I love to hear about real-life FLR lifestyles and how a husband became a sissy for his wife. So this post is about one of my readers called Annette who lives exactly that lifestyle. Annette says she used to be a dominant male. However, as we all know, dominance in a male is a facade to be stripped away by strong wives.
Annette’s wife Silvia soon realised that his false masculinity had to be stripped away. She set about changing the dynamic of the marriage through a number of creative methods, some more extreme than others. Her approach was extremely successful. .
In his earlier years in their marriage Annette was a husband called Anthony, a dominant / switch and his wife was submissive. But his wife became a very creative dominant and Anthony more submissive to become the feminised sissy he is today.
Here is Annette’s amazing story of how becoming a girl became his lifestyle.
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FROM TONY TO SISSY ANNETTE
A WIFE’S FEMINIZATION TECHNIQUES
Silvia uses a lot of different methods to humiliate Annette and keep her feminised and under control. These methods included:
- Toilet humiliation
- Period humiliation,
- Verbal humiliation,
- Public and private humiliation and
- Physical discipline such as spanking, strapping and CBT.
Like me, Silvia doesn’t use anything too severe or crazy in physical punishment but she does spank Annette’s buttocks at times which can become moderately to severely bruised. Also like me, she uses mild physical punishment on her sissy’s clitty.
I haven’t found too much on the subject of male clitty punishment in FLRs. However, I believe male clitty punishment to be a necessary and effective punishment for a couple of reasons. Silvia realised this too. A male needs his masculinity removed and feminising and punishing his clitty is an important element of this.
We all know how a penis makes a man feel masculine. This idea needs to be dealt with firmly.
Annette also has real breasts and Annette’s breasts are often punished also. Annette’s boobs have grown to a point where they are larger then Silvia’s.
FLR DISCIPLINE AND HUMILIATION
Silvia has become extremely creative and daring in her discipline and humiliation of her sissy. The reasons for discipline or humiliation can vary.
For example, if the toilet is left marked with urine or the seat has urine drops, Silvia will restrict Annette from using the bathroom.
For any toilet infraction, Silvia puts Annette in nappies (diapers in the USA). Silvia may keep Annette in nappies from one week to one full month depending on sissy’s ‘crime’. Silvia will change Annette’s nappy just once every 24 hours, first thing in the morning.
This has obviously caused discomfort and embarrassment at times and also the constant knowledge for Annette that someone may notice that she’s wearing a nappy.
Both Annette and Silvia are middle-aged now. When Silvia used to have her period, she had a heavy flow and at times with severe cramps and moodiness.
Once Annette made a remark about her using her period has an excuse to cancel a dinner reservation they’d made with friends. A day or so later, Silvia decided that from now on Annette was to have a period every month.
She was forced to wear Silvia’s previously used and soiled pads for the length of her period and, at times, a tampon in her sissy vagina too.
This led to an embarrassing incident a couple of years ago. Silvia and Annabelle were at a shopping centre in the summer and Annette was wearing white female nylon jogging shorts and a white tee shirt. Annette’s white panties and bra were clearly visible under her clothes.
The pad was also visible from behind but Annette hadn’t realised. They proceeded to walk through the shopping centre to the escalator to go to the 2nd floor. They stepped on the escalator and three young girls got on behind them.
One noticed the pad immediately and commented in a clear voice to her friends “Look that guy is wearing a sanitary pad.” They laughed and one said, “Oh my God.”
Annette was flushed with embarrassment and hoped that they could make a quick getaway. However, as they reached the top, Silvia turned and looked at his backside and said in a very clear voice ” When we get home we are going to have to change your sanitary pad, dearie.”
The girls broke out in hysterical laughter. Annette was so embarrassed but found oddly, she was also highly excited.
Silvia makes Annabele go out wearing yoga pants, tights and leotards when they are away from home or at night for a car ride. Even now, Annette will never know what her wife’s creative mind will come up with to embarrass and humiliate her.
Silvia doesn’t have her period any more but she still requires Annette to have one by wearing a sanitary pad.
Silvia has to get up at times to pee during the night. Annette commented about her getting up and disturbing her sleep. From that moment, her wife never left the bed again and instead used Annette’s mouth or had her hold a bowl for her to pee in at the side of the bed.
