Being a dominant lady, leading a forced feminization and FLR marriage, is more than about using force of personality to get your way. There are a variety of techniques a lady needs to use to develop the relationship, to change the behaviour of their husbands and to make them more submissive.
Putting your man in feminine clothing, or lack of it, is one such important strategy when maintaining and controlling a submissive husband. Pretty dresses and skirts have an astonishing effect on male behaviour, a bit like putting him on an oestrogen drip.
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Language is another important element in any forced feminization and FLR marriage. I don’t think I’ve covered this before as a specific topic, so here goes.
USING LANGUAGE TO MANAGE AN FLR
I’ve always been a demanding lady, if I’m being honest. I do enjoy telling people what to do. Well, telling men what to do really. Although Alice is my first (and last) true forced feminization and FLR relationship, in all the relationships before I met her, I was most definitely the boss.
However, living and working in our society, I would not get much done, even in a vanilla relationship, if I ordered people around all the time. Well, unless I was in the armed forces or the blue-light services. In vanilla life, you have to be reasonably polite and use the correct language.
ORDERS AND INSTRUCTIONS
At home in a formal FLR, it’s a different case and you can be a little more strict. Although I’m not a tyrant, I am able to be more forceful and use more direct language. In fact, it’s important not to use socially polite language, as it may indicate that something is up for discussion or debate. It can weaken your leadership even.
These days, living in a real-life FLR, I am able to be natural and to use language that is clear and unequivocally an order. It’s still loving, but without some of the social constructions that make the orders more palatable to others.
For example, I avoid some modal verbs such as: would could, may/might, should and so on. Those verbs soften your request and often turn it into a question, a request or a seeking of agreement. Not an order then.
Modal verbs that do come into play are must and have to. You must do this, you have to do that etc. In most situations, it’s the reversal of what you’d use in everyday life away from your husband.
That said, we don’t live in a prison camp here at home, so my instructions and orders are firm, but given without malice. For example:
“Alice, once you’ve cleared up the dinner things, I want you to massage my feet.” (Not – would you massage my feet)
“Be a good girl and get me a cup of coffee.” (Not – could you get me a cup of coffee)
“Get upstairs and into a skirt now. Just do it.” Not – could you get changed please)
And so on. I’m clear, firm, in charge, but gentle. Alice knows where she stands and what to do. I liken this to the style, although not the content, of that of a boss and her secretary, the army officer and a private, a police superintendent and a constable.
THE IMPORTANCE OF NAMES IN FORCED FEMINIZATION AND FLRs
Changing your submissive husband’s name to something feminine is, vital in any relationship like ours. I did this early in our FLR and it’s been effective in breaking down my husband’s masculinity which increases femininity and submission.
The wearing of feminine clothing, and the sound of a feminine name, work perfectly together. Like strawberries and ice cream.
I have further cemented the status level by, nowadays, mostly calling her girl. This takes things up a level, or is that down a level? I focus on her being a girl as a gender and our status difference being such that I have a title: Mistress. She is just referred to by her gender.
Note, I use girl and not woman. She’s not a woman.
Changing the name of her little thing is vital. Obviously, she has a clitty and a pussy now. I’ve stared to call her clitty her little princess, copying one of my followers, the mistresses Katrina’s, approach with her husband.
If you don’t do this, males will see their little thing as masculine. We really don’t want masculinity rearing it’s nasty little head now do we.
Like clothing, language is so powerful in setting reality.
REGULAR CHANGES HELP TO KEEP FEMINISATION FRESH
You would think that now I’ve got Alice where I want her and we’re both living that way that all is fine. It’s all very good, but in my experience an FLR with a feminised husband needs occasional shake ups to maintain the tension.
Alice knows that if it were possible, I’d want her as a girl 24/7. This worries her. She knows I’ll keep pushing and I don’t believe there are any real boundaries. It’s more about the sensibilities of others in society, family, friends.
After about five years as a girl, Alice can, at times, become somewhat used to wearing a dress or skirt. I therefore like to shake things up a bit, to keep the tension going and my control in place. If I think Alice looks too comfortable in a pretty skirt, I’ll make her remove it and she spends the evening or morning naked.
