When you feminise your husband, there are certain less glamorous aspects to deal with. It’s not all about putting your sissy husband into pretty skirts, it’s also about constant reminders of your sissy’s femininity and new status as a submissive girly.
So why is this such an important part of the process?
In my experience, sissies can be lazy. Not in the way of doing their chores and working but in maintaining a newfound and often forced femininity.
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With that in mind it falls to me to stay alert to ensure my sissy husband maintains her standards. When she knows I’m watching closely and inspecting then it’s all fine. When I’m not on top of things, she can backslide.
Lazy. It’s not easy keeping up with everything a girl has to do to stay pretty.
The key thing to remember is that I’m having to re-programme Alice after she has suffered from half a century of male social conditioning. That is no small task but certainly worth the effort as the benefits of a feminised husband outweigh any extra effort you might have to make.
There is one area specifically in which I have to be highly observant and that is iwhen Alice is in male guise. For example, when we’re out of the home, she is referred to as ‘sir’ or ‘he’ in conversations.
This is a big danger and a potential problem as it re-sets her thinking. As soon as possible I have to remind her at an appropriate time that the person calling her ‘sir’ was mistaken and she is not a man but a sissy girl.
I expect her to tell me she’s a girl, which she does albeit quite sheepishly which I like.
The reprogramming effort does have to be constant to be effective so I always tell her she’s a good girl (or a bad girl). I prefer to call her ‘girl’ rather than by her name Alice. I like it as it’s a more humiliating for her because it removes the sweetness of the name Alice and replaces it with an affirmation of her new gender.
So the conclusion of all this is that despite the challenges, she’s still most definitely a sissy husband not a man.
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of course its done for the males benefit!
What do you gals think about spanking?
It is part of the discipline and control necessary to keep our feminised males compliant. And it’s exciting for me too, the power to do it!
Yes, it makes lots of sense !!
Yes it makes sense really Lady A..you females are in a position where you can do whatever you think is best for the male and whatever is best to keep the male compliant . Spanking is the most simple and effective way to exhibit the supremacy of you lovely women!!..It is very much acceptable as a way to ensure compliance..
I much prefer “encouraged” as well.
Thanks Lady A..i take it as a compliment on my transformation..CUrtseys from a grateful Shelby
Lady A Easter Greetings from this ontrack-to-feminisation me!!! Thanks so much for all your lovely advice..Now I reached the nighties stage since sometime I feel so much more feminised and it is also having an effect on my wife who is actually the leader of the house..i m like a ‘wife’ to her now…and it is showing in the way she is completely in control of the bedroom!!
As things should be
As I shared with you earlier Lady A mine is little bit different. I wanted to get feminised and it was your sane advice to give the control to my wife ,do all the usual feminine work, show subtly preference for feminine things, and yes change inwardly like consciously talk slowly softly politely ,, walk with short steps, sit on the toilet always and rather develop the feeling of feminity and hope she feels that i would be better as a girl and makes me one. SHe is the boss of the house and i am the homemaker in all respects ..Glad to have taken ur advice..my life is so calm and so peaceful now and i enjoy this flr. would be sharing more soon..thanks Lady A
I’m very pleased it’s working out Shelby. It doesn’t matter if the male wants to be feminised as in your case, or needs some encouragement as in Alice’s, as long as masculinity is removed then this is what is important.
Thanks Lady A..in fact you had advised me sometime back i could consider plain nighties and plain skirts (at home). I did express my wish to my wife. she told me that she sensed the ques would pop up. She doesnt mind now cos she doesnt regard me as a man much now but once i start i cannot go back. I said i was game for it. So i have been going to bed in nighties for some months now .Plain one for now tho and my earlier nightwear is dispensed with totally. But for the skirt she smiled wickedly and said i have to work hard and reduce my midline.Of cos ladies trousers are now allowed for me at home..i have to shed some pounds to qualify for wearing a skirt. she wants me to work towards it. I totally am committed to remove my masculinity Lady A ..i love this transformation,- Shelby
Mine has been encouraged, after the this is what I want to do or we should go our separate ways. Ultimatum at first but I could have walked. It’s been. Challenging tho with the training,humiliation exercises she’s used , especially clothes , lingerie shopping. Still get to wear pants out but have perfume on, eyebrows are always done, and painted nails
I have to force things along at times with anger, orders or ultimatums but generally it’s agreement and gentle persuasion.
Hello Lady A. My Mistress is also slowly transforming me into a ” sissy” but it is a tricky situation because of family. But I am enthusiastic about the transformation because I have been married twice and was a dominate male in both marriages and they both have failed. I feel calmer and gentler as a girl. We have began discussing breast forms for the house and also I have mentioned taking supplements to enhance my hips and butt to have more of a curvier figure. I love to read your posts they make me smile. I also forward them to my Mistress to read. Do you mind speaker to her if she would contact you for any advice?
I’m pleased to hear you’re being feminised, it’s never too late. I agree, family is the problem and is without doubt the main reason I have had to go slowly with Alice, otherwise I would definitely have her feminised 24/7 by now. I would be pleased to communicate with your mistress please contact me first via the contact section of my blog and then we can make arrangements privately.