasons.
Lady Alexa
Health is important to always consider. Even though don’t orgasm during sexual intimacy, my wife does use a stimulator other times to give me some relief. Besides some frustration from time to time, I find unexpected benefits of what is essentially semen retention include more energy, a calmness, and even rejuvenated interest in an art hobby, without revealing specifics. I have made beautiful seasonal items for my wife and our friends. There have been benefits.
My wife has broken down and offered to let me have a regular cum occasionally, but I always pass on it. Perhaps my own raging hormones has something to do with it but I guess I prefer to be like you have Girl set with respect to orgasms. I know my wife and I could go back to having boring sex, but we both like our extreme intimacy. People may criticize but life is short and you need to enjoy all you can get out of it, or, in my case all I don’t get. Enjoy
Enjoy what suits yourselves
Ma’am,
Re ideas for girl, if you may,have you considered the following:
Using nipple suckers to make girls nipples bigger, mine are quiet pronounced now and sensitive to the degree I can orgasm through nipple stimulation and reading an erotic story. It’s possible one of girls friends may wish to suck on them at some point. It’ll feminise girl a little bit, and unless girl wears a tailored shirt they shouldn’t be visible out of the home.
Enrolling girl in a pillates group, they tend to be female participant heavy and it could be a little humiliating for girl especially if you get girl the right outfit.
From what you’ve indicated you may not need it, but could girl get a vasectomy (assuming she hasn’t had one), I found it an emasculating and slightly humiliating experience having a female doctor remove my ability to ejaculate sperm and my cum tastes differently. (my wife likes me to go down on her on the odd occasion I come before her)
You also mention girls little clittie isn’t the biggest, perhaps you can disclose how small it is?
I hope the comments help and thank you for the blog
A vasectomy is irrelevant since she is not allowed to orgasm and I most certainly would never want any cum in my mouth.
rather than a vasectomy, have girl get a circumcision. You will be able to see her clittie head, which you should enjoy.
I wasn’t planning on a vasectomy or circumcision for her. I do like to see her little clitty head exposed but it’s fun to see it pulled back. I sometimes put a cock ring on it to hold it back. It’s funny
You have brought girl along very carefully and consistently. She is now readily and fully feminised at home even as you allow her to maintain a facade of masculinity outside.
Maybe you can now get her to agree for breast implants. Maybe a discreet size A cup? This will make her feminization more complete. When outside lose dress can always camouflage her tit’s. Even if discovered, she can pass it off as moobs ?
Imagine the fun you can have, including perhaps nipple piercing and attaching trinkets to her tit’s .
If you work on convincing her, I am sure she will comply – to make you happy.
Asha
Maybe. It’s no longer on my priority list as I’ve moved onto other domination ideas
Things look like they are moving on nicely for you two.
A quick comment on piercing. I have a PA. Dont rule it out. Because Alice will dribble when peeing so once done she will always have to sit to pee. A discret ring will also make a convenient attachment point for other decorations.
I also have a quiche. Hidden away and again a nice attachment point.
Good luck and all the best to you both for the new year.
The problem with the PA is the fact of the piercing through the actual head. What’s a quiche? I thought it was a French cheese pie
Quiche has several slang definitions:
1. Extremely attractive female.
2. A person who is frequently late for any appointment or other activity.
3. (In this case) female genitalia.
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https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Quiche
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I’ve not heard any of these definitions
I’ve commented before about how I’ve been locked in strict chastity for a few years now.
Without any use apart from peeing, and being restricted to flaccid size my penis has shrunk to virtually none existence. All there is to show when I’m not locked in chastity is a bit of foreskin and I’m no longer capable of an erection. I also haven’t been able to orgasm for the last two years.
You’re the second person to explain that permanent locking can mean a loss of erection. I prefer Alice to have an erection for various reasons so I will need to be careful.
Lady Alexa
That’s good Alice gets erections. I have no issues with erections though I’m no expert. I’m locked days and most nights (no piercing) but frequently get some monitored breaks for hygiene or when my wife and I are intimate. I’ve never had an issue with erections, though it took some time for the two of us to master how to work together so I stop short of an orgasm. It sounds like constant constriction would logically impact erections though a medical professional would answer it best.
