A wife should feminise her husband. There is no downside to this and so many upsides.
For many heterosexual women living in the usual Western social construct, this statement might seem absurd. Surely many women who are attracted to men should wanted someone who looks and acts manly and masculine? If you wanted someone who looks and acts female why not find a real female?
Well let’s dissect these statements. Who decided that the biological male of our species has to act in a so-called masculine way? In reality that’s nothing more than a social convention invented by males to justify, maintain and promote an unequal position in their favour. Scratch the surface and we find it’s just an illusion.
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I believe there are ten clear reasons for all women to feminise their husbands (and any other male for that matter) based on my own experiences and in no particular order. Except for reason No. 10.
Reason 1. Feminisation makes males more gentle
Firstly, by putting your husband in feminine clothes, such as a short dress and high heels, he will become more aware of how to sit and stand in a delicate way. It will remove any attempt to ‘man-spread’ for example: spreading his legs wide when sitting. He will have to sit slowly and keep his legs together.
Secondly, the mere act of wearing soft feminine items of clothes has a profound affect on his manner. Psychologically clothes affect our behaviours. Think of the police officer who becomes assertive and officious, think of the businessman in an expensive suit and tie that makes him feel powerful or the man with a shaven head who is aggressive.
By changing his clothing to something feminine, your husband will take on a gentle and submissive feminine manner. Put him in a pink miniskirt, for example, and make him groe long hair and to tie it with a pink bow.
Reason 2. Feminisation improves a male’s hygiene.
Introducing a regime of female hygiene works wonders for any male’s personal hygiene and grooming. Many men today, such as my own husband, were not too bad in the hygiene area but never as good as a proper woman.
Shaving of body hair, especially round their genitals results in smooth nice smelling clean hygienic skin. One of the most important hygienic aspects of feminisation is making him sit down to pee. You’ve instantly stopped those disgusting splashes around the toilet bowl that men make when standing to pee.
Reason 3. Feminisation ensures that a husband remains faithful.
The opportunity for your husband to have an affair or even a one night stand is virtually eliminated. What (so-called) man would ever allow any other woman to see that his wife has put him in female lingerie?
Even if he made a feeble excuse about preferring the feel of women’s underwear, how would he explain the bra and smooth genitals with a cute little triangle of pubic hair? You’ve eliminated any risk of him ever straying. You have control.
Reason 4. Feminisation makes him respect his wife’s authority
A wife needs to do a little more than dress him in female clothing to immediately make him more submissive. I would suggest you go further of course and make that clothing extremely feminine and revealing.
I insist on Alice wearing miniskirts, pleats, pinks, pretty dresses and so on. Husbands need to be made to feel girly and exposed. Accentuate this by ensuring your own clothing whilst also feminine, consists of skirts to the knee and fully covered tops.
This shows the relationship level is unequal. He has to expose flesh for my pleasure and I don’t.
Reason 5. Feminisation ensures he does the household chores
You can turn him into your personal maid or just the housewife. You’ll never have to do boring household chores ever again, unless you feel like it.
This frees up your time for more interesting activities, such as reading and going out with friends. Really ladies, no more ironing is a reason alone for forced feminisation. Of course, you also save the cost of a cleaner as you have a free one at home.
Reason 6. Feminisation increases the sexual energy in the home.
Let’s not forget that feminisation is a turn-on for the wife and importantly, also for the husband. I say importantly as the intense excitement he will feel through cross-dressing and being feminised generally gives the wife a powerful tool for manipulation. Add in orgasm contgrol or chastity and you’ll have him in the palm of your hand.
In any relationship you will become used to your partner. Feminisation increases the excitement and for me, remains just as exciting several years after having first feminised Alice.
Reason 7. Feminisation increases his understanding of real women
By making your husband or man undergo the beauty routines and household tasks, you have introduced him to the reality of being a girl. He will see women differently and appreciate what we’ve traditionally had to do. No more as husbands are now the new housewives.
