One of the great things about writing a female-led relationship blog is that we find others in our lifestyle. They contact me either in the comments or, more often, privately though my contact form or email, ladyalexa@mail.com. All of our contact with those in the FLR and forced feminisation/sissy world is thanks to this blog.
One of our longer-term FLR friends are also from London, and around our age. They emailed me years ago after reading our adventures here. I’ll call them Mistress Ruth and Sissy Linda. We meet and communicate with them regularly. Sometimes it’s entirely vanilla, such as a meal in a restaurant, although we always end up chatting (quietly) about FLR and feminisation. Other times, we’ll meet at either home for sissy games.
The last time we met, it was for sissy games at their house.
Sissy warm up
Before we met for sissy games at their home, we did a swap. While I took Sissy Linda shopping for girly clothes and pretty underwear, I sent my sissy husband, Girl, to Mistress Ruth’s to serve her for the afternoon.
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Sissy shopping
I met Sissy Linda at the shopping centre. She is much better looking as a female than Girl and Sissy Linda often wears female clothes to go out. As she did this day. She can pass as female very well, and even has her own shoulder-length hair, styled in a feminine way.

Holding female clothes and underwear to her body is therefore, less of a humiliation than it would be for Girl as very few people notice she’s not all she seems to be. However, we break the shopping trip up with a trip to a cafe. Here, she has to serve me in public and curtsy. That is exquisite fun for me and a massive embarrassment for Linda.
I also made her stand in the corner of the cafe when I thought she wasn’t being respectful enough. Such fun; I couldn’t stop laughing.

Sissy serving
Meanwhile, Girl is at Mistress Ruth and Sissy Linda’s home. Girl can’t get away with looking like a girl, which of course, is part of the fun. It means she doesn’t dress out of the house. However, once at Mistress Ruth’s, she’s made to change.
I packed a pink chiffon miniskirt for Girl to change into. It has three overlaying layers, it’s see-through and is so short, it doesn’t cover her. It’s more of a frill around her waist. I also packed her a small white apron. I told Mistress Ruth that I usually don’t allow Girl to wear knickers with skirts; the apron covers her cute little clitty, although it was caged of course.
Girl got there, changed as instructed, and Mistress Ruth had her making tea and so on while she watched TV. Girl told me that Mistress Ruth checked on the cage and to see how well shaved she was.
Sissy dinner party
I’d left instructions that Girl was to open the door when Sissy Linda and I arrived. I liked to be greeted, curtsied to, and my jacket taken.
We decided on ordering a delivery rather than the fuss and mess of cooking and clearing up. The sissies of course, laid the table and put out the food and served it.
Once we’d eaten and the sissies had cleared up, I told Girl to remove the little apron and for Sissy Linda to remove her dress and panties. Both were locked and they made us coffee to end the evening exposed.

Sissy evenings
Although Girl and I sometimes play much naughtier games, with Mistress Ruth and Sissy Linda we tend to be more relaxed. We’re more likely to spend the evening with the Mistresses being served and the sissies serving. I’ll still humiliate Girl by displaying her clitty or her cage or spanking her in front of the others, but usually, that’s it.
Often, just living the FLR dynamic for an evening with another like-minded couple is enough.
And don’t forget, if you’re an FLR couple like us, a Mistress looking to join in, or a pretty sissy like the one in the image below, and you live in the south of England, you only have to send me a message. Maybe you can play sissy games too.

