My husband has a new forced femininity regime, which means every dark cloud has a silver lining. I’m talking about the dark cloud of coronavirus lockdown, here in England. The silver lining being that my girly husband has no reason not to be a full-time girl. No more excuses to change into male top clothes to leave the house, she’s not going out.
Delicious. I even get to dress her in even more humiliating girly ways….
A NEW FORCED FEMININITY
I do hope you are all well in these unusual and difficult times. However, since we’re currently forced to stay in and maintain social distance, I think we should look for any advantages to our enforced, but necessary restrictions.
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So more forced femininity for my husband then? That seems like a plan.
I have to be honest, I get more than a little power rush from my control over Alice. It’s intoxicating and thrilling to be able to do what you please with someone, especially someone you care for. To be able to remove your husband’s masculinity is the ultimate level of control and power. It gives me a level of excitement and arousal that nothing else could provide.
Call me weird, or even perverted, but I think I’m a very lucky lady to have found this and Alice is a very lucky girl. She is receiving the gift of feminisation. It works for both of us, although Alice does need a bit of a prod at times.
THE NEW FEMININE NORMALITY
In this strange times, I’ve been able to expand Alice’s feminisation. So, what is the new norm for my girly husband? These are my new updated and additional rules of the house:
- Varnished finger and toenails. We can’t go out, no one will see her. Therefore, I expect her to apply coloured varnish to her nails every single day. Pink or red is nice.
- Obviously Alice has to wear a skirt or dress, that goes without saying. However, some days I now expect her in a pink tutu. All day and night. Other days I have put her in a tiny pencil skirt so short it rides up when she sits or walks. I like her in skirts that don’t cover her, it adds to her vulnerability and that is something that gives me intense pleasure and, I have to say, a lot of amusement. I have the time to select her clothing now.
- Jewellery. Earrings, necklace and rings every single day.
- Makeup. Eyeshadow and lipstick must be applied every morning, along with other facial makeup. It has to be touched up regularly.
- Bra. Alice hasn’t always worn a bra. She claims that when she goes out people can see the outline. Well she’s not going out, is she. So. A bra. Every day. No excuses.
- Decorated clitty. I expect her little girly pickle to be be decorated and made pretty every morning. A pink bow as a minimum around the base, even under knickers. Maybe a ring or some jewellery at times.
IT’S TIME FOR THOSE ADDITIONAL FEMININE IMPROVEMENTS
I’ve been lax about some of the improvements I want for Alice. Amazon and other delivery services are still working albeit slower and reduced. I have the time to order those things I have written about but never got round to. Here are some of my plans:
Metal cock cage
I don’t subscribe to using cock cages for a sissy’s excitement. That said, I do realise now they can have some benefits if used correctly for the gain of the female leader.
One benefit is to allow complete control over the male clitty for when the lady is out.
The second benefit is that there is anecdotal evidence that regular use in a small cage can shrink the male clitty. Obviously I want Alice’s little girly princess to function, but it would be nice to make it a bit smaller, cuter and more clitty-like.
I’m not really sure if putting her clitty in a small cock cage would really reduce her size but maybe it’s worth a go now that she’s indoors all day and night?
I’d like to hear anyone’s experience of this method before I buy a new cage for her.
For some more ideas on dealing with male clitties have a look here
Transformation Panties
I really don’t know why I haven’t got round to ordering these yet. These are the panties that shape a male’s clitty into a nice female genital look. It looks like they have real girly labia. Time to order and get Alice into them.
Exercise and Diet
Alice’s exercise regimes have been a bit hit and miss. Now I want her to have an emphasis on belly reduction. She’s not fat by any means, but there is a bit of male middle age spread that needs to go.
She’s around 36 inches around the middle, which is ok-ish for a 6ft man but useless for a girl. I think she could take four inches off with some effort. I’d really like her at around 28, but I have to be realistic. We’ve tried this before and I do know it’s much more difficult than when she was in her 20s and 30s.
A slim girly waist is my objective for Alice during the lockdown.
FULL-TIME FORCED FEMININITY
I’m enjoying her constant femininity so much, I can’t see how I can go back once lockdown is suspended at the end of this pandemic crisis. If nothing else, I will want a new level of femininity from my husband.
I’m sure I’m missing something, maybe around giving her better breasts?
If you have any good ideas to increase Alice’s femininity while we’re stuck in the lockdown, please leave a comment or send me a direct message.
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I totally agree. Alexa every opportunity is taken to remind him of his position.