Annette then has to dispose of his wife’s pee in the bathroom. That taught her.
Of course, Annette also does all the housework, prepare her bath and bathe her. She also kneels by her when she uses the toilet and has to wipe her clean afterwards, dispose of the tissue and then flush the toilet.
A FEMINIZED MALE’S PLACE IS IN THE HOME
Annette’s lifestyle as her wife’s sissy housewife has developed over 25 years of time to where they are today. This makes me envious as I only started a few years ago. Imagine where I’d be with Alice if we’d have met 25 years ago.
Their sex life is more of a girl on girl type sex. Over time, Annette has become unable to have intercourse in the normal male-female way. She needs a lot of manual stimulation to stay hard and to orgasm.
So their sex life is Annette pleasing her wife orally or with a strap-on that fits over her now tiny clitty. They haven’t had pentrative intercourse for some years years.
Silvia doesn’t want Annete’s penis inside her any way. She masturbates Annette very roughly wearing rubber dishwashing gloves that she calls her chore gloves. I have to say this is something I’ve also started with Alice using latex gloves.
At other times, Annette is made to masturbate herself in her presence and of course is always told to swallow her own mess, either from Annette’s hands and the tissue she used or from her wife’s gloves.
REAL BREASTS AND A TINY CLITTY
I’m envious of Annette and Silvia’s marriage, the development of their FLR and Annette’s feminisation. In the feminisation of Annette’s body in particular I would love Alice to have breasts like Annette’s.
Her breast development has increased significantly in the last 6 months to a 36 C-D cup. Her nipple sensitivity has also increased and she has lost facial, chest and leg hair. her pubic hair is now in a short tight triangle above her male clit. Annette doesn’t say whether her pubic hair has been removed permanently or not, something I plan for Alice.
Annette did not explain how she achieved female breasts but it would seem that she is on hormones by the photos.
I’ve shown these photo to Alice to show exactly what can be done and how I expect her breasts to look in the future. I think Annette’s breasts are a lovely shape.
At times, Annette needs to hide her breasts. Silvia binds them with an elastic bandage but Annette finds this quite uncomfortable and it can irritate her nipples. Silvia is pleased with Annette’s breasts and said the breast development is more then she ever imagined.
She also notices that her bottom has rounded out a little more and her waist has shrunk a little bit again suggesting hormones.
Annette’s penis/clit has shrunk to a more acceptable size for a sissy. I’d like to see Alice’s clitty reduce too although I’m not sure how without hormones which I don’t want. That may sound odd that I’d like to reduce the size of Alice’s clitty but I’d still expect her to use it. I guess I’m after the impossible dream.
Annette’s erections and orgasm’s are harder to accomplish now. They still happen but it takes more stimulation to achieve orgasm and the amount she can ejaculate is less then a half of teaspoon amount.
I don’t usually post photos of male clitties. Mainly that’s because men like to post and send photos of their silly little things and I don’t want to see them. They are good for one job alone and then they need to be feminised, humiliated or put away.
However in Annette’s case, her little male clitty, and her breasts, are a model for where Alice should get to. I’m not sure what Silvia can do about Annette’s pussy balls, maybe poke them inside?
A REAL-LIFE FLR
This lifestyle suits Annabelle and Silvia’s needs and they are happy. They don’t have disagreements or argue. Silvia can get daring in the ways she humiliates her in public but it’s always far away from where they live for the most part. This seems to be what most loving FLR women do. I need to do the same.
All females should learn to use the feminine powers they possess. But I guess many are brought up in our world to believe they are the weaker sex and must submit to the man.
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Silvia says her awakening to and FLR lifestyle was heaven sent. The first time she applied the strap to Annette’s bare bottom and gave her a severe belting, she realised the power she had over Annette. It was like a light bulb went off in her head.
She swears her life has been so much better not only in thei marriage but on the outside also. She has become very a strong willed and confident woman who can handle anything that she has issues with. Annette on the other hand, doesn’t have to walk around with that macho façade that most males have. She is much more relaxed as her wife’s sissy.
Annette’s high blood pressure of the past has dropped, she sleeps better and a lot of the decisions she had to make in the past are now taken by her wife.
