There’s nothing I enjoy more than to humiliate my husband. Seeing him in pretty feminine clothes or exposed to me, and others performing menial tasks is wonderful.
Is this weird? Is this normal? Who cares, I love to humiliate my husband. It’s such fun.
CONSENSUAL HUMILIATION
Why I love to humiliate my husband is a question I have asked myself a lot. And I’ve discussed with my husband, Alice. We have a loving and caring marriage so why do I want to humiliate her?
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The truth is I’ve always been very dominant. It’s incredibly exciting to have a steady, stable and loving relationship with someone I can do whatever I want with, whenever I feel like it. Purely for my personal entertainment.
I therefore want my husband in the shortest, most girly pink skirts possible or the sexiest feminine revealing lingerie or naked for me to play about with. I adore doing humiliating sexual acts on her. I have access to anything. Anything I can think of that gives me pleasure is in scope.
The ruder, naughtier and more humiliating for Alice, the better and more fun for me. Am I weird? Is Alice weird as she enjoys it too?
I do not want to physically hurt her, this is entirely consensual. This is something we have discussed and agreed between us. I want this type of relationship and power over my husband, it’s important for me. She is completely open to anything I want.
I am fortunate that I have found a husband who wants me to be happy. She accepts whatever I want to do, knowing I would never doing anything damaging to her or push her into something wrong or even illegal.
It’s mutual trust. Besides, she loves it.
This doesn’t mean I’m not loving, affectionate and attentive to Alice. I am. But I expect that she fulfils my demands when I make them and that she spoils me and she obediently completes any command that I make. My demands can happen anytime I feel like and and can be anything from wanting a drink served to doing something sexual or sexually humiliating to her.
HOW I HUMILIATE MY HUSBAND
As I push the bounds of our relationship and my husband’s humiliation further , I find I want more and more. I want to push things further. How far can I go? Am I weird?
I want to increase Alice’s humiliation by humiliating her in front of other people: women and sissies. I want other females to see me humiliating Alice. Equally, I want Alice to become good friends with other sissies for my amusement and to do what ever I tell them to each other.
It’s great fun to share Alice’s humiliation with other couples we know in the scene. Sometimes, all three of us are clothed including the other sissy, while Alice is naked. What fun. One of my favourite party tricks is to make her masturbate herself but stop on the edge.
I like to discuss with our FLR friends how to humiliate my husband and make Alice more feminine or how to dress her to humiliate her further. I show them Alice’s clitty to ask for suggestions on pubic hair styling or to discuss what rude or supposedly taboo things I can do to her.
THE ULTIMATE PLEASURE
The more extreme the humiliation I subject Alice to, the better – within the obvious limits of what’s wrong. The power to be able to do as you wish to another person for your enjoyment is intense, exhilarating and extremely arousing.
I’d love to hear your own ideas for humiliating my husband. Anything goes, the naughtier and ruder, the better.
Let me know what you do to your sissy, or your mistress does to you and leave your comments below or send to me privately by email.
I’ll try out your best ideas on Alice and post them here, name checking the person whose idea it was.
Am I weird?
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If Your husband accepts and embraces Your making him feminine, why do You or would she consider that humiliating? The humiliation would seem to only come into play when her existence in such a role were exposed to the elements who would neither understand, or accept her in that role or see her in that light.
I’ve explained that in several posts and my books How I Feminized My Husband 1 & 2. In short, my husband is not transexual but straight and male so feminisation is a form of exciting humiliation for her and control for me.
I keep Todd in pink panties no matter the scenario. Work, home, vacation, nights out, My closest friends and my sister have seen Todd nude many times, as I humiliate his small useless penis. I love rubbing my smelly feet in Todd’s face, insisting he “suck my toes like a good little cocksucker” as my sister and bestie Taryn observe. I also tickle Todd for an audience, my naked big strong husband reduced to a giggling schoolgirl who cannot control her bladder. Todd has licked up a mess another man created inside me, and that is going to become a regular occurrence, along with Todd truly sucking a real man’s cock for me, like the little bitch he is
I think my experience in an FLR is pretty tame compared to the other posts but here goes: my wife loves to show all her gym friends how she can do anything she wants and I’ll obey.
So about once a month, its her turn to host the Bravo watch party so her and about 5 or 6 of her friends show up and, of course, I’m supposed to have all the food and drinks ready. You wouldn’t think women would drink a lot after a gym class but its not long before they are all “feeling it.”
Then I get the call I know is coming – I can hear that the TV is paused, then my wife whispering then hysterical laughter from all the women.
I enter the room and am ordered to strip down naked and do 20 jumping jacks. The sound of my penis slapping against my stomach has the girls rolling.
Then Erin (wife) orders me to kneel before her. Not the comfortable sitting kneel, the proper kneel. And she reminds me to part my knees 45° to expose my junk. The laughter has died down and its almost quiet as Erin tells her friends that they don’t need whips or chains to make a man suffer as she lowers her legs on my shoulders as I am now her furniture.
“If you want to make a man suffer and beg for mercy, all you need are your two smelly, stinky, sweaty feet. That’s why I never wear socks.
She tells the girls that there is a saying among certain women of Africa that the best footstool is a man’s face.
So, with her feet behind my head, she pry’s off one shoe which hits the ground behind me. She holds my head still with one foot behind my head and brings her bare foot around and holds it abot 6” away from my face waiting for the smell to hit my nose. I jerk my head to the side and grimace – the smell is almost unbearable. As instructed, my hands are behind my back.
She gives me a chance to beg her not to put her feet in my face. She asks the girls to decide and no surprise – they all vote “Do it!”
For what seemed like an eternity, her foot moist with sweat glides across my face. Toes, heel, arch – alltake their turn exploring my face while the aroma tortures my nose. And right when my dignity had been completely destroyed and I finally accepted my pain and utter humiliation, she leaned forward and spit in my face several times followed by several hard slaps. “Girls, this is how you put a man in his place.” I begged her for mercy. At which time, she presented her foot, still glistening with sweat, pressed it hard into my face and asked her friends “Do you think my feet smell?” After a resounding yes, she smiled and said, well here is another thing men are good for: washing our dirty feet”. Erin had already trained me how to wash her feet and made me do it every day. So I started by sucking her heel, then folded her toes back and using my stiffened tongue , I massaged her arch as she smiled, pleased with herself. Then she kicked off her other shoe and started all over again.
Sometime in the past, she figured out that she could extend my suffering by taking one shoe off at a time. As her friends looked on in amazement, she worked my face over with the smelly foot then the clean one.
“Make sure you completely cover his face” she instructed her friends.
Now, who enjoyed watching? She asked? Several girls said that was the most incredible thing they had ever seen.
So Erin then had me lie on the floor, arms behind my back with knees up and took her place on my stomach facing me resting her freshly cleaned feet on my chest. She told one of the girls to bring a chair and put it next to me. One by one, the girls would take turns in the chair and Erin would remove her shoes. and gently place their feet across my face as I squirmed and writhed in the agony of the smell and the humiliation of being loaned out as a footrest.
Erin pointed out the wisdom of the African women – see how your arch fits snugly over his mouth and with your foot on his mouth, he can’t talk. Your other foot covers his eyes so you don’t have to look at him and as a finishing touch, his nose, between your feet is perfect to breathe in your dominating female scent.
Use his face to massage your feet. If they are dry, then have your man stick out his tongue and moisten it. Erin never seemed to run out of ideas and said wait: Ill moisten your feet. She held up each girl’s feet , leaned forward and spit on my face several times before encouraging the girls to rub it in.
The last girl to go was Erin’s friend from Nigeria who seemed very eager for her turn – I did not like this girl at all. She had broken my friend’s heart and laughed at him when he begged her to come back. She asked Erin if she could “Teach me a lesson” to which Erin happily agreed.
So Niomi originally from Ghana took over. On your knees! I knelt not sure where this was going. She pulled the chair to face me. She grabbed a towell from somewhere and threw it around my neck, kicked off both her shoes and took off her socks and shoved them in my mouth and immediately slammed both feet in my face while pulling my face in. The smell of her feet was unbearable – she squeezed her feet together and pinched my nose shut – I couldn’t breathe! When I was about to pass out, she removed her feet, rested them on my shoulder and laughed. Your friend was a loser, she said. I wouldn’t fuck him in the mouth with a dildo much less fuck him. He told me you said I was a bitch and now, you will see what I do to men who call me a bitch.
With her sweat soaked socks still in my mouth and still kneeling, Erin stepped around and asked: “Did you really tell Judd that Niomi was a bitch?” Who the fuck do you think you are?” Teach him a lesson, Niomi!
Hold his head still, Niomi told Erin. Then Niomi raised her right foot and slapped me across the face with the bottom of her foot then immediately broght it back slapping the other side of my face with the top of her foot. Each slap stinging my face and filling my nostrils with the overwhelming smell. I lost count of the number of times she slapped me but it was a lot.
