There are a number of misconceptions about Female Led Relationships, particularly when there is a dose of Femdom and Forced Feminisation thrown in. I guess that most of these misconceptions come from fiction and fantasies in books and on the internet.

The reality of real-life FLRs is very different.

Many of us who live in wife-led relationships are in happy, caring and loving relationships. There is a high level of cooperation and agreement in regard to the way we have chosen to live.

This is certainly the case with me and my sissy husband.

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For example, I always prefer to speak about my husband’s ongoing feminisation as ‘encouraged’ rather than ‘forced’. I may push and prod but we are going down theis path of turning my husband into a girly sissy together.

My enjoys our lifestyle and being feminised but always needs some encouragement to go to the next step. She has to fight against her social conditioning and a deep feeling that presenting as a submissive sissy is wrong.

I have far less problem with this or with having a husband who is feminine. At times I will therefore need to be a little firm as, after all, I am the lead in our home. It’s what we agreed,

I wear the trousers at home and my sissy husband most certainly does not, literally and figuratively. I would never ever want her to become an actual women without a clitty for me to play with.

I want her to look like a woman in all other ways though as I love both the look and the control this brings me. As I often say, you will get little argument and no macho traits from a man in a little miniskirt and stockings.

For me, encouraged feminisation is a necessary element of our relationship accepted by both although how far it goes is a question of ongoing debate and persuasion by me.

It’s a misconception that control in a wife-led marriage is about being aggressive, verbally abusive or angry. This is simply not true. I need to be assertive, yes, and dominant yes. To be honest, it’s impossible for me not to be,

But I am also kind, caring and loving. For example, yesterday my sissy husband had to go into the centre of London to the offices of the company she works for. Usually she works at home. She returned home around 7pm.

I was ready for her as I knew it had been a long day and she would be tired and reluctant to change out of her suit and into girls’ clothes. I couldn’t risk this.

But I wasn’t waiting at the front door with a cane reading to harangue her. No. I was waiting with a smile, a kiss and holding up a pretty little dress as she walked in the door. “Here you are, sweetie, I know you can’t wait to slip this on and relax.”

My sissy gave me a soft tired smile.

“I’ll make a nice cup of tea while you’re changing, Petal,” I added. I love to give her girly pet names.

Sissy changed with no problem and I got what I wanted without fuss. This is how it works in the real world.

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