I am alpha male by day running a big company and bossing everyone around, but secretly a submissive sissy to my wife – forced feminized at home serving my Princess and craving humiliation.from her and her friends. Every morning , I am spanked and forced to affirm that I am a sissy whore to my Princess as she paddles me with my own hairbrush. She has been talking for weeks about having a sissy dinner party where I am exposed as her sissy and forced to serve her and all of her friends as they verbally humiliate me. Your story is an inspiration as my Princess’ ultimate goal is to find and make me orally service one of her friend’s sissy boyfriend
Hi Chrissy, Your sissy whore situation sounds very similar to mine when I was owned by my Mistress. I am curious if you go to work and boss the people around in your boy clothes? Or as you boss your employees around are you wearing panties and nylons/pantyhose under neath your trousers? Also is your pathetic clitty locked in a cage most of the time? Your tale is very interesting and hoping to hear more!
Hey Steve,
It’s all up to my Mistress.
There are many days when I am indeed wearing pink panties under my male alpha clothes at the office as I boss everyone around , and other times, I am locked in chastity as my Princess wears the key proudly around her neck with her jewelry – if only my employees knew the truth !
Chrissy
Chrissy, thanks for following up. Does your mistress require you to change into your sissy outfits upon coming home from work? Are you adept at walking in your sissy whore high heels? I’m curious if you have been trained in cock sucking in order to be ready for the real thing if your mistress decides you need that?
Yes, many times when I come home from work , I find that my wife has left a sissy outfit for me to put on – it could me a maid’s outfit, or a pink frilly outfit or her new favorite a skims nipple bra and panties – along with a list of chores to do until she comes home from a night out with her girls – it could cleaning the kitchen- doing the laundry or organizing her closet – sometimes all of the above – I have not mastered walking in high heels although this time of year she loves to take me “Halloween shopping” for a costume and having me try on high heel shoes as we get sales help from the younger very hot salesgirls who seem to know what is really going on and finally yes my Princess is making sure I am getting very proficient at sucking her huge strap-ons because it is her goal to make me suck cock for real one day as the ultimate humiliation and surrender to her demands and control of me
I found your comment in spam for some reason. Anyway,good to hear you’ve been sissified
Sounds Chrissy like your wife is doing a great job at sissifying you. I’m guessing she will probably be using a strapon on you soon? If you are getting adept at sucking cock, she may want to spit roast you while you are dressed in your sissy stockings. It is something that took me getting used to. Has your wife pounded you with a strapon yet?
Hey Steve
Sorry, just seeing this now
Yes pegging me is one of her favorite things to do – and of course very humiliating for me which is the pint
Same situation here.
Lace panties under my jeans.
Shaved from the waist down.
Toenails painted and on display since I’m only allowed to wear Mistress’s
Cute strappy kitten heel sandals.
🦄
Hey Steve,
It’s all up to my Mistress.
There are many days when I am indeed wearing pink panties under my male alpha clothes at the office as I boss everyone around , and other times, I am locked in chastity as my Princess wears the key proudly around her neck with her jewelry – if only my employees knew the truth !
Chrissy
Loved hearing about your sissy dinner party. I am alpha male by day running a big company and bossing everyone around, but secretly a submissive sissy to my wife – forced feminized at home serving my Princess and craving humiliation.from her and her friends. Every morning , I am spanked and forced to affirm that I am a sissy whore to my Princess as she paddles me with my own hairbrush. She has been talking for weeks about having a sissy dinner party where I am exposed as her sissy and forced to serve her and all of her friends as they verbally humiliate me. Your story is an inspiration as my Princess’ ultimate goal is to find and make me orally service one of her friend’s sissy boyfriend
It was such a good dinner party, I’m having another later this week. I’m writing about it shortly as this time, there will be more people there for my sissy to serve and maybe service
Dearest Lady Alexa, such a deliciously feminine story. I’m a sissy, unfortunately unowned at this time, but I truly believe that all males should be emasculated, feminized and trained to serve and obey Womyn. I absolutely love reading about FLR relationships and look forward to reading more. Thank you very much M’lady. (curtsy) Praise be to Womyn 💋
I’m pleased you liked the article. Stayed tuned for more soon
Hi Ms. Alexa and thank you for that account of your sissy and her sissy friend. When I was owned, I had several sissy meet ups with another sissy. We were tasked to put on a fashion show for our Mistresses. It was intense trying to model our cute outfits and then change as fast as we could into different outfits for their viewing pleasure. Even as a trained sissy, it was difficult to get my garters and stockings on at a fast pace. At the end of the fashion show, our owners parked us in two separate corners with our hands bound behind us. Eventually we were allowed to serve them dinner and after allowed to worship their feet. And then, of course they watched as the other sissy and I played with each other per their instructions. It sounds as if your sissy girl was not as comfortable as the other sissy?
No she wasn’t anywhere near as comfortable
I’ve been transitioned from an alpha male boot wearing construction worker to a feminized panty wearing slut by my Mistress after she read your column. She has my toenails painted ballet slipper pink and has me wearing her flip flops and open toe sandals in public.
I’m pleased to read that I have influenced another lady
Thanks for the email. My sissy Patricia and I are in a solo FLR, so we don’t mix with other couples in FLR. So it’s always fun to read about what other couples do.
As far as sissy training goes, Patricia was well on her way, and the major issue was transforming her from looking like a “Drag Queen” to a submissive girlfriend and a housewife who I could train to do the housework properly.
I found the best method and motivation for her was the humiliation and embarrassment she experienced when I took her in public, not really being a passible woman.
Hellpo Carolyn, yes, it’s important to try to avoid the drag queen look. Since my sissy husband doesn’t pass, it could be a problem so I don’t try and dress her in embarrassingly revvealing short skirts. Or nothing at all, which is also fun.