Reason 8. Feminisation makes him more attractive
Being a heterosexual woman doesn’t necessarily mean I want to see a large rough hairy-bodied man in jeans and tee shirt and shaved head. Women are so much more fragrant and making your husband smooth and fragrant too with pretty clothing and colours makes him more attractive. As he takes more care of himself as a feminised male, his looks and appearance improve exponentially.
Reason 9. Feminisation reduces a male’s aggression and bad habits
Why is it that men fight, drive too fast and think it acceptable to talk over women? All these problems are eliminated through feminisation. Testosterone is often unfairly blamed, in my opinion, for aggression. It’s needed, in my opinion, to be able to perform and I wouldn’t want my Alice to not perform would I?
But any aggressive male tendencies she did have were washed away through becoming a sissy in a short skirt with high heels.
Reason 10. Feminisation is better for him
Last and least, feminisation benefits your man too. Expectations of him fall following his feminisation and there is no longer the need for him to fulfil the role of provider, strongman and fixer of everything.
This is often a stressful situation for many men as they try to do things that they are just not cut out to do; lead, make decisions, solve problems and so on. Now they can relax and follow their wives’ decisions and undertake work that doesn’t require them to use strength or thought.
Housework, ironing, washing, cleaning and cooking are examples of ideal work for them. I also get Alice to make repairs to my clothing and so on. Now this doesn’t mean that will be absolved of any work in the home that is typically thought of men’s work.
Once feminised into sissies, males should be made to continue to do the gardening, decorating and household repairs. The point is that all housework is more fulfilling for them as they don’t need to stress their brains or take responsibility. They don’t have to make any decisions as you, as the wife and head of the house, decide what they will do and set their work schedule.
They need to be told what to do and like it.
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Feminisation of any man is the solution to many of the world's problems. Closer to home, it's the perfect answer for household harmony. Click To TweetLife becomes so much better for the lady of the house. There is hard work ahead for any wife undergoing a force feminisation programme. She needs to maintain control and push the feminisation and work schedules onto her husband, sometimes in the face of resistance.
I believe that the effort is repaid a hundred times or more as the outcome will always be a better life for both of you. Albeit in different ways.
It’s important to note that a Female Led Relationship of this type should not be abusive nor should the husband suffer. The relationship remains loving with the wife in total control.
Every relationship is different and the extent of the husband’s feminisation will be different for every couple. At the minimum, a husband should be given a girl’s name, referred to with female pronouns and wear only female clothing and products whenever possible.
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I’m sure some women may get behind this. Not for me though — I adore Masculine men. They make me feel feminine and I love to celebrate my sensuality. I don’t believe I only like masculine men due to some internalised oppression either; I do not feel threatened by masculine men. I actually feel empowered by them.
I can agree that masculinity is mostly a social construct supported by aspects of their biology such as thicker bone and muscle density, higher rates of testosterone which makes them more aggressive, and different responses to stimuli than women such as quicker hand and eye coordination.
To say that masculinity is an excuse for men to exercise their power however is an unequivocal judgement (I would argue for most men).
Masculinity is a biological imperative that has ensured the survival and progression of every kind of human civilisation (until the society either broke down through changes in culture, or outside threat ultimately wiped out the society). Their physical bodies, and psychology have evolved in such a way where they would , on average compared to women utilise masculine energy to protect their communities, hunt, fend off threat, use their strength and reasoning during natural disaster.
Where men were more likely to adopt more feminine or androgynous behaviour would usually be found within timelines of societal prosperity ie. the late period of the Roman Empire, or western civilisation as we are currently experiencing.
That’s not to say other cultures wouldn’t engage in individual self expression regardless of any acknowledgement of binary. Many non western cultures recognise the spirit as void of male/female constructs, as it exists within the ether and without ego. However they would still recognise the importance of physiology, and social norms according to a male/female binary for the tribe’s survival; each person had/has a role to play within the society which would usually be based on male/female constructs. Men were simply better at hunting and fighting rival men from other tribes, women were better at forming lines of communication and hierarchy throughout the community. Many non western cultures, or indigenous tribes honour parts of nature, and the self as masculine and/or feminine. Ie. “mother” earth — life giving, abundance, nurturing just like the feminine energy, which they would usually attribute with the women of the tribe. Warriors would test their insurance and bravery by setting tests — sometimes the tests were so physically challenging, the men would die. (Let’s ask the question of why men and women’s sports are segregated in western society).
