If you don’t know why and how I feminized my husband, I suggest you read my book of the same title. Or trawl through posts on this blog.
But there are changes in the air; it’s important (and fun) to keep your husband’s feminisation fresh so that sissy doesn’t get too comfortable. One way to do that is to occasionally refresh her wardrobe with new pretty girly clothes, I find this helps. A pretty new skirt always makes my husband feel girly and submissive.
Continue ReadingAt its broadest definition, forced feminisation, or sissification, is usually defined as when a male ‘submissive’ is ‘forced’ to adopt feminine behaviours and mannerisms and to crossdress at the command of his dominant partner.
Obviously, the terms submissive and forced are part of the forced feminisation narrative and in practice, the male is neither forced nor always truly a submissive but he accepts the role. But from my experience, forced feminisation includes several other fetishes to be true feminisation and submission.
Continue ReadingI’m making a few changes in my Female-Led Relationship. Since I’m the female and therefore the lead, that’s normal I guess.
I’ve been making changes for some time, especially increasing the domination aspect of our FLR. I always discuss all the changes I want to make with my sissy husband Alice and proceed from there. If she has a big problem with anything specific, I’ll take things carefully and slowly. In some cases, I’ll drop the ideas if she objects strongly. In most cases, we try it out and it works out just fine. Eventually.
Continue ReadingI receive a lot of questions about having a forced feminisation relationship — the feminization question. Most are from aspirant sissies, of course, but there are a few from ladies too.
Every relationship is different with different needs and dynamics. Since I have been in an FLR for some years, I have ‘force’ feminised my husband and I know a few other couples who share our lifestyle approach, I can respond with some degree of experience to the forced feminization question.
Continue ReadingThere is a fantasy that says that dominant women are tyrants and abusive. In real life, I am a loving, caring and benevolent mistress. As are other mistresses I know who live a female-led relationship.
The idea of the aggressive mistress dressed in black leather, vertiginous heels and brandishing a whip is part of the false narrative around femdom and forced feminisation: the harridan who makes their submissive tremble and inflicts terrible physical punishment on their weak bodies.
This is not true outside of professional mistresses. Although I do sometimes wear the high heels.
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