She yanked her socks out of my mouth and ordered me to stick out my tongue and she slowly drug her foot down my face, laughing as I winced from her smell and the taste of her sweat.
“You are goood!” Erin told Niomi.
“Did everyone enjoy themselves?”
They unpaused the show and I broght them more drinks and snacks. Still naked. Some of the girls, emboldened by the liquor and Niomi’s demonstration taunted me. One girl ordered me to suck her toes and another asked me to lie back down because she loved the feeling of a face beneath her feet. Erin approved each request and coached the girls on how to use their sexuality to not only control men but to explore hidden pleasures that men could provide.
Erin pointed out that she chose to use her feet just to make the point that a man can be made to do anything a woman wants. How many of you even imagined before tonight that a man you never met would offer his face for you to rest your feet even when they smelled their worst Or that a man could be made to lick clean the feet of a woman who used those feet to repeatedly slap him him across the face.
Erin went on: I just gave you a glimpse into what its like to have a trained male at your disposal. When I get home from work, dinner is in the oven and he’s on his back waiting for me to sit on his chest and scoot up so he can bury his tongue between my legs and pleasure me until I beg him to stop. Then I spin around so he can pleasure me from the other side. Nothing in the world feels better than a man’s face between your cheeks and his tongue swirling around in your ass. And exhausted from pleasure, I scoot back against hi knees, to rest and what does he do? He picks up my feet and gently places them on his face as a sign of submission, devotion and acceptance of my female superiority. And for desert, without being told, he slowly sucks my heels, carefully cleans between each of my toes and licks the bottom of my feet until I am satisfied.
Fact or fantasy?
Fact. Each of the encounters took place as described just not all in the same evening. I changed everyone’s names for obvious reasons.
There is no doubt that my wife ***loves*** to show off in front of her friends. And yes, I am required to attend to her and her guest(s) in my birthday suit.
None of her friends have a similar relationship and I think they envy my wife and look up to her.
Deep down, I think she ramps up her domination of me in front of her friends as a way of dominating them too if that makes sense. Its like she is the Queen and her friends are just there to live vicariously thru her. Add alcohol to this and you get nights like the one I described above where she feels generous and “loans me out.”
That’s good then
I love the satisfaction of paddling a bare naked Todd such that his erection disappears, and the tears flow. He goes from big muscular husband, to sobbing little bitch in about 30 or 40 whacks with my hard acrylic paddle
Added humiliation is ordering him to strip in front of other, my sister in particular. He had once insulted Tina arguing over politics, I felt he crossed the line, so he retrieved the paddle, removed his pants and underwear, received a severe paddling as Tina observed, and I ordered him to remain nude the rest of the evening and apologize to Tina as he rubbed her feet.
I love my husband but in this FLR I run the show
My husband has a tiny little penis and likes small penis humiliation. Sometimes I do enjoy humiliating him in front of my friends telling them how tiny he is. I know he likes it so it makes it very easy. I like making him wear my panties and sometimes dress him like a girl. It’s fun and hysterical seeing him dressed like a sissy. I also like to peg him while he’s dressed like a girl, it’s very humiliating for him and he cums very quickly.
I believe in an FLR it’s important and a whole lot of fun to humiliate your partner’s penis. I have feminised my husband’s little thing and call it a clitty and have named it Missy. In fact it’s not an it but a her. I’ve named her Missy to be precise
Madam Kat are you from MA?
your sissy is a big one … kat
i have been serving my Wife as her feminized maid for about 6 yrs now and she loves to humiliate me. One of her favorite ways is having me wear pantyhose under shorts when she has me doing yard work or washing the car. i wear shorts, pantyhose, a tube top and flats or feminine sneakers. If she allows me to go to the beach with her i must wear a women’s bathing suit or bikini suit to humiliate me.
Hello Lady Alex,
Love your site an post.
I met a mistress once in a city park that was filled with people. We walked around. She took a moment and spit in my face. I wasn’t allowed to wipe. We planned this all day of course. I had to pee so bad! She told me to wet myself and I did so. I don’t think anyone noticed when it actually happened. My jeans were all wet an stained. We sat down under a tree. And she put her dirty shoes on my chest. I removed them an her dirty socks an massaged her feet. We heard some college women near us say ‘OMG’. I wet mysef again sitting down. She soothed me and smiled. I was so humiliated. Afterwards she gave me a hug and told me how proud she was. I walked back to my car wet thinking every passerby was watching me and say my pants
Hello All!
as a submissive husband I will share an experience which left me humiliated, and really questioned my commitment to the whole life style let me set the scene. I know that I am attractive to the oppose sex and to men as well, and I admit to flirting with gay men knowing full well that I have no interest in a physical relationship with them, I do all the alpha things I train hard and have a good toned body and I am fit, but I am approaching 45.
My wife is not as fitness focused as I am, but she is as tall as me 5’9 and some 6 years younger and used to be a mistress ( that is how I met her.) She has pale skin, has a sharp raven haired bob cut, rose bud shaped lips and a button nose, and the appearance of butter would not melt my mouth.
I use to go and see her, for the following humiliation, ie she would restrain me and slowly smear pies in my face. For this I would lick her boots and ultimately give oral.
This was over 15 years ago, and to cut a long story short we married and even have small children now. She has always kept a stud, but until recently, I have found that I not have encountered them, until now….
So my wife has locked me in the pillory or stocks, it is low level I have to sit uncomfortably on the bench, while I have pies rubbed in my face or I rim her other give really uncomfortable oral.
So I think you know where this is going. I am locked in her pillory, and she introduces her new stud, and she unzips his jeans and takes out his cock and strokes it into my face, then when he is hard, she gets a sloppy cheese cake and takes it out of the box, and holds under my face and his cock. So I am getting hard this is normally where she tell me that she will enjoy rubbing the pie in my face and leaving me their for x amount of time.
But this time she holds the pie under my face and strokes this ‘studs’ cock, with the other hand, and tells me that she is going to make him cum in my face. That is not what I want and she can see that in facial expression I use our safe word ‘orange’ but she actually laughs. She says that he has loads of cum in his ball and that she is going to enjoy watching him cum in my face, after that she is going to smush the pie into my face.
Honestly I feeling really torn, I enjoy a certain level of humiliation, I enjoy my wife getting off on it more than me. This is more than I was expecting.
well all I can say it is she actually carried out her threat ( as if she would not, I saw that flash in her eyes that always makes me shudder.). After she spent the rest of the evening with her ‘stud’. While i was locked in the pillory. The next day I was really angry and asked about the our safe word, she told me that she really enjoyed it and that I should move up a level.
well lady Alexa, as a submissive husband I honestly can not think of anything more humiliating, so feel free to inflict it on your husband. But I still have mixed feelings, I will admit that after I gave her oral and I fucked her really hard as ordered and if I am honest I have not felt this horny for ages, but my manhood if you like feels much more diminished.
Best regards
Alex
I’m not interested in having a stud, I much prefer sissy boys. But substitute for a sissy then maybe
Very nice but I don’t intend to take a stud. As for a sissy cumming on my sissy’s face, now that’s a different question
Humiliation is a key FLR tool. Amazing how my husbands ego is stripped away as his clothes come off and I have a paddle in my hand,
I use a lot of tickling on Todd, he’s very ticklish and after orgasm he cannot STAND being tickled, so of course he gets an occasional “punishment” tickle torture when I’m bored with paddling him. Before orgasm being tickled excited Todd, after he cums it’s pure torture!
I have made Todd strip bare naked in front of my gal pals, and twice I’ve paddled him to tears with my sister watching.
He gets a dose of my bare feet now and then, I force him to kiss, smell, lick, rub my sweaty feet.