It wasn’t bigotry, it was simply because if they didn’t do so, their society wouldn’t survive. If women weren’t better at communicating and expressing empathy than men, as a biological imperative, the society would crumble from within. If men wouldn’t use brute strength, bravery and quick hand/eye coordination to protect the tribe, other warriors would kill whatever was left of a physically weak And defenceless people.
In western society we are lucky to be able to explore a boundless expression of masculinity and femininity no matter our gender as an individual. We are mostly living in safe enough conditions to do so. Rome once had an androgynous emperor who would refer to themselves as Queen. At that time, there was no other empire who could match the colossal society that they were (until in its later stages crumbled from within, and was basically taken over by ruthless masculine Huns and Goths).
So, I prefer (mostly) masculine men, and don’t want to feminine him based on an idea that masculinity is only a construct that serves as power over women, because while in some cases through history that has been the case, masculinity has also served women, to sacrifice their lives for women, to hunt during times of famine, to fight for the freedoms we are lucky enough to experience today.
To be developed into a complete woman has been my life’s desire. The desired it so strong and sincere that it could not be considered
“Forced” feminization. Willing feminization would be much more accurate.
When I have had opportunities to be completely dressed ss a woman it makes me feel so complete, whole. To have my mind developed to feminine would make complete.
Thank you, Lady Alexa for your site.
I personally prefer males feminised
My wife and I have been in a FLR almost from the beginning of our marriage. I was OK with it as I hated making decision. However my passiveness soon led to her suggesting I began wearing panties, bras and hose on a daily basis and sleeping in a negligee at night. I rebelled at this at first. She then pressured me to “just try it”. So, I did and discover the comfort of these items and soon discard my jockey shorts, socks, and p.j’s. Next came a totally shaved body which led to electrolysis to totally remove my beard. Next was allowing my hair to grow and every week or so something feminine was added to my wardrobe. My resistance was wearing down and I was enjoying every thing she suggested so I went along. When she suggested I begin taking female hormones I said OK. That was the end of the male me and the birth of the female me. Next came FF surgery and breast enhancement and quitting my job and becoming a full time housewife. This was nine years ago and I have never been happier. Susan
you have a great wife. i love the idea of her making you take female hormones
Lady Alexa,
from reading your 10 reasons here , i admit that you are a real talented lady with a lot of feminine hormones, quickly your words entered in my head and manipulated me, now i’m craving more feminization by my wife, thanks to you.
in the other side, i always was convinced that women who want to feminize their husbands are very feminine themselves, they have a lot of feminine hormones, they are 100% feminines in the body and the soul, of course not like other women who are a little bit harsh and may sometimes behave like men. so for me, to be feminized, it’s neccessary must be with 100% feminine women.
having said that, now i’m seeking this advice :
– my wife is 100% feminine and we are beginers in the feminization process, i was the first to demand it, and she reacted better to the idea, and we had several occasions to roleplay feminization, but we sometimes stop and get taken by life’s stuff …. for me , all of this , is not the problem, but the real problem is :
>>>>>>that our religion forbids men to be feminized and act like girls. which is, for us , a blocking obstacle to having fun with each other.
Lady Alexa, if you can advise me in dealing with this issue, i will be very grateful to you.
If no one knows then no harm done
no one knows.
i understand you’re suggesting that we just enjoy our life, ignore obstacles, and look for our inner peaces.
okey , any tips for the journey ?
Do what ever you want behind closed doors
roger that, Lady Alexa.
I am a male and I enjoy doing things for a woman to make her happy. I am in Southern California and would welcome meeting a woman who would enjoy feminizing me and in return reap the benefits of letting me pamper her and make her happy. I cn be emailed at Miscsn500@aol.com
I will reply to all sincere females.
