I have been reflecting on the process of male feminisation and female-led relationships. I realise that probably the most important and key element of the process is not generally described in any great detail on the many blogs and other documents I’ve read on this subject.

This is the fact that all ladies need to take complete ownership of what your man has between his legs. Once owned, you must feminise, humiliate and disrespect it. Without doing this, you will never quite control your man.

This is how I went about taking charge.

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1 Take ownership of his genitals

This was quite easy as men liked them to be played with and to have their lady focus on them.

2 Stop him thinking of his penis as a cock

Cock is very a masculine work and it’s assertive. He had to be stripped of any notion of masculinity.

Initially, I started calling it a ‘willie’ since this was childish and took away that implication of assertiveness and of him being a real man. But it was still male and a male sexual organ.

I eventually found the answer. it was a ‘clitoris’ or a ‘clitty’. It is only ever allowed to be referred to as such. So we have a female description but it was shaved and it looked a bit like a little boy’s thing.

3 Shave him

The answer to the little boy things was to make Alice grow a clear triangle of pubic hair above her clitty. This looks more feminine and I now call her whole genital area her ‘pussy’ and I don’t even have to use the word balls.

“You need to shave your pussy, sissy girl” I like to say this if she’s been a little lazy for example.

4 Make him sit down on the toilet

Obviously this is an basic rule to have him act like a girl. However, equally important is that he doesn’t stand like a macho man holding his little thing to urinate. He cannot do this, he must not do this.

Do everything you can to get your man to sit to cement to the idea in his sissy mind that she has to sit as he has a pussy. It’s so so important.

But this was still not quite enough.

5 Give his sissy clitty utter disrespect

t’s good it was feminised but to control and disabuse a man of any thought of masculinity through thinking he has a  ‘cock’ even if feminised, you need to show it complete and utter disrespect.

I do four things.

Make sissy dress without knickers or skirt,

But still in her stockings, high-heeled shoes and female top.

Decorate it with pretty things

Always with a large pink ribbon in a bow, maybe some jewellery hanging from it, necklaces and the like. I also clip on earrings onto her pussy area behind her clitty.

Use her clitty for punishment.

If I am not pleased by something Alice has done, I will slap her clitty through her skirt. If I want to make a stronger point, I will tell Alice to drop her knickers and lift her skirt and I will slap it directly.

I like to scold her like you do with children by slapping on each syllable I say. I’ve also started getting her to lay down with her knickers off and skirt up and legs wide open. I will then put clothes pegs on her clitty and pussy bits and make her keep them on.

She says they sting after a while. Good. Other times I will tie the pink ribbon very very tight around her clitty and separate her pussy balls and then make her keep that on for some time. The penultimate step will be a clitty cage, I now think that this is vital.

Show her clitty to female and sissy friends

And allow them to play with it. I’m still not sure which friends to approach.

5 Steps to sissy control

So from my experience, all you ladies out there feminising or thinking of feminising your man, you really need to take complete control of his clitty stick immediately.

As I said, men love their little things being played with so it’s not so difficult as it seems. The rest will follow.

And this is exactly what Elizabeth did to her husband Patrick. And a whole lot more. Get the complete series on ebook for just $15. CLick on the images below for more info.