I continue to be challenged by the topic of the sissy clitty? Obviously I expect my sissy husband’s little thingy to function and so does she; we are a married couple after all. On the other hand, it’s a constant reminder of her last vestiges of masculinity.
It needs to look more feminine.
Hormones and other even more drastic options are not an option so I do several other things to make my husband’s sissy clitty a feminine appendage rather than masculine.
CONTROL YOUR SISSY’S GENITALS
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I have covered the topic of what to do with the male genitalia in a forced feminization and FLR relations before. You can find more here:
My thoughts on a sissy’s clitty
However, I don’t see much written about how to feminise a male penis beyond using hormones and some of the more eye-watering options: eye-watering for Alice that’s for sure.
A penis is, by definition, a very male object. It can spoil the entire look of the man you’re trying to turn him into a sissy girl, as I am.
I’m obviously not talking transgender or biological sex change so surgery and hormones are not part of the solution to feminising my husband and dealing with his sissy clitty. No, I merely dispute society’s view of what a truly biological male should wear and how they should act.
This is the case in my relationship and why it’s important for female leaders, such as me, to have full control of their male partner’s penis. Or should that be clitty?
Add in the FLR / Female Domination dynamic of our relationship and we see how the male penis or sissy clitty can co-exist on a husband who’s now a sissy girl. Sort of.
This means that there are certain measures I need to take to ensure Alice’s little thingy is as feminine and submissive as possible, whilst allow it to remain fully operational.
HOW TO DEAL WITH THE SISSY CLITTY
Well, you can do lots of things with your sissy’s clitty and it all depends on what you want in life and from your relationship. I know that many sissies just love having it locked up. Most women, on the other hand, just don’t see the attraction to be honest. It’s a sissy thing.
Besides, I like it free to play with.
So here’s what I think is needed to subjugate that little princess hanging between a sissy’s shaved legs.
1 Give it a feminine name, cute pet names and feminine pronouns.
I refer to my sissy’s clitty as a clitty, the (little) princess, little pickle, little missy and she.
2 Use constant vocal reminders of its femininity
I use – she’s so cute, she’s so small, what a pretty little clitty, etc.
3 Expose and display it
Keep it exposed to show its vulnerability. For example, pin up the front of sissy’s skirt and remove her knickers. Or just keep her naked from the waist down.
4 Shave it and shape the pubes into a feminine triangle or Brazilian
This makes it look more like an analogue of the female genital area.
5 Decorate it
Pretty pink ribbons, cock and gland rings, hanging or clip on jewellery etc.
6 Use it for punishment slaps
This cements the idea that his sissy clitty is insignificant and not worthy of respect. Anyhow, I love to slap it around, it’s fun.
7 Stop sissy orgasms – yuk
It no longer belongs to sissy. You do not permit her to touch it and you forbid orgasms or cumming.
8 Lock it away
I don’t do this when I’m at home with sissy, but it’s part of the ownership and control that’s necessary.
You can see more about these ideas at this post Redesign your sissy’s clitty
INCREASING YOUR CONTROL OF THE SISSY CLITTY
One area I’ve not had much success in is locking Alice’s little princess away in a cock cage. There are a number of reasons for this:
- I’ve tended to think it’s a sissy thing, they love their little pickles being locked up. It doesn’t do anything for me.
- When I’ve locked Alice’s little princess up in a cock cage, it has chaffed and sweated.
- I like to play with it regularly – see items 1 to 6 in the list above. It’s such fun.
- I use it regularly for normal female/male relations and fussing with a lock can be a pain.
But, I’ve come round to the idea of putting Alice into a cock cage for when I’m not with her. When we’re together, then her little princess can be unshackled. When I go out, I lock it away.
I really don’t know why I didn’t think of this before. It makes a lot of sense. It gives me full control over her clitty.
Whilst I clearly have full ownership and control of Alice’s clitty, it’s based on trust. I have no reason to mistrust Alice, but I now believe that’s not enough. That control and ownership needs to be physical, real and visible. A cock cage is back on the agenda for Alice.
There are benefits to this part time approach:
- Wearing the cock cage part time means it’s released when I’m with Alice allowing me to decorate it, expose it, play about with it and so on.
- It’s a physical reminder, when I’m not there, of my complete ownership of Alice’s clitty.
- It diminishes the male clitty’s importance for the feminised male.
The sissy clitty is so much fun, don’t you think?
SOLVING THE ISSUE OF CHASTITY CAGE DISCOMFORT
Discomfort was another reason why we didn’t really use Alice’s cock cage much. We tried, but it didn’t really work for either of us.
