I love to push the boundaries of our FLR and my husband Alice’s feminisation. I believe it’s best to not let Alice settle or become too comfortable in her role as my submissive housewife.
It is a balance though. We are married and although Alice’s feminisation and our FLR is the foundation of our relationship, we also have a normal life to live.
On the one hand I adore exploring my own female domination and power through insisting on exciting new developments in our relationship. On the other hand, we live in a real-life loving relationship and I don’t want to do anything that really upsets my husband.
It’s a question of pushing lightly and seeing how far I can go.
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That said, I’ve pushed a couple of boundaries lately and managed to take Alice along with me, albeit reluctantly. I find that I need to push things as Alice’s first reaction is always horror and then eventually she gets used to it. Mostly.
A WEEKEND WITH SISSIES
A NEW SISSY FRONTIER
The first boundary change was something I’ve been planning for a while: to invite a sissy we know to spend a weekend in serving me. As I’ve written before and to avoid a storm of emails, I have a great FLR with a pretty feminised husband so I’m not looking for more sissies as a rule.
However, we both know this sissy so it seemed an ideal opportunity to try out a long-term fantasy of mine to have two submissive pretty males serving me. I’ll call her Sissy Maid for this article. I prefer not to use first names for feminised males anyway as it implies equality.
I call Alice ‘Girl’ most of the time, not Alice, although I have recently taken to calling her Princess when I want to be more endearing or she’s done something nice for me.
If I had more skill at photography I would have more pictures as only a couple came out well enough to use. Technology is not my strong point, it’s Alice’s.
Sissy Maid arrived in male clothes as she has the same problem as Alice in being accepted as a girl outside the home. That said, she has long hair past her shoulders styled like a girl’s and doesn’t suffer from Alice’s problem of thinning on top.
I told Sissy Maid to change immediately into appropriate clothing. Here are the girls together.
Alice is very heterosexual so the idea of exposing her clitty or being in the vicinity of other males’ clitties is difficult for her. I, on the other hand, enjoy the power of having control over every part of a male’s body, especially those parts they previously thought of as examples of their masculinity but are now examples of their emasculation. Hence the photo.
Having the girls wear see-through underwear and lifting their skirts was a light introduction to what I had in mind. Alice hadn’t complained at this stage proving my approach of incremental boundary pushing as the most effective way to get what I want. I push further than before, then I hold the ground then move on to the next level. Sounds like a military strategy!
As a dominant woman I have the right to play with other sissies’ bodies in any way I see fit. I’m not talking about cuckolding just humiliation and control. I wanted Alice to accept this in practice and to understand that Maid was in my control also.
A rare photo of me as I like to maintain my anonymity. Sissy Maid’s clitty was large for a girly, much bigger than Alice’s little clitty princess.
AND THE NEXT SISSY FRONTIER
So after the photos I got them to serve me tea and sit at my feet. I like feminised men at my feet.
The photo shoot was only a warm up as what I really wanted was to push the boundaries a bit more than Alice and Maid lifting their dresses. I hadn’t warned Alice of my plans, of course, as she would have tried to push back. Best to move things on bit by bit by surprise.
What I wanted was to be served dinner by two naked sissies and for Alice to become used to this. If there’s one thing I like better than a man in a skirt it’s an exposed feminised male. Nothing shows female superiority more than that.
Incremental stages was the key. First I told the girls to put on tiny mini skirts. After a while in these I told them to remove their knickers. Well they were see-through anyway so what was the difference? Sound logic.
Although Sissy Maid was more experienced than Alice, Alice hadn’t complained so far. I had her in a room with another feminised male in a tiny skirt that only just covered her clitty.
Next up was to lift their skirts. I did this for a while too, getting Alice used to being exposed. Then the clincher:
“Girl, Sissy Maid. Remove your skirts.”
Alice hesitated although Sissy Maid did as she was told. I lifted Alice’s skirt and spanked her clitty.
“Remove your skirt girl.”
Alice slid it down. I’d succeeded. I knew that If I’d told her to be naked from the start I’d have had a small rebellion. I might have got my way but it would have been more difficult. This way I more or less had Alice’s acceptance or at least acquiescence.