I’ve invited a sissy we know well to spend an evening with us. That will really shake Alice up. Then, later in the month, a mistress will come to see us. This changes the dynamic and maintains Alice’s tension, keeping things fresh and on the edge.
NAMING YOUR HUSBAND IN AN FLR
I’ve been thinking recently. Alice is a nice feminine name and calling her girl works well too. I’ve been using Alice, sissy and girl as names for sometime. I think I’m missing a trick though. In the main, I’ve developed Alice into a fairly normal girl.
Yes she wears pinks, whites and mini skirts and dresses, but most things are what we buy from stores aimed at real women. That’s good as I’m not so keen on her looking like a sissy.
I think it’s time to ramp things up a little more. Maybe more girly, more overtly feminine. Not sissy, but definitely more girly.
To start then, I’m going to add a few more feminine pet names for everyday use. A few come to mind nd I’m going to start using them at home and outside:
Princess, sissy, flower, poppet, babygirl, tulip, twinkie, twinkle, kitten, petal, fairy, girly, blossom and Tinkerbell.
I’ll probably drop the plain girl and use girly from now on as a start. I like the diminutive sound of girly more. I think these pet names would add a new level of frisson, especially outside the home and with others.
A NEW NAME FOR MY SISSY HUSBAND?
Names and language are, therefore, an important part of a forced-feminization FLR. As I want to increase Alice’s girlyness and give her even more femininity, some new cute girly pet names are going to help.
However, I’m now left wondering whether to change Alice’s proper female name as well. I do like the name Alice, and it’s feminine. These days, here in London, maybe it’s become a little everyday for nice middle-class young ladies.
What I’m thinking about is something much more girly-girl. Something more embarrassing for her when I use it in front of others.
I also sometimes get the feeling that when I call her Alice outside the home others might mishear it for Alan or Al is… or something. I haven’t noticed anyone ever doing a double take or looking. I’m not sure it stands out enough as girly-girl.
Maybe what she needs then is a brand new girly name that really screams girly and there’s no doubt. Some pet names are going have that effect. Can you imagine me calling her Princess in a coffee bar?
I’m thinking a name like Mandy or Candy, Lacy or Lily? Perhaps Poppy or Sophie, Jessie or Tiffany. How about Cindie or Chloe?
I’m not sure whether to do this or not as Alice is Alice and her name has bedded in with me, her and our friends. I think of her as Alice, even though I usually called her girl (now girly). What should I do?
I’d love to hear your opinions about whether to make a proper name change for Alice. Maybe you have some other ideas? They must be excruciatingly and obviously girly.
And if you know of any other nice girly-girl pet names that I maybe haven’t thought of then do let me know.
I’m really looking forward to your comments on this one.
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May i suggest Alicia as her new name?
Very nice. I tend only to use Alice on the blog or talking to other flr couples. I call her girl or princess more regularly around the home or out
Lady Alexa,
My girl and I are just starting off in our Flr, it’s been on and off for a while now but are taking the plunge and making it permanent and are soon to be living together. We have been reading your posts quite avidly for a while now. Brie is her name and we do call her appendage clitty and most of the time she is locked away in chastity which she and I adore. Brie finds that it makes her more submissive, she also likes to sit at my feet and loves for me to tell her what to do. I do have some girlie names that I use, sweetie, sweet pea or sweetie are the the ones I use the most. Sometimes I use baby or missy but they don’t necessarily work as well sweetie.
