One of my readers, Lady Amanda, made an interesting comment on one of my articles. It got me to thinking.
Lady Amanda was agreeing with a comment I’d made i the article where I suggested that any females reading the post should act to feminise their men. Her point was that most men should be feminised and, although that wasn’t exactly what I was saying in the post, I am going to be more explicit this time as she’s quite correct.
MOST MEN SHOULD BE FEMINISED
Here’s the article where I proposed that all females should consider feminising their partners – Force Feminize Your Husband.
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Many males accept they need to be feminised and want to be allowed or pushed into being feminised. Others, such as Alice, take a little more persuasion to live that way but accept it eventually.
I’ve often written that I try to avoid the expression ‘forced feminisation’ as it conjures up images of aggressive ladies forcing their male partners to become girls. We all know this is fantasy and the reality is the forced part is not true.
I wrote about so-called forced feminisation here – The Benefits of Forced Feminization
Most of us, of course, are in loving and caring relationships and don’t want to force our hsubands and boyfriends to do anything they don’t really want to. However, there are times when we have to be firm with them and show them that what we want will benefit them too.
In the longer term, they nearly always accept this and settle into a life of femininity and even prefer it. I am thinking of my sissy husband Alice.
FORCE FEMINISING MY HUSBAND
I had to throw away Alice’s male underpants and nightwear, for example and only permit female knickers and nighties.
At first she made a fuss but she now prefers female underwear and even buys it for himself without consdiering male underwear. We discuss, like two girls together, which knickers and nighties she would like.
Success. Yes she actually goes to shops and buys female knickers on her own. That is brilliant.
It’s the same with skirts and dresses for Alice. I had to force this one on her and ruled that she’s only allowed to wear skirts, dresses and knickers at home. I had to get assertive and again, she made a lot of fuss.
Now Alice puts them on without a second thought for the hme. I now want her to be able to go and buy new skirts herself on her own too. We’ll see.
And finally, switching to using her female name, calling her girl, sissy and her/she was an important change that I did not ask her permission for. It was necessary to force this one too. I don’t ever refer to her in any way as male it’s always Alice, sissy and girl.
I still get the embarrassed smile which I like, but I never get any push back these days.
FORCING FEMINISATION
So in summary Ladies, you need to ‘force’ some elements of feminisation but the reward for you and your ‘sissy is well worth any amount of effort. I would say insist or encourage more than force.
Men should be feminised.
As a male who now also buys my own panties (knickers) and such, i have to be glad that it amuses You and gives You joy! sara
Oh it really does believe me
This is so true, women are so much more aware than men! I never really realised this until I was feminised and subsequently adopted a much more feminine view of the world. Who knew stockings, heels and panties could open your mind so much. Most women don’t realise the immense power they hold over men, only the enlightened few can understand and implement this, to the benefit of both the Lady and the feminised ‘man’.
i think that those single men with the urge, who know that deep down they should be feminized could still help open the minds of many women by making their own emasculating tendencies apparent. It’s essential that they should overcome their own male resistance and submit to public feelings of shame and humiliation so that perhaps more women might recognize the fact that they can find enjoyment in the feminization of males. Even small steps like wearing female jeans, a woman’s jacket and subtle lipstick and commenting on a woman’s appearance ” i love your skirt, where did you get it?, can have a powerful lasting effect on both the male and female.
I really feel that all men should be feminised and those men who either self-feminise or can persuade their woman to understand this then good; it’s a start. However there is much more to it and it’s not about the male’s needs, enjoyment or excitement in any way but the Lady’s pleasure and therefore it’s incidental whether the male enjoys feminisation or not. So female domination is the guiding principle and feminisation of the male is one tool for her in her domination and leadership. So any male who does really want to be feminised has to show the Lady submission and his servitude to her first. He has to acknowledge and follow her leadership. In this way she will see the benefits of a feminised man to the benefit of them both.