As far as cum, I do love to see cum in my big strong husbands sissy mouth! On the occasions he’s allowed to orgasm inside me, he’s trained to immediately lick me clean, and more than once he’s tasted another man’s sperm from my dominant yet somewhat unfaithful wet crotch
It’s also fun. I don’t allow Alice to cum at all which is in equal parts, incredible humiliation and hilarious when she’s on the brink but stopped. It’s wonderful to tease her verbally when she’s desperate. Give it a go
Todds orgasm are rare, mine are frequent. I make Todd go weeks at a time without orgasm. I can tell if he has cum! He gets a severe corporal punishment if I notice his balls are deflated. After 14+ days his balls ache for release, so I tease him mercilessly with his most strong sexual turn ons, only to deny him orgasm again, Todd would do anything I asked after I literally tickle his erection after weeks of orgasm denial, my dilemma is HOW far do I dare push him? He has agreed to ANYTHING, and I’m ready for a stronger FLR and continuous obedience from Todd, no matter what I ask of him. I want to push him way out of his comfort zone, yet still maintain respect for him afterward
You know it’s not necessary that a sissy cums ever. They can learn and it becomes normal for them. They adapt
I love you Lady Alexa for the suggestion of not allowing my husband Todd to cum at all! He has adapted to life without orgasms and resigned himself of pleasuring me, and expecting nothing in return. His little hard man-clit throbs SO hard when he rubs my smelly feet (he has a foot fetish) or orally pleasures me. That is the perfect time to tickle Todd including his full testicles, then when he’s so so ready to explode, I stop all physical contact. I wear the pants in this marriage, and Todd wears the panties. I warned him if he masturbates a severe bare buttocks paddling will be forthcoming
I believe it best to keep submissives from ejaculation
Thank you Alexa! We just had the first anniversary (one year) since Todd has ejaculated! He moaned and whined the first month like the cute little bitch he is, but I stood my ground. He provides me oral pleasure, I tickle him and rub my smelly feet in his face…….both of which WILDLY arouses Todd…..then he gets no release. It’s amazing how much more attentive and obedient Todd is for me when there is zero chance he will have an orgasm. I tease him when he tells me his full balls ache, I have introduced mild public humiliation into our FLR, such as having Todd rub and smell my bare feet when my sister or friends are visiting in the family room, I have also had Todd serve drinks bare naked as ladies inspect him like a piece of meat. My happiest moment was learning Todd loves my stinky feet, that allowed me to take charge and implement an erotic FLR.
A year, very good.
Congratulations one the first anniversary!!
If he is still whining then in my experience his balls aren’t aching because he is ‘backed up’ it’s in his mind unless there is a serious health issue. I found that mine swelled a little but then remained about the same size until I started hormones and they shrank back (another threat to hold in reserve!) I was told by the clinic that older semen in the body with no living sperm gets reabsorbed and passed through the bladder so as long as increased levels of production aren’t stimulated there is no issue. I believe the old ‘relief massage’ idea may be the root of this modern myth.
Here’s wishing you a great second year.
nice topic i like it
omgoooodddd I just came accross this site how wonderful for me as a sissy that loves humililation more then anything espically if gg administers it. Thank you i love it stephaniecurl
Welcome Stephanie
My present wife hates my dressing up, so she threw out all of my male clothes & told me, since I want to dress like a woman, I can now live as a woman full time. She took all of my female clothes & hung them in the spare bedroom closet, she filled my dresser drawers with all of my panties, bras, pantyhose & nightgowns & she has all of my heels all lined up along my closet floor. She is always bringing her friends from work home so they can see the sissy that she married. She told me that her & her friends are going to take me with them to a male strip club & make me suck off the stripper, I am really looking forward to that.
Very good
I don’t know if there are others out there who are like me or if I am just an odd ball but I really love being humiliated. From the very first time my ex wife took me to the salon she goes to while I was dressed as a male & she told the girls working there that, I wanted them to do everything they could to make me look like a pretty woman, she told them she would be back in a few hours with an outfit for me to wear that will go with my new feminine appearance. From then on my wife would take me out shopping while I was dressed completely as a woman, then tell the sales girl that I was her sissy husband. I loved it when she would take me to a nail salon & tell the ladies there, that her sissy husband wanted to get acrylic nails & the whole time I just stood there wearing a mini skirt, top, heels & full makeup, I really liked the way the women would look at me. The best humiliation I ever received from my ex was, two days before Halloween, we just left the salon, I had just gotten my shoulder length hair frosted, cut & styled into a very girly look & had my eyebrows waxed into super thin lines with a high feminine arch in them. I was wearing a blue, velvet, mini dress, blue, platform heels, that showed off my dark red polished toes, over sized, blue, hoop earrings in my pierced ears, a blue necklace & blue, bangle bracelets, we left the salon with my wife driving. She drove us over to my mothers house & had me go inside to let my mother see me. While we were there, my wife called up my sister & had her come over to my mom’s house. We were all sitting around the kitchen table having coffee, when my sister asked me why I was wearing my Halloween costume tonight, two days before Halloween, my wife spoke up & told her that this was not a costume, that I dress like this all of the time, my wife then added that, she just picked me up from the beauty salon, I had an appointment to have my hair done & my eyebrows waxed, she told them that I wanted to look like a woman so I could start living as one, then my wife looked at me & said, right Joanne ? I looked her in her eyes & replied, yes
If anything will ever show how expectations can alter this must be it. It’s so good to read about another who has come to embrace the inevitable, the bonus for your ex- being that your Mum and sister will think well of her for what she did.
I was started by my ex- and found myself maintaining the feminisation I’d been taken to, but I didn’t look after myself and put on a lot of weight and other issues. That led to the gender clinic and everything got better I hope it did/does for you too. I hate going out as a male but will not go out properly dressed until I hit my designated weight. Then I’ll carry on 24/7, I’m using the time to get my make-up right and clear my predecessors clutter.
Just part of the humiliation training that has helped eliminate any and all resistance to her control over the years of her owned sissy gurl. At first it was bad but now this practice is a daily routine and it is an honor to be allowed to drink it. Over 25 years i have lost all ability to resist her deviant and humiliating demands. She has also become addicted to the power and control she has over her sissy gurl who is also considered by her as property.
Being used as my wife’s urinal is a daily ritual especially at night as she doesn’t want the inconvenience of having to leave her bed to go to the bathroom. She eats healthy so it’s not bad and she has also given it to me out of a wine bottle in a public restaurant after she poured it into the provided wine glass. At home and in the car from a baby bottle etc.
Yuk. Sounds disgusting
My wife has been training me to be totally fem and submissive. Today we are sunbathing she dressed me in a pink and white bikini and I’m making the drinks. She has been taking pics and sent to her girlfriend. I’m cool it’s part of my training. I love it
Good to hear
There is nothing like the embarrassment, humiliation and also sexual excitement that comes from public exposure. Over the many years of being a submissive fem-male to my Dominant wife she has done things in public that would be very shocking to others. Being taken to the beach in a female swimsuit, taken out dressed in many different ways including sissy dresses etc. Being taken for corset, girdle, chastity belt and bra fittings. Over the years she feeds on Dominating me and i have completely lost any will to resist her orders or treatment of me both in private and in public. Any failures on my part to please her request are met with swift and harsh discipline or some type of public or private humiliation or embarrassment. i am not even allowed to use a bathroom for any reason without her permission. But i have come to accept my position in live as a submissive sissy fem-male and i am now at peace with my inner self. Because all my life i have felt female in a male body.
I too love humiliation and punishment. Inour last session I was dressed as a french maid, with a pink satin dress, white frilly apron and cap, pink wig and sparkly pink platforms. Underneath I had a five-layer chiffon petticoat in white, a pink satin sissy bra, pink frilly six-strap suspender belt with white, pink-seamed stockings and long chiffon bloomers that peek out from under my skirt and pettis. I had misbehaved and answered back the day before when I was in male clothing so I was due for a punishment.
First I was made to lie on my back on the cold bathroom tiles. She took off her panties and straddled me. Her long pleated skirt enveloped me. At first I thought that forced cunnilingus would be the order of the day, but it was far worse than that.
She let a small trickle of urine trickle out onto my face. I felt so humiliated, but then a big gush came and I was ordered to open my mouth and swallow every drop. Any spilt would earn further punishment. Try as I may, I couldn’t help a slight overflow, and when she had finished I was ordered to lick her clean.
Then She made me turn over on my hands and knees with my chiffon clad bottom held as high as I could go. She told me to stay like that, and left the room. I maintained the uncomfortable and humiliating position until She returned. She had a long rattan cane, which She held in front of my face and ordered me to kiss from end to end.
She told me that I would receive twelve hard strokes through my chiffon bloomers. I had to beg for each stroke, keep count and thank Her for each blow. Any failure to obey this or any crying out would result in twelve more strokes with my knickers down round my ankles. She walked around me, smilng at my discomfort, and flexed and swished the cane as I begged Her to start.
The first strock landed with a sharp crack. I thanked Her, counted one and begged for the next. And so it went on, Her beating me through the chiffon and me obediently carrying out Her orders. She landed the twelfth stroke squarely on top of the first and it stung like anything. Despite myself I cried out in pain.
So, I was forced to stand up, lower my bloomers right down, bend over and grip my ankles. The additional punishment began and I nearly fainted with the pain as the twelve strokes rained down. When She had finished She took a mirror and held it so that I could look between my legs and see the livid red marks on my tender bottom. I thanked Her profusely, and was allowed to stand up. She told me to take my bloomers right off, as I wouldn’t be needing them again that day. She fastened the neck of my dress with a silver padlock and announced that She would be taking me for a walk. But that’s another story…
Yesterday She took me shopping. I was wearing normal male outerwear, but underneath pink seamed stockings a six-strap pink suspender belt, pink satin french knickers and a matching camisole. I normally wear male ear studs, but for our shopping trip had to wear pearl studs.