Your writings have been a big help to us over the last 3 years and have given us a lot of insight into our Flr and feminisation. So a big thank you from us,
Regards
Mistress Pippa
I’m glad I could help. Do keep us informed of progress
Dearest Lady Alexa,
I’m writing to let you know that I have just today found your website! I enjoyed your blog immensely! It is very inspirational and I , as imjourney towards finding a new partner to share my life with as a ( I love this newly coined nick named description) Hubbette ! I have been widowed for 4 yrs lost my wife leader Mistress ! To illness. She and
I had just agreed to her taking complete unquestioned control of All monetary health diet ,family decisions! She had also discovered my girly urges to dress n try to pass as femme! She was outraged by this until researching and realized the power she held in spades to forcibly totally
Feminize me! It was a whirlwind storm of my masculinity manhood cock n balls. Being emasculated!all my male cloths went into the garbage dumped exposed to the whole neighbor hood ! All hunting camping man gear out ! All my man magazines books out ! I awoke stunned to open my dresser draws
Filed to the brim with women’s “intimate apparel “. Sleepwear ,shapewear . Closet filled with skirts dresses tops ! I was in a panic ! The police were called by concerned neighbors when they saw all my goods in the street!
It was quite embarrassing to have to address the two just my luck female Officers who responded! I tried to explain thru my closed bedroom door my plight!
,They insisted after my wife explained what was occurring , that I put some clothing on n a robe and explain the circumstances face to face . So out I came in baby pale Pink baby doll nighty n matching bikini hipster panty n sheer see thru dressing gown .,!
All had huge knowing smile smirks as I feverishly blushed beet red n flushed
As I drizzly staggered out !
They all were looking down and remarked that you misses made a excellent call? I realized my small dicklette clitlett clitty was erect nerd as never before.
Satisfied I was safe and in good hands they left . My wife’s friend neighbors rear yard two side n 1 across the street stayed put ! They spoke to my wife understood that I was going to have only one way to stay in my marriage n home … As a Sub Hubbette. In panties bra dressed in women’s clothing n submit to her n any women sissy sitting me desires n commands !
Corporal punishment would reign me in when man habits broke thru!
I was mortified but had to decide !
Yes dear I spoke up I will stay n be your submissive Hubby!
Fully denuded of all body hair by waxing ouch , first time was totureLol?
Hormone shots hair grown to below shoulder length! Breast. Facial enhancements .
Now searching for a women needing a man to lead! FLR
Sound like an adventure from one of my stories!
Mistress used to call me Tinkerbell. She made me wear a Collar with a bell which I still wear. From there I became GurlToy for I was her personal servant. As I moved to be more Femine I asked her looking at me who do you see I am? I just a moment she called me Chloe 💕 or a cute version Chloe Gurl.
I couldn’t be happier
Tinkerbell. I like it
Hi Lady Alexa,
Both your nicknames and methods of giving orders are wonderful! And to all the girls in the comments section, also bravo on the ideas and creativity!
What do you think about instead of changing Alice’s name, maybe giving her an additional middle name, or a “full” name. I’m thinking of some of the American Girl Dolls and how they always had very feminine and proper sounding names, often hyphenated names like “Emma Jane”, “Sarah Elizabeth”, or “Samantha Rose”…
Ah, now they sound so cute I want one!
After reviewing all the comments on this post, I’ve decided to retain Alice’s name. It’s who she is now. I like the idea of hyphenated names but suing Alice as the first name. I do like calling her girly too, so I’ve taken to using Alice-Girly for example. I need to think of a suitable second name that is very girly. Maybe ALice-Jane, Alice-Rose?
Ohhh I’m so excited you’re thinking about a hyphenated name Lady Alexa!! This is a little long to say, but I always thought Arabella was cute… Alice-Arabella 🙂
Arabella is a cute name, but maybe there are too many syllables in Alice-Arabella
Good day Goddess,
I am reading Your books and thoroughly enjoying Your writings about Alice’s development under Your hand. I was recently reading the blog of another Domme that assigned a letter grade to Her husband’s performance and provided corrective training accordingly. I had a devious idea about letter grades and immediately thought of respectfully submitting the idea for Your consideration:
Since the sub male is subjected to feminization in the public eye, he should strive for excellence in his duties so that his inevitable public display of feminization is as subtle as possible. For example, if a shoddy attempt at housework is done and a letter D is assigned by the Domme, then a corresponding D cup bra with nylon filling will be worn as punishment and redirection during the Subbies next trip to the grocery, walking the dog or washing the car. Additional opportunity for the Domme to quantify the grade with a “+” for empty cups and a “-“ for the addition of weighted breast forms. Conversely, if the simpering sub goes out of his way to do an exceptional job for a “A”, then his “reward” could be the wearing of a lightly lined A cup demi bra as a more gentle reminder of his place and lot in life.