Of course, you can’t have a male clitty exposed without it being feminised so I told the girls to tie pretty ribbons on each other’s clitties. Surprisingly although somewhat reluctantly Alice did this to SIssy Maid. Maid was less reticent which made me smile.
They spent the rest of the evening naked except for the ribbons around their clitties – and Sissy Maid’s stockings of course.
Here are the sissies in their pretty ribbons. I didn’t get the focus right. Alice cleaned the photo up as best she could for me but insisted on putting a little cover on their clitties. I allowed that as long as it was pinkish. Since Alice’s clitty is half the size of Sissy Maid’s, I’m certain she added twice as much pink cover as was necessary.
The next morning, the sissies served me breakfast in bed. Such a fun weekend, I’m going to have to do it again sometime. My next development is to have another woman home and for Alice to serve us both. I’ve had other couples like us to visit and visited them but never the more intense situation of another dominant woman. I know that Alice is more circumspect with other women and less likely to rebel.
Since the other woman would have no relationship attachment I think I could get Alice pushed a little further. I know I can at times give in to her as I don’t want to upset her, I like things to be consensual. Which leads me onto the second boundary – penetration.
PENETRATING A FEMINISED MALE
I consider what Alice still calls her bottom is really her sissy vagina. As a sissy she needs her vagina to be penetrated by a dominant woman – me. In the future, I hope by another sissy.
The problem is that Alice doesn’t really like anything around her ‘vagina’. I’m not sure exactly what her problem is, but I’ve accepted it… until now.
I really need to penetrate her, it’s time. I’ve had success in getting her to suck my strap-on penis but she tightens up if I put it against her vagina. So I am applying my incremental approach. I’ve started gelling her up and inserting a small butt plug.
She’s more used to this although it tends to slip out. Next up – a slightly larger one. I’ve also started to insert my finger and twist it around. I use latex gloves which adds a nice clinical approach to things.
The idea is to stretch her vagina bit by bit until it’s ready for my not-too-large strap-on. She’s still very tight. The muscles around her vagina tense up as soon as I put anything close. After a while she loosens but I’ve still some way to go.
BOUNDARIES ARE THERE TO BE SMASHED
These are a couple of new developments for our relationship. The difficulty is always that life can get in the way and the impetus is lost. Our relationship is not a constant round of femdom, it’s a consensual FLR based on my husband’s feminisation and submission.
We have to do the shopping and work too. And, sadly, conform to society’s expectations outside the home.
Each change in the level of our FLR requires a degree of management and control by me. For example I still have to remind Alice at times to change into a skirt when we get in to the home, let alone managing new deeper changes. It can be tough, like having a recalcitrant child to control. But the end results are worth it for us both and add enormous spice to our relationship.
It’s for this reason I can keep Alice under control as there’s so much in it for her too. Not least the enjoyment of not having to fulfill those annoying stereotypical male gender roles. She can be her true self, a submissive gentle feminine person who loves to serve and understands the superiority of real females.
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Wow, Alice has a thing for being humiliated. Do you every worry that he may have suicidal ideations, that she won’t talk to you about. Cover it up in obedience to you. What is it that he feels guilty about? Is it what he sells? Does he sell nerve gas? Mustard gas? Human body parts? Nuclear weapons?
He sells nerve gas to the Russians
Wow, Alice has a thing for being humiliated. Do you every worry that he may have suicidal ideations, that she won’t talk to you about. Cover it up in obedience to you. What is it that he feels guilty about? Is it what he sells? Does he sell nerve gas? Mustard gas? Human body parts? Nuclear weapons?
My owner is also working on seeing and preparing me for sex with a real male and is using the same methods. It will be soon as she is looking for the right discreet male. Hopefully she states it will be one that i can create a male/gurl relationship with as boyfriend and gurlfriend. She has been preparing my male pussy for this and also i must eat all my female ejaculations also. We are in very similar situations.
