There will be no sissy earrings for a while as my sissy husband Alice doesn’t want her ears pierced. It’ll have to be the clip-ons which look good these days but that’s not the point.
I have to hold back my natural instict which would be to scream and demand she has her ears pierced. But the point of an FLR is that it’s caring, consensual and both parties have to agree to the rules. I do not want to force my needs onto my hsuband even if I’m the lead.
Alice explained that she would like pierced ears but having pierced ears is something that can’t be easily hidden.
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It’s OK for younger men or rock stars, Alice says, it would be quite dramatic for a seemingly ordinary English middle/aged man to suddenly start wearing earrings. A middle/aged crisis look, she thought.
I’m concerned about Alice’s feelings although I’m not in the least bit worried about what others may think or even if everyone finds out that my husband is living now as a submissive sissy girl at home.
I am still quietly fuming about the lack of sissy earrings though as I was looking forward to this step in her feminisation. Pierced ears are a stement of femininity.
In fact, when the lady came round to do our nails, I snapped at Alice and called her a naughty sissy over a minor thing. The nail lady kept quiet and looked out the window pretending not to hear. Alice complained afterwards but I snapped straight back at her that it was all her fault for not wanting pierced ears.
Regarding the idea I’ve been having of Alice growing her real hair longer despite the thinning top, I’ve told Alice to grow it to cover her ears and sissy earrings. She seems amenable to this and I think a change in her hairstyle and the ability to hide them under longer hair in public, maybe we can re-visit the pierced ears idea.
Currently, her hair covers the top half of her ears for the first time since she was a teenager and this has softened her face a lot. That-s a good thing. Soon she will be able to have a small ponytail. That-s a great thing although Alice reminded me that it could be thought of as the middle-aged male crisis thing also.
I’ve put in place some punishments over the ear piercing debacle. I’ve continued the clitty-on-display rule with her skirt front pinned up at the front and no knickers. I’ve also started extra spankings and on her little clitty.
I’ve also withdrawn from doing anything in the home and Alice has to do all the housework and cooking and then pamper me.
I’m hoping a slightly tougher FLR wil help her to see that having her ears pierced is a softer option.
Alice also has to curtsey every time she sees me and kiss my feet when I come home from work. This is a new rule. She also has to curtsey gently outside the home when bringing me something.
Maybe something good will come out of this and Alice has been complying with these new rules perfectly.
She’s feeling guilty, I suppose. That doesn’t help right now. Perhaps I should put my book How I Feminized My Husband by her side of the bed for night time reading as a reminder of her obligations to become my sissy girl.
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Hello Janine, I will try to get some photos with Alice in her very girlie clothes 🙂
Perhaps ear cuffs would work for the time being until they are pierced for good 🙂 I wear two in addition to my gold stud earrings in each pierced lobe 🙂
Ear cuffs might work yes I’ll give these a try too.
She is a naughty girl! I love the idea of wearing big hooped earings, I have seen on ebay that you can get ones that use a small but strong magnet to hold them in place so I may have to order them just to try. I’d would love to see more of Alices wardrobe as I have a real passion for girls clothes and it would be great to see what clothes Alice wears in the house, trips out and in the bedroom. You are so wonderful to her and I love your blog, Janine xx
I’m really pleased you enjoy the blog Janine. I like the idea of magnetic earrings I haven’t heard of them before so I’ll have a look. At the moment Alice has to wear clip-ons but these sound better. I’ll take some more photos in the near future of Alice in some of her clothes.
You can also get screw type earring findings e.g. http://www.cooksongold.com/Findings/-Alloy=0/-Style=Ear_Screw/-Size=0/-Shape=0/-Finish=0/-Holes=0/&prdsearch=y
Thank you Lady A, some girly outfit ideas would be great but even if Alice does not want them shown just some pictures of the clothes would be good. Janine xx http://janinethecd.blogspot.co.uk
I think that you should put Alice into chastity … only to be released when her ears are pierced!
Hello Jennifer, Yes its been a problem. I do have a few ideas I will get there evenutally
I think you’ve been very patient with Alice Lady A, too patient really. I can understand her having some reservations but they’re unimportant overall and her ears should now be pierced! I think a suitable punishment, and if honestly think you really should do this, is now take Alice out, fully dressed, with full make up, shopping for more female clothes. Then she can see how many others actually notice whether get ears are pierced or not,or whether they even care!! Time for a reality check for her now.
Yes I know you’re right but at the same time we are married and live together and I want Alice to be happy and comfortable. I have some ideas though, I haven’t given up and Alice will become even more feminine.
Your Patience is commendable Mistress
Perhaps service and punishment in front of your lady friends would reduce disobedience.
Curtesy Sally
Thank you Sally I think so. I really like the idea of humiliating her in front of a lady friend but I’m nervous of telling them and they then don’t like the idea. I’m trying to think of how to introduce the idea in a soft way.