We ttook a while to get the stopping short on orgasm done but now I leave it to Girl to stop who has been fully trained. Counter intuitively, now she’s used to stopping before orgasm, she can last much longer
Yes. I’ve noticed my own ability to last and not go over the edge has grown infinitely over the last few years of our more extreme orgasm denial. Not a medical observation here, but i believe it’s a combination of mentally avoiding an orgasm and physical muscle control for a male. Nice chat. Good luck
I like your plan, it makes sense and seems realistic. I’m sure you have considered and rejected, girl cleaning/licking the cum from out of you. It is the most humiliating aspect, it seems to m e, to have her do that in front of the 3 of you. Just my two cents worth.
Yes but you’re missing the point that I don’t like male cum and I don’t want it in or on me.
Hi Alexa! I’ve commented a couple of times with you and always enjoy your replies. Our FLR mirrors a lot of yours in many ways. So i’m caged and we started with a normal sized cage, then into a much smaller cage which I wore for a couple of years. We’ve progressed to the fufu clip which transforms my small package into what appears to be a vagina with a nice sized clit. It makes me feel as sissy as it gets! And She loves it! You should look into the fufu clip for Alice. Another thing we love doing is applying temporary tattoos. Etsy has a great selection with dozens of types to choose fun. They look great and are so much fun and you can apply whatever one you wish to depending on your mood. My nipples are now pierced as well as my scrotum. But there are mock barbells and hoops that clamp onto the nipples and give the appearance of a piercing. All of this applies well to our vanilla lifestyle. You can do all of that and be out in public a secret that only you two know.
Let Alice know that she can get over to the other side when it comes to having playtime with other sissies. When we first started out the thought of having sex with another male was a huge turnoff. But as things naturally progressed i became much more comfortable. We watched a lot of sissy, bi and trans porn. It helped me overcome my initial resistance and I began to want to watch it more and more. During the day in our vanilla lifestyle I don’t look at guys and think he’s cute or I want to sleep with him. It just never comes up. But when we play with other cute sissies and tgirls i get soooo excited. I love it. We have progressed to penetration and multiple partners, something i never thought i’d enjoy. While we both have played with Bulls that has progressed as well. She now just has the Bull use me under her guidance. She loves slutting me out. What has changed is her enjoyment of having sex with me while i am vicki. She loves it and so do i. Now we are playing exclusively with tgirls or other CD sissies. She still sluts me out to Bulls when she feels the need too. And I still use a very large size dildo on her when she want those thunderous O’s. Perhaps Alice caged, and all dolled up could bring you to the height of orgasm with a big “friend.” We love our dildo collection and the pleasure it gives her. Finally I wear a jeweled butt plug around the house a few hours of the day to keep my little hole stretched out. As we have discussed before it’s an ever changing lifestyle. Tell Alice that the last step can happen if she opens up herself and gives herself to your wants and desires.
The fufu and temp tatoos are a wonderful idea. I troo believe that once Alice gets used to sissy play she’ll enjoy it more and more but there is a little barrier I’m working through at the moment.
i also wanted to add an idea that worked for us as far as getting Alice over the little barrier. My Wife made it simple and very clear. The only way I could doodle (cum) would be with another sissy, tgirl or Bull. You could apply it to your lifestyle as well albeit only with other sissies. As much as i am feminized and love it i still had the male urge to want to cum. So I was faced with a choice, no cumming except for ruined orgasms for prostate health ooooorrrr i could accept that the only way to cum would be when She lets me and with the aforementioned partners. At first I was not into this at all. But my selfish urges to cum made me cross over. As time went on my orgasms were so intense because I had embraced my feminization and let go of my male sexuality. Now as we move closer to me being pussy free i now actually prefer my new way of doodling. My heightened sexual arousal has even led to what we call sissygasms. i actually discharge a sticky cum like fluid without being physically stimulated, it’s strictly psychological . She loves it. And i am so happy that She basically gave me a choice. Let go and embrace your full feminization and you’ll be able to doodle. You can do it Alice and you’ll cum to love it😉
Yes I think this would work but I’m still torn as I like the control of not permitting her orgasms plus her loss of focus when she does orgasm. Let’s see
Purely speculative, but perhaps you could mitigate some of the loss of submissiveness after cumming by underlining her humiliation afterwards and your power over her by making her go there. From what I read, it sounds like that is one of her kinks and she would probably be deeply effected if she did cross the line she has currently set for herself.