I’ve been reading your work and would like to develop a similar lifestyle for Claudia and myself. Like Alice Claudia can be very resistant to her relatively new femininity. As a man, she participate in some ultra masculine activities such as bowhunting and snowmobiling, which made her think she could be a man. That’s why she chose such manly activities… to reinforce her mistaken notion of her manhood. When I remind her that her tiny little sissy clit is all the reason I needed to feminize her, she quietly agrees. Differing from your relationship, I do not use Claudia for my sexual needs (she couldn’t do it as a man) and have several lovers. I feel the time is right to introduce Claudia to the pleasures on a man. She is very resistant to the idea, but she knows I will not relent. She has been penetrated regularly by me with a dildo and has been eating her cum for months and has come to accept both. She even shows signs of enjoying penetration to a degree. I feel it is my responsibility that she experiences womanhood as fully as is possible and being taken by a real man is absolutely essential to achieving that goal. What are some ways to begin the process of training her to embrace natural sex with males. She was adamant above not accepting breasts, but once they appeared, she quickly fell in love with them and not only accepts her bosoms, but celebrates having them! I’m hopeful that after her initial experience with a man, she will find herself naturally drawn to masculine males. It will be a long process, but I’m sure she will, with time, realize I only want what is right for her and a feminine sissy girl. I would like that she comes to naturally prefer sex with a man to any other. Then I will know the feminization has been a success. It’s is so rewarding to watch her evolve before my eyes and know I had a hand in her feminine awakening.
Patti,
i don’t consider myself a female and my wife uses the terms to describe me as her “sissy slut, sissy pig or my precious piglet”. Not having to act or appear as a macho male any longer at all has removed a lot of pressure from me and i am totally at peace with myself, lifestyle and my feminized body. Since a young age i always wanted to be a girl and was very jealous of girls lifestyle, clothing choice, beauty and even their periods and the ability to get pregnant. The funny part is my non-attraction to men and also not considering myself gay. Being feminine and as much as a woman as i can be is just me. If i was young again and had to do it all over in todays world i would have totally lived my life as a girl and even went ahead with sex reassignment surgery. i still find females very attractive but now view them has being very superior to me. i have been trained to respect, serve and be docile in the presence of any female regardless of their age, looks and body type. Unless otherwise instructed i don’t even look them in the eye. My primary doctor is my wife’s friend Nancy. She is Asian and is a GYN & Fertility specialist and about 15 years younger then us. She oversees my health and also my hormones that my wife has put me on. Its strange being in her office for check ups etc. i am always scheduled before or after her last appointment for privacy reasons but her office staff is well aware of my condition and lifestyle. Also the fact that i am biologically a male. The public stares and sometimes comments don’t even faze me and have accepted it as a consequence of my wife’s decisions she has made for me. My inner peace came at a big price for my chosen lifestyle. the humiliation and degradation my wife has put me through both in private and in public has been severe. Also physical punishments such as spanking, face slapping, strapping, sexual use has been severe. My wife uses them not only for infractions by me but for her pleasure also. Its her psychological mind set that she derives pleasure from for me being unable to fulfill my role in her life as a real Alpha Husband in the traditional sexual and emotional needs that she needed. Its a small price to pay for all her work and sacrifices she has also made in her life to give me the life and lifestyle that i have today. She could have left me years ago but she came to understand my needs and my true self. But she also found the rewards of owning and having a feminized male that she totally has control over. Her needs are met 100% in all domestic and personal needs. She never has to worry about infidelity on my part ever unless it was instructed by her. The only thing she doesn’t get from me is actual male / female intercourse. That’s due to me being unable to perform that way to have a fem-male ejaculation and to stay erect. The closest we come to that is me wearing a strap on that is hollow at the bottom and fits like a sleeve over my male clit. She also doesn’t perform any oral on me. Its all manual stimulation while she wears rubber or latex gloves or by means of prostrate stimulation depending on her preference. We have accepted and are happy with our chosen lifestyle. though some in our lives don’t accept us and no longer are in our friendship circles many still are. Also in our agreement my wife has always been allowed to seek sexual pleasure on the outside to fulfill her need for real male / female sex. She has done so on occasion even in our home but these few times were sex only deals with no emotional attachment. That was done years ago when we were much younger and her needs were stronger. The FLR lifestyle is our chosen lifestyle and it was achieved after many years of hard work, commitment and even sacrifice on both our parts. i live totally 1100% to please my wife’s needs, demands etc. What she has given me is priceless and i am finally at peace mentally. Yes, i do regret never getting sexual reassignment surgery but when i was younger it wasn’t accepted like today. My wife also say’s if we were younger today she would have supported it and we would have lived together as two females but that she would have also required as a condition of that a man would also be in our household as her alpha male lover. This would have made her life 100% complete