I feel this would be quantifiable and relevant to the sub and a fun twist for his Mistress.
For Your entertainment and hopeful consideration.
Thank You again for Your writings. Alice is a very lucky person.
Respectfully,
Mike
Hello Mike, it’s a nice idea. The biggest problem to most things is that I often don’t have time to manage Alice’s every little task. In a real-life FLR it’s not the same as a game. However, when I’m in the mood I might just try this
Hi Lady Alexa,
I love the way that you have feminised your husband and named her Alice. Few things, other than panties I suppose, remove a man’s masculinity than giving him a new feminine name or using girlish nicknames like ‘princess’ or ‘cupcake’ to address him.
When meeting a new dominatrix for the first time (I’m not lucky enough to be in an FLR) I love having them choose the new girly name that I will bear for them or, even better, being forced to choose from a shortlist they give me.
Finally, a suggestion I don’t see above, would be to use a double barrelled or hyphenated name rather than lose ‘Alice’ completely. I’d suggest ‘Lilly-Alice’ or ‘Alice-May’ or ‘Alice-Grace’ as starters but I’m sure you can think of more. Imagine shouting for ‘Alice-Rose’ or ‘Alice-Louise’ across a crowded coffee shop.
Alternatively, have variations for different ‘roles’ – e.g. Alicia when you want her to be a slit or Ally when she is being your maid.
Hope this helps,
Your obedient girl,
Suzie xx
Yes I decided in the end not to lose the name Alice but rather to extend some of the girly nicknames. I only really call her Alice when referring to her in this blog or to others. I call her ‘girl’ or ‘girly’ and now ‘princess’ as a rule. I like an earlier suggestion of Lissie as an abbreviation of Alice but the hyphenated name sounds fun. Maybe Alice-girly?
Hi Lady Alexa! I returned home today after a 22 day stay in the hospital. I had to return because of an infection and other complications from the auto accident I was in. So happy to be home!
My friend Donna watched over and led Selina while I was gone, or as Donna said, she was “Sissy sitting”. Selina greeted me wearing the Sissie lingerie set from the Birch Place Shop that Donna purchased. Selina was absolutely adorable! Donna had taken her to the salon she goes to and had them do Selina’s hair, makeup, nails, brows, etc. for my return home! Selina was so pretty, docile, and feminine! My friends that visited me were impressed with how feminized Selina has become.
My precious husband, or as I am going to start calling her, my “hubette” is happy to have me home! I will explain more about what Donna was able to accomplish in my absence soon. She did put Selina into chastity and I have not removed it….not sure when or if I will! She also has a butt plug in most of the time.
Selina is living full time as a feminized male and working as such as well! I will be focusing on removing the last traces and signs of masculinity from my cute hubette in the upcoming days and weeks!
I am glad to be back on the blog and will soon be posting regularly.
Oh dear I do hope you’re feeling much better Katrina. It sounds like your hubette was in good hands while you were away 😄
Thank you Lady Alexa! Yes, Selina was in good hands with Donna. Everything that took place was either initiated or agreed upon by me of course. Donna does love having Selina be ultra feminine often bordering on sissification so I gave her some leeway. Now that I am home and on the mend the goal is to get into a regular routine and Selina living life as a feminized, subservient male. As Cathy Peterson does with her husband the attitude is….this is our life, I am in charge, your job is to obey and submit to me. Our marriage has changed so much in nearly 5 months and all for the better! I love having a cute hubette!
Oh there’s nothing better than a cute pretty husbette that’s for sure. And a submissive one
Hello Katrina!
Glad to hear that you are Well and out of the hospital. I commend you on selecting Donna t nurture your hubbette in your absence.