We have played with my husband being dressed on and off for some while. It fitted with the lifestyle (female led). But since the first lock down with no chance of unexpected visitors and children live overseas. I have followed your lead and had paul fully dressed all of the time. The only concession is female styled trousers when we go out. The rest stays fem under his coat including falsies.
Love it
Kim
I love it too Kim. The lockdown is not all bad news
Does Alice like other sissies Lady Alexa?
I’m working on it. Why?
I was curious and anxious to hear the progress. Thank you for honoring me with your reply!
I too have stepped up the femine requirements at my house. My feminized husband is to be dressed in whatever dress or skirt and top outfit I choose for him. Also he has to wear garter belt and thigh highs as well as heels all the time. It is quite amusing that he always thought women looked so great with garters, thigh highs and heels although it seems his opinion of them has changed a bit since he has had to endure these items and now sees what us women go through to look good in them. He also has to have painted toe and fingernails and complete makeup,, he has discovered what is involved in maintaining makeup as he has to touch it up several times throughout the day.
Nice to hear
Dear Lady Alexa,
For Alice’s weight, i have been on the “Fast Metabolism Diet,” which is presented in a book by Hayley Pomeroy, for about 19 days right now. i am about Alice’s size and about Alice’s age. i also have struggled with a bit of weight gain this last year or so. At my largest, i reached 200 pounds (14.3 stone). i tried intermittent fasting and cutting calories but nothing was sustainable.
With the Fast Metabolism diet, i have lost 10 pounds (0.71 stone) and at least 6 pounds (0.43 stone) of that weight loss is body fat according to my scale). i am trying to lose at least one stone within 28 days (essentially 0.5 pound per day) – i am 4 pounds away from that and i have 9 days left. i have done this diet in the past and i lost about 17 pounds (1.21 stone) that time around and the weight stayed off for a couple of years. While i have my target weight, i may continue even after i lose the stone.
Also, i have purchased a waist trainer to wear during the day to help work on my figure. Maybe this is something you can consider. It doesn’t feel the same as a true steel boned corset but I am hoping it will help flatten my tummy.
For her clitty, i am a big fan of MatureMetal’s custom cages. The plastic/resin based cages usually cause me pain after a couple of days. The rings are kind of bulky, which is where i think the pain comes from. That pain limits how long i can wear those cages. MatureMetal has allowed me to stay locked and clean for a month. You need to take your time and measure properly but the cages are beautiful and comfortable.
Yours,
-chaste hubby
Thank you I’ll check this out
I’m envy. Alice is lucky. I also want a girlfriend to feminized me.
Of course she is
Lady Alexa
I can also support the correction of penis size using a cage. It took about a year to almost vanish from sight and managed about 50mm erect but not hard. My testicles also reduced to the extent the cage would no longer stay on.
At that point I was ordered into smaller panties and to keep tucked 24/7. Now I’m single again I have maintained this for three years now and no real change. Well, just one actually, I’m now down three sizes as I feel better without the constant reminder between my legs so have reduced my comfort eating.
If I may offer a word about corsets. I wore one for well over a year until I lost all feeling in one arm and the other shoulder. The corset was the problem, it was poorly designed and applying pressure unevenly. Even today my little finger and all finger tips on my RHS are still affected. I saved up my pennies and got a proper corset made (all the suppliers are fully aware of male clients even if they don’t promote it),
Thank you Natasha, a cage might be the way to go then. It’s a balance, I don;t want it to shrivel to nothing as I have use of it, I just want it a bit more feminine looking. Thanks for the corset advice, I wouldn’t want Alice to suffer
Lady Alexa
My thoughts have been with Alice constantly throughout this lockdown and warm weather. I think this period will be critical in your feminisation programme. Can we have an update from your point of view please? Maybe something from Alice too?
Hello All,
It has been awhile since I have contributed so I thought this subject was a good place to share my recent adventures in taking Sarah out in public, wearing dresses and skirts that otherwise would have been a bit much for daylight hours around home.
We have been pretty good about cooking during this virus outbreak. However, we have found several restaurants that are open for drive-through and curbside delivery so our food options expanded beyond cooking. Not that I am complaining, Sarah does quite well in the kitchen but sometimes it is good to avoid the mess and have other options.