I think my blog is turning into a sissy dating site
Agreed Lady Alexa… when it should always be an educative beacon leading tomorrow’s Female Masters to port as future Captains of the Their journey of true and full Female Empowerment.
Let the Superior Female Officers conscript the male galley slaves as THEY CHOSE!
I love your site Lady Alexa, I came across it by accident- I was feminised by my wife and her girlfriend eight years ago – I had confided in Athena (her friend) that I loved the idea of dressing – they both ran a transvestite dressing service at our home in the North Wales countryside.
Athena told my wife and one day I was forced to shave all my legs arms and ended carriage. I’m only 5ft 3” tall (I use to be a jockey) but very round bottomed and peachy. When I wore jeans they had to be girls – I was 27” waist and 36” hip – I’d tried wearing panties before I met my wife and I did use to dress up for a trainer I use to ride for – he saw my panties as I was getting my riding gear on one day. I enjoyed the sexual encounters with him and I was always a bottom.
When I was finished shaving I went into Athena’s bedroom where my wife and her were ready to “doll” me up.
What they did transformed my life. I was a little sissy girl in pink with lots of white frilled petticoats. My heels made me as tall as them! The corset was so tight! It took my waist to 24” and made my bum look huge. I poured my heart out to Athena when alone as to how wonderful I felt. She became very instrumental in my life over the coming weeks, months and now years.
She was a trained Hypnosis expert, she hypnotised me most nights unlocking my deepest fantasies and desires. She told everything to my wife. They bought me a chastity device and I had to wear it 24/7 – Athena would unlock me once per week and have me masturbate – she calls it my milking. When TV’s who were Alpha males came for dressing I was encouraged to stroke them and give oral sex – something I came to love. I swallowed every time like a good sissy girl should. I also was available for Alpha dolls to give me anal sex (sissy sex).
On Saturday evenings I would take my wife and Athena into Chester and drop them off for an evening out and go and collect them around 11.30pm – sometimes they had Male admirers with them and they would come back to our house. I loved fussing around them fetching drinks and snacks then going up to my sissy bedroom (I was put in there from week 3 of my changes) to sleep. I would have breakfast ready at 9am on Sunday mornings and the guys and the girls would enjoy sissy Freya doting on them.
My wife now has a live in boyfriend (Paul) he runs a Mercedes dealership, tall dark and handsome – he gives my wife what I cannot give – great sex and loving. I can do a little loving of course but normally little cuddles. Athena lives next door with Bren (a musician very fit long hair) and I clean for her each week and do meals for her and Bren – they all get together a few times per week and have friends around and everybody knows I’m a little sissy girl.
One of the TV’s who come to see my wife and Athena (in the week) is a lovely Beta Doll like me – Pam (a bottom – very passive) she has had her testes and scrotum removed making her a eunuch doll. She lives with her wife Lynne and her lover David – she was caught dressing some years before and Lynne gave her a ultimatum- she went with that and dressed 24/7 working from home then handing the business she ran to her wife Lynne. The workforce knows about Pam and she and I get on famously. Pam told Athena I would like to have my testes and scrotum removed and the wonderful news is I’m getting my dream Op in November this year (Friday 16th November 2018).
I’m not having a full sex change – I want to be reminded daily that I am a little sissy faggot. Athena says my wife is over the moon as it’s lifted an awful lot of guilt and she and Paul are much closer. I hear them in bed at night when I go online and watch sissy stuff and sissy porn – I’m so blessed living my dream.
Love Freya xxx
I am a submissive bisexual man. Wife left a couple years back and was then immediately hit on by an old close friend of nearly twenty years. I’ve surprised him with feminine things in the bedroom and he loves it. I also love it. I truly feel like a girl, his baby girl, even more when dressing increasingly female. It truly makes me a different person….who’s very happy to serve. Our relationship is perfect. I’n considering. I like the thought of perhaps remaining as Jenny….