I think this is exactly why all men should submit to feminisation and control by their women.
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annette
Your Wife is Terrific! The Salesgirl probably shared the story with other Women. It is so delightful knowing that more Women are encouraging male Femininity. You are going t look so Sweet in your new bathing suit!
Completely agree. I think the swimsuit will be beautiful on you… have you worn it on the beach yet? a pic of hat would be worth a thousand words X
The shop scenario is definitely one of my bucket list dreams. i have once or twice shopped for female outfit – once dressed as femme as I dared (though not femme enough according to the SA!). doing it on my own without a strong owner with me is like “one hand clapping” so to speak. Even to have a superior female from afar encourage me to do more would be a blessing (any takers? Lol lol lol), though still no closer to the actual feminisation i believe is my destiny.
Well done Annette though and a million thanks and respects to your wife for managing the overhead of your development (as Lady A might call it)
Yes I do lapse into business speak at times ?
i was awoken early from my sleep by my wife who said “lets go, get up, showered and dressed as we have some shopping to do for tomorrow” i replied back to her ” What’s tomorrow? to which she replied “You will see”. i got out of bed, showered and dressed. Its summer here. When i stepped out of the bathroom and into my room my clothes were set out by my wife on the bed. There was a one of my Danskin sports bras, my Warner panty girdle, a pair of very short denim shorts and a Victoria Secrets Tee Shirt emblazoned wit PINK across the front. i never saw this tee shirt before and was a little surprised by it and at that point she came in and said that she picked it up for me during the week at the mall. It was a pink tee shirt with Pink across the front in black. i said you want me to go out like this? To which she replied “of course” and also “hurry up get dressed we don’t have all day.
We then got in the car and she drove out to a Target store about 25 miles from our home and we went in. We proceeded to the women’s clothing area to where the bathing suits were on sale. Walking through the store it was plain to see that i was a feminized male. i received a lot of stares, some laughter and also some looks of disgust and disdain from other shoppers especially females. i felt so humiliated and my wife sensed my nervousness and said you should be use to this by now and just don’t pay attention to them. As we looked through the bathing suits a sales girl asked my wife if she needed any help and she said not at the moment we are just looking for a new bathing suit for my husband here. She took another look at me and then i think she actually realized i was a man and she was surprised by it and kind of giggled and said to my wife. “Wow! This is something that’s certainly different for me”. My wife found a bathing suit a one piece floral design that was open in the back and in the stomach area. She handed it to me and said “This will do”. As i looked at it i saw it was marked 36DD and wondered if she saw that and i asked her about the size. As you know i have grown breast from the hormones she has given me over the years but i am definitely not a 36DD. She replied back rather disturbed that i questioned it with a firm “I know! She then called the sales girl over and asked about where we can try it on with some privacy, It was early in the morning so she took us to the dressing room and it was the type that had some enclosed stalls and then the mirrors were in the outer part of the dressing room in the common area. She took us in and told my wife that she will make sure no one else comes in that she will stay at the door. i put in on in the stall and exited where my wife was sitting on a bench and she looked at me and told me to turn around and asked how it fit. I replied it was somewhat tight on the top around my chest and she said that didn’t matter to her and she loved it. She then opened the door and asked the sales girl to step in that she wanted her opinion. She came in looked at me and said “Oh my God” and said “I am sorry but this is just different i hope you understand. She told me to turn around for the salesgirl and she said it seems tight on the back strap and my wife replied back to her” Its not for him to be comfortable in its for him to be embarrassed in”. She turned to me and said well “Are you embarrassed in front of this kind woman who helped us? i replied “Yes Ma’am” Then thank her for her help and put your clothes back on and lets go. i thanked her and got dressed and i heard my wife thank her again and the sales girl said she will stay at the door till we are done. As we left i saw my wife hand the girl a twenty dollar bill and that she appreciated her help. The sales girl was really happy about the tip and said anytime. Please come back and i am usually here every day in the mornings and i will be glad to assist you again.