Last fall I had bought Sarah a new dress as a reward for doing some things that I enjoyed. While he loves wearing it, I kept telling him we would go out to dinner wearing our dresses someday, which made him a little nervous. Then winter came. Other than inside the house, the only place I expected him to wear the dress around others was over the holidays when we visited my mother. Since last year when she became aware of our dressing agreement, she has accepted and even had a little giggle about it. Since she was in on it, while there I expected Sarah to often wear skirts with tops and bra. He wore his new dress for Christmas dinner with my Mother and a lady friend of hers who was otherwise alone for Christmas (yes, she was warned ahead of time). Anyway, that is another story.
As it has warmed up I thought no more excuses. On those evenings where we are in the mood for something from a restaurant, we call and order and then drive over to have them bring it to the car or some places with a drive through. I decided this was a great opportunity to make Sarah wear skirts or his dress and deal with being seen by someone who would be handing us the food (some places just open a door and set it in the car to limit exposure). Anyway, he has had to be dressed with makeup, nails, etc as usual but now going out in public, politely saying hello and thank you to people and letting them stare at how he is dressed. One woman was bold enough to say how nice he looked and ask me if I took him out dressed this way to other places (I think she figured out I was in control). I told her that I do sometimes but usually when we travel out of town. She just smiled. Another women just looked away, shaking her head and said something about “weird”. One time at a drive up window, I was driving but the girl at the window had a good view of him. We could see her wave her friend over to be sure she saw him also. I asked them if they approved of his dress. They smiled and said it was too bad I could not bring him inside to get a better look. other experiences vary. So my post here is just to say that now with curbside food delivery available, it gives me a chance to get him a little embarrassment with the enjoyment of dressing as if we were going to a restaurant for dinner. This just limits the number of people who see him and limits the risk of neighbors seeing him.
Very nice and my experience too. Some women like to see a feminised man but many other dislike it intensely so we need to be careful
love what you have been doing with her. I have been on this journey with my sissy for a few years now!!!
Lady Alexa,
Your writings inspire me to be my most well-attired and madeup for my Lady who I adore and worship. Now, that lockdown has descended, She has replaced my natural hair with a powerfully feminine wig and switched up my makeup routine to make my appearance most definitively feminine. I always wear makeup and nice colorful skirt suits and heels suitable for the polished and proper secretary that I am, but before my makeup was subtle enough for me to change into a gentlemanly suit to go out in public, and my hair was in a cut which while very highly styled and colored at all times, I could look like an extremely coiffed gentleman. (The only male attire I had was a suit which always had to look just right. regardless of time or day.)
Now, that She knows I’m never going to be out of the home for foreseeable future, She has replaced my highly styled short natural hair, with a wig with bold, long, red hair which can go up into a secretarial bun while in my skirt suits at the desk from 9-5, or down as I wear delightful floral dresses after 5. The makeup has changed from subtle to include eyeliner that anyone could see, long lashes glued on, with contours , highlights, rouge, and eye shadow that really brings out my eyes.. and of from subtle flesh-toned lipstick which was matte, to glossy lip color, and I absolutely must make sure the makeup goes with my skirt suit. Once at my desk, She says I am a masterpiece to the eyes.
Oh, and I must always wear my suit jackets over my shoulders. It trains me to walk properly in my heels if I haven’t already. The tools for keeping myself looking polished and secretarial are in my bag.. which must compliment the outfit every single day. I will get a very long look of disapproval if anything is even the slightest bit out of coordination.
She loves me and I honor Her entirely and completely. It would go against my strong morals to even think of disobeying even her most subtle wish.
I curtsy to You, Lady Alexa
The most subordinate Stephanie,
This is how it should be
Yes Lady Alexa – it must be an exhilarating positive outcome for You discovering how forced cloistering ha given You (and likely other Females) opportunity to consolidate and intensify Their primacy over male girl underlings and taking advantages of feminization of Their mates never before reached.
BRA-VO LADY ALEXA – Supreme Maker of Tomorrow’s Femmed malettes!
We all have to look for the positive in these trying times
And M’Lady YOU are always in the vanguard of making little Alice LOOKING POSITIVELY darlingly feminine as model for greater and greater number of future males should and shall be in daintily and dutifully serving their Female Masters day in and day out….
Alice is lucky to have your guidance and leadership, Lady Alexa. Sadly, isolation means we have both our children and our oldest’s girlfriend in the house, so my feminization has slipped back the other way a bit – although we have dabbled in things like dying my hair a very feminine violet and ensuring I wear my earrings every day.
We do practice chastity and have used plastic, resin, and steel cages, and we find the steel cage works the best. It serves as a reminder of my place, and puts her even more firmly in control of *that* kind of intimacy.