I don’t stop her cumming, I stop her orgasming. Denying her an orgasm has become of my most successful rules ever along with forcing her into skirts. I’ve written about why many times. I can’t see a time when I will change this rule unless I let her orgasm with another sissy. But even that is unlikely.
Hi Lady Alexa! i should clarify. my doodles are few and far between. They are strictly at Her will and when She deems me worthy. So my frustration and anticipation are on high all the time. We had two encounters in October where She let me doodle during both. Since then not one. i know what she means when she says “I hope you enjoyed that!” As always She is in total control.
“I actually discharge a sticky cum like fluid without being physically stimulated”
While I am not feminized I do experience the same type of discharge usually, but not always, after sex. Oddly there isn’t any type of contraction as a male feels with a normal orgasm so I don’t think of it as an orgasm. I don’t cum during intimacy but this discharge gives me some relief in addition to what my wife provides. I’m not sure how it would happen with Girl.
Her successful feminization was a wonderful gift from you, now you are offering to allow her to experience the same intimate moments that women do for their lovers in a safe environment with a carefully selected partner. She has twice proven she is capable of putting her reservations aside so she has no reason to feel shame when you eventually bring her to the ultimate level. Personally I think she should be in an outfit that makes her feel the most feminine with her makeup and nails nicely done and using a wonderfully scented perfume of her choice. Being in the right mood would go a long way in having her perform to your expectations.
I think you’re right. Ive always found that she’s very different when feminised to when in male mode.
Since she likes humiliation have her stop using the toilet to urinate. Have her shove a urine catheter up her clit when she needs to go and do it into a bag.
We don’t like the catheter. I like her to sit like a good girl
What a pity.
I’m fairly new with sissification and I’ve wondered why dominants want their sissies to give blow jobs and swallow cum. Is it because that’s what real women do and it’s the apex of the sissification process? I enjoy your writing very much. It helps me understand myself and why I am the way I am. I wish you and girl a most wonderful and fulfilling year in 2025.
Yours respectfully,
Ted, aka Sissy Stephanie 🤎
sounds like a good year is ahead for girl and You
I think so
I didn’t see this posted as a comment, so am trying to post it again. My apologies if it posts twice.
I’m surprised she has just started giving blowjobs. That should be commonplace.
One way to get her to swallow. Allow her to cum in a condom with you present & in control. Then, she must swallow her own cum. The satisfaction of ejaculation gives her a strong incentive to taste & swallow… No mess at all as it goes into the condom, then into her mouth.
There’s an inverted insert that pushes the penis 1 to 2 inches (2 sizes) behind the top of the cage. It has a small dome for the tip of the penis and allows peeing without removal. I have the long version & LOVE wearing it.
I am also a huge fan of Cuckolding. She should be watching you, sucking the other cock to get it hard and possibly even licking you as you ride the cock. Logistics on that one can be difficult. Cum clean up is, of course, mandatory.
If you’d like more details on any of these ideas, please reach out.
I had no desire to make her give blowjobs before. Let me know about the inverted insert you mentioned, I don’t know what you mean.
Have you been on FetLife? You can see a photo of the Long Black Inverted Insert in my profile. I think there’s also a photo of what it looks like under a cage. My username is, cbt4nenow.
There are numerous choices for Inverted Cages on eBay. I’m very fond of them. Mostly I vary between an Inverted Cage/Insert & a Super Short Cage with some kind of Urethral Insert.
I also Love getting Sounded!
I have a Fetlife profile yes. I found the cages online although I’m still a bit confused about them. I’ll check your fetlife then.
Typo on my username. It’s cbt4menow. Oops
Yes, I found you now
I have purchased almost all of my chastity cages (over 20 to choose from) on eBay. Search Inverted Cages or Negative Cages.
The Inverted Insert has 2 sizes, short & long.
I got the long to maximize the push into my body.
It’s firm, black plastic, tapered, reducing diameter before increasing again. A shallow cup aligns with the penis head. You simply push the penis inside of the he body & attach the cage portion to the base ring. Lock it in place & all you see is the black tip (or head) under the cage.
