LADY ALEXA

SISSY GAMES

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One of the great things about writing a female-led relationship blog is that we find others in our lifestyle. They contact me either in the comments or, more often, privately though my contact form or email, ladyalexa@mail.com. All of our contact with those in the FLR and forced feminisation/sissy world is thanks to this blog.

One of our longer-term FLR friends are also from London, and around our age. They emailed me years ago after reading our adventures here. I’ll call them Mistress Ruth and Sissy Linda. We meet and communicate with them regularly. Sometimes it’s entirely vanilla, such as a meal in a restaurant, although we always end up chatting (quietly) about FLR and feminisation. Other times, we’ll meet at either home for sissy games.

The last time we met, it was for sissy games at their house.

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AN UNEXPECTED DIVERSION

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I have all these wonder plans to deepen our FLR and expand my husband’s sissyness, and then things take a small diversion. As John Lennon said in one of his songs, life is what happens when you’re busy making other plans.

I suppose the diversion wasn’t that much of a change, but I’d been thinking one thing and something else happened.

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AN FLR DYNAMIC

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An FLR dynamic is forever twisting and turning, morphing and transforming. That’s probably the same in any relationship, FLR or vanilla. One month I think our FLR should work one way, and another month, I change my mind and the whole dynamic changes. One thing that affects any FLR is outside influence and changing lifestyle, another is the experiences we have.

Our FLR has twisted and turned again, such as in my on-off-on-off relationship with chastity cages. One moment I think they’re useful, the next they irritate me, especially when I think a sissy enjoys them just a little too much and uses them as a technique for delayed sissy gratification.

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THE FLR AGREEMENT

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What is an Female Led Relationship (FLR) but an agreed power imbalance in a woman and a man’s relationship. That power imbalance is based on an FLR agreement about how the couple want to live.

The male partner wants to live in a submissive relationship with a dominant woman who wants to take the lead. It works for both.

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IT’S THAT TIME AGAIN

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I like change and it’s that time when I think of all the fun new things to do next year. It’s sissy time for a change. I like to write down ideas for the forthcoming year at this time of year as it helps to crystalise things. Our Female Led Relationship has been through a lot of change in the past couple of years and I want more.

It’s not that I have any new ideas, it’s just that some things I’ve wanted to do are still hanging around to be done and I’d like to experience them next year. So what’s better than putting those loose threads into a post so I can tick them off as I go?

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