As someone who arrived late into the lifestyle of ‘encouraged’ feminisation, I am still learning. I didn’t actually realise the importance of sissy hairstyles for a submissive sissy husband.
I did realise the importance early on about shaving. Having my sissy husband Alice’s legs and body shaved was vital to her feminisation process. Shaping her pubes into a little pussy triangle was another important step after initially having it all shaved clean.
What I missed until recently was the real hair on Alice’s head. I hadn’t paid it any attention since it’s thinning and grey.
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For the past three years or more of her increasing feminisation at the time of writing, I left it as it was; a short cropped style. I made her use a wig at home and I had thought that was enough. Oh no.
What I missed was the fact that, although not perfect, having her real hair longer made Alice more feminine outside the house too. Also as important is the ritual of styling and dressing her hair. Sissy hairstyles even if less than you want, are wonderful.
Her hair is growing very slowly, but it’s half way over her ears and growing down her neck. I can start to do female things with it. Blowdrying is good as it straightens it and I can curl it under or up slightly — very slightly as it’s still short.
I can also ensure she uses various female hair products. Eventually I can get it done by a stylist in the way the nail lady does her nails. This is important for any sissy girl that they experience female pleasures.
As for dressing her hair, I can now put in clips with bows and flowers to hold back her fringe or just for a pretty look. This wasn’t possible before as her hair was cropped too short. For the first time I’ve been able to put in a tiny pony tail, maybe just a couple of inches long but it’s a start.
I’ve also been able to put in two small pony tails at the side of her head using thin elastic bands. They’re only a couple of incehs long, but they look so cute.
I know it’s not perfect but I now realise that even if your partner has some male traits regarding hair such as thinning, there are still options to make her much more feminised anyway.
And if like me, you have to allow your husband to revert to a male look for appearances outside the house, this allows for a much more feminised and sfiter look for her at all times.
Work with what you have. And there’s still the pretty wig for the home.
Lady Alexa, I absolutely love all of your work. I especially love hearing about your feminization of Alice. See, I live vicariously through her stories and other feminine Sissy male stories that have found such perfection in a Woman and wife. My wife supported my full crossdressing and feminine aroused and love of serving and bottoming as her fully feminized sissy . I could live 24/7 as a woman and would be so happy. However after her seeing me dressed and enjoying her realistic vibe a bit to lost in the moment ; she just stopped. Not only after 4 years of her even buying me bras and dresses as gifts which I loved, she stopped. Now there is nothing feminine I’m allowed to do ,wear or enjoy. It’s been 3 years since a bra has hugged me in its peaceful embrace or I have felt a supernova orgasm from being taken after being helpless to stop her advances and arousing assaults on my nipples causing me to always free fall into full girl mode. How wonderful it is to see a couple so happy and so in love. It’s so thoughtful that you have given such dedication to your sissy girls needs. She may not even realize how lucky she is. But it’s likely she knows your value and clearly understands your dominance is absolute. I love that your getting her use to interacting with other sissy girls. Some of my most enjoyable exciting yet scary interactions were from sissy girl slumber parties where the women would control and direct all activities. One of my exes got me into being pegged. Ya see I too had a barrier, I could not bring myself to ever think about a male as anything sexually good or interesting in any way. Sissys , transgender women I do not count as makes by any means of the word make. But she got me use to blindfolds and strapons. After just once or twice a week; turned into several months of being blindfolded and topped only, I didn’t even realize being topped was the only sex we were having. Then one day she told me to get ready and on the bench. she had a new toy and was going to teach me what a realistic strap on would feel like. I was happy and immediately felt myself slip into girl mode. For months as she was topping me she would tell me to beg her for a real one. She would tell me how much better a mans appendage would feel . She would tell me about all the different men that had taken her and how she loved to feel a real man drive her helplessly to waking up the neighborhood. But on this day as she still said these things, things felt different in the room as I layed there awaiting her approach. Immediately I noticed differences she just kept talking in my ear and as I was slowly taken ; I felt a massive conclusion approaching almost immediately. I begged I screamed my whole body began to shudder and she pulled my blindfold off for me to see her legs open in front of my face. As I was trying to see who was behind me ;she pulled me by the hair to her and I instantly did what she had trained me to do the last several months. After what seemed 10 more shudders and quakes the evening ended in exhaustion for us both. The person behind me turned out to be my ex’s lover , she had been sleeping with him for almost two years. I’m still not into men but do understand the needs of having one around for women with a sissy girl in a flr. Which brings me back to my current marriage. My wife will not hear of anything feminine on my part I don’t know how to get her to understand these are genuine needs for me honestly as much of a need for me as it is a need for her. I don’t know how to get her to even think about adding any of that element to our home life . When I met her I had more female clothing makeup and footwear, then male clothing and a toy box to be envied by the most promiscuous of women or feminine sissy girls. I’m so sad she has ended any and all of my feminine expression. My wife is deep in the church and will not hear of changing or compromising her beliefs . Is there any way I can approach her that you are aware of to get her to give just a bit towards a FLR where we can both enjoy being who we were born to be? My wife is great in every other possible way as a wife ,partner and friend. But it’s this one thing yet it’s pretty major. I’m actually resentful she won’t once in a while dress me up and treat me as her lesbian lover all weekend. What’s odd to me is she has many lesbian friends one of which she has had a relationship with yet is not ok with my feminization. At least my hair is long below shoulder length and my ears are both pierced . I prefer the feminine life and the only reason I have not taken hormones is because I would loose her as my wife and because I’m getting older I would never reach passing very well. But in my heart and soul I’m 98% Catwoman 2% Thor, so I feel I need your help. What are my options?
Thanks for your comment Samantha. I’m pleased you accept the sissy life but it’s a shame your wife has stopped enjoying it. Yours is a question I get all the time and I don’t have a solution for you as you can’t make someone enjoy what they don’t. All I can say is to show her how being submissive and feminine, at least in actions, is beneficial to her and just maybe she’ll see the light. In my case, it was me who drove and continues to drive our FLR so I don’t know whay all women wouldn’t want this
Well it’s so very nice of you to take your time to respond. I really don’t understand it myself. I literally do everything she requests and many things before she has to ask. When in bed I clearly get aroused in feminine ways. If she touches my nipples I’m lost in feminine desire I can’t control. It’s so overwhelming. I think in her mind I’m already doing everything so why take a dominant position when she clearly gets all of the flr bennifit without the need to deal with the feminization aspect. But thank you so much for your thoughts.