First stop was a lingerie boutique where the staff know her well, and she announced that she wanted me fitted for a bra.I was made to take off my shirt and camisole and then the manageress measured me. She thought that, with suitable falsies, a 40C would be ideal, in pink. She disappeared for a few minutes and returned with a gorgeous pink satin and lace bra, which she helped me try on. It fitted well, and Mistress, said we’ll have that, in pink, then asked if they had the same thing in white, red and black. They did, and we bought them. Mistress announced that I would wear the pink bra home, and I put my cami and shirt back on top of them.
Next stop was M&S, where She held up blouses and skirts against me, then chose one of each and told me to go to the dressing cubicles and try them on. They felt divine, and much to my embarrassment, I was made to leave the changing cubicle and parade my finery in front of the other customers, before changing back into my male outerwear.
Then we went home. For our next excursion She has threatened (promised!) to make me wear my sissy maid outfit, with a remote-controlled anal vibrating dildo and a collar and lead.
Give his male part a flamboyant female name… “Little dolly” or something try to use the expression in public.
Considering some men have gynecomastia, little breast forms have to be worn always….aslo hip pads.
Tan lines
Femenine accesories always such as necklace , rings….
If in male mode in public, ask him if he is carrying a pad or an extra pair of panties that you can use because you forgot, got wet… or a lipstick
In general shopping is always a good timing for some humilliation…buying a panties for you asking Alice if she needs an additional one for her. or buying a dildo for a strap-on asking…will you feel good with this one inside?
Refer to his male persona as a third one…do you remember when we were together and …. next Friday evening I’ve invited X to enjoy our presence (or you can replace presence with derrieres) after dinner
Everytime you test a perfume for you test on Alice
Take Alice to male strippers club with you.Make her put some money on the performers
I call it a clitty, the little princess or she when I refer to it – she’s getting hard.
Some other good ideas here
I’d love to read an update of cathy peterson and her husband during covid…
Dress him as femenine as possible and go to a gay pub
Alice should address a man of your choice ( a drag queen ) asking the man to spend the night with you because he is not (even if he is) male enough to satisfy you.
If the unknown suggests a threesome…he should accept.
How I wish my wife were still alive – she would have LOVED humiliating me b- in a very loving way, I’m sure
Happy Valentines Day Lady Alexa!
Perhaps a joint Dr.s appointment for a well check up for Alice might be exciting and humiliating. She could be completely shaved and wear silky fem panties and a bra under her male outer clothes. Perfume and girl jeans with a feminine but unisex tee shirt could also be options. Her nipples and breast could be pumped right up to the last moment before seeing the Dr. so that they are swollen, red and obvious. Nipple jewelry would put this over the top. I love feminine bangle bracelets so that might be fun. Being tucked in the panties is an option. You could do all or most of the talking for Alice to accentuate your dominance. You could explain your FLR and tell the Dr. that Alice has questions about HRT with estrogen and androgens. Then have Alice tell the Dr. what her questions are. Specifically the changes to breasts, nipples, libido and genitalia. Alice could explain what type of results she would like to see if this is a medical possibility. She could even request a prescription to start the process. You would not have to use them if you elected not to. You could keep them on the bathroom shelf telling her you are considering that option or actually start HRT just until her nipples begin to respond and then stop. Possibly starting and stopping periodically to slightly feminize the nipples without damaging erections when you desire them. Alice may begin to crave and desire this physical feminization which you control. Alice could request a prostate exam. Imagine her discomfort taking off her cute panties or pulling them down and climbing onto the exam table on her knees while you watch or hold her hand refusing to step outside for this exam. Alice being pre lubricated with KY gel might be a fun touch. When waiting for the Dr. you could “accidentally “ open the door a crack risking Alice being seen in her bra and panties. You of course will have her strip down before the Dr. steps in. She could be sitting demurely with her legs crossed. If the Dr.s Nurse comes in first, so much the better! Our fantasy is to be beautiful and feminine and to have others see and notice this. This is terrifying and deliciously exciting at the same time. I expect Alice may circle her silky panties just imagining this!
Yours,
Cindy
For us it has been a journey that has taken years to get to where we are today. We have always been sexually adventurous in the bedroom and have incorporated light toy and fantasy play since we were married twenty years ago. We have touched on many fantasies including group play and bisexuality for me, the male half. Mostly vanilla with some kink but overall very satisfying for both of us.
Our journey toward a FLR relationship started over a couple of years ago. Like other couples we were busy raising kids and leading a busy life that led to play time taking a backseat. My wife and I were traveling and she needed to get a pedicure for an event we were attending. She mentioned playfully that she’d like to paint my toenails. Since we were sans children that weekend I eagerly obliged as it greatly turned me on. We were both sexually aroused by it and began to paint my toenails regularly provided it was not beach season or travel time to somewhere warm.
We began some fantasy play about adding additional people to our play time. During this time my wife began menopause. As is the case with a small percentage of women she entered a stage of hyper sexuality. While she was always a very sexual person she was even greatly more so now. We began quite innocently enough to talk about finally making some of our fantasies reality. I was basically on board to her desires letting her lead the way with input and suggestions when it deemed fit.
First off we incorporated some lighter porn erotica into foreplay. It excited us both greatly and made for great sex! As we explored the world of digital porn we both enjoyed the same type of porn. It included interracial and both of our affinity for BBC. That led to new purchases of toys including his and her BBC dildos. During this experimental time my wife surprised me with numerous open backed sexy jock strap style men’s underwear that is prevalent in the gay community. I liked them! We browsed on line the different styles of undies and that led to a sissy website for sexy female style panties designed for males. She ordered several pairs. I remember when I put them on for the first time how aroused I was and how aroused she was.
While at a sex shop picking out a butt plug for me we passed by an area of CDs that were shemale oriented. I made a comment “well that’s different” and she responded “those are chicks with dicks” jokingly. About a week later as we were perusing some porn she suggested we search out some tgirl porn. We did and we liked it!
Our journey was well underway. It was obvious we both liked the same things! She was more dominant and I much more submissive She was calling the shots but I was in lockstep with her. My wife was beginning to turn me into her little plaything and I was loving it. Her language was graphic but never humiliating. We both had an affinity for BBC and for her in creating a sassy version of myself. It was clear we were on a road that was incorporating my bisexuality and her FLR tendencies. I was definitely bi curious but way more attracted to females than males. My attraction to males was strictly sexual and I had no want at the time we started nor now in having a boyfriend or transitioning to female. None. In our relationship my wife still wants me to sexually satisfy her and I am more than willing to accommodate her because I am so sexually attracted to her and even more attracted to her psychologically.
As our FLR relationship evolved so did I. There was a great deal of discussion about what she wanted and why and how I could accommodate her desires. We would be very vanilla in our regular lives with FLR tendencies. But in the bedroom it was FLR all the way. I was very comfortable with her expectations of creating a very sexual gal pal in me. Painted toes and silky sexy panties was the start. As it evolved my wife would very lovingly but forcefully suggest her next step for me. Pleasing her gave me great joy and it still does as we reached a no turning point in our evolution. My wife had arranged with me a shemale and BBC encounter as I travelled for business and it turned her on greatly. I was very nervous but both encounters were very gratifying. She loved it. Safe sex of course!!! We were to experience those things together when COVID hit. We put encounters on hold but our FLR relationship flourished. There was and still is incredible communication and exploration together that has led to incredible intimacy.
That intimacy has led to a full transformation for me and us. Over a year ago I had my first full body wax and have been hairless since, other than the occasional landing strip on the clitty region. I love as does she the silky smoothness of my skin especially when wearing my panties. We have shopped together for shoes and I have several pair of sexy heels and opened toe sandals that I wear regularly around the house. My wife says I have dancer legs and she is jealous. I have very defined calf muscles and a smaller pronounced butt that heels really accentuate. I work really hard to try and have as girly of figure that I can!!We have now incorporated padded bra sets as well. We would both love for me to get a set of titties but with family and beach time that is just not a possibility now. She purchased a super high quality wig that is incredibly realistic. I have naturally defined lips and softer features so my made up self makes me quite passable. I love being made up, wig on, in heals, short skirt and tight top. I love being a feminized girly girl for my wife!!!! When we are alone during the day I now wear press on nails as well! She loves it!!
Sexually speaking we are there. I’ve been clamped down in a chastity cage for several months. I am denied quite regularly but my wife still enjoys using me when she wants to please her sexually. This by no way means that I have an orgasm. I am there to please her in any way and if she chooses to let me release that is fully up to her. If I have an oopsy I will pay for it with extended denial and punishment including flogging my clitty and balls and lashing my ass. I love, love, love being locked down. Being locked down and denied makes me all the more attentive to wanting to serve her needs.