Patti59
Over the many years of conditioning and training there is very little male traits left in me. Both physically and mentally. Through years of discipline, humiliation, forced degrading acts and finally hormones i am as much as possible the female that was always inside of me. My once Dominant male attitude is long gone. But there are rewards and that being more myself, no longer pretending to be so macho etc. i am more comfortable in my mind, body, clothes and the submissive object i have become under my wife’s training. While she still loves me and i love her i am no longer the husband in the relationship. While in the past i was the male husband in all ways except the bedroom. i never made love to her we had sex and fucked! i never could please her emotional needs for closeness and intimacy and my sexual performance while it satisfied my needs never satisfied hers. can you understand that? Her inner resentment of that fact coupled with the way i used and abused her when i was sexually the Dominant one made it very easy for her to discipline, humiliate and degrade me in many ways. i have become a totally sissified fem-male to serve her every need. She has learned to get great pleasures out of humiliating, degrading and using me as she see’s fit. It may seem strange to most but my need to be treated like this coupled with my past guilt of how i treated my wife and other females in the past makes me totally acceptable to my new position in life. i even have breast due to the hormones given to me by her over the last five years. She has also found her true self as a very strong willed Dominant Woman who enjoys her FLR with me. Knowing she is in complete control as she say’s my owner and that i am just her property to use and abuse as she see’s fit. i once a strong Dominant Male has been reduced to a very docile and submissive fem-male both in private and in public! But strangely i wouldn’t trade my position for anything. i have become 100% comfortable in my new position in life. It took many years of 24/7 training and discipline but the desired results have made my wife completely happy. Some of her female friends are amazed by it and tell her often they wish they had the strength and mindset to train their husbands.
That is so wonderful to hear you say, Annette. The Fem-Male is something that needs to encouraged for the betterment of society. Especially when a once Macho male that has been arrogant and belligerent, abusing Women…that is the Perfect Prospect for Total Male Feminization. I also think it is Imperative, for the Future Control by Women that Feminized males be presented as Feminine and Docile males. It does no Good to the Advancement of Superior Women to Totally feminize a man or boy, but that identify them as females….that only Hurts the Cause of Female Empowerment.
My hope in the New Year is that your wife’s Female Friends that are admiring your wife for what she has done to you will become steadfast in their Desire to feminize the males in their lives. I would imagine that your wife would be very supportive in helping other Women feminize the men and boys in their lives.
I Applaud your wife, and I am elated to hear you, as a one macho man, embrace your femininity, and submit to the Superior Women around you!
Patti
Yes, i too was opened up with insertions to be able to have a more flexible male pussy or cunt as my S/O would say. It was very uncomfortable at times but there was a definite reason for this. She derived a lot of pleasure in seeing my discomfort over the years. Many times i was taken out of our home with a plug or dildoe held in place by a very tight panty girdle or girdle inserted to go shopping, visiting and run errands. It was truly uncomfortable. But i remember when we were in traditional husband / wife roles and i would initiate anal sex with my wife and she would say it hurt, she hated it etc. but her complaints would fall on deaf ears and i would continue until i came inside her. She would leak sometimes there was some blood also. But at the time my enjoyment was more important to me then her discomfort. So now i see how she enjoys seeing me suffer now as our roles are reversed. She often takes my male pussy with a large strap on and enjoys every minute of it. She enjoys to know my male pussy is suffering torment as her anal opening did many years ago. My opening is quite stretched in the fact that when i need to go i have to go. My sphincter retention is very low due to years of being stretched and abused. i have accepted it and know i was wrong in the way i used her years ago. i understand the pleasure she derives from taking me anally and why she keeps me stretched as much as possible to accommodate her strap on. And of course as a feminized male i understand i must use my opening as best i can as my vagina.
