There is a fantasy that says that dominant women are tyrants and abusive. In real life, I am a loving, caring and benevolent mistress. As are other mistresses I know who live a female-led relationship.

The idea of the aggressive mistress dressed in black leather, vertiginous heels and brandishing a whip is part of the false narrative around femdom and forced feminisation: the harridan who makes their submissive tremble and inflicts terrible physical punishment on their weak bodies.

This is not true outside of professional mistresses. Although I do sometimes wear the high heels.