We found that the plastic and silicone devices enclosed her little princess too much and didn’t allow it to breathe. In addition, she needed to keep removing it to clean it properly. I don’t want her with a sweaty or salty smelling clitty And of course there was the chaffing problem.
The answer appears to a steel cage. As long as it’s medical quality steel, the material is better against Alice’s delicate clitty skin. The cage is more open and this let’s her little cutie breathe and it’s easier to wash without removal. Everything’s much more hygienic.
It’s also important to get the size right. You can find more information on how to correctly choose a cock cage by clicking on the image below.
CONTROLLING A SISSY’S CLITTY
I think I’ve found a nice balance now regarding Alice’s little princess. Locking it away when I’m not with her is a nice way to demonstrate my ownership and control.
Releasing her when we’re together allows me direct control and access to my little toy.
I know Alice finds the new routine a bit of a pain, but she’ll get used to it as she has the other routines. I do believe that male chastity using cock cages is a sissy thing which is why I’ve always had a problem with them. I think I’ve stumbled on an approach that works for me too.
Do comment or send me a mail via contact me to let me know what you think about my new approach to cock cages for Alice.
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Chère Lady Alexa
Thank you again for your response to my first post with some French words! Very thoughtful and I appreciate a lot Madame!
Now I feel a bit confused with this topic of cock cage. My ex-future Lady was fully against this because She wanted to have instant access to my anatomy anytime. Just like you Madame actually. The hygiene and comfort aspects mattered also in Her opinion. Personally my fidelity is never in doubt and I could remain chaste without needing such a device for some extended periods of time. So I feel that the purpose of the cage especially in metal is mostly decorative and a psychological tool for the Maitresse. A sign of Her ownership and authority.
However I read that such devices reduce the size of the penis which then can become quite tiny. And you Madame express clearly that you like and want to keep on having traditional sex with Alice. It sounds a bit paradoxical to me, unless you think that using the cock cage part time only won’t alter her functioning and/or size.
So may you please enlighten us on this subject Madame?
Avec mes respects.
Yes I am in total agreement with your ex-future Lady. Alice is completely trustworthy and will only cum when I allow it, for various reasons, not least as she has to perform for me. As she’s not getting any younger then she needs to be ready when I am and not a spent force, so to speak.
In my opinion the only purpose of a cock cage is for the enjoyment of sissies, I don’t know any other other mistresses who think they are anything else. What do they do for us ladies? Besides, I like her clitty on display for me and instantly available to play with and that means not hidden away in a cage.
And yes, I insist on traditional sex regularly from Alice so she needs to be fully functioning. On the other hand, as long as it still works, I’d like her bits to look more feminine, or at least less masculine. Shaving her bits and shaping her pubes helps but smaller would also be nicer. It’s a conundrum as this might mean locking away in a tiny cage.
After my wife locked me up on a mostly permanent basis she made sure I got a pa piercing so I couldn’t pull my clitty out and jerkoff and put it back in the cage. She believed that if my clitty can’t please her then it shouldn’t aloe any pleasure either. Only alowedruined orgasms on my bday or chastity orgasms by her pegging me with her bbc bulls moulder cock.
Lady Alexa I too went thee route of caging my feminized husbands clitty. However before buying a metal cage which would not be compatible when he has to work due to going through a metal detector I ordered a holy trai er device. I must say that it has worked out wonderfully,is in a feminine pink color and seems to be really secure. He definitely does not approve of the move but I deemed it necessary to reinforce his status as a feminized sissy husband. It definitely affects and calms down the male attitude he had before I embarked on this path. When it is removed I tie his hands behind his back and remove the device and clean itthenreplace it back on his clitty,also have blindfolded so he cannot see it while the device is off. I feel like it reinforces the principle that it is for my use only and he has no need to even see it. We are going on almost 5 months now and there is definitely a submissive effect to using it and it is a great positive thing in that respect.
Very nice. I like the idea of pink
I think it is a great color to reinforce the feminization aspect.
this is instructive and fun. I am 62yo. girl, born with full scrotum, tiny penis. born with some other cardiac stuff which may be related, of course no genetic testing back then. of course mommy brought sissygirl along as male appendage to Her activities, so anyway without mentioning all the drama, sissygurl loves to breed on Her back but never gets chance because of restrictions on her moving around in world, again, there is dispute about this. clit of girl has no use for sissy except peeing and occasional heavy self-induced CBT. thx.
I hope everyone is healthy and safe during this time. Selina works in an essential business so is still working and I am currently working from home. I hope you and Alice are doing well Lady A.