I find it most exhilarating to hear about how you have transformed your hubbette into the docile, submissive and feminine male that he needs to be. What is really most Refreshing is the fact that you have gotten other Women involved with his Feminization, and hopefully that leads to more husbands being turned into cute, submissive and docile hubbettes!
Thank you so much for the update, and I look forward to hearing more about your pretty hubbette working and living as a Feminine man. The World is starting to understand how nice it is to see men and boys being pretty and feminine, under the Control of Strong Women!
A feminized name i always thought was very humiliating and appropriate is Priscilla. Can be shortened to prissy, sissy prissy, Miss priss… best wishes to You and Alice.
Thank you for the suggestion. Yes very sissy
You have too much invested in ‘Alice’ to change it now. You said yourself that is the way you think of him. So keep it! Instead, have him go through a legal name change to a more formal Alison (or to simply your beloved ‘Alice’ if Alison doesn’t sit right with you). As surnames were mentioned earlier, you could legally change the surname as well, if you wish. Making it his legal name implies a lot and produces many circumstances for reinforcement without you needing to be there; shopping with his debit/credit card and having to produce ID for instance. Of course, legally changing the name requires changing out all his ID and documents. How would you like his new photo ID to look?
If you do go the legal route, be sure he has a visible reminder at all times, both to him and anyone he interacts with. Once the legal issues are completed, give him a precious, feminine wedding ring set to wear. If you wear such, resizing yours to fit him has a special significance.
I’m of two minds about pet names and your idea to vary them randomly. It’s all well and good, but you must remember it IS a pet name and as such has meaning. Think about how you honestly see him or even what you honestly want him to become. Think about an incident that you both went through and try to immortalize it in a new pet name.
You can even go so far as to set up such an incident just to make a desired pet name real. Draw your pet names (yes, plural but limited to three or maybe four) from that. Now you’ll have pet names that mean something to the both of you. If you like ‘princess’, then be sure he has a full princess experience.
For some fancy dress event, you could have a salon appointment for him to give the full updo hair, nails and makeup princess treatment. After that and a full-skirted ball gown complete with numerous crinolines, he will know how a princess looks and feels. NOW your pet name will have a real meaning for him, as well as a story to tell others exactly why you call him princess. A rental gown is fine, but if you truly want to reinforce it you could run him through the full buying experience (including alterations) for his own gown. The plus of this is two-fold. The first is obviously the experience itself, but if you have the available space you could permanently display his gown on a dress form as a constant reminder. If space isn’t available then you can always do a portrait size photo to be beautifully framed and prominently displayed.
Anyway, those are a few thoughts for your concideration
Audrey, I think it is a Delight what you have done with your hubbie. It is always great to hear of yet another Women who has taken control of her husband, and has him in a feminine posture. More and more Women are realizing how wonderful life is with a man being submissive and feminine. I LOVE the name Prissy for him…really makes a Statement!
I enjoy your blog, because I also feminize my man. She has now got accustomed to wearing a bra and panties even when we visit herfamily. I do suspect that her sisters and mom have observed or even felt her bra strap , hooks and cups when they hug . Perhaps they are too polite to ask or comment.
In addition to her dress, I seldom lose an opportunity to embarrass her in public. I believe it keeps her on the edge, alert and attentive at all times. The name I chose for her is Priscilla and I often call her Prissy . It never ceases to turn her red even after years and she responds with a weak smile. Sometimes I use absurdly feminine nicknames like babydoll, cupcake, pumpkin, sweetcheeks and so on. She know now better than to protest or pretend to not hear me. People often stare at her when she responds to my call and this causes her more discomfiture. Some days I insist she courtsy ever time she is beckoned.
During summer, I make her wear sleeveless shirts or tops. I often slide the straps of her bra over her her shoulder making her squirm as she tries to adjust herself. Sometimes I pull her elastic and release it hard causing a snap which startles her or unholy her from the back. This if left unattended can cause her breast pads to fall out. She looks and pleads with her eyes to let me allow her to the rest room,. Only when I permit with a secret hand gesture can she ask to be excused.
I believe that in addition to feminization , constant humiliation helps keep a feminized male firmly in her place. We have come far on our path and I now simply feel I am living with a submissive girl. I do intend to enhance her feminization perhaps with breast surgery in the future.
