We’re on holiday and I can’t wait to get out and explore and sample the food and wine but first, my thoughts on the sissy clitty.
I’m writing from our hotel room and my sissy husband Alice is naked. She has to change immediately out of any male clothing to either a little skirt or nothing on entering the room – as if it were our own home.
I wanted her in nothing today, I sometimes like that. Seeing her little pubic triangle and her cute little clitty as she serves me a cold drink got me to thinking about how we deal with the feminised male’s genitals.
I’ve used various approaches to feminise, demean and denigrate her genitals because it could otherwise be an unwelcome reminder that she used to be male. I don’t want her seeing it that way.
Feminising a male’s genital area is a crucial element of any mistress’s feminisation project. Without it, it just can’t succeed, skirts and dresses just being window dressing otherwise.
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The male genital dilemma
Here’s my dilemma. I want my sissy husband’s gentials to look feminine. I also want them to function since her job is to satisfy me albdit with her orgasming.
So after a few years nof trying different ways to deal with this vexing dilemma, here are my opinions and what I now do.
Renaming a sissy’s genitals
I was a bit slow to re-name her little thing. I tried sissy stick and other demeaning names but there is only one option and that is for it to be a clitty. Full stop. Alice has a clitty, like all sissy girls. I sometimes even refer to it as a clitoris if I’m being serious.
First of all, I didn’t know what to do about what to call her balls. It’s obvious really as they form part of her female genital area which I now call her ‘pussy’ so they are pussy balls.
Shaving a sissy’s genitals
I started off making her shave her whole pussy area completely. The problem was that it made her look like a young boy which was not a look I wanted. I did enjoy her clitty and pussy area exposed a free of hair though. I have tried a Brazilian on her but the best is the triangle of pubic hair above a cleanly shaved clitty. It just looks sooooo feminine.
I’ve her with tried several sizes of pubic hair, from very small little triangle to a larger one. It may seem strange but the larger triangle is for me the best and most female. She has to shave slightly away from her legs so it is still well defined.
I’d say it’s about 4 inches wide at the top, tapering to a point at the base of her clitty.
I’ve let her pubes grow more from the photo below so it’s now a little bushier. The contrast with her shaved smooth pussy area is delightful. I’m not going to show her little clitty though.
Exposing sissy genitals
I love my sissy husband’s genitals to be on display for me. This serves several purposes, one being that something so private has become my public property. I usually don’t allow her to wear panties and put her in a short skirt.
I’m not too keen on a chastity cage unless I’m going to be out for a while. She wouldn’t dare masturbate but I need to be sure when I’m out. Otherwise, I like it to be displayed.
Cutting out privacy by making her expose her genitals for me is an act of demeaning them to low importanace.
Sissy genital discipline
Sissy Clitties need to be part of your wider discipline and punishment routine. Spanking on the bottom is a fundamental part of all discipline but never forget to find an excuse to slap her clitty as punishment. It’s a perfect way to show her how insignificant it is.
Imagine it, telling your girlie to remove her knickers, lift her dress so you can slap something that in the past was their reason to be.
Lovely. I use a wooden spatula or crop but often my hand. Sometimes I just raise her skirt and slap her there through her knickers if she’s misbehaved. I tried face slaps but clitty slaps are so much more humiliating for her.
Sissy clitty decoration
Clitty’s need to be dressed up from time to time. It needs to be feminised and pretty.
A pink bow is a great adornment but I also like to hang things from it such as necklaces and clip on earrings. I’ve even used chiffon scarves. I have pink and yellow body paint and painting it is good.
I make her wear pink sparkly cock rings too which I think she likes, but that’s perfectly fine.
Here she is with crotchless pink knickers and a light pink silky ribbon.
Sissy CBT
CBT. I don’t want to really hurt sissy Alice but it is important is to demean your sissy’s genitals through mild torture. Clothes pegs on her pussy and balls are a fun way to do this and it’s demeaning as she has to sit there with her legs wide apart while I clip them on.
I once used electricity on her at a femdom event and that was very nice as she had two electrodes on her pussy. balls and I applied small electric shocks that others could see.
The next photo is Alice naked except for stockings. That’s my riding crop you can see partly obscured by the ovals blocking Alice’s clitty in the photo. I like her to hold her clitty out while I slap it and her pussy balls with my crop. it’s such fun.