An important distinction, Miss. my ceaseless urges to wear pretty skirts and makeup come from an instinct and desire to submit to and be emasculated by the superior female. It’s not out of selfish pleasure, but out of servitude and submission that i want to be perfectly and passably made up and dressed in attractive fashions and to pleasure other men and women. Believe me when I say that a large part of me rebels against all of this and finds it utterly humiliating. But the idea of feminisation and pleasing men and women dressed completed feminine brings with it a great peace and feeling of ‘right’. This is my true place.
Yes LAdy A i remember you gave me this advice too.. And since the day I have started to follow it..I feel so happy and am folllowing totally in her leadership..i m not feminised as yet but am completely submissive to her and serve her totally. Our relationship has become a fully FLR. I am now just waiting for the time she may feel it would be more beneficial to feminise me .. Curtseys Shelby
All men should be feminized, Lady A! Absolutely. i also often wonder about how many females have the urge to feminize? For example, i recently began a new job working for a department store and now often spend hours sorting through women’s clothing to send items to correct locations and so on. Just touching these garments in their beautiful fabrics and shapes has my clit naughty. A couple of days ago a female coworker was passing and saw me holding up a lace skirt and made a remark “That’s just your size. Very pretty” and later to another colleague ” I think he likes working in that section a little too much”. Both times were affable and she smiled jokingly but it did get me wondering if any females had an instinct for feminizing certain types of males who were perhaps obviously feminizable?
chloe x
Women are just more aware so they would have spotted your interest and body language in a way that would have passed a male by. Therer are two types of woman in my mnd. There are those women like me who know and understand the power we have and how to use it. We use feminisation to make a man even more controllable as well as being very attractive in a man. Then there are those women who don’t yet have the awareness due to social conditioning. I’m very sure that with a strong woman to teach them or by opening their minds they would realise and enjoy it too.
well said Lady A and this male,s question is exactly what I describe in my recent post
Yes it was a good example of your point Lady Amanda. I do get a lot of questions from males about how they can approach their ladies about being feminised as many really do want it. They always forget they are there to serve their Lady and that IF the Lady wants to feminise them as part of her desire and control (in my case) then that’s fine but it’s the Lady’s choice. If I ever feel (maybe wrongly but who cares) that Alice is enjoying being feminised a little too much and forgetting her real role then after physical punishment I will strip her naked and she has to serve me that way until I’m satisfied she’s learnt her lesson or until I want to see her in a little skirt again. That said Alice never really wanted to be fully feminised so her feminisation is a control mechanism in my case. And I really like it of course.
I am a male of 21. I want to be a slave of my gf. I don’t know how to express my feelings towards her. I am scared of if I tell her about it than she rejects me and go away. Please help me. Give me some tips. I love her so much and I want to be her slave, her pet, her foot stool, her toilet, her spitoon, her toilet paper, her seat on which she sits confertably, her toy, her furniture an, anything she wants from me to do. I will do without any rejection. But she is vanilla and I want her to be dominant. Please give me some tips
My common advise is to think about what is in it for the lady. You will need to think about her needs and requirements firstly and be prepared to serve her. It’s a male’s role to serve their Lady and this leads to the feminisation of the male. It’s not important whether the male wants to be feminised what’s important is that the male serves his lady and feminisation is one tool to ensure he is in this position.
Dear Mistress Lady A,
What are the benefits you seek from feminizing your man?
With respect and a deep curtsy, pantymaid
Good question. There are several benefits pantymaid. I think I’ll do a post on this but in short feminine clothing is much more attractive and of finer softer material so I prefer men in this type of clothing. I enjoy men as a sexual object and I want to see their bodies on display for me; legs, chests. Females are more gentle so it’s important to have them feminised to take away the male aggression and more become more compliant. Wearing a short skirt and heels makes them far more dainty which is lovely. Finally I enjoy the power and control if I’m totally honest. I’ll think about this further and do that post
Thank You Mistress Lady A, for taking the time to answer my question. I look forward to all of Your post.