My point was more about making the best of a poor situation, rather than that everyone has the opportunity as we do to expand our flr and my husband’s feminisation. I’m sure you have privacy in the bedroom. You can shave your body maybe, a cute little feminine pubic triangle, a pretty baby doll for you to wear in bed? A butt plug? The cock cage is a great idea. In your case you have to think of things that are less obvious but use your private time.
Dear Lady Alexa,
Do you enforce the wearing of breast forms in Alices bra to really enforce the feeling of femininity and make the bra more purposeful?
If so what size does bra and forms does she wear?
I love your lockdown ideas. Thank you for the updates.
Regards
Timarasub
I only make her wear breast forms occassionally. She usually wears padded bras
You must like the jiggle though? It would also give Alice more of an appreciation of what a bra does.
unless he has a well developed gynecomastia, he should wear breasts forms and hip pads all time (but sleeping). Even as a male…B sized manboobs are not so strange even among not fat man
Hello Lady Alexa,
Re ideas to try out to feminise Alice, how about a corset, it’ll provide a feminine waist and push some body fat in her chest to be encased in a delicate bralette or pushup bra.
https://sissypantyshop.com/collections/corsets/products/luxurious-embroidered-overbust-bustier-corset
As you’ve time on your hands how about breast pumps and when they aren’t being used some nipple stimulators under her bra.
https://www.ebay.ie/itm/16-Speed-Intelligent-Silicone-Breast-pads-Nipple-enlargement-Stimulator-Enhancer-/123225493185?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI0LXMn4_d6AIVVIXVCh3UaAGDEAkYBSABEgKCmPD_BwE&var=0&mkevt=1&mkcid=1&mkrid=5282-53468-19255-0&campid=5338508185&toolid=10044&customid=EAIaIQobChMI0LXMn4_d6AIVVIXVCh3UaAGDEAkYBSABEgKCmPD_BwE
Regards
Roberta
hi Lady Alexa,
no more best time you can make her wear ear rings practice it slowly and perhaps bangles and anklets as she will be moving around the home, she would indeed look much prettier and it will add shine to her feminine look.
Dear Lady Alexa
Regarding the use of chastity cages and shrinkage of the male “clity”.
I have been locked in a tube for 10 years on and off. To facilitate this and make it not too uncomfortable, I’ve had a piercing to secure the tube an make it impossible to remove without the key.
During this time my penis has definitely shrunk noticeably, to where now, when I’m flaccid and not stretched into the tube, I show no more than the foreskin. When erect I show no more than 2 to 3 inches.
I do find myself getting very humiliated by this when I’m seen naked, but that’s the way it is nothing I can do about it but accept it!
Yours respectfully
Janet
Thank you Alexa. Here in southern California, Michelle (Mike) and I are also in 24/7 shelter-in-place. We go out early morning for a brisk walk along Ocean Blvd from 6-7am (just got back) and then every other day we do a drive and get some groceries and some take-out to-go food for dinner. YES!! this is so great to have no other outside contact, so we do our morning power walk together looking very much like 2 gals – both in stretch mid-calf leggings (lacy thong or cheekster panties under), body-con workout jacket over bra and tank top (lots to show through the clingy outer jacket, hair up in ponytail & scrunchy. It’s dark when we leave the house but gets ‘dawn light’ as we head back. YES!! my husband’s nails are polished (I love Brit’s term ‘varnished’) in pastel pink all the time, so with 4-5 rings his hands look very girly on our morning walks. YES!!! around the house it’s been full-time bra-panties-thigh highs-half slip-camisole-skirt-top/blouse and YES!! full jewelry rings-watch-bracelets-earrings-necklace. YES!! also full make-up each morning after our walk, get a shower, and dress for the day includes liquid make-up, eyeliner, eye shadow, mascara, lipstick. Add in some hairspray and finally perfume (Coco-Chanel) and my sweet husband is simply 100% girly-girl like a female roommate all day all around the house. When we do our drive and get groceries and take-out dinner, we travel well outside our area so no chance of running into people we know, and Mikey goes along in skinny jeans, sweater, scarf to really blend in as ‘normal-everyday’ casual look (but I know he’s a bit tense as we walk the aisles getting our food and then the check-out line has us 6-ft spaced). On days we don’t go out he’s in skirt/top-blouse or cute dress ALL DAY right through dinner and evening when we sip wine and read, or watch a movie – and then at time for bed he’s rotating 3 sleepwear ensembles ……. traditional satin PJs pink with white rose print, vintage tap-pant with matching camisole (very lacy antique ivory with satin bows and rolled satin spaghetti straps), or classic “nightie” pastel blue sheer crepe knee length lace trim and bows. Always wears lacy panty and push up bra under sleepwear for that extra feeling of feminine. He’s showering now (7:30am) and I’ll make us breakfast – can’t wait to see my ‘secretary/office gal’ emerge around 8am!!!! This is unreal fun at this time in our country, who’d have ever thought we’d be doing this??!! I LOVE it
He is so LUCKY to have you! The more Women that Feminize their men, the better for the Woman and the man! Male Femininity is truly Growing, but it really takes the Women getting behind it to make it Grow! Thanks for sharing Cathy!
