LADY ALEXA

IT’S THAT TIME AGAIN

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I like change and it’s that time when I think of all the fun new things to do next year. It’s sissy time for a change. I like to write down ideas for the forthcoming year at this time of year as it helps to crystalise things. Our Female Led Relationship has been through a lot of change in the past couple of years and I want more.

It’s not that I have any new ideas, it’s just that some things I’ve wanted to do are still hanging around to be done and I’d like to experience them next year. So what’s better than putting those loose threads into a post so I can tick them off as I go?

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THE REALITY OF AN FLR

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There are a lot of wrong assumptions about real Female-Led Relationships. These assumptions are based entirely on the fetish angle, as if that is the reality of an FLR for every second. Indeed, it was why I began this blog in the first place, writing about how to live an FLR in the real world.

The focus on the FLR fetish side is also why I get so many emails from men asking how to find a Mistress to feminise them and live in an FLR. Or how to get their wife to feminise them and start an FLR. Wrong questions entirely. The reality of an FLR is different and the fetish element is only part of what is, in real life, also a wider vanilla-type relationship.

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MISTRESS AND HER SISSY

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Our Female-Led Relationship between a Mistress and her sissy has moved on recently to a whole new level. I’ve taken my sissy husband to new sissy frontiers which will get me to my end goal. The point of a real FLR is that the relationship should be all about the Mistress. Her desires and needs must be paramount. It’s her sissy’s role to make that happen.

And I’m making this dream much closer.

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MY CHANGING FEMALE LED RELATIONSHIP

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I’m making a few changes in my Female-Led Relationship. Since I’m the female and therefore the lead, that’s normal I guess.

I’ve been making changes for some time, especially increasing the domination aspect of our FLR. I always discuss all the changes I want to make with my sissy husband Alice and proceed from there. If she has a big problem with anything specific, I’ll take things carefully and slowly. In some cases, I’ll drop the ideas if she objects strongly. In most cases, we try it out and it works out just fine. Eventually.

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THE FORCED FEMINIZATION QUESTION

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I receive a lot of questions about having a forced feminisation relationship — the feminization question. Most are from aspirant sissies, of course, but there are a few from ladies too.

Every relationship is different with different needs and dynamics. Since I have been in an FLR for some years, I have ‘force’ feminised my husband and I know a few other couples who share our lifestyle approach, I can respond with some degree of experience to the forced feminization question.

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