The head of the penis is 2 inches below!
I would attach a pic, but do not see how.
If you cannot find it, let me know & I will find a link.
No worries, I can search ebay
I’m surprised she has just started giving blowjobs. That should be commonplace.
One way to get her to swallow. Allow her to cum in a condom with you present & in control. Then, she must swallow her own cum. The satisfaction of ejaculation gives her a strong incentive to taste & swallow… No mess at all as it goes into the condom, then into her mouth.
There’s an inverted insert that pushes the penis 1 to 2 inches (2 sizes) behind the top of the cage. It has a small dome for the tip of the penis and allows peeing without removal. I have the long version & LOVE wearing it.
I am also a huge fan of Cuckolding. She should be watching you, sucking the other cock to get it hard and possibly even licking you as you ride the cock. Logistics on that one can be difficult. Cum clean up is, of course, mandatory.
If you’d like more details on any of these ideas, please reach out.
If you are thinking about Piercings, What about a Navel Piercing?
Something extra flashy?
Yes I think so
What a wonderful idea! I dream of being forced to suck another sissy’s clitty by my 25 y.o. Mistress!! I really hope, She will do this to me some day… And laugh at me and let me swallow every last drop for Her amusement.
Apologies, I think i typed gauche when i meant guiche piercing!
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Yes I think a guiche piercing is a good idea and a good place to attach things for decoration
Dear Lady Alexa – i love your plans for you and Girl and thus is a great time of year to write some thoughts down, i am currently in the midst of drafting mine to my Owner of almost 20 years (and also my wife). She’ll ignore most but who knows, there may be one or two She runs with, after all, She decides.
i was struck by your piercing and chastity comments. As you and Girl have discovered, the smaller the cage the genuinely the more comfortable they are to wear. i am usually in a 3D printed one that, whilst not quite inverted, is pretty small, a micro size. It is from Cherry Keeper. Have you thought about getting Girl a gauche piercing? There is a studio in the West End in London that does and the piercer did not bat an eye when she did me with my clitty caged. They are great for hanging bells etc from.
i like your comments about cuckoldry. We’ve never tried but Owner knows She could if She wanted and has told Her girlfriend She knows i would be ok with it. Meanwhile, strictly no sex for me (not since 2006 , just anal worship (Hers).
Have a wonderful new year and i enjoy reading about yours and Girls journey into FLR,
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Let me know the piercing studio in West London by email – ladyalexa@mail.com
Chastity can reduce the size of the male penis. I know from experience. But steel or titanium custom devices do work better to accomplish that goal, as does a PA piercing. I started way back when with a CB2000, and quickly progressed from there. My wife had me pierced in 2002 to move to a Ms. Lori device. She downsized that 3 times before we moved to a lighter, better built MCN (customized) Contender that has been downsized 2 times for diameter and length. Every time my penis was consistently shrunk back from the end at the piercing and loose in the device, I was downsized. My penis is now in a 1″ long device held in place by a 0 Gauge PA. Because of the way the MCN Conyender is made it does not have to be removed to be thoroughly cleaned, but it is removed once a month to completely shave my crotch and sanitize the device. I am prostate milked in it roughly 4 times per year, and she puts a condom over the device to catch my semen.
The only thing I don’t think would work for you is the fact that after years, the peneis not only becomes smaller it also experiences erectile dysfunction. I have been trained as a born again virgin through 24/7 chastity to remain soft. My wife doesn’t cuckold me, when she desires penetration she has me wear a strap on to satify her.
It’s so enjoyable and exciting to read your jorney in FLR.
I like all Your ideas and I agree that sissy clitty should be shrunk to tiny and useless and that she should swallow.
2025 seems to be very interesting one 🙂
What about a bellybutton piercing? I find it it to be most feminine piercing and it’s hidable.
My ex made that for me by herself, she said her sissy should be marked. It was one of the most exciting thing ever happened to me.
Yes a belly button piercing might be nice. Unless we went to the beach or pool with family. I suppose it could be removed easily.
Yes it can be removed easely. Actually I had to do that for a week long vacation to Tenerife and it was still quite freshly made, so the hole grew stuck in that time. One or two days should be no problem though.