We have an excellent harness that she wears as well as a variety of anal plugs used to train my ass. Quite frankly she has trained me into a anal slut for her desires. This was not done overnight. There has been a gradual increase in size and frequency. My training has included hours of BBC and tgirl anal sex videos. I now take a large
10 inch plus black dildo like a champ as does she when she wants it. That is a new adventure we have started. She likes to have me in her mouth while I do her with a huge dildo. She has fantasies about doing several large BBCs at a time so I help her in any way I can!! That includes whoring me out when she sees fit. We have also begun to have me wear a strap on while caged. Her orgasms are incredibly intense with a larger sized penis. It’s incredibly gratifying for me to see her so pleased. Her fantasy right now is for both of us to be fucked together by a couple of bulls as we hold each other’s hands and kiss. I can’t wait for that day!!!! Our love making with me fully feminized is incredible and intensely gratifying.
I do all the menial tasks around the house usually naked and she keeps a watchful eye. She will flog me and critique me as a sorry male bimbo who can’t do the work as well as she would be able to. But it is beneath her and I willingly do my best knowing that I am nowhere near her equal. I am there to serve her, to be her sassy slut and to accommodate her every whim and desire. She has created me in what she feels I should be. A sassy girl used as she likes. That is what this is all about. Her pleasure. Our situation is unique to us. I couldn’t be happier knowing just how happy she is. We have a closeness that only a FLR relationship could provide. To achieve this level is rare. And I know how lucky I am.
So pleased for you both S. Its hard not to be inspired by Lady Alexa and Alice. But it seems you and your Mistress have a beautiful bond. i can only hope you are also in the uk…. for added inspiration in these covid times xx
Lady Alexa,
I started reading your blog from the start several days ago, and am up to about the middle of 2015 now. I read that a major issue was getting Alice’s ears pierced. There are very small diameter, flat, flesh colored earrings made to be invisible yet hold the hole open. A reader may know their proper name. I skipped forward to this last entry to see if this is still an issue, and one of the comments indicated it was… is.
I assume you do not have a metal chastity cage yet, because then you would know the power it gives you and the submissiveness it forces Alice into. I would bet that if you teased her, put a bag of frozen corn or peas on her little clitty (to shrink it) and installed the cage with the promise that it would be removed and she could have an orgasm only after she makes an appointment and follows through with getting her ears pierced, it would assure that the job would get done within a couple weeks.
(Ummm, don’t ask me how I know)
sillygurl
Lady Alexa,
I know because of this covid crisis this will not work now but once everything opens up again here’s an idea. You mentioned humiliation in front of other women for Alice. Why not you scope out local women’s boutiques, lingerie shops etc. Make sure there’s plenty of undergarments,heels,dresses and the like at whichever store you choose for the upcoming “day out”. Here’s the kicker, make sure to check out the women employees who work there who help clients with dressing,fitting and make sure the ladies are very attractive and well dressed as they will be the ones helping you and Alice once you pick the right day/time.
When you both show up Alice will be wearing normal male clothing. That’s when you ask for help from the very attractive employees as you force your “husband” to enter the changing room and undress fully and hand you his entire male wardrobe. He is now trapped and completely under your control. Her only way out now is to walk out naked or do as she’s told as you instruct the lady employees to bring over many articles of clothing you chose for her, girdles,dresses,bras,shoes etc. Whatever you desire and your wife must try them on one by one and then be forced to open the changing room door exposing herself and what she has on to the other female employees as you ask them after every change what there opinions are on each article of clothing and as the day goes on eventually you will ask the other ladies to pick out some things they feel would look good on Alice as well.
So now you have 2 maybe 3 women including yourself dressing your wife Alice. How humiliating to go through that…and also how stimulating!
Very nice but unlikely for us
Thank you Lady Alexa…curtsy…
Thank you for a lovely post revealing another aspect of the way you think… i love the window opening to your thought processes… even though it does just make me jealous that i am not in a similar position to Alice. Its been a while since i’ve posted on here and a lot has gone under the bridge and i am even deeper into the femme world …in chastity and with the wardrobe expanding exponentially! i cant go back to my old ways…
i suppose i would turn your question “am i weird?” on its head… and say…. “are WE weird?”
We…the submissive sissies who are so desperate to please and serve our female icons, are always wondering …why?… why do we want that stern order.?..why?…why do we go gooey when told to dress en femme in front of a woman?…. why do we do the most stupid things to please someone who is going to laugh at our predicament…tease us and poke fun in front of others? ..why? Why does it turn us on when our little clitties are compared to a real mans manhood that dwarfs us? ..and why would we be happy…even joyous… in serving our Lady for no return..just humiliation.?
Well…i have absolutely no idea Lady A… but i do know that it is real…so real it hurts… when we are without it… and we just want more…and more… in order to please HER…
The things that make us squirm in humiliation…that public type of humiliation or even the 1-to-1 type, is when we have to say the words that broadcast how submissive we are…. to have to broadcast that out loud…or in writing… to others about what sissies we are… how pathetic we can be without our Goddesses…and how we worship our Mistresses… or to admit we love wearing feminine clothes…overtly…or under our business clothes…with that fear of being detected.
i do not think you….or us…the sissies, are weird… i think we are perfectly matched and just waiting to be pushed to the next level… and that is what drives us across the fields of trepidation…excitement …and downright terror! We thrive on an element of fear and adrenaline.. like being told to drive to the quiet lane down the road dressed en femme…and having to get out and photograph ourselves uncomfortably standing there exposed…fearful of discovery.
We thrive on feeling the redness of our cheeks filling as we stand …not quite covered by the short dress…. in front of an acquaintence of our Lady… and having to ask the audience if they would like to see a little dance…or our oral skills on a dildo…
You…and us are not weird…we are happy and perfectly suited… so please continue….and turn the screw to another level and watch your Alice squirm…and i for one will love it…and be jealous!…
Thank you again…
Yours respectfully…
jane…
I have always wanted to wear a bikini for Mistress so much so the very prominantntan lines are developed. My breasts and my clitty are fully highlited for her pleasure. Mistress has me naked except for heels, jewelry and full make as. I dutifully serve her and any guests she desires
1. Instruct Alice while holding on to her arm/hand to kiss your ass & boots repeatedly in front of two or more women in a deliberate manner
in rapid succession during a public outing with her dressed up as a sissy gurl. As she fails miserably to meet your standards point out to everyone present that you don’t know why you keep putting up with her failures etc. until she starts crying and then drag her away by the arm/hand to your vehicle then put her into the vehicle and strap her in with the seat belt before driving off.
I don’t imagine Alice ever crying.
I believe by putting Alice in a situation where you can totally and completely humiliate
her in public for a physically exhausting period of time along with addition of punishment & total abandonment and rejection.
I would start out at home with at least two/three women with whips etc. in their hands & maybe even a male slave or two present in regular mens clothing like blue jeans & white t-shirts. Then you start with role-play show and tell so to speak, After blindfolding and hogtieing her you then tell her that there are plenty of fishes in the sea and that she can be kicked out/replaced if she doesn’t measure up to your standard by just about anyone else & you can include my cocksucking/pussy eating/ass licking sissy bitch!!!
If I were you I would start by putting her through her paces physically and verbally whipping her down especially with a little cbt/ass whipping no matter what the final outcome is. Thanks, Bye,
Ms. Lady Alex.
Hello Lady Alexa,
I once read of a relationship of wife and her sissy husband doing something like marriage. In this marriage the husband wore a wedding dress.
The wife wrote what she said that her husband is a transgender in the wedding dress shop. She described it that her husband was really embarrassed, and I think also humiliated, with showing every dress she tried.
With it, she wrote that the workers were happy to help, that added more to the husband’s embarrassed.
If you would like, I could look it up and send the whole story the wife wrote for you to read.
Thank you for writing,
Mipster
Lady Alexa
Wishing you a very good day and may I second one of toni aka annette’s points.
When in a FLR I was made to rise earlier during the summer months to get my chores done before I went to work. When I got home I had to sunbathe in a bikini ensuring the tan lines aligned with my outfit. I had several identical sets in different colours. Except for popping inside to prepare the evening meal I had to stay out until late evening. Only then could I have something to eat before washing up and doing other things.
The fear of being called out for my white bits while out was almost as great as the humiliation of knowing that I was so vulnerable, doubly so as my summer tops were all thin and light coloured and my chest lines were quite obvious. This was especially humiliating as I had to restart every year and it never got any easier. On trips to the beach I was always asked what gear I wanted to pack. Of course I always asked for a bikini which gave my partner an opening for adding to my discomfort.