We then proceeded to the self checkout and i was checking out scanning the bathing suit when a male salesperson who is in the area to assist people checking out stepped over and said let me help you and said all bathing suits are 20% off and he scanned a discount card and said that’s a savings of $10.00 for you Honey. My wife just laughed. The bathing suit was $49.99 and it was now lowered to $39.99. We left the store and as we drove home i asked why we got a bathing suit with such a large cup size. She then explained that tomorrow we are going to the beach and after days of rain the beach i expect will be quite crowded and i want your totties to really stick out. This way you will understand more of what large breasted women have to deal with when others mostly men stare at them and look at their large tits instead of the person. Don’t worry baby I will stuff those cups very well tomorrow for our little outing to the beach. i plan to make tomorrow one of your most embarrassing humiliated days ever. With that she laughed and said you know i do this because i love you don’t you? i replied back “Yes Ma’am”. She replied back “Good”!
i am nervous, excited and dread tomorrow! I will send pictures of my new bathing suit to Alexa and hopefully she can add them to my blog.
It’s my blog actually
Sorry, i meant my comments on my story on your blog. i just miswrote what i meant to say.
Hi,
Our latest adventure that my wife thought of was for me to have properly fitting shoes. We proceeded to a discount shoe outlet store that was about 20 miles from our home. We sat in the aisle where the larger size shoes were and my wife brought many pairs for me to try on and walk the aisle with. We were where the sizes 11-13 were. i was so embarrassed and afraid that someone we knew would come in as we weren’t that far from home. i was wearing a short sleeve blouse and capri long legged stretch pants and sneakers when we arrived. After about an hour my wife had me purchase 5 different pairs that she loved on me. During the time in the store many times i saw the workers and a few customers looking at us up the aisle. My wife commented “Don’t you mind them at all”! i was so embarrassed paying for them. The sales girl commented “i hope they fit you well and thanks for shopping here. There was two pairs of flats and 3 pairs with 2-3 inch heels. Two of the pair were open sandal types. My wife made sure i used the peds when trying different pairs on. We then went to lunch at a Wendy’s where quite a few people noticed i was a guy and again i was embarrassed but also somewhat excited also. i had to pee bad so my wife allowed me to use the ladies room. It was the type where one person enters and locks the door. When i exited a older woman was waiting and as i exited she gave me a look of disgust, disapproval and then shook her head. My wife noticed it from where she was sitting and i heard her laugh about it. She said we have to work some more on your pass ability but not too much. i want you as gurly as possible but i still want everyone who gives you a good look to know you are definitely a male to make sure my humiliation of you continues because i will never ever forget the way you sexually humiliated me and the things you made me do early on in our relationship. We were done eating and i cleaned the table and she said lets get going there is plenty of housework for you to do back home! That was on Saturday and she said we are taking another trip out to a few places this weekend so be prepared to be humiliated even more. It maybe a trip again to the beach i am not sure but nervously and anxiously awaiting this weekend.
It is so Wonderful that your wife is Feminizing you but also making it apparent that you are indeed a male. This is a Great way to Increase Male Feminization and the Acceptance of the Feminine male. I bet you looked so cute in your blouse and capris……would have been even better if she had made you wear pantyhose under the capris…So Feminine AND Male!! LOL
Patti 59
My wife had me wear low cut white socks that had a ruffle at the top. The ruffle was just above the top of the sneakers where you insert your foot. In the past i have worn the capris with black, white or beige pantyhose but only a few times. At the shoe store she had me remove my socks and put on the disposable peds that are available when trying the shoes on. My painted red toe nails were clearly visible also at times. It was an experience that was so embarrassing. Nervous and excited at the same time.
That is just so Awesome. It is even better that at one time you were a macho man. Now that she has Feminized you, and are showing you off, it is a Great example of Pure Female Control and Power. My Hope is that it will encourage other Women to Feminize their males. A world with a bunch of Pretty, Sweet, “Pansy” males being Control by Strong Women would be a “Dream come True”! Thank you for sharing. I would also like to THANK your wife for the advancement of Womankind!
Lady A, curtsy
Thank you for another interesting twist in the FLR saga.