Lady Alexa,
My Domina wife has very similar ideas as we are both on lock down and telecomuting from home. She likes having me fully feminized, wearing dresses and skirts, full makeup and blonde hairpiece all of the time at home.
Even when going out in public, she wants me dressed to the nines as a woman.
If she could find a way to have me dress this way in the office, she said she would clean out my closet and leave with only feminine clothing to wear permanently. (Its about 2/3s women’s clothing now anyway.)
She also will not have sex with me unless I am feminized. She calls me her sweet obedient sissy wife.
I have become accustomed to being feminized full time and now it is becoming part of my new normal. It is going to be hard to put on a suit and tie when all this is over. It is going to feel so alien to me. I don’ want to go back. I am so enjoy being pretty for my Domina full time.
Warm regards to you and Alice,
Lauren
Hello Lauren so nice to hear from you. Great to hear your lovely Dom is keeping you as the girl you should be. I think a suit would feel too restrictive. A petty dress would be so much better for you
Hi Lauren! I am so Jealous of you! It would be so Wonderful having a Strong Woman that would want me in nothing buy skirts and dresses! Male Femininity is growing due to the hard work of Strong Women like Lady Alexa and your Domina! We NEED more Women like them to convert a large portion of men into pretty sissy wives!
Thanks for sharingQ
Wonderful! <3
Lady Alexa, this sissy girl’s reduced size took about six months, with a cage reduction every two months. my flaccid size was basically an inning, or just the head of my clitty pokes out. i think that it’s cute, if i was in a different situation i would entertain having my balls removed. This sissy girl loves the thought and look of being smooth with just a small clitty.
Regards,
sissy melissa
Alice is so lucky
I think so. Alice isn’t so convinced
You should show us some pics of Alice in a tutu.
That had been my idea initially but I ran out of time for the post. I will do that in the next couple of days to my newsletter readers plus I’ll add some other photos of her in her new exaggerated lockdown style. I will add one of me too with Alice if we can work the camera out for timer
Lady Alexa, let me start out by saying that i love Your writings!!!
my name is sissy melissa and i have first hand knowledge of chastised clitty’s. i was chastised on and off for several years. At the start i had a healthy 6.5” penis erect of course and after several cage reductions my Mistress at the time reduced it down to about 2”s erect. She thought it was so cute and clitty like and i have to admit it made me feel much more feminine. It has been two years since i have been chastised and my clitty can now grow to about 4”s and I’m alright with it. Intact i was thinking about doing it again because it makes me feel that much more gurly.
Any questions feel free to ask!!!
Regards,
sissy melissa
Very interesting. You had similar length to Alice so I could get it reduced by at least 2”? How long did it take and How small are you flaccid? Write to me at ladyalexa@mail.com with answers on the process
Oh..
And a nice remote vie plug never fails…
I forgot the butt plug
Wonderful ideas!
Dear Lady Alexa,
Congratulations on your well trained sissy. The lockdown is a perfect reason for 24/7 sissyhood. My former Mistress liked me to stay busy with needlecraft when my chores were complete. My Mistress told her friends and family that I was available to mend any torn clothing. This was my first priority when finished with chores. I would mend broken hems and sew on buttons. I have even repaired doll clothes. For needlework I would change from my uniform into a Lolita dress. Once my mending was finished I would work on a cross-stitching project selected by my Mistress. I would be seated on a little stool, facing my Mistress on the couch. She might be with a friend, on the phone, reading or watching tv. My Mistress felt strongly that I should have feminine hobbies and planned to have be begin knitting as well.
Curtsey,
Tricia
Very nice Tricia. Alice also does any sewing or repairs.
what about sexuality for sissys what di you teach them about that , are they supposed to be attracted to guys or girls, or both or what ?
thanks for any advice or wisdom you can give me !
Girls and other sissies
Does Alice like other sissies Lady Alexa?