It is so nice to hear that the Roles are now reversed. As an apparently macho male, that had no regard for your wife’s discomfort, I find it must be Very satisfying for your wife to be the Dominant one in your relationship now. Many men need to be Feminized and kept submissive and obedient to Women. It is thrilling to know that more Women are Taking Control, and more and more men are finding themselves in skirts and dresses, and being Obedient to their wives!
Thank you for sharing!
Inserting something in me had a huge influence psychologically over time. It moved me from not being masculine with a very nice woman to actual role reversing.
In the intimacy, It moved away my attention from my little thing. Now, I was preoccupied with being clean. I was preoccupied with lubrification. I was preoccupied with size. And I felt a little anxious about being adequate.
Early on, my girlfriend started this regiment: The minute I came home after work, I was to be inserted for at least an hour or two. It made cooking dinner a very different experience. Sitting doesn’t feel the same. it changes your posture and the way you walk. And let me tell you that this was not about arousal.
It changed also her attitude. She was smiling at me a lot. Sometimes, when she could feel my discomfort, she was reassuring and kind. She became more assertive too.
Now, when I look back at this regiment, I understand the whole thing was about an huge attitude adjustment.
Lady Alexa… how both empowering (for You) and educative (for Alice) that You have at last see the importance and necessity of the Female Master’s right, duty and joyful desire to make penetration a prime goal and element in the coming appropriate Female-male girl relationship!!!
This is decidedly another Sea Change advancement in establishing the true hierarchy of the sexes.
Also, this humble reader so then applauds Your firmness in resisting allowing forced male-male sexual gratification upon Alice, as one suspects You understand the male girl and her training is best served on entirely as possible on fulfilling her Female Master and not focusing on her own pleasure other than by-product in pleasing said Female Master.
Should not Women’s advancement, awe before Her Authority and Her expressing of Her rights & privileges (and yes, that includes Her complete sexual enjoyment!) be the sole absolute determinant factors in the relationship She desires with Her inferior but well-loved male girl underling.
Your means of advancing Female First ideology seems the one best to reverse the past false hierarchy of the sexes and to provide most efficacious model for tomorrow’s correctly perfected and true natural roles and status for Females and males.
The other important element of Female penetration as Woman’s right is its absolute demytsification of ‘masculinity’. For millenia the inferior male has based its postion upon being the sex that invades the other. NOW, as Females take the lead through even the most rudimentary artificial and mechanical means the male member and its pathetic abilities are exposed as inadequate by comparison. Psychologically the male self image from this point on shall lay shattered if not totally obliterated… and rightfully left in need to prove itself of value only through acquiescence and servitude in its newly re-defined permanent ‘feminized’ state.
BRA-VO!!! (As You help establish the ‘BRA’ as proper “VO-gue” attire for Female Masters’ dainty, dutiful well-trained male girls.)
sorry Lady, I had wrongly mentioned Alicia kindly excuse it is Alice
That’s ok. Alicia is Spanish for Alice
Thank you Lady, hope you would give a thought to try bangles and anklet…trust me it would enhance your training thanks for your understanding
Dear Lady,
you could perhaps try bangles and anklet, once Alicia starts to wear she would soon enjoy as the lovely sounds would give deeper psychological impact on her attitude so as the other sissy maid can as well wear and they both can show the bangles to you Mistress… guess would be different experience… thanks
Never settle on the device of chastity Lori, in the findom. Otherwise you will be like me. Reality is very different from fantasy.
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Dear Lady Alexa and Alice,
Thank you so much for inviting me to your lovely home. I enjoyed serving you very much and it felt very right to submit to your natural authority and dominance. I love that you live a FLR lifestyle portrayed so beautifully in your stories. It’s very difficult to describe the feelings of submission and eagerness to please invoked in a feminised male or sissy such as myself. I am not very experienced with anal play but know it can be very enjoyable if not too large.
Best curtsies,
Maid x
And very nice it was to have you serve me. A good role model for Alice to follow.I hope you can come and see me again – maybe with your mistress next time?