With respect and a curtsy, pantymaid
I think Alice is a very luck girl Mistress.
You are treating him very well and he should be very grateful.
You are of course correct that all males should be feminised.
Difficult to see males being aggressive whilst wearing dresses and heels.
Curtsey
Sally
She is very lucky Sally. I think she is starting be be grateful. And in addition to not being aggressive, I find feminised males compliant which is exactly what I want,
Lady A I am slowly understanding how a feminised male feels. Feel so excited so happy at the transformation that we really feel grateful to Ladys like you who have shown us the right life for which we are meant for. Shelby
Lady A thank you for your kind comment, I suppose it is down to the individual Lady really on how far her male should be feminized,and in my experience there are many Lady,s who would with a little encouragement and will power like their male feminized to some degree. I certainly feel most Lady,s would agree that the majority of males out there should be feminized. From experience, the males I have feminized which is my current husband/wifely to my previous two husbands/wifely,s and my various friends have given me so much more satisfaction and pleasure as they ever could have done as a male husband. My previous late husband needed very little encouragement to be feminized right from the point of our dating and when I explained to him even before our second date that he would have to succumb to being feminized and lead his life as a subservient sissy under my rule and demands he literally increased his attempts to court me and impress me. Long before our wedding, he was totally transformed to my little sissy girl and had been subjected to breast augmentation and a regular dose of feminine hormones. Our wedding was a private affair with Norman/Nancy dressed in a lovely frock and white socks and a full make-up. she was still in chastity at that time, although her little clitty had been reduced to a mere impotent little piece of skin that refused to get hard for her even though she willed it to. This of course was the result of the hormones I had administered to her from my very good friend and Doctor. Her breasts had devolved nicely to a modest 36b and there was a marked visual change to her general appearance. Her training was nearly complete before our wedding day and she had wholly accepted her life under me was to be permanent and lasting. Right from the day she agreed until the day of his/her passing, she was totally impotent and was never allowed to spill her filth in any way, as I personally believe a subordinate sissy male should never be allowed any sexual pleasure except those I demand from her. Our wedding night was a treat for both myself and her, My favourite alpha bull was more up to the task and better suited than Nancy to perform the honours normally bestowed on to the Groom and having nancy attend and be present was both humiliating to her, but necessary so as to properly show her her role in our life together. nancy served me well for many years and at home she performed her daily tasks perfectly except for the annoying occasional dribble of male slime which oozed from her little impotent clitty and sometimes messed up her outfits and knickers. This annoyed me so much that with my current husband.sissy I firmly intend to have her castrated properly.
Lady Amanda Fullmore
Yes this is so true Lady Amanda. Since I feminised Alice, things have been so much better and I also think most ladies would want a feminised husband. As you say, every lady wants something slightly different but I fully understand what you want. I want Alice to be completely female except for her clitty which I still want to function. Other than that I want her to have pierced ears, breast augmentation and permanent hair removal. This is the next stage of her development. After that I’ll see what I’ll do. I never thought it would go this far if I’m honest.
Lady A i concur when i started on this lifestyle i didn’t know how far i would go it just blossomed like a flower but now i understand i have this power over the male i want more and more and will stop at nothing to get it
Having read all your blogs from the start…i just love the subtle way this has all come about… you must be very proud of where Alice has got to…
With a hint of jealousy of Alice… i say well done! Cant wait to see where you will both be in 12 months time!
cj 🙂
I am very proud of Alice and where I have taken her. I am currently going through a period of consolidation and getting Alice to get used to her life as a girl but there is more to come once I’m satisfied.
She is so lucky…i hope she realises what a gem you are!
cj 🙂
Alice is so lucky you are there to guide her and show her the life which she has to lead…Alice must be enjoying herself.. All the best to you, Lady A and Alice too.. Shelby