Sounds like this is another previously dominant male that i can relate to! ..although (s)he has definitely reached new levels… i do envy her breasts though (and agree with you about the hair!)
i now we all (i) fantasise about this lifestyle..but do realise it would be hard in reality.. but oh how exciting it could be..and lets face it, life too short to hold back!
jane x
Dear Lady Alex’s
One of my friends in an FLR marriage had a similar problem but on reverse. Her slave husband, she does not practice feminization, used to get up twice or more at night to pee. He would wake her up to beg for permission as per her rules. Annoyed at the regular disturbances she announced her intention to put him on diapers. The stupid guy vehemently begged not to wear diapers. My no nonsense friend then hit upon a different solution. Every night she puts a catheter on her hubby. She tells me that her slave hubby was terrified and used to cry when the tube was pushed into his bladder. No amount of crying or pleading would help. Over time my friend has sometimes kept hubby in a catheter even during the day deciding upon her whim whether to block or allow his urine to flow uncontrollably. She has told hubby that his penis and right to pee is no longer his own.
I have even been allowed to see him sometimes begging her to release the clamp on his catheter tube with which she controls his bladder. He often dances in tears as he begs for release. It is amusing to see the fear in his eyes whenever she summons him to push the rubber tube up his pee hole.
Have you ever used Alice as your toilet?
Love, Denise
No I’ve not done that. Alice doesn’t have to ask for permission to pee unless we’re doing something. She does have to leave the door open
Denise,
She has 24/7 control over my bladder and defecation times. i have been diapered 24/7 when i am changes are once every 24 hrs. Over the years my wife has broken my spirit, will to resist and removed all traces of my male ego and male sexuality. I am now a very docile and compliant gurl for her needs.
Annette,
I am sometimes diapered too, but am usually, outside of punishment, allowed to change soon after i defecate. How you deal with long term waste in your diaper? Urine is generally not a problem.for me i use Northshore Mega Max diapers with diaper doublers, but waste gets messy and even after a short time produces rashes and painful irtitation.
sissy h
sissy h,
i don’t seem to get rashes from my defecation but do sometimes from urine especially in the hot summer days. When i am changed in the morning after bathing my wife applies lotion on my bottom and also A&D ointment. There is no escaping the odor issue especially in the summer. Its quite embarrassing when we are out and about in public especially after sitting down etc. i have been kept this way for many years and i am for the most part incontinent for both urination and bowel movements. over time this just happened naturally. Its after time goes by and you use the diaper whenever you have to go the mind just alters your control over it. Many times i don’t even realize that i have messed or wet myself. It is still very humiliating and embarrassing. In public at times my wife will feel my diaper to check me over my clothes. She may even make a comment to me loud enough so people close by can hear. We have done this many years and she has become more and more controlling and i have lost all my male tendencies and ability to resist her. This summer we went to a nude beach where my wife loves to sunbathe. i was there in a diaper and plastic protective panty and it was very embarrassing and humiliating to say the least. Inside my wife loved what she was doing to me and also seeing peoples facial reactions and sometimes their comments as they passed by. Feel free to ask any questions you need to ask.
Thank you Annette. That is an awesome account. I have often fantasised about many things you are experiencing such as forced incontinence, and forced feminization. My wife is not a big fan of either. She allows me to use diapers at home and then sometimes her sadistic streak shows through and i am required in them much longer than i would like, but i must always change myself, and steer clear of her when the smell escapes. She also likes me as man mostly, but does use sisssy dresses and maids uniforms as a way to humiliate me, especially at public dungeons and private play parties. I am also in a bra and panties the majority of the time. Panties and a pad are a must for my chastity device due to support needs and leakage containment. Do you have your own blog, i would love to keep up with your story? Also are you stateside or in Europe?
You can also find me on fetlife, i am badsissyh
Thanks again,
sissy h
i am stateside. Thanks for your interest in our relationship. You can email me at dandsman@optonline.net
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Dear Lady Alexa,
A very interesting post. This method of feminization seems to rely a lot on punishment. Perhaps this was exactly what Annette’s domme and Annette needed and even wanted.
