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A SISSY DINNER PARTY

27 October 2025 by Lady Alexa 11 Comments

Earlier this year, we had an impromptu sissy dinner party. Girl and I visited a sissy we know called Jenny. My idea had been to move Girl further along the sissy love road I’m taking her. Things changed as we decided to get a delivery, and I decided to make Girl serve me and Jenny naked.

The evening went very well, although it took a different turn than I’d expected. My plan to have Girl give Jenny a full blowjob didn’t pan out. However, Jenny and I decided to do it again, but next time with one or two of Jenny’s sissy friends, too.

SISSY GAMES

22 September 2025 by Lady Alexa 21 Comments

One of the great things about writing a female-led relationship blog is that we find others in our lifestyle. They contact me either in the comments or, more often, privately though my contact form or email, ladyalexa@mail.com. All of our contact with those in the FLR and forced feminisation/sissy world is thanks to this blog.

One of our longer-term FLR friends are also from London, and around our age. They emailed me years ago after reading our adventures here. I’ll call them Mistress Ruth and Sissy Linda. We meet and communicate with them regularly. Sometimes it’s entirely vanilla, such as a meal in a restaurant, although we always end up chatting (quietly) about FLR and feminisation. Other times, we’ll meet at either home for sissy games.

The last time we met, it was for sissy games at their house.

AN FLR DYNAMIC

9 June 2025 by Lady Alexa 19 Comments

An FLR dynamic is forever twisting and turning, morphing and transforming. That’s probably the same in any relationship, FLR or vanilla. One month I think our FLR should work one way, and another month, I change my mind and the whole dynamic changes. One thing that affects any FLR is outside influence and changing lifestyle, another is the experiences we have.

Our FLR has twisted and turned again, such as in my on-off-on-off relationship with chastity cages. One moment I think they’re useful, the next they irritate me, especially when I think a sissy enjoys them just a little too much and uses them as a technique for delayed sissy gratification.

IT’S THAT TIME AGAIN

27 December 2024 by Lady Alexa 73 Comments

I like change and it’s that time when I think of all the fun new things to do next year. It’s sissy time for a change. I like to write down ideas for the forthcoming year at this time of year as it helps to crystalise things. Our Female Led Relationship has been through a lot of change in the past couple of years and I want more.

It’s not that I have any new ideas, it’s just that some things I’ve wanted to do are still hanging around to be done and I’d like to experience them next year. So what’s better than putting those loose threads into a post so I can tick them off as I go?

THE REALITY OF AN FLR

24 November 2024 by Lady Alexa 32 Comments

There are a lot of wrong assumptions about real Female-Led Relationships. These assumptions are based entirely on the fetish angle, as if that is the reality of an FLR for every second. Indeed, it was why I began this blog in the first place, writing about how to live an FLR in the real world.

The focus on the FLR fetish side is also why I get so many emails from men asking how to find a Mistress to feminise them and live in an FLR. Or how to get their wife to feminise them and start an FLR. Wrong questions entirely. The reality of an FLR is different and the fetish element is only part of what is, in real life, also a wider vanilla-type relationship.