Hi Lady Alexa
I cannot agree more with you on keeping a girly hubbie off balance. For our upcoming office party I have volunteered Priscilla to do a small solo dance. She does not know it yet, but at my instructions has begun to practice at home. Along with regular corset training, she is put in tight costume and ballet shoes for a few hours practice every day. Her female tutor is allowed to wield a belt at any sign of slackness. Once she has learnt to put on a good show, I will break the news of her upcoming public performance. I expect begging, crying and whining but she knows it will be futile. She is a bit apprehensive as I have expressed my disappointment with the size of her boobs and have hinted that I may start her on hormones if I feel the need to enhance her curves.
Love
Andrea
Hello Andrea, so nice to hear from another female leader. I think curves are the way to go although hormones is a big step.
Dear Lady Alexa, I hope you don’t mind me asking, where did the the two girls sleep that night? We’re they in a room together or did alice share your bed and maid sleep alone?
Yours, Gordon
That’s fine to ask as it gives me the chance to be clear. Alice is my spouse – we share the same bed.
You like humiliating him. So, I figured you would have him sleep down in tube. 🙂
I’ve no idea what you’re saying – sleep down in tube?
Good morning Alexa from your American ‘cousin’ in LA. I have not done any of these more embarrass-humiliation approaches with my sweet husband Mike (Mary). But when we first started FLR, I did have him (her) take several weeks using progressively larger plugs to gradually “familiarize” his tiny opening with being opened/stretched wider, getting the muscles there to relax, and softening everything up more and more. After 6 or 7 weeks, the former tiny and tight was now a lovely wide, soft, and very flexible difference. This made tampons incredibly easy, and I settled on a very ‘average’ size (and 100% looking) shaft we have used for years now. So easy right in, whether sitting on my lap facing me, sitting on my lap facing away, leaning over the bed, or just snuggling next to (backing up into) me on a chilly evening under the covers together. That training really added to the ease of our always referring to her vagina, and Mary (like me) now preps for intimacy with some KY-jelly and we’re both soft, warm, wet, and very relaxed and ready.
Hello Cathy nice to hear from you. It seems that softening up their little openings is important. I hadn’t realised before as Alice was so resistant to me doing anything to her in that area. I now realise that I wasn’t thinking correctly and that it is an important part of their training and development as girls
To Ms. Peterson:
I absolutely love the relationship you have with “Mary”. I was so excited about reading your history in your 2 contributions to “Fictionmania”, but they are not there anymore.
In fact, you are the reason that I came to Lady Alexa’s wonderful and informative site.
How can I access those postings that you put on Fictionmania?
Jayme
Hello Ms. Cathy,
As always, i thoroughly enjoy your input here!
Xxoo
Carla
This is how things turned me. A combination of orgasm control, prostate stimulation and discipline left me vulnerable to do things I never could imagine I’d do. My mistress invited another sissy to join us. After about 10 sessions, she insisted that we kiss each other and touch….each other. After a few months of orgasm denial and constant anal stimulation, I was willing to do anything for release, and I willingly, actually lustily, made love to the other sissy. Once that happened, there was no going back.
I don’t see Alice kissing another sissy or making love to one. I wouldn’t want that either as she’s only permitted to make love and kiss me. I like the idea of her touching another sissy though and i’m going to explore that in the future.
If you keep her sexually satisfied, she may not go any further with another sissy. From personal experience, I know that pent up arousal and the touching of another sissy pushed me over the edge.
Yes that would be fine. I don’t need her to go any further wuth another sissy
Hello Lady Alexa,
I am always thrilled reading your newest post! I am not sure why, but this is one of my favorites. Maybe Alice is still reluctant to advance her feminization but you are always a step ahead. With that said, she seems to be accepting and perhaps enjoying it more. I am certainly no psychologist but would guess this is probably a milestone of sorts.