The other humiliations I remember the most are related. Soon after I was made to wear makeup at home and before I was very good my partner would take me out for errands and walk a few feet behind me. I got lots of unfriendly looks and teenagers were very cruel as you could imagine. Naturally I upped my game very quickly indeed. Then I was ordered to get my ears pierced and from the moment they healed I never went out without them. I was permitted studs for work but at all other times I had to wear hoops or danglies. Despite my best efforts it was months before I could cope with the humiliation of feeling them every time I moved or walked. This was despite the fact that we moved for her job not long afterwards so the new people we encountered never saw me any other way.
Very nice except the teenager bit. I think there are good humiliations and unpleasant
Lady Alexa
I understand your point completely. It was presented to me as an opportunity to get good with make-up quickly. Finally one girl remarked – ‘Looks like you’ve finally nailed it’ I was walking on air the rest of the day. So it was unpleasant but then it wasn’t anymore.
Several years on and I go out dressed & made up and don’t think about it. That Partner is long gone but I’m still following the path she put me on. Recently I was told that another friend has been keeping her updated on things generally and me in particular. That felt weird.
Natasha, I am curious were you dressed enfemme when you had tan lines showing or were you in male clothes? Same with ear rings. Were in male or female dress?!
Thank you, charlene
Hi Charlene
At the start I was about 50/50 male/female clothes male for work and family, female otherwise. When we split a couple of years after moving 90% female clothes, male for some family only. I still wear earrings constantly with studs for bed and feel strange without tan lines.
Thank you
Hi, Its toni aka annette
Thanks for enjoying our adventures. Haven’t had much beach time due to this Covid Outbreak but have been taken out in public around Christmas time to a town square to see the Christmas tree. i was nervous and underdressed for the weather. i was in high heels, stockings, short skirt and a very low cut sweater with an open coat. My breast were very visible to all and when we sat on a bench she made me sit with my legs wide apart and the gusset of my girdle (crotch) was very visible to all those that passed. So embarrassing. She even saw a guy discreetly take several pictures of me also. That pleased her. She also took some pictures but for some reason i can’t post them as it says File to Large. Don’t understand that as they were just taken with a point & shoot digital camera. Having men look at me in public scantily dressed was both embarrassing and humiliating. But it was also exciting at the same time. My S/O says soon she is going to approach one of these men to offer my service too them. Take him back to our place as she wants to see that. But i am not sure if she means it or is just saying that. But if the time does come i don’t really have the strength anymore to refuse her wishes. Knowing if i did her punishments at this point would be swift and quite severe. Learned my lessons of disobedience a long time ago!
Hello Lady Alexa!
You are not Weird, you just know what you want. Alice is enjoying being what you want him to be, and that is wonderful. You are a Loving Couple that is just a little Different, and I Applaud you for that!
Dominant Woman as yourself are Awesome individuals, and Women that Feminize their men give them an experience that at first they might not like, but most end up relishing!
Thank You for the Great Post!
I think that Alice just needed a little push
Dear Lady Alexa,
I’m new here, but I’m loving your site. As for the theme here, humiliation is a very personal thing. There is a myriad of emotions for Domme and her submissive. So I’d like to present a series of questions:
Who should be pleased with humiliation?
To Mistress or to the submissive hubby?
What humiliates one person, has the same capacity in another?
If rational limits are agreed upon, I think that both delight and humiliation is actually a pleasure.
I believe that the issue of humiliation is in the interpretation of those who live what some of us call the “vanilla world” and not for those who live an FLR.
Vanilla is just an accepted standard not the reality of life
Hi Lady Alexa,
Glad to learn that you intend to push Alice further down her path of feminization and humiliation. Some suggestions.
1 Get her ears and septum pierced. She will balk, but tell her that if she chooses to get only her ears pierced, she will be donning ear rings all the time. If she agrees to the septum piercing in addition, ear rings can be put only when you ask and in privacy you have the option to clip a chain and lead her by the nose!
2 Remove all her facial hair by electrolysis or laser. Again the alternative can be for her to get her lips enhanced. I am sure she will choose the former as anyway she lives as a girl most of the time and this is less obvious to most onlookers.
3 I know you don’t like hormones since you want Alice to perform. However I do think you should get her real tits with implants. Offer to consult her on the size of the implants, within a range you define, but tell her your decision on her getting boobs is non negotiable.
Unknown to her, tell the surgeon to provide her long and thick nipples that will show prominently even under her bra. You can enjoy pinching squeezing or even dragging her around by her tit or even by pulling her nipples .
4 Arrange to have your initials branded on her ass and just above her clingy in public as a proof of her devotion and submission.
Love
Asha
Having bigger nipples that I could not hide would be horrifying and wonderful at the same time! Having them pierced with matching dangly earrings and belly button piercing would make me squirm with excitement and embarrassment.
Nice ideas
Dearest Lady Alexa,
Piercings can be great idea. The belly button is a “no excuse” piercing since it’s not seen. I’ve read Alice’s objections to ear piercing which I believe essential to feminization.
The way my ears were pierced so as to not look overtly obvious was to pierce on ear at a time. Men having a single pierced stud earring is fashionable. See it all the time from actors to athletes. After few months and piercing is fully healed. Do the other ear as a single piercing. No one notices but at home you have both ears pierced for some sexy / feminine dangling jewelry or perhaps some big hoop rings. Good luck and thank you being such an inspiration – khandee
Hmmmm I like the idea of yours number 3 a boob job with long thick nipple to show through a nice see through blouse at all times 😍
Lady Alexa many curtseys.
I do not consider what you are doing as strange at all. For any relationship to succeed both the partners should be comfortable in their roles. You are dominant you want Alice to be obedient to you , carry out whatever you say and on the other hand, Alice also is happy and has accepted your superiority. Both are happy. What else you need in any relationship? And your domination is not physical. Whatever is being done is consensual. I think you have the best possible relation for which you and Alice both deserve to be appreciated. I know you are very imaginative and come up with so many lovely ideas to spice up your FLR. Number of men want to be girls for their women. Nothing strange about it. And number of men really love dressed and treated like a girl.
Spicing things up is fun
Every morning I get up at five AM and do quiet housework or exercise. At 7, I role one dice, and draw that many cards. Each card has one clothing item on it, half male, half female, and that is what I am required to wear all day. Some days I wear a dress shirt and panties, other days boxers and a bra and bonnet. Her friends seem to get a kick out me when I greet them in a corset, necklace, and wingtip shoes. Other items include garter belt, baby jane shoes, slips, and earrings. Male items such as dress socks, blazers, fedoras, and even a catcher’s cup (sometimes hidden behind a nightgown, but usually not. Every day is different, but they almost always give her something to smile about.
And is this humiliation or just good fun?
Fantastic post Lady A. Love how You continue to get the most out of Alice’s feminisation by exploring her humiliation now too. Does Alice enjoy it too? i remember some time ago She enjoyed Her bra showing (“just ask Alice”). You might have a humiliation slut on Your hands lol.
The Skype/Zoom calls sound like a good idea
Love
Holly xx
Hello Lady Alexa,
A lot of what you said in this thread really resonated with me. To start with I had a Domme that was helping me find my femme side when I 1st discovered this facet of myself. I initially talked to her about sissies and she got very upset. Pretty much for what you mentioned about sissies being less of a man by being more of a woman. I asked her to give me some time to respond to what she said. A couple of weeks later I invited her over and showed her some Japanese anime about “Magical Girls” Sailor Moon or Pretty Sami are good examples. I talked to her about these series and how the main characters went through a magical transformation to become a hyper feminine superherion. Instead of viewing feminization as a something derogatory I wanted to embrace it as something empowering. I will never be a genetic female but I embrace my femininity and pursue it with a Gothic Lolita fashion style. ( No relation to Nabokov). I love my ruffles and take pride in the outfits I wear out in public. Just thought I’d share this with you.
As far as being weird, we live in a time where being weird is the new stable, where eccentricity is the mainstream. Embrace it! If what you and Alice have is constructive and empowering symbiotically speaking then more power to the both of you!
I remember seeing in an ancient Playboy a review about the Adam’s family comic by a prominent psychologist of the time. He said that as portrayed they were one of the stablest families he had observed. Are you so different? Alice’s willingness to submit to you is an affirmation of hur love and trust in you. Your concern to test hur boundaries but not destroy hur says a lot about your love and care for hur. That big in our throw away Tinder age. I have seen other D/s couples where I was pretty sure their relationship could weather just about anything, because of the love and trust they shared.
As far as humiliating things that could be done. There are a few upsides to Covid. For example masking. While wearing masks a person is anonymous. If I recall it right, Alice hasn’t been out in public. Now might be a good time to try public feminization. If you go to an area that you don’t often visit, who’s to know who she is. Especially if she is going in a more mainstream form of feminization. It doesn’t even have to be someplace public could be somewhere like a park or beach where you might not even cross paths with anyone. Just the possibility might have hur on edge.
