My husband and I have come a long way in our female-led relationship. Three years ago we were a ‘normal’ vanilla couple when we discovered a new activity to spice up our love life: ‘forced’ feminisation and submission.

He now lives a feminised life in the home although much less so outside the home. I call him a her, a sissy and a girl (not a women as girl shows the relationship levels between her and me) and I have named her Alice. But how much more feminization can I push?

I speak down to her as she is my inferior. It’s been a voyage of discovery and I wish I’d found out about this female led lifestyle many years ago. Alice obviously enjoys the lifestyle too of course but sometimes has to be dragged along a little into new areas she is initially uncomfortable with.

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I prefer my husband feminised but I want her to still perform his sexual duties even though I am completely in control in the bedroom. That’s to say, she has to be feminine in appearance and manner and submissive to me but fully operational down below.

I particularly like her to be extremely feminine, with a short pretty dress or skirt in white or pink or yellow maybe. I like her in stockings with high heels and so on in order to accentuate her feminisation which turns me on sexually and in a control sense.

I have feminised her gradually to a point where she accepts that is her gender now, more or less, and is happy with this. This works very well inside the home but continues to be difficult outside for her to accept this despite various discussions and blogs on the subject which she reads and initially accepts.

Many of the changes I have made Alice initially doesn’t want to do but she slowly becomes used to them and finally, they become a normal part of her life. Knickers being a great example. She prefers to wear them and would never consider male underpants.

I can understand, to some extent, her reluctance to wear skirts and dresses outside the house as this is an obvious show of her changing genderm especially to friends and family.

But I continue to face refusals on getting her ears pierced. I also want her to wear feminine rings on her fingers. I suppose nothing goes completely smoothly and I probably want too much too soon.

I’ve found the best way is to introduce these things gradually. For example, for her to wear the rings in the home then she‘ll get used to them. For her to wear skirts in the garden outside to become accustomed to this and while driving, which she does at times.

I know this is the way but I get impatient. I know that eventually she will get her ears pierced. But I really want her fully feminised now. Patience Lady Alexa. I will get there one day.