One thing i appreciate for certain, is seeing the love and the importance of the relationship to you. I know i have written this before but most of what one sees on the internet is the kink heavy, punishment and degradation focused fantasy. The drawback is being so jealous! 🙂
Xxoo
Carla
Glad you enjoyed it Carla. I feel that Alice’s reluctance is nothing more than overcoming internal societal norms as once I’ve pushed her into something new she is usually fine with it. It’s just about how fast I can push her
What an exciting experience for you Lady Alexa, pushing Alice’s boundaries with another sissy has broken a barrier that most hetero sissies would consider a line in the sand. Having said that boundaries are simply things we haven’t tried yet and most are things that are very emasculating in the presence of a woman let alone another male. More importantly Alice put your authority ahead of the typical masculine male aversion to such things in order to please you and it has brought her further into both her feminization and her acceptance of your desires. Your FLR is flourishing, she knows her eventual fate as does everyone who follows your blog but your loving relationship tells me when you finally take her it won’t be punishment but a desire for her to crave your attentions and be the girl you want her to be.
You make a good point Jenn that I didn’t put in the post as I hadn’t considered its importance at the time. Yet it was one of the most important points of the evening. Later in the week I asked Alice how she felt being exposed with another sissy, tying a ribbon on the other sissy’s clitty and she said she did it for me, it wasn’t high on her list of high points of the evening. Yet Alice also said she enjoyed doing what I ordered. I think I’ll explore this further
You are moving ahead in the right direction and Alice will soon realize her full potential and place as a feminized male. i have realized this many years ago in our FLR. My wife pushes boundaries almost weekly and sometimes on a daily basis. i too resisted the addition of another male in our FLR but had come to realize that it was inevitable especially since i can no longer satisfy my wife’s need for sexual intercourse that requires penetration by a male penis. Several months ago i was exposed by my wife to a long time co-worker of my wife’s who we have known for years. He is also married in a traditional marriage. He has agreed to engage in sexual intercourse with my wife under the condition that he will have sexual contact with me as directed by my wife. This also will be strictly a friend with benefits situation with my wife. His wife is a typical older wife, out of shape, plain and definitely not sexy or sexual. My wife always knew he had a thing for her and she would always tease and be very sexual when he was around her at work. She caught him many times sneaking peeks when she would expose herself to him that appeared to be by accident or that my wife didn’t realize her legs were open etc. One day the conversation turned to sex and my wife boldly told him that she was very unfulfilled when it came to actual sexual intercourse with me but in all other ways she was totally satisfied. At first he thought due to my age that i had a medical issue. At that point my wife explained the total situation at home in respect to me being a submissive sissy girl who has been on hormones and unable to get an erection to perform normal intercourse with her.
At that point she put her plan into action. She told him he would be allowed to have unrestricted sex with her in our home in exchange for him having sexual contact with me also in our home under her direction and that i will always be present in the home when they had intercourse and sometimes in the actual room. She explained to him also that since i have been on hormones, have developed sizable breast and have become more feminine that there was a need for me to experience sex with a male as much as a feminized male. He isn’t submissive at all but a very normal male.
i haven’t written in a while due to the fact of these developments in the last few months. Since then i have given him oral sex, masturbated him, been penetrated by him, made him erect for my wife’s penetration, watched them engage in sexual intercourse and bring my wife to orgasm. This was all done in the presence of my wife which was totally humiliating to me but in a strange way also exciting. My wife loves it and finds it to be the most exciting thing we have done to date. She usually can’t wait for him to come over. Yet she has no emotional feelings for him. She has also performed oral sex on him and when he came she either spit it onto my face or in my mouth to swallow. Before he was introduced into our home i have never tasted or swallowed a man’s ejaculate other then my own which is a very small amount. On the other hand his ejaculate is ten times the amount of mine and a much more thicker consistency. Where mine tends to be more clear and watery.
Over the last few months i have grown accepting of his presence, recognize how much my wife needs actual penetration and intercourse with a regular male. Also that i has a feminized male under hormones actually feel more of a female when he is around and i am sexually pleasing him. When i perform oral sex, masturbate him or when he has sex with me in my male vagina and he orgasm’s i actually feel a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction that i can please a male as a real female does. i also feel that being used by him as a real female would brings me closer to how a real woman feels when with a man. The fact that all this is done in the presence of my wife is the most humiliating thing she has ever done to me and this totally fulfills my needs to be humiliated like no other humiliation that she has done before. In a way i look forward to his visits maybe even more then she does. Strange but true! The mind and body sex connection is very strong and works in such strange ways. i feel the female hormones i have been given over the years plays a huge part also. As mentally i have become a much more calm and emotional person then when i wasn’t on them. My wife is happy and i am content with my position as it stands today.