A sissy clitty as a handle
It’s always good to pull her around by her clitty when I want to show her something. For example, in the past she sometimes forgot to sit on the toilet so I would lift her skirt, drop her knickers and pull her to the toilet but her little clitty to berate her.
A little cat’s leach around it is also very effective for other times.
Verbal abuse of a sissy clitty
Never forget to verbally abuse it. I never miss an opportunity, for example when the weather is cold, to tell her how “cute and tiny her little clitty is.” Actually even if it’s not cold it’s fun and necessary.
These are my thoughts from our holiday room. Let me know in the comments of any other things you do as a mistress or your mistress does to you to demean a sissy clitty.
Your blog is mindblowing! The level of detail that you go to further feminize Alice is quite hot sounding. I am a heterosexual male–happily married (really). I get super turned on by what you do and how you describe it. What an amazing and HOT dynamic. Speechless !!!!!!!
After reading your blog today I admitted in bed too my wife I’d like to be feminised, she responded positively and we are going shopping soon to jointly buy some knickers for me, we’ve also discussed removing body hair. I can’t sleep for thinking about being stood in the John Lewis lingerie department picking things like this http://www.johnlewis.com/collection-by-john-lewis-arianna-festival-floral-briefs-multi/p2691362
Thank you for encouraging me to raise it with my wife.
Paul
I’m pleased to hear about the progress paula
What a delicious blog I’ve found. I don’t know if I should be jealous of Alice or glad I’m not her. Your blog poses many questions in my mind which hopefully you don’t mind answering.
What do your family and friends think about Alice, especially if you want to feminise her 24/7?
Will Alice write a guest blog entry setting out how she views her journey,along with her hopes and fears?
Does Alice have a man bag or purse, they seem popular amongst Italian men….
Does one of your adjustments mean Alice wears breast forms?
Have you considered a looked 03 chastity belt to minimise and secure her.clit?https://steelworxx.de/The-Looker-03-only-for-PA-s-118p.html?language=en
Have Alice’s work colleagues noticed her bra or vpl?
I look forward to reading your blog and your stories.
Thank you
Paul
Great update
Mistress it’s sounds like You have a super holiday lined up. Just love the description of her little triangle – tho it doesn’t sound that “little” at the moment. I had my bikini line waxed once and my then girlfriend squealed “it’s so feminine!” and reached for her rabbit lol. (I played it down but in hindsight I should have maybe encouraged her… oh well. All in the past now x). Which reminds me – why don’t you have Alice wear some pretty bikini bottoms on the beach or at the pool? Who would notice? Would make for some beautiful holiday snaps xx Enjoy x
I’d have to buy some new ones and the ones she bought for use on the balcony are bright pink with tassels and i think that may be to much. On the plus side the Italian men use the old Speedo type trunks here so a more neutral bikini bottom is not a million miles away
Have You time to send Alice out to buy some new ones yet? Do You always buy her clothes for her? x
We always buy them together, either on line or in a shop. I like to ask her which things she finds pretty for her.
Something with some nice flowers/pattern on…..these places always have a shop nearby. How wonderful it would be to have her buy something there and wear it shortly after. You can be sure all the other girls will have checked out what was on offer in the shops nearby and would recognise it instantly. The guys being unlightened will be none the wiser… their loss! But You, Alice and the other girls there will know…..
Good idea I’ll see what I can find
Hope you find something nice and she gets the chance to wear it pool side. Would make a great holiday snap for You x
I’ll see what I can do. We need to be a bit careful as the hotel is full of British people
Do you think she might be the subject of some grief?
Yes… such a delightful blog you write LadyA.. every time i get a notification of a new entry i rush to see the latest…and what a great entry this one has been… i read it imagining it was referring to me..and whilst feeling for Alice…
The name – lovely…and to be honest is the same as what i have come to call mine… clitty sounds so femme and humiliating..although i have not adopted the “pussy”…yet..
i love your direction on hairstyle and its size.. there is nothing quite like taking a razor or wax to you manliness…it strips away, literally, the very essence..and each time i do it, it opens up the door wider to my inner femme feelings. i positively tingle when looking at a freshly trimmed little bush down there….
i am in 24/7 chastity so adornment of bows is not so obvious but on the few occasions when i have been free i love the little cute bows too…terribly humiliating..but erotic.
