I prefer femdom events over fetish events. Not because the events are any better but rather that I prefer femdom. And forced feminisation of course. I’m not in to male masters, just female.

So with that in mind, off we went with Alice’s tartan schoolgirl skirt on our 2 1/2 hour trip to the English Midlands to attend Miss Treat’s Femdom Devotion event.

Devoted to Femdom and Devotion

The Devotion event is wonderful as it has one purpose: femdom and male submission and humiliation. Plus it’s friendly. Not all males are feminised but they are all submissive which is the most important thing for a male to be.

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We (Alice and I) know Mistress Miss Treat and her girlie submissive very well.  Miss Treat is very lucky as she has two feminised submissives for the price of one. Her sissy has two personas, Alison and Lily. Maybe there are others hidden inside?

I just have Alice although I do get a feminised Alice and a naked (partially feminised) Alice depending on my mood.

We also get to sometimes meet readers of this blog and of my books. This week we met the lovely Mistress Playtime and her submissive girlie PrettyChrissy. It was so nice  to meet them and to see others who live our lifestyle.

They were a reminder, if one is needed, that couples like us are quite normal and friendly in all other ways except for the relationship dynamic. It was the reason I started this blog; to counter the excessive and unreal femdom nonsense on the web. Femdom is real life!!!!

Here’s a quote from Fetlife about the event from PrettyChrissy:

Thank you for such a fun afternoon, seeing familiar faces and meeting a few new ones. A special thanks to the birthday girl who gave me the best beating I have ever had to date!
Meeting Lady Alexa & Alice was a real treat too.
Our greatest gratitude goes to those that ran the event for all their hard work.

So what do we do there apart from chat to others like us? I sent Alice off to be the waitress at the dominant ladies‘ tea party.

Alice has to make coffee, tea and serve the ladies along with a couple of other sissies. We ring a hand bell and they have to come over, curtsey and do what we tell them. I left Alice to clean up while I attended a doggy show.

Except it was the submissives who were the doggies and had to beg to us and so on. Truly wonderful although I do know that Alice was much happier cleaning up than being a pet.

We also had a spanking game where the subs have to bend over around the dance floor with skirts up and knickers down and the dominants go round to the music and spank them when it stops. A variation on a children’s game of pass-the-parcel.

Since Alice forgot her suspender belt I did some light but very public spanking of Alice after pass-the-parcel. I think next time I might ask someone else to spank her.

More feminisation please

So now we’re back to normal life after the high-jinks of Devotion and I’m looking to resurrect some old ideas for Alice to be better feminised. Firstly, I’m trying for a third time to attempt to grow Alice’s hair longer.

The problem has always been that it’s a little thin on top . However, I found a product you can spray in to give the appearance of hair. I’m going to try this to see if it’s a better substitute for a wig at times. I stopped her going to the hairdressers a little while ago so her hair is now over her ears and collar.

I  find wigs a little artificial and I would really want her with a proper female hairstyle all the time. It’s still not that long but it’s now close to being able to put in a very small pony tail which is a nice start.

I would like to be able to put a nice pink bow in it at the back or for her to have two side pony tails.

I also bought a whole load of female hair products to make Alice’s hair more shiny and to lay nicely. I have also purchased hair dye and I’ve been making her use this. It’s not yet a million miles from her natural colour but more vibrant.

Hair is an important part of what makes a girl and I don’t want a little male-pattern baldness to hold me back too much.

If only she looked like the sissy in this picture…

My other plan I want to look more at how to have girlfriends round and for Alice to serve us. Devotion reminded me how much I enjoy humiliating Alice. I know it doesn’t sound very loving when you read it in black and white but it is loving.

I just don’t yet know where to start as some of my friends might be horrified at the prospect. Or they might not. I haven’t yet found the courage to discuss the idea.

Femdom Events

So events like Devotion help to energise my continued femdom, feminisation and humiliation lifestyle. Since I see Alice feminised as a girl every day it can become normal and routine. It’s a hygiene factor, i.e. it’s now something I expect and I’d only be annoyed if she reverted to being a male, even temporarily.

It’s therefore so important to find a new challenge, push some more boundaries and to meet others like us.

What events do you enjoy? Let me know in the comments.