I’m pleased that works for you Annette. In our case, Alice’s little clitty functions very well and I’m very happy with that. I find that the feminisation of Alice and humiliating gives us a great sexual tension that is perfect for us. Each couple has to find what suits them and to go with that. Alice having a functioning clitty also enables me to use that for control purposes which is not to be underestimated.
I Love the life you are sharing I hope I can have this same beautiful dreams true
Your loving relationship shows so well as You write the story of the two of You
Thank You for sharing
That’s an important point, the loving relationship/ Too many sites show only punishment in FLRs and it’s not like that
and that’s why i love your blog
A perfect relationship
Yes I’d agree
Regarding Alice’s plug slipping out, at first i had the same problem, especially when i was doing housework. My LadyJ then had me wear a tight pantie girdle on top of my nylon panties and pantie hose to hold my plug in. Something like this:
https://www.plussizebras.com.au/super-firm-long-leg-panty-girdle-blue
The long legs prevent any boi-bits from slipping out and suppress any possible clit-swelling!
This worked so well i could even wear it to my outside job under my looser ‘guy’ clothes. It was also an added layer of humiliation to wear such an exclusively feminine garment and with the constant compression i was always aware i was wearing a girdle. Mine had a side zipper which made bathroom trips to pee or apply more lube to my plug much easier.
The Hush remote-controlled vibrating butt plug
https://www.lovense.com/vibrating-butt-plug
may be something You can use as a ‘vagina’ training device, the possibilities seem very exciting! Sending Alice out shopping for You while wearing a Hush under her pantie girdle, never knowing if or when You’ll turn it on would be an enormous extension of Your control over her!
Curtsies,
tris
Yes although I need to get her vagina stretched and trained first I think
I think you are going about it the right way, slowly with slow, incremental steps. First one finger, then two. A small butt plug at first, then a slightly larger one. She will slowly get used to the sensation and then relax about it. No forcing, as Alice must learn to accept penetration by you and then enjoy it!
Speaking as a heterosexual sissy (like Alice) who adores Women and femininity, penetration is so totally alien to a person raised in our society as ‘male’. “Males’ penetrate, ‘females’ are penetrated, so surrendering to the delights of penetration by a female is a huge and very important psychological step in Alice’s path to Femininity.
When I was vagina-trained by my LadyJ, I had the same reservations and fears but once I learned to accept my totally feminine role, I loved it and it so enhanced my feelings of being a ‘girl’.
Alice isn’t fully convinced by the logic that as a girl she needs to be penetrated but some things I have to push on her for the greater good of her feminisation. I’ll be gentle, slow and loving and I know she’ll grow to enjoy it and, if not exactly thank me for it, then she’ll eventually relax and accept it.
I love the way that you are bringing Alice along. Slow and easy. It sounds like a beautiful FLR relationship. I must admit I wish I was the other sissy invited over. I think for the embarssment and the fun of it that should happen in all FLR relationships
Yes it definitely worked as I like to keep Alice on her toes
I’m new to this concept but find it really powerful. It impresses me how thorough and, in a benign way, even diabolical your methods are. It’s almost like a bloodless breaking (if sorts) of a prisoner in a war movie!
Of course, as an open-minded, sensitive but single, “typical” male, I submit the obvious notion that the ace up a woman’s sleeve for control is controlling his semen flow. Any honest man will admit that if this is established, the dynamics of male-femne r’ship WILL be at least severely altered, even if nothing more achieved.
Would love to hear more on how that’s done or has been done by you with Alice.
Excellent writing, m’am.
P.S. I’m looking into this lifestyle after the excitement of it and even perhaps logic of it slapped me hard. After always appreciating strong, assertive but intelligent, accomplished women…this seems to flow somewhat. Thx.