Peace and love to all ❤❤
Ms, Katrina, thank you for your kind wishes. I hope you and Selina are staying safe and healthy as well. With more people working from home I wonder if the males from your office that you said are now submissive towards you are wearing panties or dresses while working at home. I hope your friends are progressing towards taking control of the males in their life as well. I am still struggling with FLR but that’s my issue. be safe. charlie
I have tried these on my husband Steffie:
https://www.koalaswim.com/Transformation-Designs_c_14.html
With two being particularly enticing and effective
https://www.koalaswim.com/One-of-the-Girls_p_480.html
https://www.koalaswim.com/Sex-Doll_p_551.html
That second one is one of my favourites to see Steffie wearing whemn we engage in oral activity
Nick
All very nice
Hello, How to feminise Alice’s little clitty? Short of drastic action there is little you can do to it if you want it operational. But if you want it operational, how about covering it with something when you need it operational such as this:
https://www.extremerestraints.com/black-mamba-cock-sheath.html
It’ll reinforcce in Alice’s head what is between her legs is little and whilst operational you are no longer satisfied by what’s between her legs has to offer you, after all you deserve the best hard penis you can get.
Other ideas could be Alice getting a girly tattoo, maybe starting with something temporary such as this:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Owned-Tattoo-Lettering-Black-Temporary/dp/B0787DRYXT
My only other idea if Alice is around the house and her clitty is getting unruly would be to have a can of this around which you can spray on it to make it shrink a little, she’ll soon learn to control herself.
https://www.superdrug.com/Health/Pain-Relief/Hot-&-Cold-Therapy/Deep-Freeze-Pain-Relief-Cold-Spray-150ml/p/547743
2nd two are nice ideas although the first is even more masculine. I think covering it with a vagina mould of some kind is a better solution
Hello, there seem to be plenty of vagina moulds around. I’m happy you like the final two ideas, what do you think would be appropriate for a tattoo?
Re the first idea, it’s only for when you want penetration and only because Alice’s little clitty isn’t up to it.
Alice’s little clitty is up to it, which was the point of my post. I want it to remain that way – functioning, but all other times I want it feminised, humiliated and subjugated.
You’re obviously a woman who knows what she wants, there is something very attractive in that, Alice is very lucky.
Have you used the Deep freeze Pain Relief Spray? My Mistress Wife is very interested in using it! Can you tell us more! i am not looking forward to it at all.
toni aka annette
I have been tattooed just above my clitty with a pink heart and above that the word “SISSY” in black script. It has been very effective in keeping me focused on just who and what I am.
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If I feel like it I might
In our relationship, I prefer that my husband Steffie a) calls it a clit or clitoris, we don’t use the term clitty (BTW – my ‘anatomy’ is right called a penis), Steffie’s pubic bush is a feminine triangle, c) Steffie tucks to present a flat front, which is enhanced in presentation by Steffie’s pubic hair shape.
For tucking we have experimented with various methods and have settled on the use of Tegaderm adhesive patches, which when applied correctly still allow Steffie to use the toilet but make sure it can only be done whilst sitting.
We don’t use cages or chastity devices because we prefer tucking and I love to watch Steffie, shall we say, rubbing one off like a girl — jilling-off if you will. Steffie has learning that pulling and tugging at her clit is not needed for self-pleasure. Not to mention that a total mind-bend is for me to pleasure Steffie orally when tucked, licking and kissing that flat front.
Equally erotic to Steffie is seeing me caress my packer or stroking my strap on. To put it in context, the front of Steffie’s panties MUST be flat and smooth, cause I am the one with bulge in the front of my underwear. This is great leveler of the playing field
I think that’s the horniest thing I’ve ever read on here
Good. Although it’s a necessary approach in the circumstances
That’s so hot, could you elaborate on which Tegaderm patch or roll do you use and how you apply it?
Basically it involves tucking Steffie’s external ovaries up inside, pulling Steffie’s clitoris back, and then wrapping it in Steffie’s labia. The front of Steffie’s panties are then quite flat and inviting for my mouth to give oral pleasure to, and because of the way Steffie is tucked any fluids during foreplay and later take on the characteristics of vaginal juices. It also allows access for my strap-on.
If you go to google, do a search on this phrase: tegaderm penis tucking reddit
This is what we do, albeit with tegaderm as is indicated in the last post
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YOu will find her to be much much more pliant this way.
Hi,
We have corresponded many times and My Owner/Wife and i enjoyed your article. But you know what homes have done to my penis/clit over the years and it is very tiny now. Maybe 1-2 inches and semi-flaccid if i am allowed to orgasm. Hard erections are a thing of the past for me so locking it up isn’t required anymore
No I guess not
Sorry for the mistype homes should hormones!