Thank you so much for explaining all reasons nicely.
I think we all should follow Feminisation of men , not just in Female Lead Relationship but everywhere.
All moms Should feminize their sons , teach them all home chores from childhood.
Of course we all should do this
Thank you so much for explaining all reasons nicely.
I think we all should follow Feminisation of men , not just in Female Lead Relationship but everywhere.
All moms Should feminize their sons , teach them all home chores from childhood. ( So that they can be good House wife one day )
These are all good reasons for women to feminise their husbands and I’d like to comment on Reason 5 for now.
Feminised males do indeed make very good housewives or maids especially if we are the neat and tidy one to begin with. For one this is where we get the most practice in our high heels as we are on our feet for long periods but it is also where we need to put on our first apron to keep our blouse or dress from getting splashed on at the kitchen sink doing the dishes. For some our first apron inevitably leads to our maid’s dresses which adds to the seriousness that our dressing up has become more than just playful fun. This is where we realize that doing as many chores as we can keeps our wife happy and in a good mood especially if we run out of things to do and ask if there is anything else that needs attention. The truth is at this point we don’t really want to get out of our maid’s dress even though our calf muscles might be burning from being in high heels so long. Most importantly though this is where we know that to be a good maid and keep our wife amused and happy we must learn to curtsy and my first attempt was awkward and very poor not to mention embarassing. And finally when we have reached this level of feminisation we know and have accepted that we have become sissies in every sense of the word.
Thank you for your website and the 10 Reasons. It really helps to see them numbered and explained so well. My husband and I live in LA, married over 30 years, grown children are all married starting their own families. Four years ago we needed some changes and some spark of “newness” in our very empty home with just the two of us. I read some good reviews of how to gradually get my man to agree to let me take more leadership and control in the home, and slowly feminize him, first in subtle small ways, and then in more obvious big ways. He gets to stay “male” husband, father, grandad when we’re with family, but during the week when it’s just us two at home, he has become such a kind, gentle, relaxed, and quieter partner because of the feminization of him we have done together. It was not all that easy at first, but he has become so submissive to my “loving suggestions” for him about decidedly feminine clothing, hair, hygiene, and it’s just wonderful now. I love him even more, and we have a whole new level of sexual intimacy we cold never have imagined before. Ladies, it is well worth the effort, the benefits in the end far outweigh the hesitancy and reluctance we both felt at first. It’s like a whole new person to be married to, and I love it.
One of the best comments I’ve ever received Cathy. You’ve captured every reason to feminise our husbands perfectly. The reality of feminising a man is that we do have to accept the reversion to male guise in some circumstances. That’s life. But I totally agree. Feminisation of men improves them and our relationships. There is no downside
Hello Lady Alexa
I am convinced you are right about the rationale and need to feminize us. I just. Wish more women especially my wife would actively undertake it. I try to feminize my self and when I am Lauren I am much happier. I would relish a woman taking control of my life and teaching me to be the best girl that I can
Lauren
Just remember to be your wife’s own housemaid and I’m sure she’ll come round
May I suggest another reason to add to your list? Feminisation enables the male to express his love and admiration of his Mistress. Imitation being the sincerest form of flattery.
I’m pleased of course that a male would want to express love and admiration although the post was about why a woman should feminise a male rather than thinking from the perspective of a male who wants to dress and imitate a woman. Many males don’t realise they need to be feminised and there are women who don’t yet see they need to control their male partner.
Lady A, this is a wonderful list of reasons why woman should feminise their husbands, boyfriends and even their male friends and coworkers! That might be your best blogpost ever. Would you feminise a male friend or coworker of yours if you had the opportunity? Do you even have a candidate?
*curtsy*
Well thank you Philipp. I often get asked why a woman might want to feminise a partner so I finally got round to explaining, from my own experience, why. I do like the idea of feminising a co-worker and I have covered this in a couple of my novels, A Very Dominant Woman and Becoming Joanne. I don’t think in real life it would be so possible. The situation would need to be like those in my stories where the male being feminised was a subordinate and there was no sexual relationship. The environments were also very feminine with a single male in an office of females. If I ever had that situation then why not?
