I’m not sure I’m a great fan of fetish events. I went to a fetish event in Central London at the weekend with my sissy husband Alice and our friends who live our lifestyle too.

I don’t really consider Femdom and FLR to always be Fetish. It’s a lifestyle, just a bit different from most.

Is femdom a fetish if you live it as a lifestyle?

ATTENDING FETISH EVENTS

Fetish events are great places to meet like-minded open-minded people. On the other hand they are general fetish and cover a wide range of interests. I personally have little interest in spanking for spanking sake or interacting with people in dog masks or tight latex.

I have even less interest in seeing dominant males.

We once attended an event called the London Alternative Market (LAM). LAM is an event held once a month in central London. It’s a nice concept as it’s held in a large bar over four floors. The late afternoon is a fetish market and it then turns into a fetish after-party from 7pm in the large basement bar.

I took the opportunity to buy Alice a nice new cock-cage at the market. She managed to lose the lock to other other one which was a bit too tight anyway. It only fitted when it was chilly and she shrunk. It was fun making it squeeze in but also meant she couldn’t always get it on during the summer months. It wasn’t long enough either.

The really fun bit was that I made Alice buy her new cock cage from the nice young lady running the stall. She asked Alice about size and girth and the size of her balls for the ring. It was wonderful to see Alice squirm.

I wanted Alice to have to be measured for it but that wasn’t going to be possible. Humiliation is such a pleasure.

I’m also looking for a collar and lead for Alice. This is a new development, I only thought of it on Sunday; I got the idea from the LAM event. I want to move the femdom side up a little and Alice’s status in life down a little more.

I’ve told Alice that she will be wearing a collar more often, especially at events like LAM. There were plenty of stalls selling collars but at £30 and £40, they were very overpriced. I’m going to look in a pet shop instead. I want one for her clitty/pussyballs and one for her neck. Pink leather.

I was also after some leather clothing but we got there about 20 minutes before the market closed so I didn’t have enough time. I love wearing leather as it’s much more natural than latex and PVC; for me anyway. I know others love latex which is great but it’s not my thing.

THE FETISH EVENT

The LAM event was a bit of a social gathering and clearly many people knew each other; probably from other events. What I realised is that it’s not for me.

I’m utterly open-minded but LAM covers all fetishes. There is little femdom and I saw no sissies at all although there were several attractive cross-dressers which was lovely.

I tend to feel uncomfortable around female submissives and male masters. And people in dog masks. I’m happy that people can do as they please with their own fetishes but I only enjoy femdom and male feminisation.

In the end, we left the after-party after about an hour, which included having something to eat.

A DEVOTION TO FEMDOM

There is light at the end of the tunnel for me. We also go to the Devotion event. This is for femdom only, or those who identify as being feminine and dominant which is also wonderful. It’s in West Bromwich in the midlands of England so not too far from many places, including north London.

This event is more my thing, female dominants and male submissives either naked or as sissies.

IT’S FEMDOM ONLY NEXT TIME

The moral of the story is that we should be careful to only attend events that suit your specific interest. Catch-all fetish events are great for those who enjoy the diversity of fetishes. For me I’m a little old-fashioned, it’s femdom, femdom and femdom. Throw in male feminisation and I’m happy.

Besides, femdom and forced feminisation is not a fetish, it’s real life. Isn’t it?