Another thought would be a salon visit. Her they just opened them up a month or so ago. Again staff and customers have to stay masked. It might be a great opportunity for her to experience having hur brows groomed or having lash extensions done if she’s feeling really brave. It’s a lot for someone that doesn’t go out enfemme, but we live in uncertain times so why not embrace things to the fullest.
Just some thoughts, Evelynne
I hope that you share more
Thank you for posting this, Lady Alexa. With regard to humiliation, public humiliation is particularly potent and the simplest of things have a dramatic effect. For a male, being submissive to a dominant woman in front of others, be they strangers or not, is a powerful thing. The words “Do it. Now,” spoken in front of others has never failed to instantly strip me of my veneer of masculinity. It’s exquisitely painful yet arousing.
Are you weird? Well, yes. And that god for that.
My fantasy
I get up around six, the usual time, have a cup of coffee, a quick look at the Graun online, and a cig.
I then get dressed – a sissy maid’s dress with suitable underwear, a minimum of makeup, just lippy and nail varnish, so this doesn’t take long. Then I go about my morning duties: lighting the fire, clearing up the kitchen and table, and today, sweeping and washing the kitchen floor. It’s the weekend, so I wait till 8:30 before I respectfully come down with a cup of tea. I present it to You, curtsey, pirouette to show off my dress and pettis, go and turn on the heater, then wait patiently while You drink your tea. I am Your very own sissy maid, to learn, serve and be disciplined by only You. You, unsurprisingly, laugh at me and tease me, humiliatingly.
When You have finished your tea, You get out of bed, and take off all your nightwear. I then help You to dress in your sexiest things. First the long black slip. Then a black suspender belt and sheer seamed black stockings followed by black satin knickers. To complete the ensamble, a squirt or two of Givenchy III.
I get down on my knees and start to worship You. First I kiss each one of Your toes on your right foot. Then I kiss Your beautiful sheer nylon-clad foot all over, hoping it doesn’t tickle too much when I kiss the sole. I repeat for the other foot, then s l o w l y kiss Your legs through the inside of Your stockings, working up and up till I reach Your knickers. I turn You round so I can kiss Your gorgeous bottom, one cheek, then the other, through the black satin. But I am forgetting something, which is tits first. I fondle Your luscious breasts through your black satin slip, then kiss them, feeling your hard nipples with my lips. My tongue slides inside the top of the slip and I lick your nipples.
I then start on the other leg, this time finishing up at Your beautiful cunt. I kiss through Your knickers, “That’s enough for the moment. You won’t get round me that way. I am going to punish you for your insolence this past week. Go fetch the cane and the paddle.”
“Yes, Mistress” I reply, stand up and curtsey. I obey You, and go to fetch them. “Which paddle Mistress? The bigger heavier one or the lighter more flexible one?”
“The second. I like the feel of it in my hand.”
And, I think, I like the feel of it on my bottom. I fetch them, bring them back to You on my knees, and kiss each as I hand it to You. I get up and curtsey again then pirouette, faster this time, so my dress and pettis fly up and show of my satin ruffled bloomers.
“Get over my knee” You say, laying the cane down on the bed, and flexing the paddle.
I obey. “Yes Mistress.” I bend over Your lap.
You lift my skirt and pettis right up, then pull down my bloomers
. You stroke my bottom, giving little playful smacks. Then You raise the paddle.
“I am going to give you twelve strokes with this, just to get us both warmed up.”
You administer this first part of my punishment as I whimper with hidden delight, pretending I hate it. By the time you have finished my once-pallid bottom is glowing a healthy shade of pink. You pull my bloomers back up, and I get up.
“Right now,” You say, “I feel in need of your tongue and lips. Go and clean off that lipstick and lie on the bed, face up.”
I then lie down as ordered: you straddle my head and slowly bring Your vulva down to my face. I reach up and pull your silk French knickers to one side and poke my tongue in to your delicious vagina as far as it will go. I lick – in, out, in, out, then draw back to lick and kiss Your sexy engorged clitoris. I suck it as You moan softly until You tell me that’s enough.
“Kneel beside the bed. And kiss the cane again – all over.”
I plant little kisses along the length of the cane, then lick it all the way back, before offering it back to You.
“Right, you know the position. Get into it. I am going to give you as many strokes as I see fit. You will count each stroke out loud, thank me for it, and then beg for the next. Understood?”
“Yes Mistress. I understand. Please cane me now, I need and deserve it so much.”
I kneel on the bed, my bottom in the air and my head on the pillow. I pull the skirt of my dress and my pettis up as far as they will go and you unfasten my back suspenders and tuck them up under my suspender belt. You pull my pink satin bloomers up tight, then stroke my bottom through them with your magic cane. You administer a couple of light taps, then Whackkkk!.
“That’s one, Mistress. Thank You, and please may I have another?”
Whacckkk!
“Two, Mistress, thank You. I beg You for another.”
And so it continues, with You caning, me counting, thanking You, and begging for the next, until either You are bored or I have had enough and beg You to stop. But in any case, we stop. I am blissed out and very aroused. I stand up, rubbing my flaming bottom through my pink satin bloomers. I go upstairs, take off my clothes. I return as your husband, naked under my dressing gown. I get into bed beside you and we make love passionately. Afterwards we sleep for a while, then I get up, run you a bath, and bring you down a cup of coffee. Une grande crème. And your pill.
I love you so much and, believe me, I am not a bad person.
Lady Alexa,
I am such a big fan of yours. You take such good care of your “sissy.” I know you don’t like that term, please forgive me. It’s just that this is how it seems to me, that your husband is a sissy, and for me, sissy isn’t a derogatory term.
When I read your stories, I feel so jealous of your sissy! You take such care of her, she should do whatever she is told without hesitation!
It’s not that I don’t like the term sissy, it’s that I don’t consider Alice to be a sissy in the sense of what a sissy means
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no You are not weird , You are truly being free to be yourself as is your husband. Your love for each other is for you both of to grow into who You should be. Congrats on having each other and thank You for sharing your loving story
Thank you, maybe alternative rather than weird
Perfect I’d say
Happy to see you back. I’ve missed your posts !
It’s been a busy time
Hi Lady Alexa,
You can try something like having Alice serve you and your girlfriends in a swith her clitty on display while wearing a lockable bra and heels so she can’t take them off. I’m sure you may have already done this. Another layer that can be added that’s on the nastier side that you may or may not be into is perhaps toilet play. You can turn Alice into your fart slave for you and your girlfriends. Finally, another idea is you can get custom made panties that have whatever writing you want on them to add to the level of humiliation. For instance, on the front of her panties it can say Sissy Bitch, Little Clitty, Pretty princess, or Property of Lady Alexa. On the back it can say Enter or insert here, cum dumpster, or Anal slut. Another cool thing you can do while having Alice serve you and your friends is get her a custom collar that says Alice on it or Slave that she can wear the whole time. Let me know if you like any of these suggestions. Also, feel free to email me if you’d like. I can come up with lots of ideas lol. These are just off the top of my head.
I would humiliate her in front of friends in a shot but I’m too nervous of my friend’s reactions
It would be fun looking back on it though in later years . There faces would be a picture. X penny
The way to do it is to pick a friend or two who you think would like to participate. Talk to them about what you are planning, then have hubby “Properly dressed” and invite them over for coffee, with them clued in.
OMG, to be a fly on the wall!
Silly girl that’s such a good idea . I wish my lady Maria would take this kind of action.
Humiliation is a key tool in feminizing and “breaking” a strong man like my husband. He’s pretty tough, but once I learned how ticklish he is, and his foot fetish, he was mine!
I tickle him all over to confess his dirty secrets. I reward him with my notoriously (since puberty) smelly feet.
Within 90 days, I transformed my strong Type A hubby into a submissive man on his knees in our living room, smelling my feet, wearing only panties, as my friends Taryn, Barbara and I sipped wine. I was proud of him and wetter than I’ve ever been.
My ultimate fantasy is my husband satisfying Taryn and Barbs husbands as the girls watch him….
try having your sissy husband perform oral sex on them after they have had sex with you or their wifes multiple times and not allowing them to CUM …then have your sissy give them oral and eat their huge male sperm load …your sissy will love the hugh load …have fun …Kat
We did exactly that Kat! Todd was a willing participant, not that it matters!
We did exactly that Kat!
6 of us nude, Todd in panties of course.
Todd got on his knees next to me and watched me suck both Taryn and Barbs husbands throbbing hard. I French kissed Todd full on the mouth and showed him how nice the men taste.
Taryn and Barb had sex with their husbands simultaneously. Taryn actually had an orgasm during intercourse. Mike reluctantly pulled out of her and let my Todd do the rest. Todd looked like a natural and even swallowed all of Mikes sperm.
