One of the reasons I started this blog was to give a more relalistic viewpoint on the FLR life — Female Led Relationships my forced feminisation of my husband.
I discovered the immense pleasure in finding the wonderful FLR lifestyle and in feminising my husband into sissy Alice. I wanted to counter the exagerrated fetish nonsense given on other sites. And the fact is that real life often tends to get in the way of real-life FLR and male feminisation. It’s not all fetish, there is shopping to do and bills to pay.
The other main reason I started this blog on the FLR life was to get into contact with others who experience the same lifestyle and roadblocks to my (our?) dreams.
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Alice and I started our FLR life late in life, we’re both in our 50s now. What could have happened if we’d met in our 20s? Who knows. Many of you out there have much more experience and the feedback and comments help me (and Alice at times) to learn about new things.
Alice is largely accepting of her new sissy lifestyle. She helps out on this blog even; she’s good with all the technical stuff I can’t be bothered with like converting things to jpeg and pdf, doing hyperlinks, RSS feeds and other mysterious things which seem to be in a foreign language.
I’ve got to know some lovely people through this blog and they too have the same social barriers to navigate living an FLR and/or being a sissyor dominant mistress. This makes me feel better to know it’s not just us.
I have so much fun at the Devotion femdom club we attend. I have got to know a group of like-minded ladies, especially Miss Treat who runs the event who is very experienced and gives me loads of great tips.
We’re going again and I can’t wait. I have a couple of very naughty ideas for Alice but I won’t reveal them here of course as she gets to read everything and then it wouldn’t be a surprise.
We’ve also met a couple who live near us in London — Domme Kay and her feminised submissive Sissy Suzy. I’m a bit envious of the slim elegant Domme Kay and how sissyfied Sissy Suzy is.
If I can get Alice half way towards looking as feminine as Sissy Suzy and to go out in a pretty dress as she does, then I will be very pleased indeed.
But I can use the ideas of how Sissy Suzy became more feminine and apply them the Alice. I’m still learning. As is my sissy husband.
Always look forward to your posts Lady A – Sophie
I enjoy what you share! Keep exploring :)))))))))))))))))))))
Pleased to hear that you enjoy the posts Jim
ohhh, yes I do. You do a great service to us……………………
Welcome back from your hols Lady A…and Alice…i do hope you had great fun and had time to relax even if you couldnt get the tan lines you wanted!
i do love your matter of fact blog which gives a little bit of insight into the mind of a dominant feminising female with every turn of the page..and the sheer honesty of how life gets in the way etc makes it far more convincing than some of the outrageous fantasy blogs there are out there..
Every one of your entries makes me smile and, lets be honest..causes a little pang of jealousy for Alice in me. i’m a similar..age and your “I wonder what could have happened if we’d met in our 20’s” comment had a resonance to my own thoughts..of ..”i wish i’d discovered chastity and feminisation in my 20’s”…heaven knows where i’d be now!!…but there again i’ve had a great time in between..this is just a new chapter..and like yourselves, i’m making the most of it – catching up for lost time…before its too late!!! One life-live it couldnt be more true! Do keep up the great blog and we all look forward to Alice’s new challenges..and wish for new ones ourselves… perhaps i will one day get someone to take me to Devotion for instance!
Looking forward to reading the next chapter here…and yes…congrats on your new story on Amazon…loved it!
cj 🙂
Thank you Jane and yes it’s true a new chapter. Other things took up my earlier years such as study, careers and so on
Lovely encouragement…………
hope you enjoyed it and Alice enjoy seeing so many people with pierced earlobes 😉 Alas I purchased gold studs but they are starter studs, will not fit without stretching lobes a bit. Will have to get another pair or two :
Welcome home Mistress hope you had a lovely holiday and Alice behaved herself.
Curtsey
Sally