Thank you for the reply, Lady A, and for taking the time to write up your reasons to feminise a male. I agree that in real life such a situation is very unlikely to happen (male being a subordinate, no sexual relationship and the only male in an office of females) but I love that you would go for it if you ever had that situation. I have fantasied about it and would love to serve a woman as her secretary in a skirt and heels.
ONE CAVEAT on:
Reason 3. Feminisation ensures that a husband remains faithful.
It might be that once the inevitable sex-role-reversal is complete, upon occasion the RARE (far more rare than past arrogant males in the ‘macho’ world) Female sexual predator might be encountered who might attempt to lure attractive feminized males into inappropriate dalliances. Guess they shall ultimately pay a price, but unfortunately there shall always beat times unseemly character throughout even an improved Gynarchical society.
I did think that ther eis some risk here but generally the reason holds in everyday life.
I’ve pretty much always behaved, or there was some punishment . However since since Mistress K put me in chastity that really has made me even more obedient, serving her better . Go a few months without orgasm goes a long way in keeping a s missive males mind ” right “
Yes I would expect you to be behaved just as Alice is.
Lady Alexis, i truly meant no contrariness and heartily agree as i would again emphasize that as Female power and predominance replaces past male run era, the Female shall rule with far more wisdom and benevolence than the male — yet STILL Her dominance shall be complete and unalterable.
An amazingly insightful analysis of what positive outcomes male feminization offers to improved sexual relations in society for both sexes. Especially cogent also was your addendum:
“It’s important to note that a Female Led Relationship of this type should not be abusive nor should the husband suffer. The relationship remains loving with the wife in total control. Every relationship is different and the extent of the husband’s feminization will be different for every couple. At the minimum he should be given a girl’s name, referred to with female pronouns and wear only female clothing and products whenever possible.”
This statement is particularly telling in that it finishes reiterating that virtually complete male feminization and full role-reversal shall and should be inevitable. YET earlier the paragraph began assuring the Female would rule without the rampant abusiveness used by false male superiors in he past. The very fact Females shall use a far more ‘gentle’ but still COMPLETE CONTROL shall be the key in Woman’s new and appropriate power never being reversed ever again — the male will accept his knowing the Female Master shall rule with a gentleness and tough love that is necessary but not nearly as excessive that the foolish male used in the past.
I’m attempting to show that many female led relationships are indeed loving both ways. Once the male accepts his place as a feminised submissive then everything is wonderful. Of course some punishment may be necessary if he were to do something naughty but if he behaves then there should be little problem.
Great top 10 Lady A ! I can relate to all of them after just over a year and a half .
Good. Everyone is different and this list is from my perspective. I’m not sure what Alice’s top 10 would be (?)
Wonderful l agree just putting girly clothes on relaxes me AndI feel calmer.
Such a perceptive list, Lady Alexa. As a feminised housewife myself i couldn’t agree more! Especially the first point You make about feminine clothing on ‘males’ making them submissive and gentle. As i dress in my girly finery, my ‘male’ mask slips away (what a relief!) and i feel a warm rush of submissiveness and ‘femininity’ wash over me and i just know this is how i was meant to be. Everything else flows from there: the desire to honour and please all Women (not just my owner and Mistress, all Women deserve my submission to their divine Femininity), the attentiveness to Her pleasure, the housework happily done, and the wonderful sexual energy resulting from my eagerness to fulfill my ‘feminine’ role.
From the other way round I love to see Alice’s masculinity fall away when I put her in a pretty dress. I can actually see the change in her face
That is exactly what my Lady said too! i visibly became softer and more caring, She said. I think it is because for many sensitive males, the whole harsh “masculine dominant ‘ persona is an artifice. We learn to present this way because so-called society expects these Tough Male/Soft Female divisions. What an enormous waste of time and energy this is, pretending to be something we are not!!
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My fault I published accidentally before I was finished so had to make it private. All done now