Barb and Dave are a larger couple, sooo we could clearly smell their bodies, sweat dripping, grunting, sex smells, body aromas. Barbs vagina was literally squishy! Mike had to hurry to Todds mouth, and he really unloaded his balls! Todd did a good job, but the excess semen ran down his chin and neck.
Mike and Dave left. Todd did NOT get to cum, I made him remain nude, and rub my feet, Barbs feet, Taryns feet. Todd has a foot fetish, and he was going insane rubbing smelly womens feet after sucking of two men like the c___suckimg cuckhold he is!
Why humiliate your husband? Since you got him to xdress and he looks good in lingerie and feminine clothes, why not just enjoy it as he gets in-touch with his feminine side?
I realised that feminisation of a heterosexual male is a humiliation in itself
oh yes very much so ..the fact a female can force me to do things no real man would do is very humiliating to dress me as a female and have me serve you and sometimes a real man you order me to serve is as un man like as possible … having me dress and act like only a female would and then serve you and other females and males if you wish is devastatingly humiliating … and when pointing out my barely 2 .5 inch clit compared to a real mans cock is a reason I was selected embarrasses me and is greatly humiliating ..kathy
Lady Alexa
So pleased to hear from you again, I’ve been wondering how you both got on during the lockdown. Love to know how you used it and how you both developed your FLR
I haven’t got any particular ideas about humiliating Alice but the thought of you doing so is absolutely thrilling. This is a whole new area for your to explore in your writing, can I suggest a non-fiction account and maybe some anonymised photos?
Alice’
s input would be a real bonus too!
Yes I’ll think about that
Yes sbe does if they are working drive through. She gets giggles from the girls and they will sometimes go get coworker to see as well. I am taking her out in her blue maid dress like this soon, obviously a sissy looking outfit.
Very nice indeed.
Well if not dancing, how about seductively licking her lipstick covered lips then performing oral on a dildo? Film that and post it!
My wife has me wear pink lipstick and perform oral on huge black dildo
Lady Alexa,
We loved your story and my Wife instructed me to Email you on the many ways she humiliates me in public and private. These are some of the ways and it really excites her so much. i have listed some of them and if you need more clarification you can Email us with any questions.
1. i always wear a bra and it is always with a sheer fabric shirt, blouse or tee shirt so the straps and bra are very visible in public.
2. i have been taken to the beach and she has had me wear one piece bathing suits in very feminine designs such as pink, floral etc. By the end of the summer my tan lines are also very noticeable. She also at times has made me wear a two piece suit. she really loves the stares and sometimes the comments that are made to me while on the blanket. BTW my wife lays away from me and observes everything.
3. She has also had me on the beach in diapers with plastic protective panties and also Woman’s incontinent briefs and panties.
4. My underwear is always cotton or lycra panties, panty girdles, girdles, leotards and tights. She never dresses me in any type of sexy lingerie as she really feels they are reserved for real women not sissified males like myself.
5. Her most humiliating thing she does to me is that once a month i have to experience my male period. During that time i have to wear belted pads, maxi pads and also a tampon. That is very humiliating to me and she loves it.
There are many other things she does as i have been trained by her as her sissy for over 30 years now. Our lifestyle is second nature to us at this point and we are beyond the point of worrying about what others think or say. For us it works. We haven’t had actual marital sex in many years as she uses me in the female role for sex. We are more like a lesbian couple then a male/female couple. Were older and this is her chosen lifestyle for both of us. She does occasionally have normal male/female sexual relations but that remains private from me except for my duties to her afterward. It isn’t very often.
She loved your posting!
OMG, I love the diaper on the nude beach, how humiliating! My ex used to keep me locked in diapers but not on public display. Her family knew what went on here, her sister even brought me diapers.
As for the monthly periods, she even made me wear a used pad from her granddaughter. I suspect gd knew I was wearing it.
Sounds awful – re you sure? a pad from her grandaughter!
Lady Alexis,
can i be your sissy ass worshipper ?
No
Same questions i asked patti:
Can you go into more detail regarding the periods? Was there any fluid used? How many days did it last? Would the intensity vary? How were the cramps simulated? Any and all information and suggestions are appreciated
No fluids or cramps she just has to wear the sanitary pads
I thought I suggest a couple of ideas for sissy periods.
#1 cramps.
There are sugar free candies that can be had at most grocery stores the easiest one to identify is the Reese’s Peanut butter Cups that are the size of bottle caps. Most of these candies use a combination of Sorbitol and Motilal for many people if they eat to much of these sweeteners they will have cramps and diarrhea. If you can find the right amount of candies to feed your sissy you could easily duplicate the cramps.
#2 fluids.
If you made jello suppositories and refrigerated them to make them a bit stronger then you could use these for fluids as the jello melts there is your flow. But the sissy has to be well hydrated or they will just absorb the jello.
#3 leakage.
This might be simulated with a hollow but plug or a saturated tampon depending on the desired outcome. Use a tampon and follow it with a douche so its absorbency is used up and it becomes a wick. Some enema kits come with a but plug shaped head using one of those will insure leakage and put the sissy’s panty liners to the test.
Just some thoughts on how to be crampy and possibly leaky at the same time.
I’ll probably stick to putting her in sanitary towels. This seems like too much fuss.
Make her do a sexy dance and post it.
Alice dancing is not a pretty sight
Lady Alexa,
It seems she needs some training then!?
I love.to dress my sissy husband in a short schoolgirl type skirt with garters and stockings along with that a nice tight top with her large breast forms so she has no way to hide them as they are very obvious. With the skirt the stocking tops and garters are exposed when she is sitting on passenger side of the car and we will go through drive through for food. But we go to one for food another for drinks,basically individual items at each one as to maximize the exposure. With her makeup and bright lipstick all made up she is a pretty sght to see.
That sounds like fun Amber. I hope she gets lots of looks from men
I’m a husband who is being feminized by my hot sexy wife. We started 6 months ago. She dresses me in sexy lacey thong panties. Usually they have Bowes and other prissy designs. She is free to be with other men and I enjoy being submissive and obedient. I kept it hidden but she discovered my desires to wear prissy lingerie and very very submissive. She will make me stand in corner sucking my thumb dressed in prissy lingerie and when she is out with girlfriends or boy toy she gives me my bedtime. I’m
Loving being a cuckhold fem husband
Make her go out in public wearing a very short skirt, 5″ heels and a low cut top while she is wearing an F cup breast plate
I’ve always been a pretty female look boy while Missy is a fit Woman and knows what and how to humiliate mostly me. We were going for lunch when we ran into a friend and went into little garden park .Instead of sitting by her feet or basically being seen not heard when she sat on the bench with a quick pull and little warning she put me across her lap! I was stunned and actually cried a little when our friend laughed,lifted my skirt which was very sore and though I didn’t get spanked Ihad to be part [of the conversation I was quietly teased by Missy bouncing her leg with my head on our friends thigh (I can’t even BADLY pretend to be disgusted” which was worse).Is Erika going to squirt squirt? I’m running late? “Cover her mouth please? ” Instead she put her fingers in my mouth-“Suck” After edging me for an HOUR “Shoot it out now. Fill those panties” and I did. That still embarrasses me more than anything.
I like the idea of filling her panties. I might do that to Alice
You’re awesome Amber!
I made it my goal to “break” and feminize my straight muscular professional husband Todd, and I did! Took me over a year but we now have a relationship I control sexually, and he’s SO turned on do8mg everything I ask!
Todds mistake was revealing his turn ons to me in bed! I started tickling him, and he was unbelievably excited, so I tickled the truth out of him: he gets off on being tickled. He loves my stinky feet. He has bisexual fantasies. He wants to lick up his come.
Well! I seized on those submissive qualities. Todd got a fun but painful spanking. He gets restrained and tickled mercilessly. He licks up his semen, every time, every drop. He wears panties under his business suits. He has promised to be my cuckhold, but we’re still working on those logistics. And on weekends he’s fully dressed as a female on Saturdays. Wig. Makeup. Breasts. Dresses. Shaved legs. Panties! I put my worn panties on him so he smells like a girl, and we visit shopping centers, Walmart, the best is a shoe store with young men trying women’s shoes on his big feet!
Final step is him sucking off a man, and accepting me having sex with other “real” men!
I have been feminized spanked and Have had role playing as part of punishment. I pass for a girl or considered pretty by the women who like that and I’ve already came with out permission with her roommate. We actually are both relieved (I’m a sucky slave since I wont go down she gets jealous..) It’s emotional and it doesn’t work out with many. She got some out of print magazine Leg Show. I guess they ran like they had a warrant. It doesn’t seem hard besides the excellent photography. Go to Tokyo ¿