Love
Audrey
Audrey you’re a woman after my own heart. I just love the names for your feminised girly. I know very well that weak smile, I do so love it. I would love to hear more. Do email me at ladiesontop@mail.com
Hi, my mistress always calls me Miss Michelle whenever she talks to me, whether text message, in private or in public.
Really emphasis my femininity to be called this in front of anyone. No mistaking that ‘Miss’ is for a girl.
Miss; I like that. Miss Alice
My husband likes for me to comment on this blog for part on humiliation. First because Katie was tied. Now that I put my new legally name at the end.
My husband suggest names Rosey, Natalie, Lois.
New change for us today. I will not be completely. I will sart to grow a landing.strip. On September 21, all eight of us wives. Will stand before the eight husbands to see who has
the best strip.
I was told on September 21 in the evening the four of us girls will make a trip to celebrate Sam and Lydia’s marriage. Jack, Sam, Lydia and me, Katie.
Something that happened today. We went to help out at the estate sale. Some of the other volunteers from the community groups we are part of, started to call me Katie. One of the ladies, said I didn’t know you had you name changed. Writing on this blog, standing for inspection, and being called one of the girls for the trip is part of humiliation that is necessary for my training. Having someone calling me Katie or Mrs. Lyndsey is not. I am very proud of my name. Jack said it wasn’t something he thought of until I brought it up to have it legally changed. We discussed it but it was my choice to have done or not. Jack had cousin that he was close to was killed in a car accident early in life. Her new was Katie. That’s why it was chosen for me to begin with. Lynn was my mom’s middle name, and Lyndsey, Jack’s maiden name. I am sure whatever no name you choose for your wife, she will be proud of it.
Mrs. Katie Lynn Lyndsey
I don’t understand Katie. Why would your female partner want to identify as a man and to be called Jack? Women are superior so mistresses like me have no intention of wanting to be called husband or by a male name. We want our men to be girls and we remain superior women. Explain?
Here in Southern California, my FLR life with my husband Mike has been about removing any “fantasy” about what we’re doing in the freedom and privacy of our empty nest, but instead making this the true, real, everyday, normal way of living life. I always simply say, “It’s time to start dinner”, “Change into something casual, we’re going out this evening”, “Put on your housekeeping uniform to do the kitchen and laundry”, “Make us some lunch”, “Wear some sexy lingerie to bed”. No requests ever. And “Mary” was an average, but very feminine name (unlike Chris, Jean/Gene, Gail/Gayle, Pat, Sandy that send mixed messages when said). I wanted my husband to get VERY used to an entirely new way of living together that was always reinforcing regular, daily, routine life for a stereotypical submissive gal (that he would become and remain as). I don’t want her to think we’re playing “dress-up” or this is some kind of game. You wake up in a nightie and thong with a tampon in overnight. You shower, shave silky smooth all over and then do average-regular daily routine of bra, panties, thigh-highs, half-slip and camisole or full slip, dress or skirt and top. Put a maxi pad in your panties. Do your own make-up, perfume, and style your hair (grow it out to past shoulder length) like any woman would getting ready in the morning. Do your nails once a week. Wear matching jewelry. Yes when we started I was helping with all these, but it was to get her to the place where she knew THIS was the new normal and we’re not going back ever. Shop for both everyday professional female office attire for you to work from home, and also casual skinny jeans, boots, sandals, scarves, scrunchies, hair-clips, Boho tops and sweaters, capris, leggings so that feminine-submissive is 100% connected to you always being in feminine clothing whatever we’re doing. And most important, leave everything to ME, I’ll make our plans, manage the money you and I make, give you an allowance, decide our meals, set our dates (where to eat, what movie to see), choose our activities around the house (painting, needlepoint, gardening, journaling, scrap-booking, photo albums, artsy projects). No game, no fantasy, no pretend, THIS is your life.
Great point Cathy as ever. Yes it’s not a game. That said I do love to make her look very girly at times, its such fun
Mrs Alexa,
I hope it’s not inappropriate and too straightforward, but I would like to present a name option for your girly Alice.
