I’ve received lots of ideas and comments to the ongoing saga of my sissy husband Alice’s pierced ears — sissy earrings. All of them have been very useful in formulating my response to Alice’s stubbornness
I said I wouldn’t mention the sissy earrings saga again for a while on this blog but it has been annoying me even though I do understand Alice’s point. She thinks it would be a very obvious statement that she is not a middle-aged normal man but something else more feminine to the world. Or that she’s having a middle-aged crisis.
She is not yet ready to tell the world or at least not our family and friends that she’s a sissy. Or that she’d having a middle-aged crisis.
Whilst I understand, I’m not going to actually let her get away with it entirely because I’m not that happy.
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I want Alice with pierced ears. But, in the meantime, I’ve ordered Alice to make a few other changes, all of which make her more feminine and girlie as a kind of compensation. Alice is going along with them as I think she feels a bit guilty.
Here are the changes I’ve made.
Sissy colours and styles only
I used to allow Alice to wear plain dark skirts and a unisex top during the day and no wig. This was so that if anyone passing the house or the neighbours caught a sight of her through the windows their eyes aren’t drawn to pinks or yellow or flowing skirts.
No more.
Alice must now wear light colours, pinks, whites and so on. She must also wear very obvious sissy dresses or skirts. She might be wearing knee-length skirts as well but they will be full, flowing, colourful and bold.
Equally I want to only see very feminine tops, no more unisex.
Sissy hair & jewellry
I used to allow her to not wear her wig during the day. Now I expect it on all the time and I want pink bows and ribbons tied in her hair.
A wig can get warm but it’s that or pierced ears.
She’ll wear jewellry every day, neclace, bangles, rings and clip-on earrings. So be it. I’m going to look into magnetic clip-ons too thanks to ideas from my readers.
Sissy shoes
I also used to allow her to wear her flat ballet style shoes. No more: it’s heels or wedges.
Sissy makeup
I had allowed her to wear light not obvious makeup. No more. Every morning I expect full makeup, eye shadow, lipstick. The works.
I had also not kept up with the sanitary pads so now she must wear them ofor one week every month inside her knickers.
Pierced ears or stronger feminisation?
I’ve hidden all her trousers for the time being. I can’t say where on this blog as she helps me to put it together. So she only has skirts and dresses to wear. She hasn’t therefore been out all weekend except into the back garden a little when it was dark.
I really hope someone comes to the door.
This might work better than pierced ears as her feminisation is increasing as a result of the pierced ears debate. My goal is for her to eventually ask me to have pierced ears but let’s see.
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I’m pleased you enjoy our journey David. Yes it’s quite a change for us and especially Alice although she doesn’t really have much male clothing left so has little choice to be honest.
Good morning,
Suppose someday Alice decides sHe has had enough and decides sHe wants to spend all hEr days pretending to be a man. Does sHe have that liberty or will you still keep hEr as your wife?
Interesting question Mayshall. I haven’t considered it to be honest as although we have our problems at times, it’s mainly to do with exposing her new self to the outside world rather than any problem with being a female. She puts on female clothes without any input from me now which didn’t happen 2 years ago so I don’t expect this to come up. Lady A
It’s nice to read that progress Lady A. A simple thing but yes must be interesting to look back to the beginning and then see now and how much progress you have brought out in Alice
I love that simple view where you say 2 years ago Alice did not dress without direction whereas now she dresses as a girl naturally without input or direction. That’s wonderful to see / read 🙂
I have to agree Lady A that the pierced ears saga has highlighted some important themes re Alice and You :-). From personal experience 🙂 I know what works best for You re Alice are two things in developing her nicely (1) consistency and ( 2) punishment
Alice did not want real breasts at this stage so she committed to you to get ears pierced. It appears her intentions were not genuine here but served her in avoiding your desire for her breasts. Alice knows that she can manipulate situations now. To change this and assert your natural control and dominance I suggest from now on that is last time Alice can go back on her own commitments to you. Unacceptable :-). Next time severe punishment
I must say I loved how you now have her in genuine feminine beautiful clothes – I’m jealous in a way 🙂
Hello David, yes it’s complicated. I can understand Alice’s reluctance not to ‘come out’ to the world and pierced ears would have made a bit of a statement. At the same time it was something we had agreed. There has been a silver lining as because of her guilt I have increased her feminine look. Anyway she now has to be very feminine and wear screw on earrings which other followers kindly suggested as a temporary alternative. We’re also going shopping this weekend for more feminine matching bra and knicker sets. I can’t wait.
I presume Alice wears breast forms each day? If so what are they, how big and how long does she have to keep them on for?
Yes she wears them every day now. She actually has two sizes, the original smaller size and now a bigger one with a D cup. I let her remove them for bed
I forgot to mention Tamara that we have had to buy back extensions for the bra as Alice’s chest is quite large, about 40/42!
If she isn’t already then i think now is also the time that a bra because a permanent and everyday item for Alice 🙂
Yes she now has to wear a bra all the time now as part of her increased femininity. I’d let her lapse into laziness, simple skirt and top. No more
I totally agree Lady A that it’s time to be a bit more forceful with Alice. With the lighter, more feminine tops, her bra will also be more promininent and visible. Certainly more lacy lingerie will certainly show thru her tops for all to see. I think it’s time the world saw Alice for the girl she has become
Hello Michelle, yes the move towards much more feminine clothing all the time for Alice has made me very pleased and great a compensation for the lack of pierced ears. Alice is feeling quite guilty and has gone along with things wonderfully. We did as you guessed buy her some lovely lacy and frilly lingerie at the weekend and Alice had to buy it herself 🙂
Oh the clip ons over days would be enough to ask for piercings totally 🙂 gold or silver ear cuff band around the middle of the ear fit snugly and comfy 🙂
You’ve mentioned in the past that you expect Alice to keep the male role in the bedroom, do you ever feel like that’ll ever change in the future, maybe not permanently, but occasionally doing a bit of role reversal?My girlfriend do it regularly and it really spices things up.
Has Alice ever complained about having to be the male in the bedroom and then going back to nighties and dresses that it effects her love-making?
Hello John thanks for the question as I hadn’t realised I was being ambiguous and this gives me the chance to be clear. When I say Alice performs the male role in the bedroom I just mean that I make use of her penis, or in her case a large clitty. I like having a submissive female (Alice) with a large clitty. Alice wears a pink nightie or baby doll to bed every night with no knickers. I am in charge and in control in the bedroom too.
You are treating her very fairly Mistress
I rally think you should force her out to a club or similar where she can experience what it’s like to be out in a skirt.
Legs is in London. She would have a hand up her skirt within two minutes
Curtesy
Sally
Yes I think it’s time to take her to a club. We’re not really clubby people so I’m looking for something with a mature and calm attitude or to find another couple like us for evenings at home. There are a couple of clubs in London and I’ll report it when we eventually go.