Sissies can be such big disappointments at times. They seem to forget that their role is to serve a Mistress like me, and to be submissive and respectful. It’s not always their fault, sometimes things can’t be helped. Mostly it’s their fault.

I’d hoped to be writing about a very naughty sissy dinner party last Thursday but, in the end, the logistics of getting four sissies together and Girl and I at short notice didn’t work. Life and stuff intervened. I don’t blame anyone for that, there is more to life than being a Mistress or a sissy unfortunately. We’ve penciled in a future date for the next level of my sissy husband’s journey to something far sissier. Is sissier a word?

But sometimes, sissies are disappointments. They get so caught up in being a sissy, they often forget their place in the world of Female Domination and sissy submission.

Before I get onto the failed sissy dinner party, I’m going to cover a problem I have with many sissies, although not those we were having the dinner party with. They are all good sissies.

No, I want to talk about those sissies who are so self obsessed, they don’t realise how to speak to or act with a real Mistress.

Sissy disappointments

I, and Alice, have profiles on Fetlife. It’s how we met some our FLR friends and good sissies in real life, so it’s a useful site, although we don’t go on that often. However, despite clearly stating the following message on my profile:

** DO NOT SEND ME AN UNSOLICITED FRIEND REQUEST IF YOU ARE NOT ANOTHER MISTRESS WITHOUT FIRST REQUESTING POLITELY BY FETLIFE MAIL.**
I DELETE UNSOLICITED FRIEND REQUESTS FROM MEN WITHOUT READING THEM.

I constantly receive friend requests from so-called submissive males and so-called sissies who have not bothered to read my profile message, and do not approach me politely and with respect.

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I also regularly receive messages on Fetlife or direct to my email from so-called submissive sissies asking me to feminise or humiliate them. They often pop in my mail box in the following form:

“Will you feminise me?”

No Mistress title, or any form of politeness, just a one liner. I delete them without a reply, of course.

I once had an email which said,

“I want you to feminise me. I’m free at weekends and I’ll send you my address in Yorkshire once we’ve set a suitable date.”

For those of you not from the UK, Yorkshire is 200 miles miles from where I live in London. This so-called submissive sissy thought I was going to drop everything to drive north 200 miles to feminise a total stranger for no benefit to me whatsoever in response to a rude, unpolite message.

What do these people think I am, a sissy charity service?

I received a message on Fetlife the other day, from someone who describes themselves as a CD/TV. I’m not going to name and shame them, but his message was simply this:

“Would you be interested in me xx”

Obviously not, with that tone, the poor attitude and a total lack of politeness when addressing a Mistress. An explanation of what they might do for me to be interested would be a start. As I have said, I don’t run a sissy charity and nor do I need to put myself out looking at their profiles or asking them questions.

Besides, where was the question mark? I don’t like people who use bad grammar. I was a little peeved at the attitude (and lack of punctuation) and replied, “For what?” Note, I used a question mark.

The reply came back:

“Thought you dominated tvs.”

There is so much wrong with this reply, including the poor grammar. TV should be in capitals for a start, it’s an abbreviation. But once again, the main problem is the tone. Would you call that polite and submissive? It’s like a WhatsApp text message to an equal.

This sissy will have zero chance of ever meeting me or Girl.

I posted an image recently on Fetlife, tagged as Alice. It wasn’t the one below, but similar. The point I was making was, I own her clitty and I use it purely to amuse me and have fun humiliating her. You don’t know how much I enjoy the power of owning my sissy husband’s little clitty and doing absolutely whatever I want with it.

And that I want something larger in the future and it won’t be my sissy husband’s ridiculous little thing.

A sissy’s response to this image on Fetlife was that having a little clitty is ideal for him as his panties fit better. No. that’s a consequence, but it’s not the point. Some sissies seem to see the world entirely from their point of view.

This post is more of a heads up for all those sissies who forget their place in life. If you want to dress up as a girlie, then that is absolutely fine. However, if you want a dominant woman like me involved, it’s about what you can do for me.

If you’re a Mistress or a sissy, you can contact contact me on Fetlife at fetlife.com/LadyAlexa-UK. My sissy husband is there too, at fetlife.com/Alicegirlie. Say hello, but do it respectfully.

A Mistress and sissy dinner party

I want to be amused, I want to do lots of things to my sissy many of which involve other sissies that are incredibly naughty. No boundaries is my favourite phrase. Most of all, I want my sissy, and those few sissies I may select, to be completely attentive to my needs and to be utterly submissive.

The very few sissies I have agreed to meet have been those who have contacted me using formal language, good grammar and they never use text speak to me. They have been polite and respectful. They do not ask to be feminised or humiliated. They understand their place, and that I may decide to play, or I may not.

They also remember I have a sissy husband and she will always be part of whatever I do with them and will always be with me. In fact, they will have to do things with Girl while I direct events.

Sissy Jenny, who I remain in contact with and who we had the previous sissy dinner party with — see Sissy Dinner Party — is a respectful and an extremely nice person who expects nothing from me. She just enjoys the sissy-female dominant dynamic and goes with my flow. My flow may be a quiet meal, drinks, or may be a whole lot of fun.

Last Thursday, after our plans were thwarted, I had a dinner party at home – just me and Girl. That was fun, but I’m looking forward to the rearranged sissy dinner party.

I have so many really, really, really naughty ideas.