i agree with chloe above though…and still think chastity is an amazing opportunity for you…from my personal experience..it transformed my whole demeanour and took me from a relatively macho acting male in public to one who is permanently horny and frustrated and subsequently is more willing to please and be attentive. Surely this must be a bonus to you.. As far as restricting your access to pleasure… well thats literally in your hands…the key.. and to add to the fun can be hung around your neck on a little chain for Alice to see (and others if you so wished – always a talking point when others recognise the significance!). They come in all shapes and sizes (just put male chastity into an eBay search for a indication) and colours…(pink is one of my favourites lol) (could i suggest you look at chastitymansion.com for some inspiration!)
i can imagine that CBT must be humiliating…and potentially painful.. and the thought make my cage tight just now…so i wont say more! lol
…and as far a a little verbal abuse is concerned… a few years ago i would have always strived…like most men in changing rooms etc… to make it look in its best light!….and would have been horrified at it looking small and inadequate…but now…cute..and small are not descriptions i shy away from… what is happening to me!? lol
i so enjoy your writings…a very special person who knows what they want from a feminised hub… dont stop!…and Alice…..you are very privileged….
cj 🙂
Yes I enjoy styling her pubic hair in this way. Your post stimulated my thinking and you’ll see I’ve decided to take up the clitty cage idea. She’ll only be in chastity when I’m not around of course, I have certain demands when I am around.
So pleased to hear that LadyA. I’m sure you won’t regret it and will have a thrill walking out of the house with the key round your neck.
And as for Alice…you are now on a roller coaster of frustration and horniness…you will not regret….
Cj 🙂
corsetjane says it well. Lady A rules the roost !
I wouldn’t say that Alice wil lbe in chastity just that it will be locked away when I’m not around. I’ll unlock her when I’m with her. It’s more about my control of her genitals
I so love Your writings and often wish I were alice.
Thank you sissyteri, I’m pleased you enjoy following our alternative lifestyle.
Yours is a beautiful mind Lady A and inspire me sooo much..yes u ladies have full control over our clitties and have a power to humilate it..love these ideas..Curtseys Shelby
And that’s how it should be Shelby
You are a devilish Goddess !! What a mind you have :))))))))))))))
Yes Alice has made similar comments….
You GODDESS you !!
http://sillytranswoman.blogspot.co.ke/2014/07/how-to-tuck-your-penis.html?m=1
If you want her to forget she has (had) man parts, how about tucking?
Ooh that sounds uncomfortable although I like the young TV’s eyelashes that’s given me an idea.
It’s not about Alice forgetting she had man parts it’s about forgetting that they were considered as man parts and understanding that they are pretty little cute feminised parts for my enjoyment and use.
My Lady used a pretty cat collar on me, around my clitty and pussy balls. Mine was pink with little flowers but if you Google cat collars there are some lovely choices. She had a matching pink leash that clipped onto the D-ring so She could lead me around the house. It was small and comfortable enough that i could wear it all day under my pantie girdle and panties at work. It was a lovely reminder to me of my owned status every time i went to the bathroom (sitting of course). you can get little bells that attach to the collar too. Best not to wear those to work;-)
If You are interested You can read more of my wonderful FLR here : http://naughtygurl-triss.blogspot.ca/2009/03/pantied-part-2-who-owns-you.html
Curtsies,
trissy
Yes. Alice’s is pink with little hearts. I like the bell idea.
These are all wonderful ideas Lady A.
As always when i read thoughts on a sissy clitty i immediately shout “chastity!” But remember that You require her clitty for other duties.
But actually a chastity device would never interfere with those and can come off as often as desired but at the same time is a very humbling, emasculating thing. The sissy has to sit to pee and will never have an opportunity to interfere with Your property without Your say so and even a few hours of use can lead make a sissy feel less male and more feminine.
Or, a nice pink ribbon or string of pearls tied around the nasty thing can have the opposite effect
<3
Thanks you Chloe, I’m currently using the pink ribbon in a nice bow with the pearls. I think Alice’s clitty is pretty and cute rather than nasty. Nasty are the thoughts that might enter her head if I didn’t do all the things I need to with her little thing.
I’m sure right now it’s the prettiest clitty one has ever seen. In honor of it, i’m going to put on my pink cardigan and pearl necklace <3
Excellent and I don’t know if it’s the prettiest ever but it certainly is a very pretty clitty
How kind and considerate of You;))))