Please let me explain that I myself do have a double name as Sissy. It would translate into English like Cookie Katharina or Cookie Kathi (in Germany we don’t abbreviate Katharina to Kathy). So maybe using a double name for Alice like Sugar Ally (as a remark that Alice was her former name) could work for your girly girl.
In deepest sympathy, submission and warmest regards
Cookie Kathi
Thank you for your suggestion Kathi. Cookie doesn’t really work in English for a girly but I get your point.You have given me an idea which was also suggested by Sally Bend which is to abbreviate Alice, Alie or Lissie. All great ideas thank you.
It’s my pleasure to assist in letting Alice shine in your desired way.
Thanks Mrs Alexa, thought provoking as always. I would love the name Lily for Alice, very feminine and representing the beautiful flower she is. When I started crossdressing in 1999, finally at age 53, I took the name Tootsie as per Dustin Hofmann’s movie. It became so dear to me and my Wife/Mistress, that it would be hard to change.
After being married for 15 years, we took the step this year to formally adopt the FLR lifestyle, by signing a Wife Lead Marriage agreement. We have never been happier and freer of arguments. Your blogs have certainly contributed to it by inspiring us. So, thanks a million from Austin, Texas.
Our FLR is very gentle, no humiliation or spanking etc. Being an avid crossdresser means of course voluntary feminization. The latter is very important though, since feminization and dressing the part truly changes my behaviour, as you always correctly advocate. Our WLM or FLR plus my crossdressing truly brings out the woman hidden within me. It also builds upon and explores my deep feelings and desires of submission to my Wife and now Mistress. Frankly, I feel submissive to every woman crossing my path, and I support fully the notion of female superiority. I apologise for rambling on, but just wanted to share some of my thoughts and letting you know how important your blogs have been and continue to be for us.
Hello Tootsie, I did like that film. I’m so pleased my blog helps to inspire you both. I too believe in a loving FLR although I do so enjoy some humiliation as you probably know if you’ve ready some of my posts.
Some girly names which i likes .
Julie, Jessica, Ashley, Lily, Katrina, Amelia. If you call any man with this name in public, he was will definitely die in shame .
Other than this you can also call him by your Surname. As it’s FLR. Man must take his wife’s last name. ( You can also put your name ” Alexa “as his middle name )
So if your surname is Martinez ,you can call him Miss / Mrs Martinez.
Calling him Mrs Martinez in front of your friends, will be a real shock . As they will know that , he took your last name.
And in public people won’t think much other than Miss/ Mrs for a man.
I am Indian boy and i prefer calling myself Riya, which is very girly. Now whenever i need to register on any website I use Riya as my name.
All very pretty names. I never thought of the surname thing, we kept our own. I’ll change that now. It was so good to ask for ideas. Ms and Miss Martinez, wonderful.
Mandy Or Sindy…
Great post, Lady Alexa, with some really interesting ideas. It’s the simply aspects of FLR that fictional explorations so often overlook.
“Be a good girl and do this/that” is so simple, yet it works on so many levels, subtly reinforcing your control and her femininity. My wife uses “good girl” a lot, and “Princess” is the pet name she uses when she really wants to pull me away from whatever is on my mind and remind me of my feminine place.
If I might, I’d love to share my thoughts on the naming issue. I think a common name like Alice has a power to it because it suggests a permanently feminized role/persona, as opposed to an obviously sissy name that suggests the illusion/protection of a temporary role playing scenario. Perhaps, if you are worried about others mishearing it, a shortened pet-name like Allie or Lissie, or an even more formal Alison might be an option.
I thank you for your thoughts Sally. You’ve managed to remind me why I chose Alice in the first place rather than an overtly sissy name. You’re quite correct. I do like the pet name princess a lot and I think that may well do the trick along with a couple of other cute pet names at times
Ps I like Lissie too as the diminutive of Alice. I hadn’t thought of that.
Alice has much to look forward to. I admire you and would like to help in some way.
Ian