I would like to know your view point (and that of others too) on taking a slightly different approach to feminization. Feminization can be more about facilitating the sweet, demure, shy, obedient gurl to emerge and blossom gradually from within the outer shell of masculinity. So an FLR home would essentially be a safe space where a gurl can express her inner femininity freely under the encouragement and guidance of a dominant woman. One of the ways to express that inner femininity would be to serve the domme and to sexually submit to her. Of course each domme and each gurl is different so the exact details of how this facilitation and encouragement is done will need to be different too, but this overall approach of safe space, encouragement, facilitation will probably yield quite rapid feminization of the gurl.
Masculinity is just a social construct, but it is a heavy and constricting burden that men are forced to wear, like a strait-jacket made of lead. Men just need to be gradually encouraged to shed it and to overcome their fear of social consequences. Once they experience the pleasure of living life as a gurl their previous masculine life will seem like just a bad dream to them.
As for a gurl serving her domme by bearing the domme’s pee, here is perhaps a novel idea. The gurl takes a slim dildo or vibrator and lubricates it well, pulls a condom over it. The gurl now inserts this into her pussy (“vaganus”) until just an inch of the condoms stick out of her. She now holds the part of the condom outside of her with her fingers and carefully draws the dildo out of her vaganus (lubricating the dildo beforehand will make this easier), leaving the condoms inside her. The gurl now inserts a rubber or plastic tube into her pussy into the condom and inserts a funnel into the other end of the tube. The gurl now offers the funnel to her domme and lies on her back with her legs pulled up. As the domme pees into the funnel the gurl can experience the warm fluid from her domme filling up her insides.
Once the domme is finished the gurl can clench her vaganus, hold the end of the condoms closed with her fingers, walk to the bathroom enjoying the feeling of her mistress’s golden fluid sloshing inside her, remove the tube and funnel, expel the pee in the toilet and clean up. Now that is a deeply fulfilling act of submission and service to the domme. All thrills, no spills. The gurlie miss has been turned into a no muss, no fuss conveyor of piss.
Use a large condom or even a female condom so that nothing pills out. You can find large funnels in the automotive supply stores.
If you are having a party with other dommes and their gurls, one or two of the gurls can be the designated pee gurls, saving the dommes trips to the bathroom. Perhaps the pee gurls can wear yellow so they are easily spotted.
No gurl will even dream of reverting to masculinity after a stint at being a pee gurl followed by a night of thorough and comprehensive plowing of her pussy with a strap on.
I’m not into pee things or anything to do with human waste nor is Alice but I know some like it
Lady Alexa,
My wife and i are very happy and we are excited to see it posted. Its accurate and we loved the pictures being posted also. Now most days my underwear consist of foundation wear like longline girdles, girdles and panty girdles. My wife says a gurl my age shouldn’t be wearing sexy pretty panties like younger girls and women do. At bed time i am allowed white cotton panties or baby doll outfits. In the summer the girdles are quite uncomfortable and hot. But i have no say in the matter. If you need more info. to continue the blog please ask. My wife’s name is Jean. She said she is going to print it out and create a folder for it so she will always have it for her amusement and my humiliation. She made me read your blog out loud to her also and she stated at the end that she is not through with me yet by no means. i know she loves me but deep inside i feel she resents i was never the Alpha husband i should have been sexually or otherwise. She derives great pleasure and power by doing this to me as sort of a punishing payback for not giving her the life and sexual pleasure that a real man provides in a marital relationship. i see it when i am being humiliated, punished and from some of her verbal remarks to me. i deserve all she does to me and no longer have any male attitudes or the will to resist her. The hormones have not only changed me physically but also emotionally. I never cried but i cry more often these days, feel more docile and compliant also. i am a mere shell of the man i once was. But in many ways i am at peace with myself and no longer have to present a false image of myself in public. She brought the inner gurl out in me and if its the price i have to pay to be myself so be it.
Lady Alexa,
Thanks for posting our story. Quite accurate! You did a great job. we are past middle age and in our senior years. She is 59 and i am 64. Due to my age my wife has me in foundation wear like girdles, panty girdles and full girdles. She ssays a gurl of my age shouldn’t at this point be wearing pretty and sexy young girls panties. At bedtime i am allowed white cotton panties or baby doll outfits. My wife’s name is Jean. Thanks for the blog. If you wish to continue it just ask for more information and we will provide it. Glad you posted my pictures also. My wife loved it!
Yes I deliberately cut the bit out about the bleeding